metroid:

I want to be friends with you too

you're free deariie

Darksider131:
Lots of demons are commenting here, beware not all are humans on the internet, dont listen to those comments.

Dont accept homosexual, cause if you do you will die horrible and then you suffer horribly eternity to enternity.

You can start celibacy and live your life for God than to live a disgusting life.


To those encouraging him to embrace homosexual, may your sons be homosexuals

In my coming to Nigeria the climate of the country just seems sort of negative towards new or different things or ideologies. I just want these 3 months to pass by quickly so I can get out of this country.

Shankieboy:
I was never molested.
I was never initiated.
My orientation started since nursery school.
Gayism wasn't even a thing then.
It was never learned.
I never knew I wasn't alone till years ago.

There are basically 2 types of gays those dat got it biologically and thise that got it via alternative interactions. Urs seems to be the latter.

If u had this since nursery as u claim tho dats quite early to start feeling such ur parents already know rite or wrong?

Now let me tell u this in every Human there is a male and female chromosomes or gene, wen u have a dormant male gene ur a man and wen u have a female dominant gene of female. How ever there are variations to this smtmes. Ur level of testosterone or estrogen plays a part in all this also. U can deal with this alone talk to somebody close tonu who can be unbiased and help u find urself.

Sm people want to drag u to joining gays and others condemning it bt everything comes down to u and wat u chose after all options are looked at properly. Cheers

U just need counseling/prayer to be free.. Cos to me it is VERY BAD TO FEEL UR FELLOW MAN... Period!

spankyflex:
useless fool,why will I do that, I have better medium of airing my support. fool can't sink that low.so gerrahia

Deranged mind if you know what you doing is right go and announce to your family members if they will not beat homo out of your twisted mind. Oloshi even low animals get sense pass you, your own don finish oloriburuku, better change before thunder roast your left ball

LordAdam16:


Armchair psychologist!

Tuale chairman.

Oya bring your research that proves homosexuality is a learned behavior, since you're certified to carry out psychological and sociological intervention. This is how you guys would just ruin someone else's life in the name of sh*t beliefs.

-Lord

oga every personality disposition is a learned behaviour because interaction with our environment shapes our personality. since you want to deflate my point you should have presented a superior argument.have you been erudited?

fifty5:
oga every personality disposition is a learned behaviour because interaction with our environment shapes our personality. since you want to deflate my point you should have presented a superior argument.have you been erudited?

It is not true,blind people know how to laugh,where did they learn that from,children immediately they are born cry,where did they learn that

You're Gay brah... embrace it...


Or stay single forever... shikena...

Shukusheka:
As much as a I don't want to, I just find gays disgusting and outright repugnant. Does that make me homophobic, I don't care anymore, wallahi.

You can be whatever you want to be in secret but the moment you start putting your homosexuality in our face and trying to force its normalcy down our throat, I would be the first person to get a big stick and make sure you are clubbed to death.

I _fucking detest gays!

and what makes you different from bokoharam? Nothing.. I hope one day you
Get killed by them for not sharing their sentiments

Bro, I'll advice you to pray harder. Homosexual is wrong in the sight of God. Remember sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of this same very act. Good luck!

NwaAmaikpe:



People think I am partial because I love lesbians and detest gays.

Don't think I am judging you because I already did.
All homosexuals will go to hell but lesbians will not because they are naturally wired to be at least bisexual.

Sadly, you can't change who you are. It's ingrained in your chromosomes.
You were predestined to be amongst the condemned.

Just enjoy your life and embrace who you are while you await your judgement in the afterlife.

I wonder how this made sense to you. What a pattern of thought!

@OP Pls embrace who you are, you're a gay, that's who you are, you can't outplay nature. Just live your life, but play low key especially if you're in this shithole
country called Nigeria. Before they Lynch you.

Ps: I'm so so so fvckingly straight, as matter of fact, I luv pussies so much, so no gay nigga should pm me pls.

I am very surprise with the kind of comments am seeing here. Truly, we are living in a crazy world.

Let me try to make try to explain this to those who care

naturally heterosexual people don't like homosexuality, and I also discovered that homosexual people don't like heterosuality,there is no problem with that,as human beings there are things we like and there are things we don't like,we are.biased,that is completely natural,where the problem lies is when you starting acting on your bias and start treating people badly. You shouldn't judge others based on your own preferences otherwise u would also be a victim of another person's prejudice.The reason I condemn homophobia is not just to stop the I'll treatment of gay people,you see every one of us or at least most of us find ourselves in one social minority group or the other the minority could be as a result of religious denomination,ethnicity, genotype,height,physical appearance,size,financial status and so many others
If we can not learn to love ourselves irrespective of our various differences it would be difficult to achieve a peaceful society,if everyone was allowed to discriminate the class of people s/he doesn't like I don't know what Nigeria would look like,that is why we homophobic Nigerians are rushing to go to Western countries even though they embrace and treat gay people the same way as "straight" people

You are not gay YOU ARE EITHER ASEXUAL OR JUST PLAIN INTROVERTED which kinda restricts people getting out of their comfort zones which involves ur own gender cos socialising with the opposite gender is naturally uncomfortable that is why guys get to learn and practise pick up lines and how to strike a convo with a gal.

You can still let gayism pull you on just don't think you can get flattered by it.

BTW YOU CAN BECOME CELIBATE OR BE WITH A MATURED LADY WHO KNOWS HOW TO MAKE LOVE NOT JUST BORING SEX FROM SLAY QUEENS

fifty5:
oga every personality disposition is a learned behaviour because interaction with our environment shapes our personality. since you want to deflate my point you should have presented a superior argument.have you been erudited?

No sh*t.

So you're trying to say that introversion is a learned behavior as well. Since every personality disposition is a learned behavior? Can you hear yourself?

The nature versus nurture debate is not an equation. If it were, all psychosocial observations would be uniform.

Don't use words you have no idea of, because they sound knowledge-y.

-Lord

Bullhari007:
gerrout of here, homosexuality is personal decision , the young man is heading into damnation and astray instead of u guys to condemn it you choose to attribute it to God will... been ideal and watching porn contribute 90% of illicit act, when you are busy ur mindset won't be that sexually active, watching porn arose men... if you don't know what to say just sharrap before I shut it up for you

You need a lobotomy for saying homosexuality is a personal decision even after reading OPs story.
Condemn what? He is just not fuc.king attracted to pussy.
I ask you again zombie, do you think anyone would CHOOSE to be gay in a homophobic country like Nigeria?

Those of you christians citing the Bibles condemnation for homosexuality,I hope you remember the story of Jesus and Mary Magdalene where Jesus said that only those without a sin should raise a stone,meanwhile since homosexuals are a common enemy everyone is now flexing spiritual muscle,if we carefully examine your life,you are far worse than the Op if at all he is bad as u claim he is,and remembere what the book of James said if you fail one law you are guilty of all,so if you engage in exam malpractice, tell lies,have premarital sex and you condemn the Op you are a HYPOCRITE

chinnyonwu:

You need a lobotomy for saying homosexuality is a personal decision even after reading OPs story.
Condemn what? He is just not fuc.king attracted to pussy.
I ask you again zombie, do you think anyone would CHOOSE to be gay in a homophobic country like Nigeria?

Exactly the point,why would someone CHOOSE to be gay in Nigeria of all countries

Shankieboy:
thank you, Queen. Already added you on Facebook.

I hope I come to terms with my Sexuality soon. Don't know if I ever would.

please don't allow the hate comments get to you. You are perfect the way you are !

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

Get spiritual books and materials. Cos what you need at this point is not just zeal and readiness to stop but also knowledge on “how to stop"

mvem:
...any solution?... Even the white man with renowned psychologists struggled with homosexual solutions for years, to no avail...that's why now they just accept it

Which of them accepted it? The LGBTQ minority who lobby like mad all day and night?

Abeg, go and see how they are treated in this your society that you say accepted it.

Nobody accepts them. But they are a political weapon used in the West, very much like boko Haram.

jaxxy:


There are basically 2 types of gays those dat got it biologically and thise that got it via alternative interactions. Urs seems to be the latter.

If u had this since nursery as u claim tho dats quite early to start feeling such ur parents already know rite or wrong?

Now let me tell u this in every Human there is a male and female chromosomes or gene, wen u have a dormant male gene ur a man and wen u have a female dominant gene of female. How ever there are variations to this smtmes. Ur level of testosterone or estrogen plays a part in all this also. U can deal with this alone talk to somebody close tonu who can be unbiased and help u find urself.

Sm people want to drag u to joining gays and others condemning it bt everything comes down to u and wat u chose after all options are looked at properly. Cheers

You sound even more biased than one can ever imagine. The nigga told you he never learnt this, his whole chemestry and body cells push him further towards gayism despite the practice is against his belief as a Christian. You'are not in his shoes, so don't address his issue as though u got a clue. He obviously is depressed cos he feels he is abnormal when actually he is very much normal, just that our primitive society just hasn't come to term with the fact that homosexuality is natural and not some fvcking sin as religious bullcrap tend to make us swallow

Daeylar:


Honestly I don't see anything wrong.
So no issues if they are gay or lesbian

Would you have a problem with a serial killer child? Guess you would embrace it. After all...

It is an innate thing they are born with. If one is born with it, it can't be wrong. Right?

%

jmichael259:
You are not gay YOU ARE EITHER ASEXUAL OR JUST PLAIN INTROVERTED which kinda restricts people getting out of their comfort zones which involves ur own gender cos socialising with the opposite gender is naturally uncomfortable that is why guys get to learn and practise pick up lines and how to strike a convo with a gal.

You can still let gayism pull you on just don't think you can get flattered by it.

BTW YOU CAN BECOME CELIBATE OR BE WITH A MATURED LADY WHO KNOWS HOW TO MAKE LOVE NOT JUST BORING SEX FROM SLAY QUEENS

Say what you know.

Asexual people don't have sexual attraction for anyone or anything for that matter. And there are heterosexual introverted people (like me).

You are not god's gift to mankind. That you don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. There are people who understand music as colors (synesthesia), and those who understand numbers as shapes (some savants). They're not f*cked up, because most of us are not like them. They are special, great, amazing people.

You guys should f*cking read and learn more about the world you live in and the people, animals, and things you share it with. Don't stay in your echo chamber with your ignorant self and then start projecting misinformation because you expanded your diction.

Don't understand anything. Read about it, watch a video, listen to a podcast. Your purpose in life is not to eat, sleep, and f*ck (and make a living to support that dreadful lifestyle).

-Lord

jmichael259:
You are not gay YOU ARE EITHER ASEXUAL OR JUST PLAIN INTROVERTED which kinda restricts people getting out of their comfort zones which involves ur own gender cos socialising with the opposite gender is naturally uncomfortable that is why guys get to learn and practise pick up lines and how to strike a convo with a gal.

You can still let gayism pull you on just don't think you can get flattered by it.

BTW YOU CAN BECOME CELIBATE OR BE WITH A MATURED LADY WHO KNOWS HOW TO MAKE LOVE NOT JUST BORING SEX FROM SLAY QUEENS

You don't just believe some people are born gay, do you Then you still got alot to learn!

spankyflex:
meaning?

You are dis gay ting

FluidQueen:
since we're asking dumb, redundant questions.


How tf is it even possible? To be feeling your opposite sex?

Interesting!

joe4christ:


You sound even more biased than one can ever imagine. The nigga told you he never learnt this, his whole chemestry and body cells push him further towards gayism despite the practice is against his belief as a Christian. You'are not in his shoes, so don't address his issue as though u got a clue. He obviously is depressed cos he feels he is abnormal when actually he is very much normal, just that our primitive society just hasn't come to term with the fact that homosexuality is natural and not some fvcking sin as religious bullcrap tend to make us swallow

I think ure the biased one here. Im neither for or against and i stated 2 types of gays. Ive met gays and ive basically tried to understand them. Am gays arent gay at all bt confused and due to being influenced or jilted by their lovers turn to the opposite for wat they normally go for. I meet a gal who says she was lesbian only for her years later to declare she's back 2 straight. There are reasons people become gay and dats wat i seek to unravel and then clear up.

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

Let me please tell you one truth.
Some people have hormonal imbalance.

I have seen women who want to become men on reality tv.

Part of what they do is take regular doses of male hormones such that even the shape of their faces eventually acquire the look of a man.

I did not have to see this on tv anyway to know.

Men and women both have male and female sex hormones.

But men have by far of the male hormones than the female ones.

The same thing for women, who have by far more of the female hormones than the male ones.

That is why during puberty (when sex hormones start developing in men) some men see their nipples temporarily rise.

The female hormones are developing alongside the male but they eventually get over-shadowed by the dominance of male hormones.

What I am saying in essence is...

Please take hormonal treatment.

Also, as someone said, how this started in history, may be very relevant to this.

Facing (and taking care of - ie dealing with) what happened that caused/started this in the past [ if this is the case] is super powerful as you are confronting the reason why things took a turn for this path.

But lest you forget...

Hormonal treatment works.

Hormones are the very things God created to handle our sexuality, that makes a man's voice deep or a girls waist swell/sway

I think you will be fine. Hormonal treatment takes effect progressively and in my view is the physical cement with which heal this anomaly

Shankieboy:
I'm a devoted christian. I believe in Jesus And his teachings. But what I don't seem to understand is Why he hasn't changed my Sexuality. I've prayed. Threatened to harm myself, believing he'll heal me from homosexuality. But all to to no avail.

I've fasted. 5 days dry. I've been celibate for years but I still find myself attracted to members of my gender.

I'm very close to self hate because I feel disgusted with myself. I've tried to be straight. had several girlfriends but I don't seem to be sexually attracted to them. It just doesn't work.

What do I do? Please, help me. I need a miracle. I need an intervention. Else, I'll wallow in depression.

Insults are welcomed.

Let me please tell you one truth.
Some people have hormonal imbalance.

I have seen women who want to become men on reality tv.

Part of what they do is take regular doses of male hormones such that even the shape of their faces eventually acquire the look of a man.

I did not have to see this on tv anyway to know.

Men and women both have male and female sex hormones.

But men have by far of the male hormones than the female ones.

The same thing for women, who have by far more of the female hormones than the male ones.

That is why during puberty (when sex hormones start developing in men) some men see their nipples temporarily rise.

The female hormones are developing alongside the male but they eventually get over-shadowed by the dominance of male hormones.

What I am saying in essence is...

Please take hormonal treatment.

Also, as someone said, how this started in history, may be very relevant to this.

Facing (and taking care of - ie dealing with) what happened that caused/started this in the past [ if this is the case] is super powerful as you are confronting the reason why things took a turn for this path.

But lest you forget...

Hormonal treatment works.

Hormones are the very things God created to handle our sexuality, that makes a man's voice deep or a girls waist swell/sway

I think you will be fine. Hormonal treatment takes effect progressively and in my view is the physical cement with which heal this anomaly
FluidQueen

FluidQueen:
the way you put it..


Homosexuality is a bigger crime/sin than murder? Fornication? Adultery? Lying? Lust? Stealing? Cheating?

Don't be an hypocrite, Christian

c'mon... For a start, homosexuality does not come natural at some point there ain't a thing like that, y then must he be encouraged to accept a learned behavior that could be unleashed. My friend pls dnt listen to anybody telling to take a nature that is not of yur father in heaven. Am glad you said you are believer, give yursef to Him and don't cease in yur prayers. I will remember u in my prayers too