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makydebbie:
Lol, but I'm not looking for luck.

Even when we get people all caculated we expect to be lucky they do not change.

Why don't you close your eyes and jump with both feet into the river and hope it wouldnt be deep but shallow.

I understand we have that psychological need to give attention and love to people who have earned it, but how much more fun would life be if we only use our intellect at all times. We could try a deep dive sometimes since variety is the spice and luxury of life.

themonk:
Even when we get people all caculated we expect to be lucky they do not change.

Why don't you close your eyes and jump with both feet into the river and hope it wouldnt be deep but shallow.

I understand we have that psychological need to give attention and love to people who have earned it, but how much more fun would life be if we only use our intellect at all times. We could try a deep dive sometimes since variety is the spice and luxury of life.

Guy, you ehn

Zykod:
Where they interrogated? I didn't hear that o

They did. I think the man was later arrested.

While I don't think you should call anyone broke as an insult, you cannot compare it to calling women 'LovePeddler' or 'ashawo'.

Being broke is not something to be ashamed of, it's just part of the process. It only becomes an issue when you are not making legal efforts to go beyond it. So if someone calls you broke and you are actually broke, please don't feel bad. It's just a phase.
I'm in law school and I don't have a source of income, of course I am broke. Lol

Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually, and so you resort to insulting her person. It can't even hurt me, it's just your way of acknowledging I am smarter than you. You can't beat me, so you abuse me kinda thing.

Let's sha stop calling guys broke cos we are all broken in one way or the other. Lol

kimbraa:
They did. I think the man was later arrested.

OMG. Thunder fire that man. I didn't see that part in the video. But the comedian killed at Ikorodu wasn't given time to defend himself.

mrphysics:
God bless your brain. Nice comment. Again, God bless your brain.

Amen hun, and yours too.

majekdom2:
Men that are pained when called broke are men that are truly "broke". They are the ones that are broke mentally. Broke is a status and will always change anytime for an individual who is resilent, hardworking, focused and positive. If you do not have any attributes to make a successful man, then you can be pained when called broke. On the contrary, being a who*re is not a status. It's who you are. Being broke is an adjective- used in describing that person at that time, but a LovePeddler is a noun. It is what the person is. For instance, you cannot refer to a man who is now rich after being broke as a broke man. I mean you refer to him based on what he is now. But for a who*re, you can always call her that who*re. Infact, many times she will be called that regardless if she is changed.
So, it's worse for a who*re than for a broke man whose story can change

Broke guy

Zykod:
Well, stop pretending as being broke. You'll lose ladies you love. It's something i learnt 2017. The thing is many guys don't hold weight, a few that carry weight pretend to be broke, so it's not easy not to fall into the broke category. If you find a lady you love, come out plain, you're not in the broek category, you're not. No be after losing someone you like, e go dey pain you, i wished i had told her. Not all are drawn by money matters...But for the ones primarily addressing you as broke, flash her a screenshot...I intend doing this to a guy here who assumes i don't work...

This is true. There are people called the CV/Resume/Business guys. They are those that sing their status to women. Trust me, it is better we have a healthy discussion regardless of peoples financial status. If you are richer than me, there is still someone richer than you. So it doesn't make sense talking about finance.

Yes you are right. Taking the stance of being broke will make one lose some loved friends. There is this thing among guys, when they are together, they relate well, they only brag when they see/have ladies around them. Some people grew up in a background that everything is kept simple with everyone being equal literally.

You are right. But we should keep pushing for a healthy nairaland where people are safe to discuss without being called names.

Zykod:
Guy, you ehn

Wetin i do

Penthomi:
While I don't think you should call anyone broke as an insult, you cannot compare it to calling women 'LovePeddler' or 'ashawo'.

Being broke is not something to be ashamed of, it's just part of the process. It only becomes an issue when you are not making legal efforts to go beyond it. So if someone calls you broke and you are actually broke, please don't feel bad. It's just a phase.
I'm in law school and I don't have a source of income, of course I am broke. Lol

Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually, and so you resort to insulting her person. It can't even hurt me, it's just your way of acknowledging I am smarter than you. You can't beat me, so you abuse me kinda thing.

Let's sha stop calling guys broke cos we are all broken in one way or the other. Lol

Big lie @ Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually


I've never met intellectually sound Nigerian lady that will threaten me so badly i will call her a love peddler, haba, how many ladies are sound? Even the sound ones are not exceptional. Even so, why should it be a basis for calling her an ashewo.

mrphysics:
This is true. There are people called the CV/Resume/Business guys. They are those that sing their status to women. Trust me, it is better we have a healthy discussion regardless of peoples financial status. If you are richer than me, there is still someone richer than you. So it doesn't make sense talking about finance.

Yes you are right. Taking the stance of being broke will make one lose some loved friends. There is this thing among guys, when they are together, they relate well, they only brag when they see/have ladies around them. Some people grew up in a background that everything is kept simple with everyone being equal literally.

You are right. But we should keep pushing for a healthy nairaland where people are safe to discuss without being called names.

I have been thinking about your comments. Bros, we need upgrade our lifestyle and different ourselves from the broke guys simple. All this pretending to be broke thingey is becoming sickely, anyways i don't see myself been moved ever by any lady calling me broke or empty..Never, na insecurity go make a guy dey moved by such comment, or if he's truly broke, if you're broke you're broke, if you're not, you're not, that's hpw it works


Just separate yourself, in your presentation, aura, charisma, package, dressing and your outlook will speak for you. I know you want us to brag about financial prowess here, but please don't open that door, please


The CV/ Resume guys have the package,simply get yours too..Shikena



I think we should speak about finance a bit thesedays considering ladies want a comf landing and will respect you more for your financial earnings, so i'mgonna be more transparent in this aspect, na my new year resolution be this...

themonk:
Even when we get people all caculated we expect to be lucky they do not change.

Why don't you close your eyes and jump with both feet into the river and hope it wouldnt be deep but shallow.

I understand we have that psychological need to give attention and love to people who have earned it, but how much more fun would life be if we only use our intellect at all times. We could try a deep dive sometimes since variety is the spice and luxury of life.

I understand what you're saying and where you're coming from. But what if I'm lackadaisical about deep diving?
It would definitely be unfair to you when everything is 70-30.

Penthomi:
While I don't think you should call anyone broke as an insult, you cannot compare it to calling women 'LovePeddler' or 'ashawo'.

Being broke is not something to be ashamed of, it's just part of the process. It only becomes an issue when you are not making legal efforts to go beyond it. So if someone calls you broke and you are actually broke, please don't feel bad. It's just a phase.
I'm in law school and I don't have a source of income, of course I am broke. Lol

Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually, and so you resort to insulting her person. It can't even hurt me, it's just your way of acknowledging I am smarter than you. You can't beat me, so you abuse me kinda thing.

Let's sha stop calling guys broke cos we are all broken in one way or the other. Lol

Thank you.
Imagine being in school and as you are making effort to improve your gp ahead of graduation, someone constantly tells you that you are not intelligent. Yes it can be encouraging but the person will feel bad as at the time he is addressed as such. I strongly think that there are ways to encourage someone without calling them names.

Yes, you might think you are smarter than someone that called you a who.re or ashawo. Yet, at that very point and to that persons, you are not happy he did. So the best is to seek for a way to completely avoid it.

Zykod:
Big lie @ Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually


I've never met intellectually sound Nigerian lady that will threaten me so badly i will call her a love peddler, haba, how many ladies are sound? Even the sound ones are not exceptional. Even so, why should it be a basis for calling her an ashewo.

I did not say all men do that. I said sometimes. That you won't descend to that level does not mean some dumb guy wouldn't.
How many ladies are sound? Please, restrict yourself to the ladies you know or meet.

mrphysics:
Thank you.
Imagine being in school and as you are making effort to improve your gp ahead of graduation, someone constantly tells you that you are not intelligent. Yes it can be encouraging but the person will feel bad as at the time he is addressed as such. I strongly think that there are ways to encourage someone without calling them names.

Yes, you might think you are smarter than someone that called you a who.re or ashawo. Yet, at that very point and to that persons, you are not happy he did. So the best is to seek for a way to completely avoid it.

Life sucks bro. You're trying to clean the world. I tried, guess what i failed. We'll always have issues that need cleaning in this world of ours

pocohantas:
If you're broke, you're broke.
If you're not, you're not.

If you're an ashawo, you're an ashawo.
If you're not, you are not.

You either wear your tag proudly, defend yourself, play along or you ignore.

Majority of Nigerians are broke anyway.
Why the fuss? We're all broke.

first sensible comment

Penthomi:
I did not say all men do that. I said sometimes. That you won't descend to that level does not mean some dumb guy wouldn't.
How many ladies are sound? Please, restrict yourself to the ladies you know or meet.

I've addressed a lady wronglfully once, but it was in the heat of the moment.About the smartness thingey, i wouldn't mind putting it to test.What's your I.Q.? What's your major? I've hardly met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies all my life.

mrphysics:
Lol. Nice one. Please kindly include the following

5. How many nairalanders do you pay or have you given money

6. Can you train anyone in school

7. Do you earn more than a level 10 federal worker?

8. .....

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(9) They must upload a pic as evidence, whenever they purchase anything worth more than 10k ......like that @ airforce1 guy.

mrphysics:
Thank you.
Imagine being in school and as you are making effort to improve your gp ahead of graduation, someone constantly tells you that you are not intelligent. Yes it can be encouraging but the person will feel bad as at the time he is addressed as such. I strongly think that there are ways to encourage someone without calling them names.

Yes, you might think you are smarter than someone that called you a who.re or ashawo. Yet, at that very point and to that persons, you are not happy he did. So the best is to seek for a way to completely avoid it.

You can't always avoid it. Horrible people will always come our way, and say horrible things to us for no reason. We just have to build a self esteem so strong that their words won't penetrate. We have to learn to deal with it.

Penthomi:
You can't always avoid it. Horrible people will always come our way, and say horrible things to us for no reason. We just have to build a self esteem so strong that their words won't penetrate. We have to learn to deal with it.

Horrible moments, not people. Even the nicest people have deep spaces that needs to be filled. Did you read about the achievements of Hitler before the world war? Historians are quick to point that if Hitler had died before the world war, or retired, or resigned, he would have been celebrated till today, there's evil in the best of good men, there's good in the worst of evil men

ba7man:
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(9) They must upload a pic as evidence, whenever they purchase anything worth more than 10k ......like that @ airforce1 guy.

I dey look Airforce one i dy laff, i will burst his bubble this year if his maddness continues

makydebbie:
I understand what you're saying and where you're coming from. But what if I'm lackadaisical about deep diving?
It would definitely be unfair to you when everything is 70-30.

You have always been, everybody is. Its harder to try out things for the first time, especially things that are not logical. It is stupid actually but then a normal life is boring. Old people regret what the didnt do not what they did. How far can we go by going round the same loop of picking the best characters and then discorvery our algorithm is wrong or the character got boring.

Maybe intuition or randomness have metaphysical value. What is even randomness?

If i chose a ball from twelve balls in a basket, why would i say it is a random choice when i cannot go back in time and try the same exercise to see if i would pick a different ball. What if randomness depends on time?

So we can never know the metaphysical importance of a moment or random decision until we try it. Dont be scared, our future is well written. Go random, maybe once.

Zykod:
I have been thinking about your comments. Bros, we need upgrade our lifestyle and different ourselves from the broke guys simple. All this pretending to be broke thingey is becoming sickely, anyways i don't see myself been moved ever by any lady calling me broke or empty..Never, na insecurity go make a guy dey moved by such comment, or if he's truly broke, if you're broke you're broke, if you're not, you're not, that's hpw it works


Just separate yourself, in your presentation, aura, charisma, package, dressing and your outlook will speak for you. I know you want us to brag about financial prowess here, but please don't open that door, please


The CV/ Resume guys have the package,simply get yours too..Shikena



I think we should speak about finance a bit thesedays considering ladies want a comf landing and will respect you more for your financial earnings, so i'mgonna be more transparent in this aspect, na my new year resolution be this...

You are just making some assumptions about me which is completely not true. So forget that part.

Secondly, how can I be moved when someone call me a broke guy. I am not.

This is just a forum and someone has already captured that we strive to get a healthy nairaland where everyone will be allowed to talk without fear.

In reality, being broke is subjective. In that case, I am a broke guy and will continue to strive for a financial change of levels bro.

You really need to pity for guys who are being called broke. You see, the reason why freeze is talking about tithing is not because he pays tithe but because he cares for people that pay (his personal opinion). Ladies are more united and they speak in one voice. Anyway it doesn't matter.

If you have seen people fight themselves because of their finances on nairaland and you are comfortable, then something is wrong

Zykod:
I've addressed a lady wronglfully once, but it was in the heat of the moment.About the smartness thingey, i wouldn't mind putting it to test.What's your I.Q.? What's your major? I've hardly met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies all my life.

See what we are saying. While we are advocating that we should stop calling our men broke, he goes a step further by saying Nigerian women are dumb and has not met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies.

There sha must be something about you attracting to you or attracting you to 'dumb Nigerian ladies'.

themonk:
You have always been, everybody is. Its harder to try out things for the first time, especially things that are not logical. It is stupid actually but then a normal life is boring. Old people regret what the didnt do not what they did. How far can we go by going round the same loop of picking the best characters and then discorvery our algorithm is wrong or the character got boring.

Maybe intuition or randomness have metaphysical value. What is even randomness?

If i chose a ball from twelve balls in a basket, why would i say it is a random choice when i cannot go back in time and try the same exercise to see if i would pick a different ball. What if randomness depends on time?

So we can never know the metaphysical importance of a moment or random decision until we try it. Dont be scared, our future is well written. Go random, maybe once.

Boss, what is thy problem? Why are thou derailing the thread of thy maiden servant?

Penthomi:
See what we are saying. While we are advocating that we should stop calling our men broke, he goes a step further by saying Nigerian women are dumb and has not met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies.

There sha must be something about you attracting to you or attracting you to 'dumb Nigerian ladies'.

I dont have time for dumb and smart ladies alike, where the time? I'm not discriminating, simply stating a fact. Jesus said one greater than the Temple is here, it wasn't ascribed as sin. This is the problem with intelligence, we get too analytical and find fault in virtually anything. Intelligent people suffer from having too much of it, which is another turn -down that dissuade me from associating with people with seemingly too much intelligence, take a chill pill. For emphasis, i havn't met more than 5 intelligent chicks, perhaps my standard may be the problem.


Trust me i've met from doctors to nuclear physicst post graduate to lawyers, they didn't qualify to me as intelligent ladies, so why suchit be my problem?

Penthomi:
You can't always avoid it. Horrible people will always come our way, and say horrible things to us for no reason. We just have to build a self esteem so strong that their words won't penetrate. We have to learn to deal with it.

Sure. Thanks ma'am and a happy sunday to you

themonk:
You have always been, everybody is. Its harder to try out things for the first time, especially things that are not logical. It is stupid actually but then a normal life is boring. Old people regret what the didnt do not what they did. How far can we go by going round the same loop of picking the best characters and then discorvery our algorithm is wrong or the character got boring.

Maybe intuition or randomness have metaphysical value. What is even randomness?

If i chose a ball from twelve balls in a basket, why would i say it is a random choice when i cannot go back in time and try the same exercise to see if i would pick a different ball. What if randomness depends on time?

So we can never know the metaphysical importance of a moment or random decision until we try it. Dont be scared, our future is well written. Go random, maybe once.

Too much metaphysics will do you damage. Trust me i'm retired. Been there

ba7man:
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(9) They must upload a pic as evidence, whenever they purchase anything worth more than 10k ......like that @ airforce1 guy.

Ayam not understanding

mrphysics:
Boss, what is thy problem? Why are thou derailing the thread of thy maiden servant?

Boss i am sorry

Zykod:
Too much metaphysics will do you damage. Trust me i'm retired. Been there

Better come back

themonk:
Better come back

Lol. Phyics is more fun, sowwie