Some people are just heartless... Wedding MC

hmmmm!... experience is the best teacher, some low-life b*tch attempted something similar with me way back.

donstan18:

Be careful.
Some issues are not advisable to be gisted on Nairaland.

really

uuzba:


You have already condemned him in his absence.

if this story is true i wouldn't wish it on my sister.

mastermaestro:


I like the fact that you absolutely understand how life works. People cling too dangerously to things. Dating must not lead to marriage. Until everyone sees it this way, deep scarring emotional hurt will always be inevitable. Life is choice! No one must be forced, begged unhealthily or bullied to be married to someone. Everyone is free to walk away even at the last second to declaring "I do".

You're right but the part where he went wrong was when he wasted her time and made her plan a non-existent wedding. That's all shades of wrong, pray such never happens to any female close to you.

Oladimejyy:
Guy?There is more to this tale,she's trying to paint the man as a bag being.
She painted herself to be a saint.
I believe there's more to this tale

well there have been stories of ladies who treated their men in a heartless way even when such men helped them.it could be this guy never loved her and preferred using her as a maga.some humans can be wicked without any reason.

Oladimejyy:
Is that what your father is lacking

just go back to the past n gift your dad a condom ... save the world form retards like oladimejyy

I'm not emotional, but I really do feel like crying after reading this.

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again.

You think so. Don't worry you will certainly love again.

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again.

Don't worry you will love again and this time it will be the right one

The guy was sharp. He moved on to greener pastures before being saddled down. Honestly i dont see anything wrong in what he did. He simply moved on when he saw a better option and thats how life should be. Nothing should ever hold u down and make u sad.

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again.

Sorry

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard
to love again.

. I feel your pain. So sorry dear. Some men are really heartless and worthless.

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again.

Wow!
Distance relationship doesn't favour most times.
Love will find you.
Believe me.

lefulefu:
if this story is true i wouldn't wish it on my sister.

Social media is a useless place to iron out relationship issues.
Two people are involved in the relationship. Yet only ONE of them tells the story the way they like to tell it. We don't hear the story of the other one.

schumastic:
Henitan24 i think you might want to read this

There should be something wrong somewhere, that's too heartbroken to be real. I'm thinking maybe the new lady jazz the man or the story is incomplete. She sounds too perfect to be jilted. No man can be that heartless especially you . Don't want to be judgemental, need to hear from both parties before doing such. He is human not animal for crying out loud. At the same time I'm happy for her because she has moved on.

UyaiIncomparabl:



. I feel your pain. So sorry dear. Some men are really heartless and worthless.

This is why you should spend time in courtship. You use this courtship period to judge the character of the person you hope to spend the rest of your life with.

Know his family, know his friends. This is a period of investigation. But ladies are so damn taken away that they open their legs before marriage. Some months ago one Id10t lady even knelt down to propose to a man. How foolish and cheap you have sold yourself.

DO NOT OPEN YOUR LEGS BEFORE MARRIAGE.
Premarital sex is wrong and bad.

Marry FIRST then you can enjoy sex with your husband as you like. Nobody will trouble you both.

@OP. It is not ordinary. I'm totally convinced that you did something very painful and to him, unforgivable. In a few years time, ask him why he did that, he will surely tell you

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again.

You will have a cause to love again very soon. Just be positive!

Merryglad:
Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again.

Don't let that bring you down. When I saw Chy blezo post, I couldn't believe Blessing pass through all this things.
I dated a girl that called me 7days to her traditional marriage and she told me its over.
my love life died, but I just have to try my best.

i did small aproko by going 2ru both party facebook walls...

frm wat i can decode, d woman was very desperate due to her age(she looks somehow older dan d man)...

i also tink d guy took a very good decision by leaving her 4 a more prettier lady...

marry an ugly older woman at ur own risk...their gene dey strong die nd all ur children fit carry ugly face..

[quote author=Merryglad post=65492764]Some times you wont understand peoples story till it happens to you....i dated a guy for four years though it was a distant relationship, he called me before taking his vows, he was just apologising for no reason. I felt some thing was wrong but i could not place it.....BAM!!! Later in the evening i saw his wedding pix on FB. But life has to continue i did not lay any curse on him because i loved him so much. The only problem is my love life is dead, its been hard to love again. [/quote


Pls ensure that you don't lock up your mind that all men are bad, because you may lose a good man in that process.

Oladimejyy:
Thats his choice.
A guy dates a lady doesnt mean he must marry him.okay?

it's obvious you didn't read the story

Mhen! This is just too emotional for me. I have heard but never thought it does happens in reality. This is criminality of the highest order! And the guy thinks he would have a 'blissful beginning'? Hell, No! He is a criminal and deserves to be shot in the balls. Nonsense!

Women, please don’t allow love to blind you from the truth. That’s all I will say.

chai!! we (men) can be wicked sha. Be strong and move on

Oladimejyy:
Thats his choice.
A guy dates a lady doesnt mean he must marry him.okay?

are you OK? Up to the extent of fixing wedding date without showing up! What are you saying!

Ekiseme:
go choke on a D and feel less frustrated.

lmfaoo... You go suck on a D. Suck on it deeply