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ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

Chisosssss!!!
How can u say this? Me, I can only support my brother, my father or even my own mother when I believe their action is right.
If I feel they are wrong, the best I can do, because of blood relationship, is to keep quiet, chose a neutral ground, and stay away from the matter

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

my friend sharrap

You will support your brother to frustrate the mother of his FOUR kids without any justifiable reason. That is not love or solidarity. It takes a good amount of bitterness and hate to want to ruin your brother and your nephew's lives.

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

baranzy:
She forced her way into the family with marriage wen 95% of the family never wanted her including the guys mom and siblings....immediately after marriage she turned her back on the that supported her..I was the best man in their wedding ever since the wedding in 2015 she my cousins wife didn't contact me or even have my number or Facebook acct...after all the effort and hatred I passed thru my cousins in supporting this guy in marrying her...she turned her husband against every member of his family including me his best cousin...Jane despite all his pleading with his father to travel to america to see his mum but you refused and went to the embassy to cancel his visa km known owing its over 10years he hasn't seen his mom..all his wealth was channeled towards her own family......now nobody from the family will fight for her CU's of her ill and bad attitude...I don't support my brothers ill attitude but I won't involve cuz they all turned there back on me since 2015after all I did to make sure there marriage worked....karma is a bitch...this how all his family members she made him turn his back on feel all this years....you people shud stop disgracing my family..

Egbuchere family keep shaming themselves. From their father to mother, to prince, to fortunate to Ada. Ikenna is the exception but....

The family are mad cos they felt Jane denied ikenna opportunity to join them in the US which may/may not be true.

Daeylar:
The husband is a hoe, the sidechick is a hoe, both are damn hoes
If your brother does something like this, he will be a hoe too
So which one is bros over hoes?
They are all hoes,

The right thing to say is hoes over hoes

LMAO.

Nope.

Related hoes over unrelated hoes.

I get the fam over everything ish. Except that I would only register my displeasure with him privately and stay neutral. I wouldn't go all berserk on him.

That said, he's the only one owning up to sth most people do in Nigeria. Meaning he ain't trying to be fake or PC.

For example, if every brother or sister confronted their in-laws beating their sisters, domestic violence would reduce drastically. People don't react as much as they would with someone related as they would with someone who's unrelated.

It's like when you find out a sibling did a hit and run while drunk. Would you rat him out to the authorities knowing he's going to be charged for manslaughter, or are you going to help him destroy evidence. Most would chose option A, and that's what ubunja is saying he'd choose. No need acting so saintly.

-Lord

chigoizie7:
From what I understood from all those their wahala.

It seems the so called wife has been troubling and causing wahala for the husband and the family knew about it. But she tot because she has kids for him that she can get away with anything. But she was wrong. The husband found peace and happiness somewhere else and it downed on her that she really fuuucked up and want him back.


She could have met the family of the guy to discuss their sons behavipur, but no, she went social media to get the sympathy of people who do not know the whole story.

I might be wrong.






But I have seen a man dying slowly because of what the slay mama wife is doing to him , even with all his money. Simply because the husband doesn't want to be a bad father to the kids if he sends her packing, even the wife's sister and mother knew their daughter and sister is fucking up. At some point the guy couldn't take it anymore, he sent her packing with a stipend.( the wife's sister came busing and did something wrong, the husband corrected and the wife took over , asking who gave the husband the right to scold his sister, na so this woman scatter everything inside a 3 bedroom flat , a house that is well furnished. The guy was bleeding because she fought him) neighbors came and took him out to calm him. That was why he sent her packing that he is no longer marrying again.


It is those that knew what the man went through that will support him. But others who just heard that the man sent his wife packing will call him evil and a wicked man.






So, my dear girl, what did u do to ur husband to the extent that his family are against u, even with the kids.

....................you are correct,some of us women can be something else especially when we marry a gentle and quiet guy...........but the question is,do you extend the hatred to your kids?..........The man should at least come home and see the kids.....drop some money for their upkeep ......then if he wants to grow wings and fly with his side chick ...he is free

The lady looks like a kept woman. If she had her own thing she would be able to say fk this and move on

[quote author=Oxster post=64002111][/quote]Bro, i think u are kinda biased bc u have a lovely brother. I have seen brothers who would want to kill each other due to sentiments or jealousy. No one prays for a situation where u would have to choose. Just stay positive..

Very painful, i went through her facebook page, i saw the good times they had together.

You need see Sherlock Holmes

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

mtsheww

pawesome:
you never jam woman with attitude abi?...to even come your own houz,fear go de catch you...

Guy,bone that kids sometin..some women can actually make you heartless

Free them.

Some women can become domestic terrorists.

-Lord

Fabulousgal:
Bro, i think u are kinda biased bc u have a lovely brother. I have seen brothers who would want to kill each other due to sentiments or jealousy. No one prays for a situation where u would have to choose. Just stay positive..

Yaya,,that's it

I always appreciate him 4 being there in my Life

So...4 that reason I still chose him over my wife

biacan:
Men are heartless

And women are....?

No b ur committee member collect hin fellow committee member's husband abi wht is with d men r heartless here nw.... Ur fellow wey dey punish hin fellow woman, u no c women re heartless... Itz always d man

Na so una blame Adam for garden of eden too despite u pple passing d forbidden apple to d innocent God fearing man, abegi

baranzy:
She forced her way into the family with marriage wen 95% of the family never wanted her including the guys mom and siblings....immediately after marriage she turned her back on the that supported her..I was the best man in their wedding ever since the wedding in 2015 she my cousins wife didn't contact me or even have my number or Facebook acct...after all the effort and hatred I passed thru my cousins in supporting this guy in marrying her...she turned her husband against every member of his family including me his best cousin...Jane despite all his pleading with his father to travel to america to see his mum but you refused and went to the embassy to cancel his visa knowing its over 10years he hasn't seen his mom..all his wealth was channeled towards her own family......now nobody from the family will fight for her CU's of her ill and bad attitude...I don't support my brothers ill attitude but I won't involve cuz they all turned there back on me since 2015after all I did to make sure there marriage worked....karma is a bitch...this how all his family members she made him turn his back on feel all this years....you people shud stop disgracing my family..

seriously

biacan:
Men are heartless

You know your comment is myopic, right?

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

That is wrong. Your brother's wife becomes your sister by marriage. She becomes a part of the family. The reason why she needs more support is even because of the fact that she is the newcomer.

Sterope:
You will support your brother to frustrate the mother of his FOUR kids without any justifiable reason. That is not love or solidarity. It takes a good amount of bitterness and hate to want to ruin your brother and your nephew's lives.

if you want to call me sticking with my brother "ruining him" then whatever!

biacan:
Men are heartless

Not all

obstead200:
Chisosssss!!!
How can u say this? Me, I can only support my brother, my father or even my own mother when I believe their action is right.
If I feel they are wrong, the best I can do, because of blood relationship, is to keep quiet, chose a neutral ground, and stay away from the matter

unlike your love that comes with conditions, i ride and i die with my brother. fvck the world. he doesnt have to be right to have my love.if he is wrong then we will face the punishment together. no worries.my brother knows i got him 100. we shared the womb and our mother's breast. my brother means more to me than my woman. and vice versa. if he has a problem with my woman that woman is fired.

MrHistorian:
Are you part of this drama?

Even at that,She doesn't deserve to be treated in such manner.She bear him his kids.

There's no such thing as doesn't deserve. It's called KARMA.

And it'd also visit the side chick as well.

She is lucky he hasn't come to take his kids and take them to leave with his new side-chick soon to be 'wife.' Two friends of mine, dads were rich as f*ck (one was a house of assembly member) were living with their step-mom. Their mothers lived in the same state. And they were well taken care of (well, as far as I knew)--one had a car gifted him in his univ first year.

Had a few other friends who lived with dads and mums, but whom their dads didn't know how their school fees were being paid.

If you took statistics of men who live with their kids but don't pay for many stuff relating to the kids, you'd be shocked. Na because diz 1 carry d mata enter Social Media Senate nai mk am b lyk new thing.

A woman acts like sh*t, man decides to take a break, everyone goes PC on him. Like WTF!

Right now, I have more pity for those kids than the woman going by the story that guy shared.

And BTW, what does she think her post would change? People would pray and the guy will still do what's on his mind. And those that should help her like the guy you quoted are either neutral or are turned off by her social media rant.

-Lord

ubunja:
Diva im with my brother in everything.if my brother strays then i support him with his new female.i go with my brother in every choice he makes, thats my duty.
the kids dont matter.my brother is all that matters.
if a woman feels disrespected by my brother then she must just divorce him.but she must not expect my sympathy coz that will divide me and my brother.and i will NEVER allow that.

This your brother na strong thing dey do am o. Wey be say instead of am to listen to logic he will rather dump you and his family as he dumped his wife and kids. Because of that you rather allow him enter fire than tell him the truth? Ngwanu, kwontinue.The demon wey dey control una destiny strong well well a family of blind leading the blind. Even your brother's kids are all callateral damage in your pursuit of personal gain. Make Bros no come cut your share of allawee from the abroad. Chai human goats na wa.... Ofh sorry human beans na wa ọ. Ngwanu kwontinue dey zuzu dey go. All these Bleep boys raised everywhere these days

ubunja:
on principle i will always support my brother over any one. even if he is wrong.thats what you do for family.i cant let a stranger that joined our family recently break up my older relationship with my brother.as a woman you can divorce my brother if you feel betrayed.but since i cant ever divorce my brother out of my life i choose him over you. nothing personal.its a blood thing. and blood is thicker than water.

This one get serious problem o

Are you forgetting your nephews, aren't they your blood?

ubunja:
if you want to call me sticking with my brother "ruining him" then whatever!

chigoizie7:
From what I understood from all those their wahala.

It seems the so called wife has been troubling and causing wahala for the husband and the family knew about it. But she tot because she has kids for him that she can get away with anything. But she was wrong. The husband found peace and happiness somewhere else and it downed on her that she really fuuucked up and want him back.


She could have met the family of the guy to discuss their sons behavipur, but no, she went social media to get the sympathy of people who do not know the whole story.

I might be wrong.






But I have seen a man dying slowly because of what the slay mama wife is doing to him , even with all his money. Simply because the husband doesn't want to be a bad father to the kids if he sends her packing, even the wife's sister and mother knew their daughter and sister is fucking up. At some point the guy couldn't take it anymore, he sent her packing with a stipend.( the wife's sister came busing and did something wrong, the husband corrected and the wife took over , asking who gave the husband the right to scold his sister, na so this woman scatter everything inside a 3 bedroom flat , a house that is well furnished. The guy was bleeding because she fought him) neighbors came and took him out to calm him. That was why he sent her packing that he is no longer marrying again.


It is those that knew what the man went through that will support him. But others who just heard that the man sent his wife packing will call him evil and a wicked man.






So, my dear girl, what did u do to ur husband to the extent that his family are against u, even with the kids.

Thank you jare.

biacan:
Men are heartless

And women are soulless!

Sterope:
Are you forgetting your nephews, aren't they your blood?

my nephews are secondary.thats why they call me uncle NOT brother. my loyality is to that man who calls me brother.him i will forsake all else to stay true to.

delishpot:
This your brother na strong thing dey do am o. Wey be say instead of am to listen to logic he will rather dump you and his family as he dumped his wife and kids. Because of that you rather allow him enter fire than tell him the truth? Ngwanu, kwontinue.The demon wey dey control una destiny strong well well a family of blind leading the blind. Even your brother's kids are all callateral damage in your pursuit of personal gain. Make Bros no come cut your share of allawee from the abroad. Chai human goats na wa.... Ofh sorry human beans na wa ọ. Ngwanu kwontinue dey zuzu dey go. All these Bleep boys raised everywhere these days

we began as a family and we will end as a family. no one woman will ever break that.

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ubunja:
my nephews are secondary.thats why they call me uncle NOT brother. my loyality is to that man who calls me brother.him i will forsake all else to stay true to.

bolseas:
Thank you for the observation.

She is the one with issues abeg.

She really need to check herself...na she get wahala.

The other lady sef nice... I for insult her well well and block her proud a.s.s

as in ehn... the lady was now doing "sorry ma"
she get time....

BluntBoy:
That is wrong. Your brother's wife becomes your sister by marriage. She becomes a part of the family. The reason why she needs more support is even because of the fact that she is the newcomer.

Yh.

But she's the only new member of the family that can tap out whenever she's fed up by way of divorce and cart away whatever the Judge feels is good enough for her.

True, sister- and daughter-in-laws should be made to feel welcome. They should be supported. They should be well taken care of. But don't bring that newcomer/family BS. True family members can't drop the mic. She can.

And that's where his opinion stems from.

-Lord

BluntBoy:
That is wrong. Your brother's wife becomes your sister by marriage. She becomes a part of the family. The reason why she needs more support is even because of the fact that she is the newcomer.

NO.
my brother's wife is accepted as long as my brother accepts her. she is there in my brother's name and any support she gets is on condition that she stays on good books with our brother. should her relationship with our brother become sour,then we all become sour.
we are that family that breaks up with you when our sibling breaks up with you.

ubunja:
we began as a family and we will end as a family. no one woman will ever break that.

I no kukuma talk say no be so. the children began as enemies and they shall end like enemies too ba? They did not come into this world as your family, you guys just met them as strangers and took them home. Even adopted kids have value. I can't shout!