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Martin0:
Eh eh,wetin con happen if u see am?

How far na?
Una dey enjoy the weather oo

biacan:
You can't do this to her not at this point of time biko nna you know how important wedding is and you can't let this opportunity pass her by listen to her cries biko wisdomguy4u

wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

TerryG105:
Your story is a very sad one... Mine is worst than yours and have kept me single for over 2years now. Fear no let me talk to woman again oo.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This op think we are kids! So many unbelievable holes in this story

vingeophysicist:
This is really bad.Guy I plead with you don't generalize, all girls are not the same.I only pity your next girlfriend she will feel the venom of your previous betrayal.That girl in question is really not sensible, how can you bring yourself so low to bring a guy that can not even foot the bill of a hotel room to sleep with you in the same hotel room paid by another nigga.The lady has no class, what do you expect she is a village champion.That your ex is really in love with that dick.

Martin0:
Did you even understand ma point?
Coz it seems you don't!


So you mean before you cheat you have to think well?
If all these you have said about thinking before cheating then am sure we will ve no cheating partner's in the society today!

Oyindidi:
So, you encouraged her to be posting such on Nl? She may be joking but people won't understand and will start calling her all sort of names.

Na wa for u oo! U suppose know the story nau atleast e good mek dem dey talk e go helep her know their way or reasoning/understanding!




I'm fine dear, the weather no too bad today. Na the dust dey vex me

pcguru1:
Actions have repercussions my brother. When people cheat its a well thought out process, so stop making excuses for others.

Let me advice single guys who have no girlfriend or lover when they were still struggling financially, listen and listen very well guys:

God knows I am not making this up. I have like 2 or 3 financially buoyant friends who are below 35yrs, married in the last 2 years and guess what They are divorced as we speak. I was their bestman.

Reason for divorce Their wives were cheating!!

One a lesbian, one a bisexual....in fact more than 2 friends but I am more closer to 2.


These are handsome rich guys who are lucky to make it early in life but no previous lover, so they just married ladies they met without dating for too long.

If you are a guy doing well financially now and u had no lover before now, pls don't marry any girl someone recommends to u, don't marry any girl that is not financially buoyant or one that doesn't come from a rich family.

Don't ever think any girl will love u o....they won't o.....ladies believe so much in childhood love....forget what they tell u online, most ladies are tied to the guy that deflowered them for life, that's the saddest truth!

That guy they dated while growing up, thats their only lover, every other guy coming their way is just by chance and if they marry u its just to answer Mrs.

If u live abroad as Nigerian guy, pls, biko, ejoor, marry ladies abroad. If u don't like ladies abroad, find the ones born and brought up there....they are all the same. The ones in Nigeria are even worse unless God gives u one good one, I wonder how.

Guys shine your eyes....yes money can get u any woman, but they won't love u sha....so once u didn't find love when u are broke and financially struggling as a guy, forget about loving any woman or finding love and just marry to have kids and enjoy your life jeje.

This is my 2018 advice to financially buoyant single Nigerian guys without a previous lover from experience

Martin0:
Mi know! It alway's fine for you! The weather na la bomb la sweet na

How children dey na?
Dust ke! Na jos u dey?

Come oo oyin! U fucvkup oo am sure u know!

poseidon12:
Are you serious? If this happened to your brother, will you advise him to take her back. This is the type of wife that will be banging gate man, driver or house boy.

Oyindidi:
How I take fkup? The weather dey give me cough

Martin0:
Remember I am not saying they should marry?

Have you not seen cases like this where they get married and become the best couples for the 10th year/20th year living together not minding her character's in the past!


See I met one guy in cameroon last year! Very nice guy,we don't even know each other,I just met him there and we just joked into relationship and marriage becoz he was asking me about ma wife but I wasn't married neither was I dating!

He told me his wife was one of the greatest cheat he ever came across! And I was like "what tha fucvk"

But he said her never thought of giving her a chance,he took his then girlfriend who is now his wife into good personal medical mental care to avoid stories that touched especially suicidal attempt,

He never never discussed that issue of cheating with his then gf who's now the wife not even when he got married to her!

It was like the cheating where he cought her made her to realize all her mistakes,according to him his wife started confessing like some witch!

But like I said he never asked or even care to know what made her to!
According to him it was upto his girlfriend to correct herself and learn from her mistakes!

He said his bet was his gonna marry her! If she wanna keep cheating she should,if she gives birth and still continue to cheat no problem,if she's 70 or even 100 and still continue to cheat it her choice!

He was never viewing life from this perspective of you guy'/ladies here!

His thought was after the state the incident might lead to!

Do u know what it mean's to loss your marriage to cheating in some few months?

Remember am not saying he or she should go along and marry!

But try to console the victim,try to make them move on,give them reason's to move not reasons to kill or develop HBP!

Infact I have learnt so many things on this thread!

All the ladies here are one sided!
Even the men same thing goes to them!

If the case was Reverse,I swear it will be a total different comment's!

Who doesn't deserve forgiveness? Shinarlaura?

Does forgiven someone mean's you will marry her?

Hmmmm am just weak @ the ladies comments even guy's!

See I will be the last dead or life man not to forgive a soul!

Martin0:
Good question!

Wey my christmass lice new year lice,goodies wey dem?
U nor even wish me well atall!

Abi I nor loyal reach ur side?

Give u cough ke! U eh!

wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
That's cool. Awkaetiti is big with different villages. Never heard of d chikelubas

Martin0:
My Ex cheated on me countless times but I still had something to do with her though her cheating was never a reason why we never got married!

But one thing is alway's common in a relationship!

But contribute to why she cheated!

Not Giving Them Love and Attention:

_________________________________________


Remember, women are emotional beings
right? So naturally if you don’t show love to
your woman, may be by not showering her
with gifts, giving her money with LOVE so she
can take good care of herself or just not
caring at all, my brother, you have risked
losing you woman to another man, because
women love attention, it makes them feel
special.

So always ensure you are showing her the
much needed love, care and affection so you
can make her happy, she will stick to you like
a glue.

If you are So TERRIBLE on Bed:
_________________________________


Truth be told, this is the MAJOR reason why
women cheat!

If you have a Micro Manhood & you don’t last
2 mins, brother, even if you if you protect
your woman like an egg, give her 1 Million
Dollars & show her love like you are “MR
ROMEO” but you are terrible on bed, you will
lose you woman!
I repeat, you will lose your woman!
So if you have a MICRO manhood or you are
a 2 mins man, sorry to say…there is fire on
the mountain for you!
You see…

Being terrible on bed is MAJOR turn off for
women, some will tell it to your face, but
many of them will NEVER tell you to your
face, because they feel it will make you
embarrassed and unmanly.
Which is actually true!
But when they get fed up…
They will cheat on you!


Op please ask her why she cheated on you?

U need to know why she cheated!

wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

ArchangeLucifer:
Hahahahahahahahaha


Expired Slay Mamas viewed this thread and ran away.

Im talking about pocohantas, lalas247, safiaa, marinee, ishilove & co.

Notice its mostly responsible women that are commenting here.

Pocohantas and her menopause crew have retired early 4 d night.

humilitypays:
my brother eh, when u see a pretty girl suffering or a pretty lady married to a broke guy who also beats her up, don't pity her, most girls are senseless.

Most of them neglect and ignore well to do guys only to follow all these jobless nodowell of guys in their street they walk around with holding hands and cracking useless jokes.

I see a lot of them and I shake my head in pity.

Many want to recreate the useless love they watch in Nollywood, Tellemundo and Indian movies, that's why they glue their eyes on those useless soap operas.

They will see clear road and decide to enter bush.

I have this awesome single friend doing excellently well financially who once visited me last year and saw a girl on my street he liked and made a move to know her or sth, after trying twice which I even discouraged him from trying, the girl finally gave him her number and they started talking on phone....she wasn't responding well....even to reply the guys Whatsapp chats was difficult for her.

Thank goodness my guy finally forgot about her after my repeated advice not to stress himself about any girl in this life.

After my friend has gone back to his base, one night I saw the girl with some rascal street boys, all those boys that spend their years in studio trying to be like Timaya and forming draidlockers

A very pretty and responsible girl by look o...and even by daylight character....these guys were squeezing her bumbum o, chai forming Jamaican love....

Fastforward to 2 weeks later, one of my loyalists on the street, a boy I normally give tips who also assists me in some things once in a while, who is also one of them street nigga boiz came to my house one weekend and was asking me if na me de toast one girl like that....which happened to be that girl my guy was trying to befriend for good o...with good intentions o


He said the girl said them think say she be anyhow girl that fall for guys that feel they have money, I laugh soteh I almost spill the tea I was drinking

Said na only mumu hungry girls fall for money....that all these guys that feel they have money are all bullshit, that they think they can get any girl, not her....I told the guy I wasn't the one but my friend.

You can imagine mentality of most of our girls today....they prefer their broke, forming Timaya street guys to well to do guys that will give them a good life and better future.

Seriously, now I am beginning to agree that it is difficult for a financially buoyant guy without a former lover in Nigeria to find true love o....Naija girls prefer those rascal street boys who rough handle them and hold them around walking the street, so don't pity any pretty girl suffering or married to a broke woman beater cos most of them made the choice out of stupid sense

Sydebel:
Y accept his proposal if the dick was small and he's not showing enof care and attention. Do a woman agrees to a mans prop. Wen he's not 75% ok for d babe? She only wanted to eat her cake and have it. She simply would av opted for the boy to marry her instead of looking back and forth. She's just who she is. Dis kind of girl can never b satisfied. Even if they give her to u, shelld still cheat on u. 4get dis epistle. D OP cannot b d worse in bed.....abeg leave trash for bin.

Troublemaker007:
Here is another f00l.

Next2Bezee:
My brother. Many are whores and only few are loyal. If you visit her social media accounts now, you will probably see captions like 'god lover' or 'sister in christ'.

Just be thankful that God saved you from spending your life with a cheat. Don't let that stop you from seeking a partner, just make sure not to trust any woman 100%, always sleep with one eye open

Oyindidi:
Send your number make I give small airtime