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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Really,tell me something.

Yup....These ladies can do without their husbands self...So, ladies need to work on their character. Don't nag a man too much, communicate and issues can be resolved amicably...The whole power tussles thingy makes relationships toxic and unhealthy
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Your post is absolutely correct.

Please can u tell or give us reason's why u said her post are correct coz am willing to learn from anybody!

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by blackjack21(m): 9:51pm On Dec 27, 2017
Safiaaa:


Dassal.




Hello. This is a universal thing. A social construct, it's not just only in Nigeria and, it far from what you really think. It makes sense that you will side with your gender.

It's good that you created this thread. To add to your knowledge on this matter I would love to recommend a movie (documentary), 'THE RED PILL'. You will love it.
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 9:54pm On Dec 27, 2017
Mhissgaga:
You said it all

Most Nigerian men are confused and a whole lot of them are hypocrites

Most of them don't even have anything to offer too

They always like to dominate their partner and then make the final decision

They can't stand a woman that's financially stable because their roles won't come to life

When they see such women they'll just conclude and say she isn't humble simply because they are intimidated

The truth is that most of them want women that are 'dumb' the ones they can control at will like...Nigerian men don't like smart women

Once a woman is too intellectual then the man starts questioning his worth


I know there are some brave men out there though


Hmmmmm this ur talk eh! Na wa oo!

C’mon who wants to be married to someone dumb!

Like all other men Naija men also
appreciate women who are smart and
intelligent, so that they could match up to
their partners. Only those men are
intimidated by intelligent women who
themselves are not that smart. While men
like to be in control, any smart Naija man
prefers having an intelligent life partner.

Na wa oo u ladies are funny sometimes!grin
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:55pm On Dec 27, 2017
Martin0:


Please can u tell or give us reason's why u said her post are correct coz am willing to learn from anybody!
She said the truth egoistic men cannot stand a woman that questions them or the one that is smart.They prefer the "dumb" one's using her word that can't stand up to them.The lady did not lie did she?

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 9:57pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
She said the truth egoistic men cannot stand a woman that questions them or the one that is smart.They prefer the "dumb" one's using her word that can't stand up to them.The lady did not lie did she?


That's a lie. Refer to LORDKO's comment. It's a smart, intelligent financially independent lady with good character that's the prize, many have character flaws..
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 9:57pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
She said the truth egoistic men cannot stand a woman that questions them or the one that is smart.They prefer the "dumb" one's using her word that can't stand up to them.The lady did not lie did she?

Hmmm C’mon who
wants to be married to someone dumb!
Like all other men Naija men also
appreciate women who are smart and
intelligent, so that they could match up to
their partners. Only those men are
intimidated by intelligent women who
themselves are not that smart. While men
like to be in control, any smart Naija man
prefers having an intelligent life partner.

It is only a dumb man that will love to marry a dumb lady!

With these am sure u will know my choice of lady!(Intelligent)
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by nezzar: 9:59pm On Dec 27, 2017
So the yeye mod deleted that thread....if I say he's an asslicker na....dem go ban me

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:00pm On Dec 27, 2017
Jupxter:


Yup....These ladies can do without their husbands self...So, ladies need to work on their character. Don't nag a man too much, communicate and issues can be resolved amicably...The whole power tussles thingy makes relationships toxic and unhealthy
You seem to be blaming the women only it seems like the men don't have issues.Men also need to work on their character because some don't have listening ears it takes two to tangle.

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 27, 2017
Jupxter:



Stop putting down our sisters please ! If you have issues with Nigerian ladies, join foreign forums. It's almost new year, repent
Nigeria ladies are the most dirtiest type of ladies on earth..

99.9% of romance land ladies don't wash their vagina, they don't even know how to keep their Toto clean..

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:02pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
You seem to be blaming the women only it seems like the men don't have issues.Men also need to work on their character because some don't have listening ears it takes two to tangle.



Considering you have never dated, where do you derive your facts from
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by nezzar: 10:03pm On Dec 27, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Nigeria ladies are the most dirtiest type of ladies on earth..

99.9% of romance land ladies don't wash their vagina, they don't even know how to keep their Toto clean..
samurai u dey mad I swearcheesy cheesy

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:06pm On Dec 27, 2017
Martin0:


Hmmm C’mon who
wants to be married to someone dumb!
Like all other men Naija men also
appreciate women who are smart and
intelligent, so that they could match up to
their partners. Only those men are
intimidated by intelligent women who
themselves are not that smart. While men
like to be in control, any smart Naija man
prefers having an intelligent life partner.

It is only a dumb man that will love to marry a dumb lady!

With these am sure u will know my choice of lady!(Intelligent)
As for me I don't like someone controlling me and I don't like to control anybody.If you want to correct me please be polite and don't shout at me.Let us say the woman and the man are both intelligent and the woman seems to be opinionated on issues believe me some men would not like it they would prefer to date a dummy. And be sincere some Nigerian men majority don't like smart women.

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:08pm On Dec 27, 2017
nezzar:

samurai u dey mad I swearcheesy cheesy
Bro its the truth o..

They form posh in romance land while they scratch their Toto every minutes because of infection caused by dirty in the Toto..

If any romance land lady open her pants for you..

You will vomit.

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:08pm On Dec 27, 2017
Jupxter:




Considering you have never dated, where do you derive your facts from
I have friends in relationships and I have seen situations where these kind of thing happens.
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:08pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
As for me I don't like someone controlling me and I don't like to control anybody.If you want to correct me please be polite and don't shout at me.Let us say the woman and the man are both intelligent and the woman seems to be opinionated on issues believe me some men would not like it they would prefer to date a dummy. And be sincere some Nigerian men majority don't like smart women.

If issues are not compiled, there's lesser tension. Sowwie for my rude remark earlier.

Correction should be done with politeness and should be out of respect for the other individual, male or female alike.If we communicate better out of love, with respect for one another, there would be lesser conflict. But then, nagging aman has a way of bringing out the worst out of even the man with the highest self control on earth !
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
She said the truth egoistic men cannot stand a woman that questions them or the one that is smart.They prefer the "dumb" one's using her word that can't stand up to them.The lady did not lie did she?
Ladyhippolyta88:
She said the truth egoistic men cannot stand a woman that questions them or the one that is smart.They prefer the "dumb" one's using her word that can't stand up to them.The lady did not lie did she?


Do you know smarter people are more
vulnerable to these thinking errors.
Although we assume that intelligence is a
buffer against bias—that’s why those with
higher S.A.T. scores think they are less
prone to these universal thinking mistakes
—it can actually be a subtle curse.
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Blackhawk03(f): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Nigeria ladies are the most dirtiest type of ladies on earth..

99.9% of romance land ladies don't wash their vagina, they don't even know how to keep their Toto clean..

Most dirtiest? shocked shocked

Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Mhissgaga(f): 10:11pm On Dec 27, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Nigeria ladies are the most dirtiest type of ladies on earth..

99.9% of romance land ladies don't wash their vagina, they don't even know how to keep their Toto clean..
See this dirty Nigerian boy typing nonsense
Don't let me talk this night oo like he has good hygieneundecided Nonsense
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Gerrard59(m): 10:12pm On Dec 27, 2017
Safiaa, get ready for smack down from majority of NL males. I don talk tire say, that money changes people and today's women who fend for themselves (at least legally) will not tolerate the BS their moms got. It is not westernisation as some claim, it is the change (which is constant) that comes with money. Moreover, today's economy does not encourage only one partner contributing to the household, and maintaining a desirable standard of living. Most males have noticed this, but like you said still erroneously accuse the females of bringing only pussy to the table. This is false.

You cannot date a financially independent lady and expect she will 'bow' or 'kneel' (in 9ice's voice) to you when you order her to. It won't just happen! Yet, these are the same women majority of NL (judging from posts and topics across the forum) desire and expect the "Agama lifestyle"? It's the same men who shout white girls, white women, foreign women, but will be "Eboued" should they try to date any white lady. Asking for what they cannot handle. Blatant hypocrisy everywhere.

Yes, people should date within their class/level. From my rough research, it solves wahala and egos being bruised. The level of partners need to be very close or same for the relationship to really progress. Even The Economist and Brookings have written on this:

https://www.brookings.edu/blog/social-mobility-memos/2016/04/08/the-rich-marrying-the-rich-makes-the-income-gap-worse-but-its-not-our-biggest-problem/
https://www.economist.com/news/leaders/21640331-importance-intellectual-capital-grows-privilege-has-become-increasingly

But we should not also forget that ladies desire things to be bought for them by men; however, not with their money. It is psychology and nature. It is another reason why the gender pay gap is a myth.

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:13pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I have friends in relationships and I have seen situations where these kind of thing happens.


They're dating average men or boys, i've never dated a chick that's not super smart. That's one shining quality with al ladies i've dated. Wetin i want take UN-smart chick do? Anyways, i think i'm hunting not-so-smart less financially independent chick next.... cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017
Jupxter:


If issues are not compiled, there's lesser tension. Sowwie for my rude remark earlier.

Correction should be done with politeness and should be out of respect for the other individual, male or female alike.If we communicate better out of love, with respect for one another, there would be lesser conflict. But then, nagging aman has a way of bringing out the worst out of even the man with the highest self control on earth !
I was never offended,And nagging goes both ways.And we have overbearing and nagging women and I also agree when you said good communication is the best.
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017
Mhissgaga:

See this dirty Nigerian boy typing nonsense
Don't let me talk this night oo like he has good hygieneundecided Nonsense
There is nothing to talk about..

99.9% of guys in Nigeria that are in a relationship with Nigeria ladies, are actually managing the ladies..

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Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017
Martin0:



Do you know smarter people are more
vulnerable to these thinking errors.
Although we assume that intelligence is a
buffer against bias—that’s why those with
higher S.A.T. scores think they are less
prone to these universal thinking mistakes
—it can actually be a subtle curse.


Intelligence is a subtle curse, bros, ignorance is bliss !
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by nezzar: 10:14pm On Dec 27, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Bro its the truth o..

They form posh in romance land while they scratch their Toto every minutes because of infection caused by dirty in the Toto..

If any romance land lady open her pants for you..

You will vomit.
lol...Make I dey here laugh small....City just dey pity Newcastle for here
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I was never offended,And nagging goes both ways.And we have overbearing and nagging women and I also agree when you said good communication is the best.

If communication is healthy, relationships have a higher chance of working out right !
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 27, 2017
Blackhawk03:

Most dirtiest? shocked shocked
so what's wrong with it?
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:16pm On Dec 27, 2017
Jupxter:



They're dating average men or boys, i've never dated a chick that's not super smart. That's one shining quality with al ladies i've dated. Wetin i want take UN-smart chick do? Anyways, i think i'm hunting not-so-smart less financially independent chick next.... cheesy
Good for you,Oya be fast look for someone that shares most of your view and go and marry fast.
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017
We endorse this messagecheesy
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Martin0(m): 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
As for me I don't like someone controlling me and I don't like to control anybody.If you want to correct me please be polite and don't shout at me.Let us say the woman and the man are both intelligent and the woman seems to be opinionated on issues believe me some men would not like it they would prefer to date a dummy. And be sincere some Nigerian men majority don't like smart women.


Well I don't know about the majority..

My father is very very smart infact he did diploma in law though we see him as a lawyer coz of the qualities in him and my mother is another smart one there very smart as u can ever imagine,and I ve not withness any of these things u mention all through the time I spent with them...

Like I said the dumb will marry the dumb,I don't think there will be any normal intelligent man who will wanna spend the rest of his whole life with a dumb women,I doubt but all thesame I will do my finding on this dumb women issue !

And again I like intelligent women who won't be dumb to me coz if she's dumb I may start developing being dumb too!
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017
nezzar:

lol...Make I dey here laugh small....City just dey pity Newcastle for here
Ball possession its 88 to 19..

city just too much..
Re: Nigerian Men, you Are Confused by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 27, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Good for you,Oya be fast look for someone that shares most of your view and go and marry fast.

that would be you cheesy

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