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For once, i'm highly disappointed

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

thrillOG:
Edakun Please pardon my blunders oo...I just had to pour out my happening so i can move on..

She served in PH, and stayed a little longer after service year to gain working experience.

We met in Jan 2017 after she got back to Lagos and became friends, every time I ask about her relationship status, she'll tell me she had a briefed one there and they stop talking as the guy is the busy type who works with an oil and gas firm.

She setup up a business and I help with ERP Software and we became attached.
I noticed she's usually lonely and in thoughts, I'll call her everyday and make her feel loved and that was how we started.
I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love.

Everything seems awesome and the dream seemly becoming reality, until I noticed one traits..'Her WhatsApp status is usually ONLINE at odd hours'.

I complained many times but the excuses are 'I have sleep disorder'. And she's met with different Therapist to no avail..I took that with a pinch of salt and I was watchful..

One day, we had plans to meet, and I called her I was still busy with a Client and don't think I can come over that night unknown to her, i was on my way..I arrived 40 minutes later and found out someone was with her. She opened the door and dashed to the lavatory.

I saw the guy was so uncomfortable and I left, minutes later she was calling begging to please come back and I did after discovering she was sobering up and just to hear her out; ' He was a Family Friend, he had issues with business and blah blah blah blah.. I took that cuz I Love her, I understand they've been together before I came into the picture.

The midnight WhatsApp Online status continues and I was curious to find out who she usually chats with at that time.

One day(Yesterday) I was with her and after some romantic discussions, I told her I needed to check Fiverr for some approval and I'll love to use her phone as my phone battery has drained(that's the scope I used), she ask that I use my Laptop and I told her the battery is low, she wanted to put on Generator and I said 'why can't I check the internet with my girl's phone??.

I collected it, and scroll through her WhatsApp and there, I got the greatest shock of my Life...

My girl wanted more of 'Mr Family Friend' d*ck than every other thing in her life.. How they've been fvcking and how she wanted it right now now..

Another shock of my life was when I was scrolling up..I saw where my girl was telling him that he should come and deal with the stupid computer boy(me) as he's disturbing Mr FF girl oo, she said she's tired of computer's boy disturbances and he reply, 'give me his number lemme curse him..

Èmi Computer boy

Peeps, not only that chat oo, I saw many different amorous Convo's from some other guys she told me was her cousins, church members and friends that has got me in thought since yday...
I have never checked her phone before in our 1year Plus relationship... I was happy I did that yday and thank God I did..

lol !!
Mumu no go kee u

Personally, I hate checking girl's phone and I usually display "I don't care da fvck u do attitude" .....

I usually endeavour to make me the numero uno in a girl's heart .....


Maturity is key sha !!!

Ode....ashawo Kobo kobo

[qwuote author=MhizzAJ post=65660715]Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less[/quote]

They were having sex and u still went back to her? Can I describe the way to prayer city for u or I should come drive u there myself cos u definitely and of a certainty need deliverance

thrillOG:
I saw this, I pass...



Oh well I believe you took out time to emphasize your objections..yea I'm cool with that..
I stated, that I caught her with another guy...hmm maybe I didn't go deeper into details, they were having sex when I came around, and she quickly dashed to the lavatory.. She apologize and I took it..
I don't know what trust you wanted me to have on such a person.. Perhaps i understand why you're being so defensive.. Maybe you're just her type anyways.. I pity the nigga digging you.

tabtabtab:
Discovering this information is not as important as what you are going to do with it.

***In my opinion*** don't tell her you have discover anything and put on your best poker face.. Then arrange two or three meetings with her, and fu*k the life out of her brain then dump her like trash.

Now go ahead and rename her contact on your phone as "My Bitch"

That is if e can even fvck ....
mtchewwwwwww ..... long thing !!!

Truckpusher:
If you're not hiding anything why can't the person you profess to love go through your messages ?

Don't mind them. I fear any girl that won't allow you to touch her phone.

Reeberry:
Apply common sense. You aren't married to her, if she cheats on you, accept and move on. She's not your wife. Her family hasn't handed her to you.

Be there forming owner of a "girlfriend". Nonsense!

It's very obvious you didn't read well my comment, you just rushed in to do the fastest finger first response, ending it with NONSENSE. keep up with your frustration by the way.

Truckpusher:
If you're not hiding anything why can't the person you profess to love go through your messages ?

Ask her ooo. Most of these girls are cheats even married women. If she doesn't have the fear of God forget it.

MhizzAJ:
It isn't just cool...I dislike people with such attitude

Maybe there's nothing really exciting about the guy in question
He might just be a boring guy with nothing to offer for all i care

U are absolutely correct ..... if the op is a real guy, d girl for no famz ihm like that !!!

Op Na sizzy Joor .... why I go look girl phone .... if she is clean , I will know.... if she ain't , I will know ......

Op had one million reasons and signs to decipher the girl ain't into him order than computer stuff n someone to display emotions to ......

I don't know why guys fall this cheap !!! Op fall hand abeg !!!

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

Imagine the trash u put up here.

Xtopherprince:
Similar thing happened to me. Babe was acting suspicious, I asked her and she replied her exes are disturbing, so i cloned her whatsapp. Couldn't believe the shiit i saw. Just locked up, and kept on drilling(with protection). No time to dey form emotional, two can play the game.

How did you cloned her WhatsApp abeg

thrillOG:
Lolzz..badt guy..I've not spoken to her since yday...she knew I saw something, cuz I just stormed out without saying anything...
She's been texting since yday..that I should come and let fix this..

That what they will always say, Most girls are bitches....
Like the other guy, just turn her into a side chick joor she don't deserve you as a loving person....

Nigga you need to f**k the hell out of her, make we see if she no go love you by force...

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

Wow...birds......

Haba, ladies stop behaving like LovePeddler. What is the big deal in checking your phone if you do not have a skeleton in your cupboard? What have we turned this world into sef? Giving excuses to cover what cannot be covered. Mr Op, karma is a bitch truly. But I want us to understand that in the relationship of these days has lost the word TRUST.
We now build it and one way is to have access to everything, including our phones. So many dogs and bitches out there. I am not ready to be in the dark for years and my loving Fiance knows that. I can take his phone for a whole day and vice versa. Let's stop that habit of not checking our phones. Why not?

The way you skillfully avoided holding the girl responsible for her actions was just delightful.

Tells us that you condone a girl sleeping around.

Keep it up

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

brightalo17:
It's very obvious you didn't read well my comment, you just rushed in to do the fastest finger first response, ending it with NONSENSE. keep up with your frustration by the way.

You just keep sounding dumber. You aren't corresponding.

JONNYSPUTE:
The girl in question has never taken you as her lover, u were the one forcing urself on her sheepishly thinking that forming nice guy or good guy will take you to her honey pot. Next time open ur eyes. Only the bad guys can bleep any girl without stress,just like the man fucking ur girl. Serves you right mr computer.

This is a Man !!!
@ thrillOG, learn from the above dude and u are game !!!


Most girls including the good ones usually take good guys for granted ..... U can be cool, calm, educated, intelligent and smart but when it comes to being with a girl, and I mean any girl ... u have to combine these qualities with some elements of bad boy ......

when you are too nice , cool n gentle, u get played !!!


When a girl ain't into u or using u as pillow, u will see d signs ... Don't kill yasef checking out trash, drop her n move on ..... if she miss u, she will come if not be done !!!

thrillOG:
Edakun Please pardon my blunders oo...I just had to pour out my happening so i can move on..

She served in PH, and stayed a little longer after service year to gain working experience.

We met in Jan 2017 after she got back to Lagos and became friends, every time I ask about her relationship status, she'll tell me she had a briefed one there and they stop talking as the guy is the busy type who works with an oil and gas firm.

She setup up a business and I help with ERP Software and we became attached.
I noticed she's usually lonely and in thoughts, I'll call her everyday and make her feel loved and that was how we started.
I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love.

Everything seems awesome and the dream seemly becoming reality, until I noticed one traits..'Her WhatsApp status is usually ONLINE at odd hours'.

I complained many times but the excuses are 'I have sleep disorder'. And she's met with different Therapist to no avail..I took that with a pinch of salt and I was watchful..

One day, we had plans to meet, and I called her I was still busy with a Client and don't think I can come over that night unknown to her, i was on my way..I arrived 40 minutes later and found out someone was with her. She opened the door and dashed to the lavatory.

I saw the guy was so uncomfortable and I left, minutes later she was calling begging to please come back and I did after discovering she was sobering up and just to hear her out; ' He was a Family Friend, he had issues with business and blah blah blah blah.. I took that cuz I Love her, I understand they've been together before I came into the picture.

The midnight WhatsApp Online status continues and I was curious to find out who she usually chats with at that time.

One day(Yesterday) I was with her and after some romantic discussions, I told her I needed to check Fiverr for some approval and I'll love to use her phone as my phone battery has drained(that's the scope I used), she ask that I use my Laptop and I told her the battery is low, she wanted to put on Generator and I said 'why can't I check the internet with my girl's phone??.

I collected it, and scroll through her WhatsApp and there, I got the greatest shock of my Life...

My girl wanted more of 'Mr Family Friend' d*ck than every other thing in her life.. How they've been fvcking and how she wanted it right now now..

Another shock of my life was when I was scrolling up..I saw where my girl was telling him that he should come and deal with the stupid computer boy(me) as he's disturbing Mr FF girl oo, she said she's tired of computer's boy disturbances and he reply, 'give me his number lemme curse him..

Èmi Computer boy

Peeps, not only that chat oo, I saw many different amorous Convo's from some other guys she told me was her cousins, church members and friends that has got me in thought since yday...
I have never checked her phone before in our 1year Plus relationship... I was happy I did that yday and thank God I did..

Bro just run for ur life..dont look back.. Dont allow ur feelings for her blind you.. You can do better! There is somebody out there who is going to appreciate you as her man.. Move on


Personally for me i really dislike . when a girl.. Who is supposed to Luv me o, has to many online guy friends and regularly chats With emm- 2) always online at odd hours and it ain't me you chatting with or u delay in replyn my chats during dt odd hours and u are still showing online..


It means dere is sum other dude who you find more important/ interestn Dan me thus ur feelings for me dwindling while u are afresh with a new found flame.

This is not a matter of having trust issues. Its simply the truth.
!! Karma..


Look at OP story. Am 99.9% sure. .she had been showing all ds traits alreedy tey tey b4 kasala Burst. Girls like ds will always find it hard to b Loyal to only one person.

E pele computer boy. That's ladies for u. Only few are good. God go allow us meet those category. No be all these "pata gigan" slay mamas

CorGier:
Over two decades on this earth and it still never ceases to amaze the level of shīt guys like you take from women. How do you do it? I mean you caught that girl being ploughed senseless by some dude, and the next day you all up at her place talking cell phone batteries and generators? Its mind bugling how you still summon up the temerity to term her as a "good girl".
I mean how do you guys do it? I wan know how you manage to pull out a forgiveness card straight out yo arse fresh from being made a cuckhold. Mr computer, please do share your thought process(es).

.... hahahahahajajajaja ..... I laugh so had ..... hahahaha.... Cuckhold made me laugh so hard .......

The girl is a good girl truly, but mr computer don't just know how to handle her type ..... She is a good girl with dirty mindset , all these girls that are cool out there but another thing inside ...... if Op is a real guy, he would have known her type .... This kain girl that want a guy to fvck their brain out , talk dirty inside while being forming innocent out there ...... while op is being bookish and techish (ERP) another smart dude dey shain the Congo .......


Even church girl dey like "bad decent guys" !!!

After u kom check phone see sh.its nko, wetin u fit do

I like the girl ...... Op become a computer repairer for free !!!

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

I see nothing wrong in what he did. He would have been on the lady's mumu radar for too long. Thank God for this singular smart move he made.

..go and check your HIV status

Michelle55:
nkan nbe!!! Op, Aswear this matter just tire me... I don't even know the right words to qualify her inhumane actions but all the same, just thank God for saving you from a ticking time bomb.. good riddance!!! move on and enjoy unexplainable joy that this month brought.. a woman that would stick to your dick whether it's sweet or not will come soon but until then forget about the lady and wish her well as she has decided to sample all the available dicks on this planet earth..
lest I forget, when one is in a relationship, it's no longer "Iphone" it's called "Wephone". it strengthens your bond and trust for each other!!!

dear, I'll like to have chat with you

You never had a relationship. Move on with your life & stop being a needy person. Oh! You don't know you're a needy person?

Read this: "I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love".

You weren't "imparting" sh*t! You were just feeling the need to have someone love you desperately & when you thought you found one, your insecurities got the better of you.


Case closed.

DonroxyII:
lol !!
Mumu no go kee u

Personally, I hate checking girl's phone and I usually display "I don't care da fvck u do attitude" .....

I usually endeavour to make me the numero uno in a girl's heart .....


Maturity is key sha !!!

. Exactly. Why will i be checking her phone when I'm the master.

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

aww...You sound like a baby...pele

thrillOG:
I saw this, I pass...



Oh well I believe you took out time to emphasize your objections..yea I'm cool with that..
I stated, that I caught her with another guy...hmm maybe I didn't go deeper into details, they were having sex when I came around, and she quickly dashed to the lavatory.. She apologize and I took it..
I don't know what trust you wanted me to have on such a person.. Perhaps i understand why you're being so defensive.. Maybe you're just her type anyways.. I pity the nigga digging you.

You just said it all

MyFlair:
dear, I'll like to have chat with you

good evening, hope no problem?

thrillOG:
Edakun Please pardon my blunders oo...I just had to pour out my happening so i can move on..

She served in PH, and stayed a little longer after service year to gain working experience.

We met in Jan 2017 after she got back to Lagos and became friends, every time I ask about her relationship status, she'll tell me she had a briefed one there and they stop talking as the guy is the busy type who works with an oil and gas firm.

She setup up a business and I help with ERP Software and we became attached.
I noticed she's usually lonely and in thoughts, I'll call her everyday and make her feel loved and that was how we started.
I ditch my current girl, snubs my niggas just to impart the missing Love.

Everything seems awesome and the dream seemly becoming reality, until I noticed one traits..'Her WhatsApp status is usually ONLINE at odd hours'.

I complained many times but the excuses are 'I have sleep disorder'. And she's met with different Therapist to no avail..I took that with a pinch of salt and I was watchful..

One day, we had plans to meet, and I called her I was still busy with a Client and don't think I can come over that night unknown to her, i was on my way..I arrived 40 minutes later and found out someone was with her. She opened the door and dashed to the lavatory.

I saw the guy was so uncomfortable and I left, minutes later she was calling begging to please come back and I did after discovering she was sobering up and just to hear her out; ' He was a Family Friend, he had issues with business and blah blah blah blah.. I took that cuz I Love her, I understand they've been together before I came into the picture.

The midnight WhatsApp Online status continues and I was curious to find out who she usually chats with at that time.

One day(Yesterday) I was with her and after some romantic discussions, I told her I needed to check Fiverr for some approval and I'll love to use her phone as my phone battery has drained(that's the scope I used), she ask that I use my Laptop and I told her the battery is low, she wanted to put on Generator and I said 'why can't I check the internet with my girl's phone??.

I collected it, and scroll through her WhatsApp and there, I got the greatest shock of my Life...

My girl wanted more of 'Mr Family Friend' d*ck than every other thing in her life.. How they've been fvcking and how she wanted it right now now..

Another shock of my life was when I was scrolling up..I saw where my girl was telling him that he should come and deal with the stupid computer boy(me) as he's disturbing Mr FF girl oo, she said she's tired of computer's boy disturbances and he reply, 'give me his number lemme curse him..

Èmi Computer boy

Peeps, not only that chat oo, I saw many different amorous Convo's from some other guys she told me was her cousins, church members and friends that has got me in thought since yday...
I have never checked her phone before in our 1year Plus relationship... I was happy I did that yday and thank God I did..

Weak men are the reason women are not loyal to anybody

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

Some girls can be very daft... I hate those kinda girls... hasn't the op's suspicion been proven already. You want a guy to keep trusting you even when you are untrustworthy and involved in an amorous affair? So the op should not have checkup his suppose girlfriend's phone even when there were clear signs she was up to something? sorry girl, trust is earned and an individual's right to privacy like all fundamental human rights can be denied for good reasons.

thrillOG:
I saw this, I pass...



Oh well I believe you took out time to emphasize your objections..yea I'm cool with that..
I stated, that I caught her with another guy...hmm maybe I didn't go deeper into details, they were having sex when I came around, and she quickly dashed to the lavatory.. She apologize and I took it..
I don't know what trust you wanted me to have on such a person.. Perhaps i understand why you're being so defensive.. Maybe you're just her type anyways.. I pity the nigga digging you.

This is epic

Some girls are just plain dumb. Bro don't mind her

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

bitches will alwayz be bitches! you cant eat ur cake and have it! thats why ladies die like rats this days! you girls cant seem to be Ok with fucckin just One Dicck! its just anoying how much effort people put into relationships just to make it work! while some play smart! shiit happens