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Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by bbyby01: 8:28am On Jan 08, 2018
The addictive effects of masturbation is stronger than weed or cigarettes. This is because masturbation is done in the secret and that makes you free from the court of public opinion, this and the immense pleasure the act offers makes it difficult to let go.
I started masturbation at an early age. Precisely when I was in primary 5, I was standing by the window and looking outside the school when my dick accidentally pressed against the wall. It felt good and I stood there for a while doing it. Since then I have been masturbating in several different ways. (for about 20 years now).
Masturbation has Undoubtedly left several negative effects on me. The feeling of guit and self hate, an unhealthy self esteem, lack of pleasure from sex which sometimes lead to erectile dysfunction because you are not interested in it, distortion of the penis and also general body weakness and tiredness.
Have I tried quitting? Yes. Several times. The longest I went was 3 months. With the coming of the new year, I have decided enough is enough. I'm going to quit masturbation this year. It's a dirty act.
There's a a saying that if you want to go far on a journey go with someone, the reason I haven't been able to quit is because I have been doing it alone. This is the reason why I am bringing this here. For those who are in the same boat with me, let's row our boat together and I believe we will go far in our journey. Let us come together on this thread, whether male or female. Share our stories, encourage ourselves, share our challenges and evaluate our daily progress. I have shared mine what is your story?

NB: I know some people are of the opinion that masturbation is healthy, etc. Please this thread is for those that want to quit masturbation so please leave us alone and stay away.
Also, what ever we say here remains here. No mentioning of issues here on other threads or other places.

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Oxster(m): 8:31am On Jan 08, 2018
Here to read later comments ND laugh off

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by 912(m): 8:41am On Jan 08, 2018
Good initiative and a very bold step from you OP. Masturbation is a bigger issue than many would like to admit it is and most of our youth are totally trapped in its webs. Even some married people are so addicted to it that they enjoy it more than sex with their partners and it is responsible for numerous cases of erectile dysfunction and other sexual issues.

I know some people will come here and try to down play the issue and also discourage and attack the OP but just don't mind them. The fact that you believe it is a problem affecting your life means you have made the right decision of coming out and seeking others that want to go the journey with you.

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by bbyby01: 9:27am On Jan 08, 2018
912:
Good initiative and a very bold step from you OP. Masturbation is a bigger issue than many would like to admit it is and most of our youth are totally trapped in its webs. Even some married people are so addicted to it that they enjoy it more than sex with their partners and it is responsible for numerous cases of erectile dysfunction and other sexual issues.

I know some people will come here and try to down play the issue and also discourage and attack the OP but just don't mind them. The fact that you believe it is a problem affecting your life means you have made the right decision of coming out and seeking others that want to go the journey with you.
God bless you

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 9:31am On Jan 08, 2018
Is not easy to stop my brother

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Mightyraw(m): 9:35am On Jan 08, 2018
How do you plan going about it

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by HeOrShe: 9:40am On Jan 08, 2018
If u want to quit masturbation drop ur number here so we can create a WhatsApp group and name it..

Ex-masturbators.

Only for those who want to quit.

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 9:42am On Jan 08, 2018
HeOrShe:
If u want to quit masturbation drop ur number here so we can create a WhatsApp group and name it..

Ex-masturbators.

Only for those who want to quit.
you get point

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Chopwater: 10:03am On Jan 08, 2018
Op I'm with u. if there is anything i can do to stop dis dirty thing am ready.

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by whogoesthere: 10:15am On Jan 08, 2018
Nice topic @ OP.

I've really suffered from the side effects of masturbation. It all started after my service year, could'nt secure a job immediately and being a reserved and indoor kind of person I was always indoors and home alone most times cause my parents went to work and younger ones to school.

Boredom brought about this evil habit coupled with the fact that I had just begun sexual adventures with a sweet babe I met during my service days, now I was back home by myself and the urges kept coming. I use to watch porn a lot even before I went for service but it never culminated into masturbation or sex for that matter.

I still remember that night almost 4 years ago lying on my bed watching porn and it felt so good all of a sudden I had spilt my seed, I felt embarrassed and ashamed of myself. From that time till 21st Dec 2017 I don't think I've been able to go more than 10days without masturbating, sometimes thrice a day. Even when I started work it still continued, It was when it degenerated into me visiting brothels and lodging in hotels with the runs babes I had met online, I realised there was 'fire on the mountain'. I couldn't go more than a round which won't last more than 5 mins, all efforts to revive my 'little man' for another round always prove abortive only on few occasions when I managed to stay off masturbation for couple of days before the act.

I tried tried and tried to stop but all efforts didn't yield positive results. I prayed, fasted, read online tips none worked. So early December last year I made up my mind with God's help to stop and I'm happy to say that for the first time in almost 4 years I've been able to complete 19 days without masturbation and I don't even feel the urge to do it anymore, No more porn, I feel very confident nd good about myself now.

Just to encourage others trying to quit, Keep trying and Never Give Up!!!!

Peace..

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by sKeetz(m): 10:54am On Jan 08, 2018
Why not create a telegram group for this cause a lot of people who are suffering from this wouldn't like to drop their numbers so as to remain anonymous ?

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 10:57am On Jan 08, 2018
When u think uve conquered masturbation vs 3days later

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by maina55: 11:08am On Jan 08, 2018
HeOrShe:
If u want to quit masturbation drop ur number here so we can create a WhatsApp group and name it..

Ex-masturbators.

Only for those who want to quit.
Bros,, the WhatsApp group will make sense,,, that is the problem I have been having,,, I started right from my JSS,,, now I am doing my masters,, masturbation has been the main challenge I am facing,,, I made up my mind on the 30th of December 2017,,, that I will not do it again,,, but last night I saw myself doing it,,,, I seriously need help,,, this is my number 07037380534.

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 11:10am On Jan 08, 2018
sKeetz:
Why not create a telegram group for this cause a lot of people who are suffering from this wouldn't like to drop their numbers so as to remain anonymous ?
not ever one knows telegram
Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by sKeetz(m): 11:12am On Jan 08, 2018
amani63:
not ever one knows telegram

Someone who needs help woulndt mind.

Telegram is good cause it can contain a lot of people and has cool features. It's just an opinion though.

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 11:15am On Jan 08, 2018
maina55:
Bros,, the WhatsApp group will make sense,,, that is the problem I have been having,,, I started right from my JSS,,, now I am doing my masters,, masturbation has been the main challenge I am facing,,, I made up my mind on the 30th of December 2017,,, that I will not do it again,,, but last night I saw myself doing it,,,, I seriously need help,,, this is my number 07037380534.
MY brother you are not the only one facing this it happens to us
I made my mind after 31st Dec 2016 I would stop but all is rubbish I still went back
But thank God is almost over

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 11:16am On Jan 08, 2018
sKeetz:


Someone who needs help woulndt mind.

Telegram is good cause it can contain a lot of people and has cool features. It's just an opinion though.
OK I would create the group

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by akaahs(m): 11:24am On Jan 08, 2018
amani63:
you get point
I suggest it should b Ex-mast B

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 11:29am On Jan 08, 2018
akaahs:

I suggest it should b Ex-mast B
I don't think so
Because most of us are still in the act
Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 11:59am On Jan 08, 2018
amani63:
I don't think so
Because most of us are still in the act
Your own strong o

How often do you masturbate?
Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jan 08, 2018
SpareNo1:
Your own strong o

How often do you masturbate?

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jan 08, 2018
amani63:
not often
The thing is now boring to me self
Then you can stop. Try stay away from sexual things on internet. Get your mind busy. And most importantly, get a gf

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jan 08, 2018
SpareNo1:
Then you can stop. Try stay away from sexual things on internet. Get your mind busy. And most importantly, get a gf
I don't do that anymore my brother

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Snow02: 12:17pm On Jan 08, 2018
I'm actually experiencing the opposite I could'nt mastubate even if I wanted to

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Geosystem(m): 12:54pm On Jan 08, 2018
a month and 2 weeks now . its been God and I will stay that way for the long haul

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jan 08, 2018
Geosystem:
a month and 2 weeks now . its been God and I will stay that way for the long haul
don't give up you will get over it

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by whogoesthere: 1:12pm On Jan 08, 2018
Geosystem:
a month and 2 weeks now . its been God and I will stay that way for the long haul
Nice one!!!!

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2018
Does this affect women too?

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by Daniellano: 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2018
Why not create a whatsapp group and paste the link here coz many pple will want to remain anonymous, so won't drop their number.... Just a suggestion tho

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Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by bbyby01: 2:17pm On Jan 08, 2018
Safiaaa:
Does this affect women too?
Yes. Women included.
Re: Wanna Quit Masturbation? Let's Do It Together by bbyby01: 2:17pm On Jan 08, 2018
amani63:
MY brother you are not the only one facing this it happens to us
I made my mind after 31st Dec 2016 I would stop but all is rubbish I still went back
But thank God is almost over
maina55:
Bros,, the WhatsApp group will make sense,,, that is the problem I have been having,,, I started right from my JSS,,, now I am doing my masters,, masturbation has been the main challenge I am facing,,, I made up my mind on the 30th of December 2017,,, that I will not do it again,,, but last night I saw myself doing it,,,, I seriously need help,,, this is my number 07037380534.
Mightyraw:
How do you plan going about it
Chopwater:
Op I'm with u. if there is anything i can do to stop dis dirty thing am ready.

Well, the thing is this, if you set very long goals, you are most likely to break it. I am taking it one week at a time. The year started on Monday and I made it to this monday without masturbating. Now my target is to make it to next Monday without masturbating and it goes on and on. If you can't do it weekly, then take it one day at a time. Wake up in the morning and tell yourself you ain't gonna masturbate today. The pride that comes with achieving your goal should be enough motivation for you. We are on your side, God is on your side. You can share your daily and weekly testimonies here.

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