₦airaland Forum

kazyhm:
i would have love to wait to hear the true truth. i have never meet a selfless person as you re....................Jehovah withness in reall time

Hmmm. Ok. Happy new year pretty soon........thank God for life.

purples25:
Hmmm. Ok. Happy new year pretty soon........thank God for life.

same to you.........shall celebrate in good health

Ladyjumong:
What do you want me to say

something

kazyhm:
same to you.........shall celebrate in good health

Amen amen Good health to all nairalanders.

purples25:
Amen amen Good health to all nairalanders.

what does it take to be friends ? Number > quotes

Ladyhippolyta88:
In your face sucker,just end it here before I insult you.

so sucker is not an insult in your house. No wonder you Jack good training. Or education. Who knows. Anyway insult me and I will give you double times 100.where I'm from if parents fail to train dia chudren. We do it for them outside.nonsense child

mikolo80:
so sucker is not an insult in your house. No wonder you Jack good training. Or education. Who knows. Anyway insult me and I will give you double times 100.where I'm from if parents fail to train dia chudren. We do it for them outside.nonsense child

I even thought this matter has ended just shut up.

frenzyduchess:
you keep talking about bills, do you know how many Nigerian women pay bills?,but this same women don't shout it at the top of the roof just to keep the ego of their husbands because of the society they find themselves, yet the man will still be carrying his 20ft shoulder pad, mteeeew
By the way, you didn't have to quote me three times

Haba duchess why you lying. A man will pay rent and school fees and food and dstv for 20 years no sound, just let the woman mistakenly pay for 3 months and the whole world will hear. The only time men wear shoulder pad is when his food is not on the table after work.

Martin0:
Ok oo! No problem!

it's true. Once you don't ignore the signs because of wetin you wan chop it's easy to see

Ladyhippolyta88:
I even thought this matter has ended just shut up.

as long as you're displaying your bad good training it will never end till you shut up fool

mikolo80:
as long as you're displaying your bad good training it will never end till you shut up fool

And you say you have sense If you like reply me none of my business,get lost.

mikolo80:
as long as you're displaying your bad good training it will never end till you shut up fool

And you say you have sense If you like reply me none of my business,get lost.As fro now on whatever you say is your problem and concern alone.I don't have time to reply you.

mikolo80:
as long as you're displaying your bad good training it will never end till you shut up fool

And you say you have sense If you like reply me none of my business,get lost.As from now on whatever you say is your problem and concern alone.I don't have time to reply you.

Ladyhippolyta88:
And you say you have sense If you like reply me none of my business,get lost.

I say you're displaying your lack of home training. You talking about sense. Clearly you have none.and you will reply me till you realise I have your time like others. At which point you will turn quietly accept defeat. Idiot woman

mikolo80:
I say you're displaying your lack of home training. You talking about sense. Clearly you have none.and you will reply me till you realise I have your time like others. At which point you will turn quietly accept defeat. Idiot woman

.@mikolo80 I have followed your posts with ths lady...seriously,she ain't worth even one insult...you sounded very reasonable and should have weighed her from her comments and ended this a long time ago....Now you are sounding exactly the same as she has been right from her first post.....biko! make una end this insults on unaselves....it's not worth it...na common post o!

mikolo80:
it's true. Once you don't ignore the signs because of wetin you wan chop it's easy to see

mikolo80:
it's true. Once you don't ignore the signs because of wetin you wan chop it's easy to see

Your thought's I wish u gudluck!

khiaa:
OK I'll bite. What would you do to a woman like me that hasn't been done before? I'll wait.

Well, I bet you never had it so good you sang the national anthem?

HauteReel:
Well, I bet you never had it so good you sang the national anthem?

Singing the national anthem doesn't equate to a good time to me, you have to be much more creative than that.

funmisticqueen:
look here,it is obvious you cant handle a woman being in charge. Work on your issues man

I honestly do hope your son ends up with a woman who he's subservient to and she stays in charge of the home while he watches cartoon.

miredia:
I honestly do hope your son ends up with a woman who he's subservient to and she stays in charge of the home while he watches cartoon.

you should also work on your issues. Besides my son has a lot of self esteem, enough to respect women and treat them like fellow human beings

tru talk

funmisticqueen:
you should also work on your issues. Besides my son has a lot of self esteem, enough to respect women and treat them like fellow human beings

Oh! I thought you wanted his wife to be in charge and control of affairs while he watches cartoon and prepares hot okro for her, now it's him treating his wife fairly. How convenient when the table turns.

mikolo80:
Haba duchess why you lying. A man will pay rent and school fees and food and dstv for 20 years no sound, just let the woman mistakenly pay for 3 months and the whole world will hear. The only time men wear shoulder pad is when his food is not on the table after work.

The fact that you haven't seen doesn't mean I am lying. The bolded shows you don't even know what you are talking about, so Mr Mike stop assuming things you know nothing of, happy new year

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

obviously, u written a very nice piece for many consumption.
My question is, should a woman disrespect her man because she is financially independent? I love and respect woman who can think for themselves in many front.

Many of the so called financially independent ones feel they can think for the man, speak for him even when the man can clearly do all d stated above.
For him, I respect them when they compliment me positively.

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Xiadnat:
Thank you! For this expose.

This is all i have being trying to say and have being wanting to pen for long time in this forum.

This has been my experience with most Nigerian men even the ones that live Outside Africa/Nigeria.


Its the reason most of nigerian men will prefer ugly fat usually white foreigners who cater to their fragile and misplaced ego than marry a well educated good looking (Black)woman who is fierecely her own person..

When you demand or challenge them to be better, they call you “difficult” or something similar.


Collectively, Nigerian men have misplaced ego/pride/stubborness because that same pride cannot be put to good use to better Nigeria as a country. . What it is really is low self esteem or self hatred in disguise.

Its a generational curse and stronghold that needs to be broken.

And yes! This write up extends to what i ahve observed in this forum too.

Very well said.

PS watch out tho, they are coming to burn you at stake.

@the bolded.... That moment when the whole affairs & livelihood of an entire nation depends on men's pride... Lwkmd..Baby u killed this one

funmisticqueen:
nope it simply means your sisters' husbands have learned to swallow bullshit in the name of marriage. It is simple human nature to behave like a boss once the opportunity shows itself.

Your views on this are myopic at best, I have experienced first hand,on two occasions actually where

1. The couples are both on the apex of their individual pursuit for knowledge, both are professors.

2. The Wife is the primary breadwinner.

I lived partly with one of those couples for some years and never was there an issue of power struggle, they loved each other so deeply things like that never hindered their union, and that was just enough.

You've probably had bad experiences but that's just it, what was bad for A might be too perfect to be true for B.

DrinkLimca:
Bro its the truth o..

They form posh in romance land while they scratch their Toto every minutes because of infection caused by dirty in the Toto..

If any romance land lady open her pants for you..

You will vomit.

Speaking from experience? Hehehe

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

May be you sound correct but you are wrong. I am interested only in women that work hard! Lazy women offer pussy to get money. Hard working ones offer intelligence. This is how it works! Men see u the way u present ursef.

frenzyduchess:
The fact that you haven't seen doesn't mean I am lying. The bolded shows you don't even know what you are talking about, so Mr Mike stop assuming things you know nothing of, happy new year

are you a man
yet somehow you know more about men than men
hmmm

Saffi:

see this trouble maker wants to re-shake a table that was already shaken way back in 2017