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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by sirxbit(m): 4:59pm On Jan 07, 2018
Sierusvirus:
If you don't propose, they will complain. If you do, they will cheat on you and pretend holy.
For you to catch a girl in the act, you must think like them.
Women and cheating
My guy who wan cheat to cheat
If u like bang life comot her body
She go cheat for money
If she non cheat for money she go cheat because she just fall for d guy when she still luv u.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jan 07, 2018
Nicklaus619:


Smh
No no I meant the lady. She's not sensible. Not u oo
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:



Take it easy my sister. i don't want you to wound somebody. let's just leave her conscience to deal with her.
which village are u from?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nicklaus619(m): 5:01pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
never mind. Everyone is not as sensible as they ought to be.

Sarcasm is a part of English language many people never knew how to use. The guy never understood, and he failed to read her body language
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 07, 2018
Nicklaus619:


Sarcasm is a part of English language many people never knew how to use.
Indeed. Didn't come across clearly. Sorry about that.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wisdomguy4u(m): 5:04pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
Carry her to your place permanently nah she will agree to that.... please don't let her enemies laugh at her now biko be a man she will change.....you don't know her story

you really hate me this much? i should carry wahala to my place permanently? you no like me at all

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wisdomguy4u(m): 5:07pm On Jan 07, 2018
Newboss:
My guy park well! angry

After having a good time with her, she still needed another dick? angry

My guy use your money to do dick enlargement and take a course on the art of seduction! angry

It shouldn't be a lesson to the girls but to you and to those who think money buys love! angry

This is why payments for women must be abolished in Africa! angry You need to learn how to make a lady fall in love with you instead of trying to acquire her through marriage! angry

Mr. elephant dick , you have been noticed. now run along.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by biacan(f): 5:08pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:


you really hate me this much? i should carry wahala to my place permanently? you no like me at all
No it's not like that I mean if you're having infidelity issues with her you should take her there cause she's a change woman she have learned her lesson trust me on this she will be forever submissive to you than before...... biko nna give a listening ear biko ehweyniwe nna biko orzugo
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wisdomguy4u(m): 5:09pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
which village are u from?
I'm from umunocha village. What about you?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Michelle55: 5:10pm On Jan 07, 2018
cry Awww, I know how painful and embarrassing the scene must have been for you.. sorry about that, just move on and enjoy 2018 cos it's a year of undiluted happiness and laughter. no room for bitterness

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:


I'm from umunocha village. What about you?
Alright. It's a possibility that u are indeed my brother cos that's my village too. embarassed

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Tonymegabush1(m): 5:22pm On Jan 07, 2018
Honestly bad of her trying to play smart at d end she ran out of luck with shame n disgrace
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Obakoolex(m): 5:22pm On Jan 07, 2018
Hmmmn some ladies sha!

Two different dicks same day

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wisdomguy4u(m): 5:24pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Alright. It's a possibility that u are indeed my brother cos that's my village too. embarassed

wow! sister mi. hope you visit villa this past xmas?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wisdomguy4u(m): 5:26pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
No it's not like that I mean if you're having infidelity issues with her you should take her there cause she's a change woman she have learned her lesson trust me on this she will be forever submissive to you than before...... biko nna give a listening ear biko ehweyniwe nna biko orzugo

why are you eagerly begging on her behalf? do you know her? abi she is your friend?

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:


wow! sister mi. hope you visit villa this past xmas?
No I didn't.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by biacan(f): 5:30pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:


why are you eagerly begging on her behalf? do you know her? abi she is your friend?
She is in pain right now biko she might kill herself........ just carry her to your place for some time so she'll be under your watch you guys have come a long way....... biko nna meliya ebere

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by wisdomguy4u(m): 5:32pm On Jan 07, 2018
Michelle55:
cry Awww, I know how painful and embarrassing the scene must have been for you.. sorry about that, just move on and enjoy 2018 cos it's a year of undiluted happiness and laughter. no room for bitterness

thanks dear... really appreciate.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 5:37pm On Jan 07, 2018
Cheating hmmm
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Michelle55: 5:38pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:


thanks dear... really appreciate.
Uwc. don't worry, you will do just fine.. be optimistic and please don't judge others with same yardstick. be open-minded!!!
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by vicben27(m): 5:43pm On Jan 07, 2018
some women are just crazy! talking frm experience(nysc was a crazy experience for me), men make sure you can statisfy your woman sexually if not if she get a test of good dick frm another man, shez a gonna for life! bitches will be bitches

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by edimolu(m): 5:45pm On Jan 07, 2018
lalasticlala, dominique, rocktation, mynd44!

could you please allow this thread grace FP!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 5:57pm On Jan 07, 2018
My Ex cheated on me countless times but I still had something to do with her though her cheating was never a reason why we never got married!

But one thing is alway's common in a relationship!

But contribute to why she cheated!

Not Giving Them Love and Attention:

_________________________________________


Remember, women are emotional beings
right? So naturally if you don’t show love to
your woman, may be by not showering her
with gifts, giving her money with LOVE so she
can take good care of herself or just not
caring at all, my brother, you have risked
losing you woman to another man, because
women love attention, it makes them feel
special.

So always ensure you are showing her the
much needed love, care and affection so you
can make her happy, she will stick to you like
a glue.

If you are So TERRIBLE on Bed:
_________________________________


Truth be told, this is the MAJOR reason why
women cheat!

If you have a Micro Manhood & you don’t last
2 mins, brother, even if you if you protect
your woman like an egg, give her 1 Million
Dollars & show her love like you are “MR
ROMEO” but you are terrible on bed, you will
lose you woman!
I repeat, you will lose your woman!
So if you have a MICRO manhood or you are
a 2 mins man, sorry to say…there is fire on
the mountain for you!
You see…

Being terrible on bed is MAJOR turn off for
women, some will tell it to your face, but
many of them will NEVER tell you to your
face, because they feel it will make you
embarrassed and unmanly.
Which is actually true!
But when they get fed up…
They will cheat on you!


Op please ask her why she cheated on you?

U need to know why she cheated!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Redxy(m): 5:59pm On Jan 07, 2018
OrestesDante:
angry



∆ I never trusted women from the scratch.... ∆
same heresad

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 6:13pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:


why are you eagerly begging on her behalf? do you know her? abi she is your friend?


See that girl is saying or suggesting some good for you!

You have to take her to your place for now and let her be at you watch talk to her and hear her reason's!

I am a man and my ex cheated on me but it was never never a problem!

That lady might just committ suicide!
She needs some kind of care right now,I mean mental care!

Call her,take her out or invite her infact don't invite her coz she might be scared! Meet her or talk to her...

I know what am saying oo!
Any normal and well matured human's should understand my point!

For the fact that someone cheat doesn't mean u can forgive them!

It possible she might change and it also possible it might continue! 50 50!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Chommieblaq(f): 6:33pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, if it happened then the lady no serious at all. Anyway Distance relationships sucks.

Nne forget that thing, what the long distance? Benin to onitsha too na long distance relationship?
Op should be grateful that he saw what she truly is before tying the knot.

She just wants to eat her cake and have it.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:05pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:



See that girl is saying or suggesting some good for you!

You have to take her to your place for now and let her be at you watch talk to her and hear her reason's!

I am a man and my ex cheated on me but it was never never a problem!

That lady might just committ suicide!
She needs some kind of care right now,I mean mental care!

Call her,take her out or invite her infact don't invite her coz she might be scared! Meet her or talk to her...

I know what am saying oo!
Any normal and well matured human's should understand my point!

For the fact that someone cheat doesn't mean u can forgive them!

It possible she might change and it also possible it might continue! 50 50!
. Don't tell me you are always like this? Can't you just call a spade what it is for once? I doubt you are a man.Almost everybody here is condemning it and you feel you are the only normal and matured person here

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by uchennamani(m): 7:16pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

I don't know. Part of me tells me that if this truly happened, you won't come here to share it.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Juliearth(f): 7:18pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.



Thank God you found out before marrying her...a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jan 07, 2018
Chommieblaq:


Nne forget that thing, what the long distance? Benin to onitsha too na long distance relationship?
Op should be grateful that he saw what she truly is before tying the knot.

She just wants to eat her cake and have it.
You right.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 7:20pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:
My Ex cheated on me countless times but I still had something to do with her though her cheating was never a reason why we never got married!

But one thing is alway's common in a relationship!

But contribute to why she cheated!

Not Giving Them Love and Attention:

_________________________________________


Remember, women are emotional beings
right? So naturally if you don’t show love to
your woman, may be by not showering her
with gifts, giving her money with LOVE so she
can take good care of herself or just not
caring at all, my brother, you have risked
losing you woman to another man, because
women love attention, it makes them feel
special.

So always ensure you are showing her the
much needed love, care and affection so you
can make her happy, she will stick to you like
a glue.

If you are So TERRIBLE on Bed:
_________________________________


Truth be told, this is the MAJOR reason why
women cheat!

If you have a Micro Manhood & you don’t last
2 mins, brother, even if you if you protect
your woman like an egg, give her 1 Million
Dollars & show her love like you are “MR
ROMEO” but you are terrible on bed, you will
lose you woman!
I repeat, you will lose your woman!
So if you have a MICRO manhood or you are
a 2 mins man, sorry to say…there is fire on
the mountain for you!
You see…

Being terrible on bed is MAJOR turn off for
women, some will tell it to your face, but
many of them will NEVER tell you to your
face, because they feel it will make you
embarrassed and unmanly.
Which is actually true!
But when they get fed up…
They will cheat on you!


Op please ask her why she cheated on you?

U need to know why she cheated!
See epistle
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 7:22pm On Jan 07, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
. Don't tell me you are always like this? Can't you just call a spade what it is for once? I doubt you are a man.Almost everybody here is condemning it and you feel you are the only normal and matured person here

Mr man! If I ask you my question will u be able to answer?

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