Ladyhippolyta88:
Actually I loved your comment that's all that was why I asked who said it.

Martin0:


Ar tire for u oo abeg make money jor

lol I will intimidate you first before others

ouzo1:


Abeg make the money for two

Jupxter:



That's a lie. Refer to LORDKO's comment. It's a smart, intelligent financially independent lady with good character that's the prize, many have character flaws..

Jupxter:



how does on do this? i actually don't imagine most nigerian ladies have good character,....in all honesty
recently i meet one in church on a sunday, when i met her outside the church on the way to show i marvelled...two different personalities


Many families don't consdier character in the homes, so i can'expect many well-trained people in this country, in all honesty. Not in the case were one partner is an absentee parent

Jupxter:



Intelligent people are difficult to correct. They are not aware of their conditions, when a person can't be corrected or don't listen to make corrections, how can they make corrections and improve. I've always maintained intelligence has a downside, that's the tact to appl with intelligence,intelligence is like a fast speeding train, it needs sound character, to tame it. It's a roaring fire and without control mechanisms, it will destroy its owner...Intelligence is a subtle curse. Ignorance is bliss !



Not jut with women, whenever i have to choose between an educated professional and an uneducated one, i go for the unlearned one, intelligence is a problem, irt's always looking out for errors, insecure, unsafe, always scheming, I'm ashamed for all intelligent people, males and females.

mhisbliss:
no guy will chop my money o, ayam not a sugar mummy

Mhissgaga:

And you think we aren't managing you guys too
The truth is that most of you are boring and there's nothing really exciting about you guys

Martin0:



Hmmmm na wa ooo!

Well honestly speaking you can't know about a woman true character untill she drops down a child for you..

Women can do anything I mean anything to present themselve to look appreciated .

Women are secretive human beings u know!and it not easy to really know the true them so we are only by chance or lucky to know their character or know the true them!

mhisbliss:
lol I will intimidate you first before others

mhisbliss:
no guy will chop my money o, ayam not a sugar mummy

Blackfyre:


The emboldened just to be clear, are we speaking of independent women or men?

Jupxter:



Lol..Brotha...easy oh !
Na u need to easy ooo Me don arrange my plan down they wait.
I get my strategy for them!


Hence why many men use money to control women, or rather to tame !

Mhissgaga:


I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially

In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"

Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful

Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation

They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy

ibkayee:

I'm saying Nigerian guys don't if the woman is independent/successful only on paper without the 'firmer' character traits that tend to come with it

Martin0:
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Na their way me nor dey plan use this way atall

pocohantas:


He should keep running.
The loyalty of a broke man can never be trusted...

Gerrard59:


Maybe in less developed societies like India and Nigeria, but in developed nations, it's a crime to pay a an individual less than the market's rate due to gender.

- Ladies generally earn more than men during the early stages of employment. But as they progress, get pregnant and become mothers, the males have progressed at a rapid pace. When these women come back, they have a lot of catching up to do.

- If the gender pay existed, companies will employ only or majorly females as it will cut costs - since they earn less. However, businesses don't.

- There are less females opting for fields where individuals are paid more; IT, Business management, Advanced engineering etc. There are more males in a typical Computer Science/Physics class than females, these grads are needed in these fields (where they pay very well) and as a result earn more than females. Yet again, if businesses were to discriminate against women, they will employ them to cut costs. But then, do these kind of businesses see them? Yes, but very few. Resulting in more men earning than women in the same sector (remember more men than women). The field where women come close and are more than (according to a study) is the medical sector.

- How come we're not seeing similar agitation for equal pay in fields like truck driving, fire service, nursing, teaching, daycare, fork lifters etc? What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

- Men due to nature and evolutionary development are built for excessive competition, and this result in them striving to earn more and work longer hours (this also result in earning more by being promoted quickly above others; women work less hours than men). Women also will not want to date men they earn more than (probably by a wide margin) (this is nature, however, things might be changing; but slowly). The average bartender cannot date a lady working in a bank (they might even date, but she won't desire to marry him). As a result, we see more men entering fields where they pay more and don't mind working longer hours to achieve this compared to women. Remember, men don't procreate. So motherhood doesn't come into their way.

Trust me, should teaching as a field start paying practitioners more than oil workers, more men will flock to teaching and we'll begin to see agitations for equal pay for both genders in teaching (even though to Marxists, there are 88 genders ). Good news is: Market forces determine industry pay not emotions. The problem is: We've the third wave/generation feminists asking for what is illogical and making arguments that don't hold water talk more air

Safiaaa:
Yes some love dependent women. Very few love independent women, realistically speaking. But most if not all of you claim women have nothing else to offer but pussy? Can you please explain this?

Ladyhippolyta88:
I believe in equal pay for equal work and you maybe right when you said we have men in tech Careers more than women.I am sure you have heard of STEM for women.There are some women in technology who have foundations built for girls,there is this particular woman I think she hails from the middleast I can't remember her name she spoke at The recently held misk global forum encouraging girls to participate in STEM related courses.You may say the pay gap is not possible but what about the women in media this year BBC released it's pay for workers and the pay made no sense.And I don't believe a woman should be paid what she did not merit.But the people who support the equal pay have good reasons to as they believe that some women are actually qualified to get such pays.Apart from motherhood being the reason equal pay might not be possible for some, there should be no other reason why they should not be paid equally.And believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than.

Jupxter:


What's the way out !

Blackfyre:


Okay...Misread it the other time.

Martin0:


The way out to control women or ??

MissWrite:



Words on Marble.

pocohantas:

He should keep running. The loyalty of a broke man can never be trusted...

pocohantas:


He should keep running.
The loyalty of a broke man can never be trusted...

Mhissgaga:


I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially

In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"

Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful

Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation

They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy

Mhissgaga:


I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially

In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"

Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful

Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation

They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy

ibkayee:

Missed out the 'don't mind' part in my response to you, but I'm sure you understood anyway

Jupxter:




BIG DEAL @ believe me some women can date and marry a guy they earn more than.


Can they marry such a man and not make his life a living hell ?