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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Yup....These ladies can do without their husbands self...So, ladies need to work on their character. Don't nag a man too much, communicate and issues can be resolved amicably...The whole power tussles thingy makes relationships toxic and unhealthy |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Please can u tell or give us reason's why u said her post are correct coz am willing to learn from anybody! 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by blackjack21(m): 9:51pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Safiaaa: Hello. This is a universal thing. A social construct, it's not just only in Nigeria and, it far from what you really think. It makes sense that you will side with your gender. It's good that you created this thread. To add to your knowledge on this matter I would love to recommend a movie (documentary), 'THE RED PILL'. You will love it. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 9:54pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Mhissgaga: Hmmmmm this ur talk eh! Na wa oo! C’mon who wants to be married to someone dumb! Like all other men Naija men also appreciate women who are smart and intelligent, so that they could match up to their partners. Only those men are intimidated by intelligent women who themselves are not that smart. While men like to be in control, any smart Naija man prefers having an intelligent life partner. Na wa oo u ladies are funny sometimes! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:55pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0:She said the truth egoistic men cannot stand a woman that questions them or the one that is smart.They prefer the "dumb" one's using her word that can't stand up to them.The lady did not lie did she? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 9:57pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: That's a lie. Refer to LORDKO's comment. It's a smart, intelligent financially independent lady with good character that's the prize, many have character flaws.. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 9:57pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Hmmm C’mon who wants to be married to someone dumb! Like all other men Naija men also appreciate women who are smart and intelligent, so that they could match up to their partners. Only those men are intimidated by intelligent women who themselves are not that smart. While men like to be in control, any smart Naija man prefers having an intelligent life partner. It is only a dumb man that will love to marry a dumb lady! With these am sure u will know my choice of lady!(Intelligent) |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by nezzar: 9:59pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
So the yeye mod deleted that thread....if I say he's an asslicker na....dem go ban me 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:00pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:You seem to be blaming the women only it seems like the men don't have issues.Men also need to work on their character because some don't have listening ears it takes two to tangle. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:Nigeria ladies are the most dirtiest type of ladies on earth.. 99.9% of romance land ladies don't wash their vagina, they don't even know how to keep their Toto clean.. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:02pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Considering you have never dated, where do you derive your facts from |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by nezzar: 10:03pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
DrinkLimca:samurai u dey mad I swear 2 Likes
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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:06pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0:As for me I don't like someone controlling me and I don't like to control anybody.If you want to correct me please be polite and don't shout at me.Let us say the woman and the man are both intelligent and the woman seems to be opinionated on issues believe me some men would not like it they would prefer to date a dummy. And be sincere some Nigerian men majority don't like smart women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:08pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
nezzar:Bro its the truth o.. They form posh in romance land while they scratch their Toto every minutes because of infection caused by dirty in the Toto.. If any romance land lady open her pants for you.. You will vomit. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:08pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:I have friends in relationships and I have seen situations where these kind of thing happens. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:08pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: If issues are not compiled, there's lesser tension. Sowwie for my rude remark earlier. Correction should be done with politeness and should be out of respect for the other individual, male or female alike.If we communicate better out of love, with respect for one another, there would be lesser conflict. But then, nagging aman has a way of bringing out the worst out of even the man with the highest self control on earth ! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Ladyhippolyta88: Do you know smarter people are more vulnerable to these thinking errors. Although we assume that intelligence is a buffer against bias—that’s why those with higher S.A.T. scores think they are less prone to these universal thinking mistakes —it can actually be a subtle curse. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Blackhawk03(f): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
DrinkLimca: Most dirtiest?
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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Mhissgaga(f): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
DrinkLimca:See this dirty Nigerian boy typing nonsense Don't let me talk this night oo like he has good hygiene Nonsense |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Gerrard59(m): 10:12pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Safiaa, get ready for smack down from majority of NL males. I don talk tire say, that money changes people and today's women who fend for themselves (at least legally) will not tolerate the BS their moms got. It is not westernisation as some claim, it is the change (which is constant) that comes with money. Moreover, today's economy does not encourage only one partner contributing to the household, and maintaining a desirable standard of living. Most males have noticed this, but like you said still erroneously accuse the females of bringing only pussy to the table. This is false. You cannot date a financially independent lady and expect she will 'bow' or 'kneel' (in 9ice's voice) to you when you order her to. It won't just happen! Yet, these are the same women majority of NL (judging from posts and topics across the forum) desire and expect the "Agama lifestyle"? It's the same men who shout white girls, white women, foreign women, but will be "Eboued" should they try to date any white lady. Asking for what they cannot handle. Blatant hypocrisy everywhere. Yes, people should date within their class/level. From my rough research, it solves wahala and egos being bruised. The level of partners need to be very close or same for the relationship to really progress. Even The Economist and Brookings have written on this: https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2016/04/08/the-rich-marrying-the-rich-makes-the-income-gap-worse-but-its-not-our-biggest-problem/ https://www.economist.com/news/leaders/21640331-importance-intellectual-capital-grows-privilege-has-become-increasingly But we should not also forget that ladies desire things to be bought for them by men; however, not with their money. It is psychology and nature. It is another reason why the gender pay gap is a myth. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:13pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: They're dating average men or boys, i've never dated a chick that's not super smart. That's one shining quality with al ladies i've dated. Wetin i want take UN-smart chick do? Anyways, i think i'm hunting not-so-smart less financially independent chick next.... |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:I was never offended,And nagging goes both ways.And we have overbearing and nagging women and I also agree when you said good communication is the best. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Mhissgaga:There is nothing to talk about.. 99.9% of guys in Nigeria that are in a relationship with Nigeria ladies, are actually managing the ladies.. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Martin0: Intelligence is a subtle curse, bros, ignorance is bliss ! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by nezzar: 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
DrinkLimca:lol...Make I dey here laugh small....City just dey pity Newcastle for here |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: If communication is healthy, relationships have a higher chance of working out right ! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Blackhawk03:so what's wrong with it? |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:16pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Jupxter:Good for you,Oya be fast look for someone that shares most of your view and go and marry fast. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Well I don't know about the majority.. My father is very very smart infact he did diploma in law though we see him as a lawyer coz of the qualities in him and my mother is another smart one there very smart as u can ever imagine,and I ve not withness any of these things u mention all through the time I spent with them... Like I said the dumb will marry the dumb,I don't think there will be any normal intelligent man who will wanna spend the rest of his whole life with a dumb women,I doubt but all thesame I will do my finding on this dumb women issue ! And again I like intelligent women who won't be dumb to me coz if she's dumb I may start developing being dumb too! |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
nezzar:Ball possession its 88 to 19.. city just too much.. |
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Ladyhippolyta88: that would be you |
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