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mikolo80:
pm your mind is to stop free speech and to throw insult and you don't think that is arrogant. Wow. You're so stupid.
If you have plenty men you will not carry single working lady matter for head

Your mentality and my mentality are clearly different no need to argue with a baby who claims to be matured maybe you feel women who work don't need men that is your cup of tea not mine and all the insults you gave to me(what do I say)silence is the best answer given to a fool.And I am happy I am not surrounded with men like you.It is a blessing that your type is not around me.

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is society clearly simple.And I don't need to argue about it with you.

lol,it is society lol,tell me what is society,society is conditioned by men and that is what men want,mayb women dont want it but men generally have historically been the shapers of society,its a mans world forever,every good or bad thing in the world is has been caused by men,mayb when women take over they can shape the world the way they want it,buh am sure women will take the world back to stone age

DJperdurabo:
Women do not know how to weild 'power'. Men fare better in this respect.

I don't agree with this, women hold power of position and some are president and they are managing just fine I think its an individual thing there are power hungry guys who let it get it to their head also.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Your mentality and my mentality are clearly different no need to argue with a baby who claims to be matured maybe you feel women who work don't need men that is your cup of tea not mine and all the insults you gave to me(what do I say)silence is the best answer given to a fool.

You are the fool arguing aimlessly

And I am happy I am not surrounded with men like you.It is a blessing that your type is not around me.

I would never even sleep with you as jump off. Not worth. It.. Don't worry when you need a man you will come to your senses
You're still young
Fuckboys are still deceiving you
When they've taught you a good lesson your head will come down. Independent my foot

babasolution:
lol,it is society lol,tell me what is society,society is conditioned by men and that is what men want,mayb women dont want it but men generally have historically been the shapers of society,its a mans world forever,every good or bad thing in the world is has been caused by men,mayb when women take over they can shape the world the way they want it,buh am sure women will take the world back to stone age

Oh Mr man the 21st century world and other centuries to come would be everybody's world change is the only constant thing in life.And one's capability is not decided by their gender prove yourself and it is your's.you said society was shaped by men I agree and such conditioning would always be subject to change.

pcguru1:
I don't agree with this, women hold power of position and some are president and they are managing just fine I think its an individual thing there are power hungry guys who let it get it to their head also.

There's a difference between "holding power" and "wielding power".

Again, there are exceptions but it just goes to prove the rule as there are few.

mikolo80:
You are the fool arguing aimlessly

I would never even sleep with you as jump off. Not worth. It.. Don't worry when you need a man you will come to your senses
You're still young
Fuckboys are still deceiving you
When they've taught you a good lesson your head will come down. Independent my foot

No man is sleeping with me until after marriage so no need to think I am a one night stand or a side chick, I don't move or associate with visionless boys or playboys I move with the serious minded ones and they all encourage me.You are nothing but an otondo,calabingo,and ozuo.And believe me I would rather die than to sleep with you(a man with no future ambitions)believe me my life would not be centered on anyman who does not deserve me.Let me say I don't get a husband all I need are children and if I want one I know how to have them(sperm donour).

pcguru1:
I don't agree with this, women hold power of position and some are president and they are managing just fine I think its an individual thing there are power hungry guys who let it get it to their head also.

Kudos to you sir.

DJperdurabo:
There's a difference between "holding power" and "wielding power".

Again, there are exceptions but it just goes to prove the rule as there are few.

You have come again.

Ladyhippolyta88:
No man is sleeping with me until after marriage so no need to think I am a one night stand or a side chick,

Stop lying
No man wants to sleeping your arrogant ass
Even better
You will learn through divorce

I don't move or associate with visionless boys or playboys I move with the serious minded ones and they all encourage me.

No serious guy will move with such a confused foul mouthed wench

You are nothing but an otondo,calabingo,and ozuo

Case in point
Your insult vocabulary
Just shows the class you belong to

.And believe me I would rather die than to sleep with you(a man with no future ambitions)believe me my life would not be centered on anyman who does not deserve me.

Good the world would be better without your confusion

Let me say I don't get a husband all I need are children and if I want one I know how to have them(sperm donour).

see d mumu don de confess small small
Baby mama tinz loading
Fuckboys over to you.
Although I doubt fuckboys would want anything to do with you once they hear you speak

HauteReel:
OMG! Did you just taunt me? I could do a lot more than just handle you.

OK I'll bite. What would you do to a woman like me that hasn't been done before? I'll wait.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Oh Mr man the 21st century world and other centuries to come would be everybody's world change is the only constant thing in life.And one's capability is not decided by their gender prove yourself and it is your's.you said society was shaped by men I agree and such conditioning would always be subject to change.

21st century is the creation of men,besides what caused the conditioning in the first place? if nt mans desires,society can only be shaped as far as men are willing to cooperate, if men want the status quo it will remain,and if men change they are no longer men they become effeminate and gay and can no longer breed,therefore society ends

mikolo80:
Stop lying
No man wants to sleeping your arrogant ass
Even better
You will learn through divorce

No serious guy will move with such a confused foul mouthed wench


Case in point
Your insult vocabulary
Just shows the class you belong to


Good the world would be better without your confusion

see d mumu don de confess small small
Baby mama tinz loading
Fuckboys over to you.
Although I doubt fuckboys would want anything to do with you once they hear you speak

If this is your life plan you can become a billionaire.My replying you is a waste of time and it is like I am insulting myself all those things you wrote about me shall be your future aim and ambitions.I won't stoop to your uncivilized level of insults.

babasolution:
21st century is the creation of men,besides what caused the conditioning in the first place? if nt mans desires,society can only be shaped as far as men are willing to cooperate, if men want the status quo it will remain,and if men change they are no longer men they become effeminate and gay and can no longer breed,therefore society ends

My stance remains, thank you.It will always be constant to change.

makydebbie:
My dear, it's not today. We already know, but thanks for reminding them.

Safia may God bless you and grant your heart desires.

I'm still coming back to modify.

The lazy one by default is also talking. You think men can cope with your ilk in marriage? You're on a long thing.

[quote author=Ladyhippolyta88 post=63699051]My stance remains, thank you.It will always be constant to change. [/quote

biology trumps ideology or conditioning,man cannot change lets he dies,society only revolves in cycles we will always go back were we started from,so boys will always be boys.

i'll Bleep ur ass if i see u

Ladyhippolyta88:
If this is your life plan you can become a billionaire.My replying you is a waste of time and it is like I am insulting myself all those things you wrote about me shall be your future aim and ambitions.I won't stoop to your uncivilized level of insults.

stoop ke you're the one who started it. I'm just finishing it. Trying to give some of that home training you Jack before you destroy yourself.Shebi it was Sweeting you when you were calling a stranger baby and this one. You can dish it but can't take. All without answering one question. Only knows how to insult. Badly trained horse like you

Xiadnat:
Thank you! For this expose.

This is all i have being trying to say and have being wanting to pen for long time in this forum.

This has been my experience with most Nigerian men even the ones that live Outside Africa/Nigeria.


Its the reason most of nigerian men will prefer ugly fat usually white foreigners who cater to their fragile and misplaced ego than marry a well educated good looking (Black)woman who is fierecely her own person. .

When you demand or challenge them to be better, they call you “difficult” or something similar.


Collectively, Nigerian men have misplaced ego/pride/stubborness because that same pride cannot be put to good use to better Nigeria as a country. . What it is really is low self esteem or self hatred in disguise.

Its a generational curse and stronghold that needs to be broken.

And yes! This write up extends to what i ahve observed in this forum too.

Very well said.

PS watch out tho, they are coming to burn you at stake.

You're on a long thing. I like female doctors though. it's in this profesion where the most arrogant of women are found. Even if I'm your carpenter husband, there is a limit to the level of advice from you that I will heed. I don't try to change women, and they can't change me either.

Some of you don't know why we are here on earth. What you see as wisdom may be seen as the foolishness of the highest order to me despite that you're richer than I am. I'm not surprised because your role model said you should all be feminists.

@OP YOU MADE A LOT OF SENSE IN YOUR WRITE-UP,BUT I THINK THE TITLE OF YOUR TREAD IS DAMN TOO INSULTIVE,DO YOU HAVE MANNERS AT ALL?? WHAT KIND OF HOME WHERE YOU RAISED FROM?? REMEMBER THAT ALL NIGERIAN MEN YOU CLAIMED TO BE CONFUSED INCLUDES YOUR FATHER,SIBLINGS AND UNCLES,YOU MEAN YOUR FATHER WAS ALSO CONFUSED TO GIVE YOU BIRTH,GROW UP AND HAVE SOME SENSE...

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

kazyhm:
alright
so have you found the answer to this " How long is the pointless journey of this world and what is its purpose? "

Maybe when I die I'll come back and tell you.

Just kidding. That question is rhetorical and food for thought. It has different answers for different people.

Every answer is private and special for each individual thinker.

mikolo80:
they are very easy to know. Na konji de deceive you

Ok oo! No problem!

purples25:
Compadre. ...........we agree to disagree.

Yeah!

khiaa:
OK I'll bite. What would you do to a woman like me that hasn't been done before? I'll wait.

Hmmmmmmm!

Ladyhippolyta88:
No man is sleeping with me until after marriage so no need to think I am a one night stand or a side chick, I don't move or associate with visionless boys or playboys I move with the serious minded ones and they all encourage me.You are nothing but an otondo,calabingo,and ozuo.And believe me I would rather die than to sleep with you(a man with no future ambitions)believe me my life would not be centered on anyman who does not deserve me.Let me say I don't get a husband all I need are children and if I want one I know how to have them(sperm donour).

Hahahahahahahah @ otondo,calabingo,and ozuo

Bester44:
The lazy one by default is also talking. You think men can cope with your ilk in marriage? You're on a long thing.

So tell me, why are you bothered about my life?

mikolo80:
the white women are willing to pick all bills. Are you willing to pay 100% bills.also he needs green card.

you keep talking about bills, do you know how many Nigerian women pay bills?,but this same women don't shout it at the top of the roof just to keep the ego of their husbands because of the society they find themselves, yet the man will still be carrying his 20ft shoulder pad, mteeeew
By the way, you didn't have to quote me three times

purples25:
Maybe when I die I'll come back and tell you.

Just kidding. That question is rhetorical and food for thought. It has different answers for different people.

Every answer is private and special for each individual thinker.

i would have love to wait to hear the true truth. i have never meet a selfless person as you re....................Jehovah withness in reall time

mikolo80:
stoop ke you're the one who started it. I'm just finishing it. Trying to give some of that home training you Jack before you destroy yourself.Shebi it was Sweeting you when you were calling a stranger baby and this one. You can dish it but can't take. All without answering one question. Only knows how to insult. Badly trained horse like you

In your face sucker,just end it here before I insult you.

[quote author=babasolution post=63699133][/quote]You won't even see me,so don't you dare.

[quote author=babasolution post=63699133][/quote]That is your theory,so it means nothing.

Safiaa which class do u belong. The independent or dependent. Some men are truly afraid of well to do ladies but I am an exception.