Been dating this babe for about 8 months now and I really love her and hoped to marry her. She is a student and will round up this year. She is 24 and am 33. She is from Ikeduru Imo state and am from Small London in Abia. I just discovered she is a chronic cheat. Of course she told me she wasn’t in any relationship when we met but i discovered it wasn’t true. I got the hint when a female friend of hers who is married start seeing a close friend of mine…..⏩⏩ trouble started between the girls and my babe was always criticizing her friend as she is married so one day her friend now told my guy that this my babe that is making noise cannot claim to have only me as a boyfriend. My guy couldn’t hold that back since he knew how I felt about this babe so he told me. That was when my suspicions woke me up. She lied again. I grew so suspicious that I peeped into her phone, prior to that we don’t poke into each other’s phones…. What I saw left me shook.
Sum of it all is that I upgraded from peeping to cloning her WhatsApp account. Her crimes against my emotions are unbearable. >>She has at least 3 guys abroad she flirts with, send nude pics and make nude video calls. She flirts on Facebook too and even hook up with guys. Travels to PH to see her aunty or to the village as she tells me only for me to discover from her chats she goes for runz and sometimes meet up with other guys.
Its not only about money, she seems to be living and enjoying her youth as best as she sees fit. When I talk she will say she is not married yet so she can keep as many male friends as she wants. I want to get married by next year and she clearly cannot be the one.
Please advice on how best to get my attention off this girl, I love her and I find it difficult to detach myself from her. She doesn’t know how much of her dirty games I know about cause I don’t want to expose my source of info. Am waiting for the right opportunity to catch her live in the act before I boot her, but my concern is I love her a lot and don’t know if I will be able to stop stalking.
Advice pls!

Just meet another lady...

Are you ok at all? So after seeing all the evidence that she is cheating on you, you are still here asking us for advice

Do you love her more than your life?
It's obvious you love her more than your life because if it isn't so, the fear of getting infected with hiv would have cleared your face very well to see the reality of the situation.

Na wa for some people oh. She doesn't love or even respects you and you are here busy loving alone on a one way ticket. SMH

Countersam:
....Sum of it all is that I upgraded from peeping to cloning her WhatsApp account.....

Abeg how u take do the whatsapp cloning things!?

ClitoPen:

Abeg how u take do the whatsapp cloning things!?

Very Important Question here OP.
Tell us and we will tell you the secret of getting your mind off cheating IMO girls.

You don't need advice of any sort now, all you need is to advice yourself.

You were too old for her anway

Greenbullet:
You were too old for her anway

a man is never too old.
a 40 yr dude can get with a 22 yr old chick no worries. time is man's best friend.

Gofwane:
Are you ok at all? So after seeing all the evidence that she is cheating on you, you are still here asking us for advice

Do you love her more than your life?
It's obvious you love her more than your life because if it isn't so, the fear of getting infected with hiv would have cleared your face very well to see the reality of the situation.

Na wa for some people oh. She doesn't love or even respects you and you are here busy loving alone on a one way ticket. SMH

May the good God bless you. Well Op, thank goodness you atleast typed with good English. It would have given me a terrible headache to read a poorly written story and at the end, you ask a JAMB question. For Real?

Countersam:
Been dating this babe for about 8 months now and I really love her and hoped to marry her. She is a student and will round up this year. She is 24 and am 33. She is from Ikeduru Imo state and am from Small London in Abia. I just discovered she is a chronic cheat. Of course she told me she wasn’t in any relationship when we met but i discovered it wasn’t true. I got the hint when a female friend of hers who is married start seeing a close friend of mine…..⏩⏩ trouble started between the girls and my babe was always criticizing her friend as she is married so one day her friend now told my guy that this my babe that is making noise cannot claim to have only me as a boyfriend. My guy couldn’t hold that back since he knew how I felt about this babe so he told me. That was when my suspicions woke me up. She lied again. I grew so suspicious that I peeped into her phone, prior to that we don’t poke into each other’s phones…. What I saw left me shook.
Sum of it all is that I upgraded from peeping to cloning her WhatsApp account. Her crimes against my emotions are unbearable. >>She has at least 3 guys abroad she flirts with, send nude pics and make nude video calls. She flirts on Facebook too and even hook up with guys. Travels to PH to see her aunty or to the village as she tells me only for me to discover from her chats she goes for runz and sometimes meet up with other guys.
Its not only about money, she seems to be living and enjoying her youth as best as she sees fit. When I talk she will say she is not married yet so she can keep as many male friends as she wants. I want to get married by next year and she clearly cannot be the one.
Please advice on how best to get my attention off this girl, I love her and I find it difficult to detach myself from her. She doesn’t know how much of her dirty games I know about cause I don’t want to expose my source of info. Am waiting for the right opportunity to catch her live in the act before I boot her, but my concern is I love her a lot and don’t know if I will be able to stop stalking.
Advice pls!

inside small london,,me represent ameke but reside @ agbo court.... nwannem hapu nwanta ohu..

some guys sha. so upon is dis allegations u still dey seek advice...

dingbang:
Just meet another lady...

Countersam here is the solution to your problem. It has always been said, "The best way to get over a mate is to find you a new one".
Just be selective in your choosing this time. Op how much in love can you be in only 8 months, I guess some people fall fast and hard. You men are different from American men who will drag a woman on for years before she can hear "Baby I love you" cold blooded bas.tards.

Them don sell this one brain for pot of semo.
U still love am? She cheats on u not Normal cheating with only one extra guy but she join am with runs sef. And u are playing the love card.u never wake up walai.
When niggas were creating threads about avoiding retired hoelosho as marriage partners but u with ur clear eyes still dey hang like dirty boxers.

Move the phuck on!!!

When we have so many options, we tend to be confused, that's is her problem.
Date a lady that will make you her priority even when she has options.

Purebeerry:
When we have so many options, we tend to be confused, that's is her problem.

Date a lady that will make you her priority even when she has options.

which option abeg?, sleeping around and sending nudes na option....oga ooo

edimolu:

which option abeg?, sleeping around and sending nudes na option....oga ooo

It's an option, some ladies are so single, they don't have anyone to even sleep with or send nudes to.

Purebeerry:
It's an option, some ladies are so single, they don't have anyone to even sleep with or send nudes to.

Hmmmm, are you so single?

edimolu:

Hmmmm, are you so single?

No dear. I don't stay single for long, I be hot cake .

Purebeerry:
No dear. I don't stay single for long, I be hot cake .

You don't stay single for long? Sure you know the ambiguity of that sentence? For a layman such as me ,i could give like four meanings to it!...i fear you ooo

edimolu:

You don't stay single for long? Sure you know the ambiguity of that sentence? For a layman such as me ,i could give like four meanings to it!...i fear you ooo

I don't care the meaning you read into it, I always have options, so I can't be single for long.

Purebeerry:
I don't care the meaning you read into it, I always have options, so I can't be single for long.

So i suppose you are no different from the op's supposed girlfriend, you successfully affirmed that!

edimolu:

So i suppose you are no different from the op's supposed girlfriend, you successfully affirmed that!

I might have friends doesn't mean I sleep around with them or flirt, send nudes pics to them, I'm above that shiit, don't like anything that will ruin my image so I don't cheat or sleep around. Those options are in friendzone .


The most successful people in life are people that are good at plan B.

Purebeerry:
I might have friends doesn't mean I sleep around with them or flirt, send nudes pics to them, I'm above that shiit, don't like anything that will ruin my image so I don't cheat or sleep around. Those options are in friendzone .
The most successful people in life are people that are good at plan B.

Well maybe ,just maybe you are different from the op's gf, cos that one sends nudes and gets fûcked at will..but saying you are above that shit, does that mean there was a time you frequented such doings?

You don't cheat or sleeep around? Hmmm, so what is with am not always single for long? pray tell? Am thinking dirty already..

Having a plan B in a relationship confirms your present as a second fiddle.

khiaa:


Countersam here is the solution to your problem. It has always been said, "The best way to get over a mate is to find you a new one".
Just be selective in your choosing this time. Op how much in love can you be in only 8 months, I guess some people fall fast and hard. You men are different from American men who will drag a woman on for years before she can hear "Baby I love you" cold blooded bas.tards.

lol. American girls fall easily too

dingbang:
lol. American girls fall easily too

No we don't.

khiaa:



No we don't.

trust me. yall do... y'all love completely

edimolu:

Well maybe ,just maybe you are different from the op's gf, cos that one sends nudes and gets fûcked at will..but saying you are above that shit, does that mean there was a time you frequented such doings?

You don't cheat or sleeep around? Hmmm, so what is with am not always single for long? pray tell? Am thinking dirty already..

Having a plan B in a relationship confirms your present as a second fiddle.

When I say am above that shiit, it means that I place myself in high regards, i think highly of myself, its not pride, its knowing your worth.

I'm a principled lady, there are some shiit I don't and won't do or take from anyone, so that is it.

dingbang:
trust me. yall do... y'all love completely

Where's your proof?

Purebeerry:
When I say am above that shiit, it means that I place myself in high regards, i think highly of myself, its not pride, its knowing your worth.

I'm a principled lady, there are some shiit I don't and won't do or take from anyone, so that is it.

Lol....so back to the topic, what do you think of the op's gf, cos you kinna like supported her...

edimolu:

Lol....so back to the topic, what do you think of the op's gf, cos you kinna like supported her...

I'm not supporting her, I think he should just cut her loose, cheating is bad and its one thing that shouldn't be forgiven in relationship.

Please just find a place in your heart to forgive her. You should marry her, I know she'll definitely change after marriage... Then she can poison and murder you, so that she'll finally be able to fvck around Nigeria, without disturbance and some money to throw around too.
It'll be a win win for both of you, as you'll also be in heaven (not hell) living peacefully with your god and without any stress or worries about a cheating partner

Mumu!