So I should run to any successful lady that is 30 and above if she is married

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

Here is one of those women. Date her at your own peril.

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

We want women with good attitude

broke guy can not hear that

habsydiamond:
Truth is bitter...if a girl does not have a guy at the age of 30 and she's ok in everything.... something is wrong somewhere...maybe her behaviour or spiritual things

Wow. So she can't be focusing on her career, "working on herself" or waiting for the right one to cross her path? You all make it sound like women are spoiled for choice, when in fact, there're hardly any guys worth dating nowadays. Hence some women may choose to focus on themselves, rather than have a string of failed relationships. Before you point fingers, take in the entire picture into consideration. The pickings are slim out there.

Some of these ladies were victims of heartbreak.

Some had very long relationships that ended up being broken.

I've met a doctor with a fiancee living in the UK. He hadn't returned to tie the knot, and she was waiting.

Don't generalize.

Weyrey....

LoJ:

Why would you want to control a woman in the first place?

Because he believes his dick gave him the right to control any human without one.

If I May Ask Why?
Even If She's Above 40, I Won't Run,

olabrad:


We want women with good attitude

You must have a good one yourself 1st. No person is gonna give you attitude if you're a good boy.

Chai

This one na bad market for my aunty ujunwa

Well, from the rants on this thread, I can easily pinpoint all the ladies who are up to 30 years and above...

I didn't say successful o!

I just said 30 years and above

Ladies like khasome and jigba

LordKO:
Misconception and misinformation at its peak. Success can never make a good lady (person) to become bad. In fact, sane and sound people tend to become more refined as they attains greater heights in life.

It's obvious that the OP has mistakenly likened characteristics of aristocratic (successful/independent) ladies for toxicity - a small-minded person will surely do.

Aristocratic ladies and sagaciousness are inseparable, and nothing irritates a small-minded person like such.

Poverty makes one humble
While
Wealth makes one exhibit he's or her true character

The lady is right.

Bitter truth

BluntBoy:


Here is one of those women. Date her at your own peril.

I wish.

But thanks for the compliment, sweety.

people dy react more than they create in this country....if d lady no get money,na another wahala,a theorem cnt work for everybody tho,,

I thought guys like successful women? if the girl is a gold digger now,they will bash her. Guys don't know what they want. They insult dependent women and run away from independent women.

XhosaNostra:


You must have a good one yourself 1st. No person is gonna give you attitude if you're a good boy.

You seem to love early morning lies, right? It's part of most of you to put up baseless attitude and drama when you are approached, even when the man approaches you respectably. Some of you are so unreasonable that you just walk out on people trying to get to know you. If Care isn't taken, the proud will soon become the most humble

Let those with ears. . .

delishpot:
Another woman basher. Who broke his arrogant heart? He probably felt intimidated by the womans success and wanted to lord it over her to prove he is boss irrespective of her personal success as a human being but because she doesnt need his cash (which is typically the controlling tool) she put him where he belonged and now he is crying foul. Some lazy men sef.

get off your head my dear. Trash the message not the messenger.

I work in a corporate environment and what he posted is fact.

We dey see them for office wella

sekem:
Chai

This one na bad market for my aunty ujunwa

Well, from the rants on this thread, I can easily pinpoint all the ladies who are up to 30 years and above...

I didn't say successful o!

I just said 30 years and above

Ladies like khasoyme and jgigba

Lol, yes I'm above 30 and successful

maxiuc:
Even 40yrs bring them come

A woman of 30yrs still dey Fresh na

Am diappointed in this terrorpist

There is this lady in my Area sometimes we get to bumb into each other in the estate shopping Mall every evening she owns a car and works in a bank Skye precisely each time I go there I see she can't stop looking at me anytime any day I don't mind saying hi to her someday

Inferiority complex

XhosaNostra:


Wow. So she can't be focusing on her career, "working on herself" or waiting for the right one to cross her path? You all make it sound like women are spoiled for choice, when in fact, there're hardly any guys worth dating nowadays. Hence some women may choose to focus on themselves, rather than have a string of failed relationships. Before you point fingers, take in the entire picture into consideration. The pickings are slim out there.

waiting for the right choice at 30 is like leaving a husband material guy at 25 to ending up with a boyfriend material as husband at 30+....it's goddamn late mehnn

olabrad:


You seem to love early morning lies, right? It's part of most of you to put up baseless attitude and drama when you are approached, even when the man approaches you respectably. Some of you are so unreasonable that you just walk out on people trying to get to know you. If Care isn't taken, the proud will soon become the most humble

I'm glad you said "some". So what untruths am I spitting out if you also admit that the said behaviour only applies to some?

I for one can never give a guy attitude unless he gives me one 1st. Fair game.

If you rich successful, [b] CONFIDENT[/b]and open minded you wouldn't have problems with a lady who is above 30, successful and independent.

Such ladies you have to let them be free, do your thing let them do theirs, but be there for each other emotionally and physically. You definitely can't expect all the things you would get from an house wife. Me personally i like a lady who is emotionally and financially independent it makes my life a lot easier. She won't be worried that I don't call every second of a day because she knows - I'm busy making money just the same way she is too.

Ps: Not all successful guys are confident, most deal with an underlying inferiority complex that is hard to shake off.

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

They are confused beings. More confused than the females they claim to be. What we usually hear is; she must be career driven, loyal, and rich but once a lady possess these qualities and she's single, she automatically becomes a problem but if the reverse was the case, then she's a gold-digging whöre no man should associate with. What a confused gender!.

XhosaNostra:


I'm glad you said "some". So what untruths am I spitting out if you also admit that the said behaviour only applies to some?

I for one can never give a guy attitude unless he gives me one 1st. Fair game.

Keep it up

Thank God she is a Nigerian cos this is not rhe same elsewhere

The problem here is poverty. Owning a car, apartment and career while single and over 30 makes one have a bad attitude.

It's normal abroad, does it mean they all have bad attitude?

Would you rather she is broke, single and over 30?

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

See one of dem