₦airaland Forum

ChiefPiiko:
A couple of them, but Piiko has stuck

alexialin:
Op what you say it's true.

Now the question is how do u make a Nigerian man want you, approach you for a long term relationship?
The answer is this:

First lemme do a short intro, so u understand where am heading to:
am an independent career driven Buisness lady. I started my biz my company at the age of 27 and my late mum was my backbone. She was a successful business woman back in the days. I was very businesslike, no nonsense lady back then.

So I noticed truly men don't like to approach such working class successful ladies . I studied their character and I realized they prefer to marry Bimbos, then have us as side chicks to assist them mentally in handling their Buisness.

When I noticed it. I then decided to stop dressing like a serious minded lady. I wear more feminine soft colourful dresses, thank God I own my biz, so I can afford to look inbetween flirty and easy going with my work outfits.

Then 2ndly, I stopped footing my bills, especially 70percent of bills. Thank God the recession helped in that aspect. By low patronage and low sales, so technically I became broke, especially during the first year of buhari Regime. As I became broke , and I have bills to pay? I then transferred my financial demands to my male friends and admirers. They were happy to assist. U can see the pride, the manly look in a man's face when he is paying bills for a female friend or A lady. And when u sweetly thank them, like a pussycat they are all the more happy to go an extra mile.

Most men love to be incharge in every way possible. So give them the opportunity.

The more u say, u can pay your bills and take care of your needs without asking a dime for them. In their mind, they Wil smile and cancel u as a wife material.. Except fucvkboiz dem.

So successful career ladies, be soft , be flirty, be humble when displaying your intelligence to men.

Let them take charge, it charges up their batteries to 105%, deep down. So women in this category jusy relax and interact with men sweetly, u will notice their choices will then tilt towards soft flirty intelligent career women.

Jupxter:
Simple @ We just need women that will allow us be the head at home... THIS IS ALL WE ASK !


EARN ALL THE BILLIONS BUT LET US BE !

Ladyjumong:
Oh better. was thinking you went ahead with jumong

frenzyduchess:
True talk, our Nigerian men are so egotistic that intelligent and successful women intimidate them,
it will rob them of their manlines ,you know it's only here that a man will be quick to tell you "do you know I am a man",like WTF, who said you are not a man . They walk around with 20ft shoulder pad of ego on their shoulder, and the worse part is the ones abroad will never dare treat white women the way they treat our ladies here, if not na street them go see their bags

waveman2:
Men even the ones u give money will not allow u to b d head at home talk less of the financially Independent ones.Arrogance is Der nature so just learn to smile over everything.

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

humilitypays:
una get bad mouth o

Realdeals:
It is a two way things, most men gives what they think the female want which is MONEY and the female folk offer SEX because they understand that's what most men that approach them will request.
The issue I have with financially bouyant women is that they tends to be arrogant, only the submissive one are enjoying relationship with their male partners.

Safiaaa:
Really? Please tell me more, I'm interested.

alexialin:
Op what you say it's true.

Now the question is how do u make a Nigerian man want you, approach you for a long term relationship?
The answer is this:

First lemme do a short intro, so u understand where am heading to:
am an independent career driven Buisness lady. I started my biz my company at the age of 27 and my late mum was my backbone. She was a successful business woman back in the days. I was very businesslike, no nonsense lady back then.

So I noticed truly men don't like to approach such working class successful ladies . I studied their character and I realized they prefer to marry Bimbos, then have us as side chicks to assist them mentally in handling their Buisness.

When I noticed it. I then decided to stop dressing like a serious minded lady. I wear more feminine soft colourful dresses, thank God I own my biz, so I can afford to look inbetween flirty and easy going with my work outfits.

Then 2ndly, I stopped footing my bills, especially 70percent of bills. Thank God the recession helped in that aspect. By low patronage and low sales, so technically I became broke, especially during the first year of buhari Regime. As I became broke , and I have bills to pay? I then transferred my financial demands to my male friends and admirers. They were happy to assist. U can see the pride, the manly look in a man's face when he is paying bills for a female friend or A lady. And when u sweetly thank them, like a pussycat they are all the more happy to go an extra mile.

Most men love to be incharge in every way possible. So give them the opportunity.

The more u say, u can pay your bills and take care of your needs without asking a dime for them. In their mind, they Wil smile and cancel u as a wife material.. Except fucvkboiz dem.

So successful career ladies, be soft , be flirty, be humble when displaying your intelligence to men.

Let them take charge, it charges up their batteries to 105%, deep down. So women in this category jusy relax and interact with men sweetly, u will notice their choices will then tilt towards soft flirty intelligent career women.

humilitypays:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to become financially free either via securing a good job, business or trade, she becomes unruly and prideful to even respond to a normal guy's hello...so how do u expect Nigriran guys who aren't skillful women players to get them talkless of marrying them That's the root of the problem most times.

After the issue of financially independent Nigerian ladies being unfriendly and looking down at any guy who isn't very popular approaching them, they are not usually respectful in marriage because they feel they can do without the man since they can take care of their financial needs.

Ask guys living abroad, especially UK, US, etc, majority of Nigerian ladies over there are not marriageable due to bad character and high rate of sleeping around for the fact that they have financial freedom.

Every man wants a woman that will complete him not one that will compete with him, get it

humilitypays:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to become financially free either via securing a good job, business or trade, she becomes unruly and prideful to even respond to a normal guy's hello...so how do u expect Nigriran guys who aren't skillful women players to get them talkless of marrying them That's the root of the problem most times.

After the issue of financially independent Nigerian ladies being unfriendly and looking down at any guy who isn't very popular approaching them, they are not usually respectful in marriage because they feel they can do without the man since they can take care of their financial needs.

Ask guys living abroad, especially UK, US, etc, majority of Nigerian ladies over there are not marriageable due to bad character and high rate of sleeping around for the fact that they have financial freedom.

Every man wants a woman that will complete him not one that will compete with him, get it

Ladyhippolyta88:
And women want the one that would be their partners and not the one that will intimidate them or compete with them.

ChiefPiiko:
Ohh my puppy, my sis named her Elena, but I shortened it to Lena pronounced Lina

frenzyduchess:
Na true na, that's why most of them go for near death old White women so they don't have to put up the facade for too long before the old lady kicks the bucket, the ones that marry young white women automatically have brain reset and become house husbands and errand men , but when they come back home, they start raising their shoulders and telling anyone who cares to listen that "I am the man" , and I am like "whatever "

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself,

frenzyduchess:
Na true na, that's why most of them go for near death old White women so they don't have to put up the facade for too long before the old lady kicks the bucket, the ones that marry young white women automatically have brain reset and become house husbands and errand men , but when they come back home, they start raising their shoulders and telling anyone who cares to listen that "I am the man" , and I am like "whatever "

Jupxter:
Brilliant excuse

Ladyhippolyta88:
Frenzy duchess I hail o.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Ah ah oga jupxter nor be lie I talk.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You will hardly see a submissive lady.Arrogance has nothing to do with money or gender who is arrogant is arrogant it only takes time before you begin to notice and if you come into a relationship with the mindset of wanting to dominate you would see a revolt.

humilitypays:
finishing

They said no matter how tall a tree is, it doesn't cross border or enter another community o, see leave us alone to show our James Bond attitude in Naija with our amiable Naija ladies, una still love us like that and we love una too lol just that u ladies need to change small kwa nu....make things de coole

Every Nigerian guy would be glad to date a financially independent lady but the issue is the so called financially independent ladies are only found in Mars, u can never see them in real life , and when u see them at all, na pomposity and pride full their body, they will be ignorin guys and forming slay, and when they get home they sob in loneliness lol

Safiaaa:
Yes some love dependent women. Very few love independent women, realistically speaking. But most if not all of you claim women have nothing else to offer but pussy? Can you please explain this?

odigbosky:
Live Example....
Few years ago, gat this uncle of mine, he was rich you know, had a wife and 2 kids but still he went after another woman who was doing the same business as he was. He chased her for about 5 years, this lady was financially independent. She was taking care of her younger ones...Now my uncle finally got her.
Then he started making her grow in the business. ...while doing this his own business started dancing skelewu and the woman's own was doing shoki. The woman started raising her head in the house...you will be hearing things like my house, i feed this house, i pay the children's school fees. i do this, i do that...I am not saying she is an evil woman, but i felt insecurity in my uncle....
My uncle had to fight for his pride in the house, luckily for him, his business was now receiving rays of light. Quickly it became a money tussle in the house, my uncle would always remind the wife that he made he survive in the business, she enjoys lots of privileges today in the business because of him and he would make her go back to square one in the business if she doesn't behave herself....
The is very humble, whenever my uncle threatens she withdraws. That is how they live their life...
I came to understand that a man needs a financially independent woman that he can still subdue. A woman that even if she is far wealthier than him, she knows that he is not a right off and he can still survive without her.
These days how many girls can do such....whenever i go visiting i still ponder on how my uncle keeps her in check with all her money. Yes she still brags sometimes about her money at home but i call it healthy bragging because both of them engage in it often...but she knows her boundaries.
My uncle bought a car months back, and she bought her own last week. She cannot drive oooo, na my uncle wn still dy drive the car...i asked her why she did...she said...How can my husband be driving only one car....we will be using one to our work place and the other for strolling out....
We just need women that will allow us be the head at home....

LadyMarionette:
Delightful piece.

Ladyhippolyta88:
And women want the one that would be their partners and not the one that will intimidate them or compete with them.