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ubunja:
good question thou
anyone stupid enough to have a GF deserves to lose cash over her.i just fvck and go and never date.
like OP said : " I started fvcing girls whom their boyfriend is spending more on them than me"

i fvck you free while your man empties his bank akant on you.

romance is for simps

Thegeneralqueen:
You're simply a male prostitute that is what you are....... your status says it all

ubunja:
thats the sweetest thing anyone has ever said to me.

ubunja:
you know u have a point when u get responses like these.

she has nothing to say.
yet she cant ignore the Post.

Purebeerry:
Bia bia bia, mind your business, I follow you talk?

Thegeneralqueen:
Mr putit did I hear you say if you want to spend on your girlfriend spend in "TERMS" like seriously
Listen well and listen carefully you guys always want to get into a relationship without having any tangible things to offer rather than money which is a must for you to spend....... do you know what it takes for a lady to look beautiful......? all you want to do is just bag into a relationship without getting your findings done appropriately........rich guys don't complain when they spend on women they act mature......the truth here is that most guys in Nigeria are broke guys and they don't deserve the ladies that are here.......when ever you get into a relationship if you're not willing to spend simply back off and stick to baby oil............general guys it is your duty to spend on your girlfriend when in a relationship cause if you don't spend on her who will........? you guys should better start acting mature and take up your responsibility as a man...... for the fact that you spend on your girlfriend doesn't mean that sex is compulsory..... she's just doing you a favour by giving you the opportunity to have sex with her which is not a must when you spend in a relationship......

putit:
I spent on only ladies who deserve it. She deserved it because she displays great characters and behavior I love in women .Not because she's pretty or have ass and boobs..

I spend on only ladies who I am very very sure are really interested in me....I'm not a fool.

I spent on ladies when I felt like spending. I spend on my own terms and time.

I never spend on a lady because I want her to think am a nice/generous guy...Never

I never spend on a lady because I want her to LIKE me...Never

I never spend on a lady because I want her to give me pussy in the nearest future.. Never



I'll rather spend on myself..I'm always nice to myself first.
Many men are nice to lady but they are not nice to themselves.
Some men don't show care and respect to themselves but will be nice and caring to some random selfish slay queen, gold digger.

Nonsense..

ubunja:
who cares what u think?

Raydans:
Crap.

If I don't spend on my gf, she will spend on herself in a legit and responsible way. She has a father and a family. Can you see your mentality about this is archaic.

Imagine you saying a lady is doing a guy a favour by having sex. Let her remain a virgin till she get old.
Sex involves two people and is naturally a mutual favour and benefit to both parties.

Pls change your mentality else, u won't get any reasonable or responsible man to be serious with you and want to settle with you. They will all pay and enjoy you for the moment and dump you later because you are a liability and your worth is tied on monetary gains. Nothing else.

Pls change ur flawed mentality. Its never too late before you cry foul on the long run. After you stop and start thinking of why are you always having a failed relationship. Its obvious to the blind.
I hope you won't have wasted your time and years by the time you realise the truth

waywardpikin:
Abi o... when people from a poverty stricken background express themselves you will know. All they know if money money money. Gimme gimme gimme.

Thegeneralqueen:
Mr putit did I hear you say if you want to spend on your girlfriend spend in "TERMS" like seriously
Listen well and listen carefully you guys always want to get into a relationship without having any tangible things to offer rather than money which is a must for you to spend....... do you know what it takes for a lady to look beautiful......? all you want to do is just bag into a relationship without getting your findings done appropriately........rich guys don't complain when they spend on women they act mature......the truth here is that most guys in Nigeria are broke guys and they don't deserve the ladies that are here.......when ever you get into a relationship if you're not willing to spend simply back off and stick to baby oil............general guys it is your duty to spend on your girlfriend when in a relationship cause if you don't spend on her who will........? you guys should better start acting mature and take up your responsibility as a man...... for the fact that you spend on your girlfriend doesn't mean that sex is compulsory..... she's just doing you a favour by giving you the opportunity to have sex with her which is not a must when you spend in a relationship......

Thegeneralqueen:
Mr putit did I hear you say if you want to spend on your girlfriend spend in "TERMS" like seriously
Listen well and listen carefully you guys always want to get into a relationship without having any tangible things to offer rather than money which is a must for you to spend....... do you know what it takes for a lady to look beautiful......? all you want to do is just bag into a relationship without getting your findings done appropriately........rich guys don't complain when they spend on women they act mature......the truth here is that most guys in Nigeria are broke guys and they don't deserve the ladies that are here.......when ever you get into a relationship if you're not willing to spend simply back off and stick to baby oil............general guys it is your duty to spend on your girlfriend when in a relationship cause if you don't spend on her who will........? you guys should better start acting mature and take up your responsibility as a man...... for the fact that you spend on your girlfriend doesn't mean that sex is compulsory..... she's just doing you a favour by giving you the opportunity to have sex with her which is not a must when you spend in a relationship......

putit:
A very long post, but If you're smart you learn a lot from it.

The only time you are allow pay for sex is when the girl identifies herself as a 'prostitute'. A prostitute is a woman who engaged in sexual inter course for money. So If you approach a prostitute for sex, you must pay, so you wouldn't be embarrassed..

If a woman does not identifies herself as a prostitute, I don't see any reason why you should be giving her money.

Now let me tell you few solid reasons why giving a woman money in hope of sleeping with her is totally useless...>.
Recent research and studies as found that women (especially in their 20s) earns more than men of same age. You might be doubting, but there's truth in that study. 3 month ago my cousin(a guy)went for a job interview at a notable company. About 17 job seekers (graduates) showed up for the interview. 8 were ladies while the rest were men. According to my angry cousin, After the interview, when the results was out, 7 out of 8 the ladies got employed, and 1 other guy. The rest on them were placed on PENDING. He was angry because he was sure he performed well at the interview.
He( my cousin) said the only dude who got the job has an uncle who works in that company. In fact that was reasons the dude was able to secure a job..

Now, I'm not going to judge only based on my cousin's experience. Speaking from my personal experience and some of my close friends experience, women are mostly favoured when it comes securing and getting jobs.. That was why I was not so surprise when I heard ( on a Television program) that women earn more than men.
You see, Currently the average 25 years old lady is richer than the average 25 years old dude..

That's one reason why treating a woman with any financial favor in order to share her company romantically or sexually is totally useless..

I'll tell you another reason why it's foolish to do so.


A years ago, about 2 days to Xmas, I met a very good and close friend of mine. A lady. No doubt, she's a very beautiful lady, even without makeup. While we were discussing, I told her she must celebrate Christmas for me. She gave me her (ATM) Card and told me to take 4k from her account.
I happily hurried to the nearest bank to withdraw the cash. After withdrawing the cash, I decided to check her account balance. My GOD!!, she has almost a million in her account. I was SHOCKED.
I was shocked because she was not from a rich family and as at that time, she just started working at a small industry and she has just worked for only 6 month month. Her pay is not even up to 50k naira..

When I got back to her, After confessing to her about checking her account balance. I playfully confronted her on how she got that huge money.. She's was honest with me. She said most of the money are from MEN

Now, If you're guy reading these, in your mind might be screaming "slut"..But that's far from the Truth, not all beautiful girls are slut. Don't be stupid.

Pay attention to these....>

She confessed something to me ( I already know from my personal experience with women). She told me she does not need to have sex with a man for the him to give her any financial favor. While she spoke I listen to her curiously, she said all she has to do is to flash the guy FAKE GREENLIGHT, and with that she'll extorting cash from him..

Fake Greenlight from a girl means;; she's sincerely does not find you attractive and not interested in you sexually or romantically but will PRETEND she is, in order to obtain financial favor (or any other kind of favour) from you..
The Truth is most women are like that, especially the ones in their 20s..

You might be thinking in your head " this is so unfair, women are heartless, women are selfish, women are wicked, women are bitches, women are bla bla bla bla bla"..Lol

Don't be silly bro, women didn't point gun at your face and forced you to spend your energy and MONEY on them. That was you own decision.

That's another reason you should never feel obligated to spend on women.

Let me tell one more reasons you should not feel obligated to spend money on a girl you are interested in sexually or romantically.

Another reason is ' WOMEN LOVE SEX'.

Yes, women love sex as much as men love sex..DON'T BE DECEIVED.

Back in the days before I even got admission into the university, I use believe women will only agree to have sleep with you if you're RICH, or let me say I used to think women will only have sex with you If you spend a significant amount of money on them. It was when I grew some BALLS and start meeting and dating women, I realized that believe was false.

In fact, It was not until I started sleeping girls whom their boyfriend is spend more money on them than me, and I was not even spending any huge significant of sum of money on the women, I discovered that "believe" that women will only date or have sex with you if you're rich is totally false..

That's is it guys, never feel obligated to spend on a lady even if she's your girlfriend or you want to make her girlfriend or any other reason.

Final note;
Don't get me wrong, I never say you must never spend money on her. If you want to spend money on her, do it on your TERMS, do it because you just felt like spending on her at that moment.

Please never feel obligated to spend on woman SIMPLY because she's a woman and she has boobs and fine ass..

Guys should work and build them self to the MAN they want to become..


Work hard and be wise.

Mrbolt555:
tru talk bro. Especially here in Nigeria where everything is about money. U would even see girls with good job still doing runz. Its very disgusting. That's y when I hear of runz girls being used for ritual I'm always so happy! Nigerian woman just disgust me.

ReinaFarine:
Mr. Op I agree a 100%.
I don't believe a man should spend in me simply because I'm a woman, the same way I don't spend on anybody simply because he has nice lashes.

But C'mon, it is the African Nature to think someone will be endeared to you if you're nice. And nice most times means physical either with sex(for the ladies) or cash (for the men) case in point during job appointment, sorting of lecturers and other favours.

I won't have sex with anybody for all.the money in the bank if I don't have feelings for him. The same way no man should pay for all the ass in the world if he doesn't have feelings for her.

It is not some ground breaking news. Ant girl that feels men should pay her for how she looks is a lazy, sexist upcoming olosho. No offense.

We are trying to break the barriers women have in the secular world by ensuring every woman is respected and compensated for her intellects and contribution tohhe society. If you're one of the people making I look like the only way a woman can be rich is on her back or bent over a trash can or on her knees, then you're as sexist as Trump.

The guy giving you the money doesn't have an extra brain in his balls. He worked and used his brain to earn his dough so what entitles you to it? Your pussy? Give me a break.

But doing something sweet for your woman or your man just to show physically how happy he/she makes you is not oloshoism. Buying her gift that you think will make her pretty, A book he has been wanting to read for weeks, Her favourite flower, A trip to a romantic get away. Because when you truly love, making your partner happy is your priority.

I hope you're practicing this words in real life