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Oyindidi:
Were you guys dating? I see no reason why a guy should pass the night in a lady's house. You are lucky he's not a rapist or a killer. Don't call this help

Dis one don carry over-sabi come be dat..

Oyindidi:
This one no be help jare. If I want help a total stranger, I go pay hotel for him

Like say you get money like dat.. Over-sabi, too-know sha... o ga oo.

Amarabae:
You accommodated a stranger guy you met on nairaland in your house and likely in ur room.
Hmmmm. That's risky.
What if he overpowered you and force himself on you.
BTW in a law court, you have no evidence to back up this accusation.

Over-sabi crew !

optional1:
Same person that try to dupe and he even dupe ivvy 2016 you self fall for em trap..





Una doooo

Na cos una get the money plenty that's why.

please tell us about it.

XingXhang:
This your story is like a lie. If it is, the consequences will be heavy!

am not forcing you or anyone else to believe me.
I can't count the number of strangers that I have helped this way both males and females.
as for the guy he will never amount to anything in life. never again will help come his way. may everything he worked for be stolen from him at the point of his merriment.

DrObum:
@Venica, why not report him to the police and other relevant authorities.
You know he'll go underground if he sees this thread but if you use law enforcement agents to fish him out, he'll learn his lessons.
I like dealing with people like this

I did. but all I hear is bring money for transport, bring money for recharge card

Oyindidi:
Were you guys dating? I see no reason why a guy should pass the night in a lady's house. You are lucky he's not a rapist or a killer. Don't call this help

succintly put

venica..
sorry for what you lossed.
regardless of what some people are saying, never stop rendering help, anyone who takes advantage of that has a big price to pay but just be careful. take care

ejikejoy:
I don't want to judge op because I did something like this late last year.

In one of my thread I posted , I was looking for a business partner and a guy contacted me,let me call him k, we talked on whatsapp and on phone. He said he wants to relocate to Lagos from ibadan and set up a business.

We decided he should come over to Lagos ,so that we can start up the business and for him to get his own apartment but meanwhile he will be living with me in my one room self contained .

He came on a Monday and stays for five days before he left, unfortunately we couldn't start up the business because of the money involves.

What I am trying to say is that op could be saying the truth because k actually stayed five days with me, we slept on the same bed and I make sure he was comfortable all through his stay but we didn't engaged ourselves in any sexual activities.

We gist,talked and hangout, I will leave him at home and I won't get scared. Maybe because I trust people easily �
The night before k left, he took me out and get some groceries for me and we still talk once in a while

Maybe I would have done same if I was in op shoe's.



Just saying!!!!!

and u are female as well i guess? Sister its dangerous inviting a strange man into ur room to spend the night with u for whatever reason.maybe u can do for a close male friend u trust but for a total male stranger...haba sister. U lucky the one that is a gentleman. What of if na man wey im head no dey road and he overpower u for night.are hotels so expensive to lodge these days? Na wao.

marklele:
venica..
sorry for what you lossed.
regardless of what some people are saying, never stop rendering help, anyone who takes advantage of that has a big price to pay but just be careful. take care

she could have rendered help by giving the man money to lodge in a hotel room.what of if the man had been a rapist or ritualist..omo na another story we for dey yarn.she is lucky she came out unarmed anyway.

ejikejoy:
I don't want to judge op because I did something like this late last year.

In one of my thread I posted , I was looking for a business partner and a guy contacted me,let me call him k, we talked on whatsapp and on phone. He said he wants to relocate to Lagos from ibadan and set up a business.

We decided he should come over to Lagos ,so that we can start up the business and for him to get his own apartment but meanwhile he will be living with me in my one room self contained .

He came on a Monday and stays for five days before he left, unfortunately we couldn't start up the business because of the money involves.

What I am trying to say is that op could be saying the truth because k actually stayed five days with me, we slept on the same bed and I make sure he was comfortable all through his stay but we didn't engaged ourselves in any sexual activities.

We gist,talked and hangout, I will leave him at home and I won't get scared. Maybe because I trust people easily �
The night before k left, he took me out and get some groceries for me and we still talk once in a while

Maybe I would have done same if I was in op shoe's.



Just saying!!!!!

U r the only mature person here

Wolves in sheep covering....but someone should ask OP what she aimed to achieve by hosting a male stranger. Whether pastor or imam? Well hope she has learnt her lesson after being "PATORized"

Venica:
am not forcing you or anyone else to believe me.
I can't count the number of strangers that I have helped this way both males and females.
as for the guy he will never amount to anything in life. never again will help come his way. may everything he worked for be stolen from him at the point of his merriment.

Do not curse...

Venica:
I did. but all I hear is bring money for transport, bring money for recharge card

Do you have a fiance?if you do is he aware of all what you stated here?

ejikejoy:
I don't want to judge op because I did something like this late last year.

In one of my thread I posted , I was looking for a business partner and a guy contacted me,let me call him k, we talked on whatsapp and on phone. He said he wants to relocate to Lagos from ibadan and set up a business.

We decided he should come over to Lagos ,so that we can start up the business and for him to get his own apartment but meanwhile he will be living with me in my one room self contained .

He came on a Monday and stays for five days before he left, unfortunately we couldn't start up the business because of the money involves.

What I am trying to say is that op could be saying the truth because k actually stayed five days with me, we slept on the same bed and I make sure he was comfortable all through his stay but we didn't engaged ourselves in any sexual activities.

We gist,talked and hangout, I will leave him at home and I won't get scared. Maybe because I trust people easily �
The night before k left, he took me out and get some groceries for me and we still talk once in a while

Maybe I would have done same if I was in op shoe's.



Just saying!!!!!

That's how people take needles risks and when the unwanted happens they will come here and start seeking sympathy. That is if they are still alive to tell their story. Look girl abi lady, nobody is saying you shouldn't shouldn't show hospitality but to a stranger and male at that? No no.... The saying that "this world is a wicked place" is not a bedtime story. Get that into your brain.

Venica:
while I do tried to help people in my own little way. no one knows tomorrow

don't give us that no one knows tomorrow trash joor. what happened in the midnight? now that the chips are down,you're now waking us with early morning call. If you want to help someone,why not lodge him in a nearby cheap guest house? and this one go get boyfriend o

Venica:
more pictures

you fell for his handsome face. Ugly people like me will send thousands of pm but you won't reply.

He's gone....count your losses and named them one by one

[quote author=donstan18 post=64082579][/quote]If you wanna live a good life, just serve God and he will do the rest for you

Venica:
am not forcing you or anyone else to believe me.
I can't count the number of strangers that I have helped this way both males and females.
as for the guy he will never amount to anything in life. never again will help come his way. may everything he worked for be stolen from him at the point of his merriment.

well,Venica. I was just clowning on my last comment . but never accommodate anybody you don't know again,never. we Yoruba's have a proverb that says Ore niwon "doing good has limit" you can give but this type of good is too dangerous,Nigeria itself is the most dangerous country in the world,don't pity anybody like that again,even if its an archbishop,don't be kind to that extent again. I fed a boy for 6months,took care of him since he had nobody,he slept at my house for months,he gained my trust because he intentionally didn't steal if I test him with money ,I took care of him but he paid me back by stealing my 80k later on and stole my android phone and ran into thin air. those thieves are all over and they present themselves like very nice persons,they make you trust you,they act nicely

BluntBoy:
Age has nothing to do with it, Victor.

When an old thief robs your people, does age come into the equation when justice is being decided?

Goodnight.

I know some of the pastors use the tithes to enrich themselves

Good morning boss

Twoclans:
Why would you accommodate a guy?

If he claims to be a pastor ,the possibility his church has a branch in a cosmopolitan city is very high.why can't his church members assist?

I don't believe this story.

she's lucky the guy didn't rape her....accommodating a total stranger in this naija

the guy even looks like a thief. what is handsome about this one,Venica sef no get taste. the guy looks like a clown.

Oyindidi:
Why did you accommodate a guy?

This was the reason why I was skeptical about accommodating that guy in ibadan the other time.

kennygee:
Fine boi wey dey thief.

He gave u the pastor line so you wouldn't see any reason to no accommodate him, man of God and all.

Kai. Na wa o.

your boyfriend must be very ugly if this one looks fine to you

TSOM:
I understand.
I'm on the whole indifferent about religion and its ritualistic practises too but take spirituality seriously.
Most folks have probably attended more church programmes last month than I have in the last fifteen months. But that spirituality should be fueled by the doctrines(?) of the Christian faith.

You are right, bro. But anyone not willing to take risk will never attain spiritual maturity. To begin that personal journey, it helps that one knows the essentials of the Christian faith, especially, the Sacrifice of Christ which reconciled us with God. That sacrifice gave us back the Life that Adam threw away in the Garden of Eden. That sacrifice freed us from the Wrath of the Law and the unnecessary rituals of religion. Most importantly, it gave us freedom. Freedom to seek the truth personally with the assurance that we would find it. That should be what a finished Christian product should look like. The disciples were trained, not to revert to the rituals of religion under the Law, but to preach the Good News that they witnessed, bring believers into the fold and guide them toward spiritual maturity. The goal has always been to emphasize spirituality over religiosity but pastors of today emphasize religiosity over spirituality and Christ called them thieves because they are stealing His flock for the purpose of fleecing them.

greiboy:
This was the reason why I was skeptical about accommodating that guy in ibadan the other time.

You are a guy, besides the op and the guy had some kind of connection.

lefulefu:
Though i don't trust most ppl who call themselves pastors but then this story get as e be. How a guy go just travel to another town and the next thing na to lodge inside a babe room wey he hook up for whatsap and Facebook.Op is this guy an ex that broke ur heart and u feel this is d way u had get ur revenge? Lalas247 and oyindidi make una come contribute o..

Hmmm let me read it ..

Oyindidi:
You are a guy, besides the op and the guy had some kind of connection.

No. it is the same thing. I can still be robbed or even encounter more terrible things. The guy didn't try over power her or something. I think the problem was caused when she allowed a total stranger into her house.

nezzar:
I know some of the pastors use the tithes to enrich themselves

Good morning boss

Goodmorning, bro.

I personally don't have anything against pastors collecting tithes. The problem I have with them is when they pervert the Word of God to justify the collection of tithes under the New Covenant which Christ purchased with His blood. The pastors can create means to service their greed but they should stop twisting the scriptures to support their false claims.

Take for instance, the seed sowing doctrine. A simple scripture about planting the Word (seed) of God is still been unabashedly twisted by pastors to justify the collection of seeds (money). This is sickening. And the sad thing is that they have a large following and many people hang on to the philosophy of these men instead of trusting on the Counsel of the Holy Spirit by studying the Word personally.

BluntBoy:
Goodmorning, bro.

I personally don't have anything against pastors collecting tithes. The problem I have with them is when they pervert the Word of God to justify the collection of tithes under the New Covenant which Christ purchased with His blood. The pastors can create means to service their greed but they should stop twisting the scriptures to support their false claims.

Take for instance, the seed sowing doctrine. A simple scripture about planting the Word (seed) of God is still been unabashedly twisted by pastors to justify the collection of seeds (money). This is sickening. And the sad thing is that they have a large following and many people hang on to the philosophy of these men instead of trusting on the Counsel of the Holy Spirit by studying the Word personally.

Honestly Bro I don't blame the members, Everyone is looking for a sharp miracle, So most pastors use that as a means of robbing the members of their hard earned money.