marvin906:




good for you.. buh am sticking with bashing.. you guy's continue trying to save her soul

RuthDaniels:
The thread/Topic is clearly written in English,isnt it? What part of it do you not understand?

donstan18:


Lol, easy brO!

Shugavee:
that's our speciality bringing life which destroys her body ,chores n all!!! what's their speciality or relevance in the term marriage than money ,,,which women r geting themselves already!!! So what is their relevance!! Than sex!!!!! What else can they do??

pantherblack:
How about :

Direction?

Purpose?

Companionship?

Posterity ?

Financial Stability?

Partnership?

A Good Family?

Sound Decisions ?

Shelter From the Storms?

A Pillar of defense?

A Happy Home?

A heart and body to share?

A Helping Hand?

A Cover?

A Shoulder to lean on?

A Skilled hand?

A custodian of diverse forms of truths?

Paternity?

Defense from other men/bullies?

A reservoir of hope and strength?

Love?

Trust?

Mental, Emotional and Sexual Fulfillment

Initiative?

Strong Decisions?

Friendship?

A trust when storms hit

A Lover/Father you can boast of?

victorian:









Really??


Or u dreamt about all these qualities in a man

Biko don't delude yourself

shaybebaby:

A share of childcare, housekeeping and cooking too?

RuthDaniels:
Lol! Some clown wrote "Men offer love" up there! . Yeah The long slightly curved meaty kind of love. Lol . Burst my brain dude . When it is a known fact that most men do not go into relationships out of love but sex. Yes! Women want love before sex, the only way men can get sex is to love. (fundamental nature of man before civilization! )

Anyways I'm not one to criticize any gender's role either in the family or relationship, I believe both genders play important roles as nature allows. No one is more important than the other!

What I hate is one gender (male especially ) bringing down the other because they believe they contribute more, but the fact is, none can do without the other!

RuthDaniels:

What I hate is one gender (male especially ) bringing down the other because they believe they contribute more, but the fact is, none can do without the other!

greiboy:
Sure I love children, but I hate cooking

So I can always work something out with my future partner.

House keeping is a normal stuff. I take care of myself and environment now, so why should I change

Opentokwowledge:
My question was directed at you, not at the thread.

Learn how to answer questions as they come or ignore if you don't have answers, okay?

Probably if you had asked correctly,directly and politely like "What would you want from a man? " you would have gotten a nice reply. Lol, but guess your loyalty to the men team wouldn't want you to sound interested in my own want.

Honestly, I answered your question as it came, Don't go mushy on me now

RuthDaniels:
Lol! Some clown wrote "Men offer love" up there! . Yeah The long slightly curved meaty kind of love. Lol . Burst my brain dude . When it is a known fact that most men do not go into relationships out of love but sex. Yes! Women want love before sex, the only way men can get sex is to love. (fundamental nature of man before civilization! )

Anyways I'm not one to criticize any gender's role either in the family or relationship, I believe both genders play important roles as nature allows. No one is more important than the other!

[color=#990000][b]What I hate is one gender (male especially ) bringing down the other because they believe they contribute more, but the fact is, none can do without the other! [/b]

victorian:









Really??


Or u dreamt about all these qualities in a man

Biko don't delude yourself

Shugavee:
yes companionship!!! Woman n man need championship n being in a relationship poses that already!!! Let me put it this way ,in marriage who is losing the woman or the man??

THIS GIRL I CLEARLY CONFIRM NOW THAT YOU'RE SICK IN THE HEAD.
YOUR MENTALITY IS ABNORMAL AND I'M SURE YOUR BRAIN IS CORRUPTED BY VIRUS.

I DON'T WANNA BELIEVE THIS IS THE KIND OF FUKKED UP KNOWLEDGE OUR AFRICAN MOTHERS PASS ON TO THEIR DAUGHTERS, BECAUSE AFRICAN WOMEN ARE TOO BRILLIANT TO MESS THINGS UP LIKE THIS.

WHO TOLD YOU MARRIAGE IS A GAMBLE OF WINNERS AND LOSERS?

I KNOW YOU'RE ABOUT TO CLAIM THAT WOMEN LOSE IN MARRIAGE DUE TO CHILD BEARING AND CHORES, BECAUSE I'VE SEEN THAT SEVERALLY ON NAIRALAND.

BUT LET ME TELL YOU, WE DIDN'T CHOOSE AS MEN, TO NOT BE ABLE TO BEAR KIDS.

IF MEN COULD BEAR KIDS WE WOULD GIVE BIRTH TO THOUSANDS, AND WOULDN'T HOLD IT UP AS AN EXCUSE TO NOT BE ABLE TO DO ANY OTHER THING IN THE WORLD.

SOME THINGS ARE JUST UNNECESSARILY OVER EXAGGERATED.

RuthDaniels:


What I hate is one gender (male especially ) bringing down the other because they believe they contribute more, but the fact is, none can do without the other!

makydebbie:


Not being anyway sexist, even people know me better than that. But this thread is very reasonable. This is where you should see logical arguments and know more on the worth of men. I'll still say the same thing if the table was turned so you're not making sense here.



Lol, don't even go there. A financially independent woman can do more than this. You think someone like Omotola Jalade or Tiwa Savage cannot do this in the house and even more if her husband retires or something? What sort of point or argument is this?



Please, the hypocrisy in this post is screaming. So when men create threads that women are useless it's very cool abi? It doesn't, what's the phrase again? 'downgrade the effort of women'.

At this point I was speechless. You haven't seen gold digging guys at all? In this life? I'm still speechless.


I think you should do same.
Nairaland lol.

shaybebaby:

Now does that sound like the usual spiel your brothers on here shout upandan?

Instead all they shout is money which renders them useless to females who have no need for their money because they got theirs.

Anyways, commend you for your outlook. You are indeed progressive.

greiboy:
Thanks for the compliments

daewoorazer:


I wanted to reply you, but realized you don’t understand the meaning of intelligible. Do this forum some goodness by allowing learned and intelligent women comment ok?

efesodje:

marvin906:





the only thing am gonna accept here is that both genders are Important and one is not more important than the other.

buh for your remaining statement
no comment

Yea...You are right, It would be very unwise of you to comment on something you don't understand

donstan18:
Lol

I advised Shugavee on what to do to attract logical and reasonable discussions in this good thread, but she refused and was forming baddo sneh

Now marvin906 is serving it hot to her.

Me....Relaxing and enjoying the bashing

BROS THIS THREAD IS COVERED IN SHAME. HER ILLITERACY IS SOMETHING.
I SWEAR I NEVER IMAGINED I WOULD COME ACROSS A PERSON THIS NAIVE, AND CLOUDED BY LACK OF REASONING.

PrimadonnaO:

CAPSLOCKED:




BROS THIS THREAD IS COVERED IN SHAME. HER ILLITERACY IS SOMETHING.
I SWEAR I NEVER IMAGINED I WOULD COME ACROSS A PERSON THIS NAIVE, AND CLOUDED BY LACK OF REASONING.

Opentokwowledge:
That you've not seen a purple carrot before does not mean it does not exist. There are many relationships out there where the man shows all these qualities and more... It's not fairytale, it's real.

RuthDaniels:
Probably if you had asked correctly,directly and politely like "What would you want from a man? " you would have gotten a nice reply. Lol, but guess your loyalty to the men team wouldn't want you to sound interested in my own want.

Honestly, I answered your question as it came, Don't go mushy on me now

majekoam:


Just commented about the same thing. Ironic right.

donstan18:


Just felt I should advise you on how to intelligently enjoy the thread.


Do as it pleases you

donstan18:


Who contributes more?

Since there is no quantifiable measurement for both genders' effort it is impossible to say who contributes more.


But to instigate some trouble here , I will use this parable : The neck without the head is a part of the body, while the head without the neck is a fall off!. Hope that answers your question

victorian:







Wow!

Have never met such man with these attributes since the day I knew what boyfriend and girlfriend is all about.
I don't believe such men exist.. It's only in mills and boons

I swear down, I don't believe such men are in this Nigeria . Maybe in planet Pluto or Mars. Or possibly abroad but not nija.

Nija men are different breed of men entirely. They have good and bad sides but not all these traits

Mba! I no believe.