And along the line, he didn't notice her level of intelligence? When its not an emergency relationship.

Stevengerd:
all i knw is Abu Zaria offer local govt studies.

Even OAU does.

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say, you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

Modified.
The laws of attraction says "Likes attract" unlike your physics law that states that "Opposite attract". I wasn't the one that stipulated that law so get a grip of yourself while giving me stupid mention just to come off intelligent. Google is of help if you need an elaborate explanation.

You know you did not stipulate the law why then concluding that you attract what you are when you do not fully understand the law. For the record, the law of attraction in physics does not support your shitty psychology law of attraction. In school, if u so good in a course, u see the not too good ones coming to u to tutor them. I have seen a lot of couples meeting that way.

Beauty without brains.

As you like the beauty which must have attracted you. ...No worry just marry her, later you can buy Intelligence software and install in her brain.

Ju gbu kwa onwe gi ajuju.

kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.

Wah exactly is the problem? Why can't you profer solutions, or better still walk away?? I think we need to iron things out.

Wat bothers the writer has once bothered me before,. My girl is beautiful and respectful as well but she is not intelligent, I mean she has 3% IQ compare to me. To change a woman is very difficult has for me I relocated her in a city, bought her plasma TV with DSTV, Android phone and the rest and I encouraged her to read just has some people advised but all to no avail. In some situations, I stand the chance to be corrected about some issues all I hear from her was no idea. Today we were blessed with a kid but the unfortunately aspects of it was that she used to complained that I got angry with everything Everyone has certain things he is looking for in a woman if yours is intelligence, please follow your heart.

YungPrinzz:


Wah exactly is the problem? Why can't you profer solutions, or better still walk away?? I think we need to iron things out.

I did na. Dude is a reflection of his girlfriend so they should manage themselves.

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say, you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

Modified.
The laws of attraction says "Likes attract" unlike your physics law that states that "Opposite attract". I wasn't the one that stipulated that law so get a grip of yourself while giving me stupid mention just to come off intelligent. Google is of help if you need an elaborate explanation.

I would have liked to see your picture pro. 2 know who's talking?

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

1stly i dont believe anyone is stupid except the person whos not willing to learn!!!! I believe in helping others be the best version of themselves. So yes i can!

I will rather marry a responsible decent lady dat gives me piece of mind than an intelligent nightmare! My intelligence will sharpen her most definitely. Peace of mind from a woman will help u pursue ur bigger dreams if ure not lazy.

An inteligent woman is a plus especially if ure not self intelligent or a bigger thinker bt if ur are the ladies intelligence is not a grand factor i think sofar she allows me to focus and work! Cheers

shogsman:
Get her an extra tutor or something

You just said my mind

unintelligent in which area

dollyjoy:
What if I tell you there are flaws in you she is trying to put up with because she loves you? Every human has flaws,if you consider her intellectual shallowness as a deal breaker. Please take a walk. Thank you and God bless you.

Why 're you taking dis personally?

Your children will share her DNA..hmmmm

buy books for her

KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

thanks for educating d infant dat shys away from his responsibility

kimbraa:
I did na. Dude is a reflection of his girlfriend so they should manage themselves.

lol. It's well oh.

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

bruv am sailing the same boat with you oh ... I have dated an intelligent girl before but then she had this proclivity for liberalism ,promiscuity , feminism name it , then I found this one shes humble, loyal , caring but shes dumb ..am just confused why life go just dey like this

Everyone chatting crap since.

Nobody remembers to tell the poor sod that you're primarily not in relationship to "change" your partner.

Real change will only come from within or given the right stimulus, change will come from your partner of her own will. Any other arrangement will lead to you building a Frankenstein. You're definitely supposed to be a positive influence but not to the level of APC's kinda change!

If true love cannot blind you to her flaws while all you hold dear are her beloved features that trip you, then leave her be! Don't make it your life duty to "change" her!

For instance, the Ineffable Love of my life, my Frenchy Buttercup, my life's very Garnet of grace and beauty, my garland of love's triumph, My #FrenzyDuchess of life; we're a match made in heaven.

I would've loved her warts and all even if she had humongous warts, in fact, popping her pimple-heads would've been my favorite pastime, but she has none. And I love her all the more still.

She's my life's very breath, because SHE IS MY SOUL MATE!

fedorahat:


Of course conversation helps.
The thing that tends to be issues is direction of conversation, the OP might be looking for who will discuss politics, man u/ Chelsea, latest Android iPhone with him, the babe might be looking towards Simis dress, Iya basiras cooking....etc.

Lovely Sunday to you too.

Funny thing is my hubby and I talk about all the things you mentioned, with varying degrees of knowledge, I know more about some things than he does and vice versa, so we both keep on learning. It's good fun.

IdeyFindWife:
Everyone chatting crap since.

Nobody remembers to tell the poor sod that you're primarily not in relationship to "change" your partner.

Real change will only come from within or given the right stimulus, change will come from your partner of her own will. Any other arrangement will lead to you building a Frankenstein. You're definitely supposed to be a positive influence but not to the level of APC's kinda change!

If true love cannot blind you to her flaws while all you hold dear are her beloved features that trip you, then leave her be! Don't make it your life duty to "change" her!

True talk

fedorahat:


Like I say, everyone has a preference.
People evolve
I was once a chatterbox, this days I find it exhausting to be in the midst of people.
My preference over time has changed, and I believe that of my partner.
One thing I know is I am willing to sacrifice.

Fair point. Sacrifice, key word....

donstan18:


Rule of which thumb ma'am, how do you mean?

-You can be intelligent but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be rich but dates a poor person.
-You can be Godly but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be neat but dates someone who isn't .
-You can be ugly but dates a handsome/beautiful fellow.

Are the above listed instances not unlikely attraction?

If "Like" attracts “Like", why then do men marry women instead of their fellow gender?

To the OP, build your woman into whatever you wishes her to be, so long as you love and cherish her.

The most important thing is that she has manners, it's very necessary in a woman and important to any man.

you nailed it...

Dude, make sure you don't spoil that girl for her rightful husband whom will love her as she is.

This is interesting

Speak with the girl....intelligence is acquired and not inborn...

Bro, Don't say a Course is Useless,What Have u the audacity to say that, Some course that where tagged useful that time is now' Useless' Now..How pathetic,Ur I. Q is low too because u think say The course u dey
do and Grade where u get go Give u Ur Desired Job.Abi the business My So called 'Pass' Grade Guy in school is it not better than my Own Job that my 'Good' grade Got me. What u have to do is to Make sure U guys discuss a lot about things, Give her Books,Sign up on Quora,Nairaland..watch Good movies(Historical ones help) and tell her every 3 days,Tell her U want her to tell u what she Learnt from the Chapters she has Read.. Do all these and see changes in Ur IQ sef go change.. But not too much o! Women once they See say Dem better pass u,Dem no see need to be in the relationship.(Sad Truth) so Make money,Work on ur self and Upgrade her to ur own level bro. Thank u

She's more of value than what you are looking at.

Beautiful + Brain + Manner = Perfect

Beautiful + Brain - Manner = Regretable

Beautiful - Brain + Manner = Manageable

Not Beautiful + Brain + Manner = Maybe, but!!

Not Beautiful + Brain - Manner = Surely not

Not Beautiful - Brain + Manner = Umm!

Not Beautiful - Brain - Manner = Run for your life

Op! Make your choice, whatever life throw at you. In life, everything is relative. She could be worse.
What if you got:

Beautiful + 1/2Brain + 1/2 Manner

ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.

In other words you need her for nothing other than sex?

ak22:


You can see that you are not intelligent <b>has </b>OP girlfriend . please try to contribute by saying meaningful word .

AS

KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

You are so good. You just made my day.

Next2Bezee:


With that mediocre level of reasoning, you can't possibly possess any sort of intellect as well.



You have already disgraced yourself and still refused to keep quiet.

The evidence of the existence of the 'laws of attraction' is anecdotal and made up like the crap you just posted. It isn't even real.

Reference: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-blame-game/201609/the-truth-about-the-law-attraction

you can say it again