Opentokwowledge:
I can only hope the universe smiles at you one of these days and prove your notion wrong. But, always keep this in mind...

radiokilla:
No woman is independent. Or should I say, most Nigerian women are independent. Every woman needs a man. #companionship

makydebbie:

Lol, don't even go there. A financially independent woman can do more than this. You think someone like Omotola Jalade or Tiwa Savage cannot do this in the house and even more if her husband retires or something? What sort of point or argument is this?

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BROS THIS THREAD IS COVERED IN SHAME. HER ILLITERACY IS SOMETHING.
I SWEAR I NEVER IMAGINED I WOULD COME ACROSS A PERSON THIS NAIVE, AND CLOUDED BY LACK OF REASONING.

Shugavee:
please dear can u tell me what's a mans contribution in a union!!!

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I SWEAR I NEVER IMAGINED I WOULD COME ACROSS A PERSON THIS NAIVE, AND CLOUDED BY LACK OF REASONING.

Then you haven't met TheUpsetGirl.

Opentokwowledge:
You think when I type, I give a Bleep about what you feel or who criticize?... Well, fukc what you think of me... Now, you are going to tell me that special and exalted needs of yours that makes every guy on this web space a dumbo or no? , or you're just gonna keep wailing?

Lol! Honey, I'm doing none of those! Just gonna ignore your sorry ass.

Don't bother to reply, I won't read

daewoorazer:


She has a partner with d same genetic make up...Makydebbie or what’s her monika

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FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN THIS, FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN THAT.

THAT'S WHAT EVERY GIRL IS USING FOR THEIR DEFENSE ON THIS TOPIC.

BUT HOW MANY NAIRALAND WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT?
HOW MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT?

I RESPECT AND ADMIRE YOU A LOT ON THIS FORUM, AND SO MANY OTHER LADIES WHO MANAGE TO ONCE IN A WHILE SHOW A DIFFERENCE.

BUT IT'S CLEAR THIS OP IS OUT OF HER MIND, FROM THE FIRST WORD TO THE WORDS SHE'LL SAY NEXT, ALL WE WILL SEE AND UNDERSTAND IS HATE FOR MEN, BITTERNESS, AND ILLITERACY.
IF YOU GO THROUGH HER THREADS AND TOTAL NL POSTS YOU'LL KNOW BETTER.

"WHAT DO MEN OFFER" IS A VERY LOGICAL QUESTION THAT DESERVES ANSWERS, DEBATE, AND ANALYSIS.
OUR PROBLEM IS NOT THE QUESTION BUT THE RIDICULE AND MEANINGLESSNESS OUR NURSERY ONE OP HAS ATTACHED.

don4real18:

You asked a question and threw your opinion in our faces... Any contrary opinion will only generate arguments and this I can tell by the tone of your message.

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FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN THIS, FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN THAT.

THAT'S WHAT EVERY GIRL IS USING FOR THEIR DEFENSE ON THIS TOPIC.

BUT HOW MANY NAIRALAND WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT?
HOW MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT?

I RESPECT AND ADMIRE YOU A LOT ON THIS FORUM, AND SO MANY OTHER LADIES WHO MANAGE TO ONCE IN A WHILE SHOW A DIFFERENCE.

BUT IT'S CLEAR THIS OP IS OUT OF HER MIND, FROM THE FIRST WORD TO THE WORDS SHE'LL SAY NEXT, ALL WE WILL SEE AND UNDERSTAND IS HATE FOR MEN, BITTERNESS, AND ILLITERACY.
IF YOU GO THROUGH HER THREADS AND TOTAL NL POSTS YOU'LL KNOW BETTER.

"WHAT DO MEN OFFER" IS A VERY LOGICAL QUESTION THAT DESERVES ANSWERS, DEBATE, AND ANALYSIS.
OUR PROBLEM IS NOT THE QUESTION BUT THE RIDICULE AND MEANINGLESSNESS OUR NURSERY ONE OP HAS ATTACHED.

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THIS IS MY POINT.

SHE DIDN'T NEED ANSWERS WHEN SHE MADE THIS THREAD.

SHE WANTED TO MOCK HER ANCESTORS


WE WON'T LET THAT HAPPEN!

donstan18:


She didn't answer my question till now

But she was quick to counter a comment with the cliche of "Financially independent woman"

RuthDaniels:
Lol! Honey, I'm doing none of those! Just gonna ignore your sorry ass.

Don't bother to reply, I won't read

RuthDaniels:
Since there is no quantifiable measurement for both genders' effort it is impossible to say who contributes more.


But to instigate some trouble here , I will use this parable : The neck without the head is a part of the body, while the head without the neck is a fall off!. Hope that answers your question

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NOBODY EVEN DESERVES TO ASK THIS QUESTION.
NOBODY.

YOU CAN'T LOOK AROUND THE WORLD, IN YOUR STREETS, YOUR HOUSE AND YOUR FAMILY, AND ASK THE CONTRIBUTION OF MEN.

SHE SHOULD ASK HER MOTHER IF IT WAS ONLY SEX HER FATHER CONTRIBUTED.

NeeKlaus:

Then you haven't met TheUpsetGirl.

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A TOTAL OF HOW MANY FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN DO WE HAVE IN THE WORLD SELF?

ABEG. THAT'S OUT OF POINT.

donstan18:


None of such reasoning is new to us herein, that's the exact type of reasoning 99% percent ladies from romance section possess.

Some of the remaining 1% out of them can't type in a thread like this

This is logically a nice thread, I had to quickly open it when I saw the topic, but I was surprised when I saw the thread's content, it was filled with bitterness.

Her main purpose of creating this thread is to compare the contributions of men and woman, not to know what men offer which made me backed off, thou I advised her to modify it.

Shugavee:
So this how u people want to answer the question or divert it!! If u don't like my thread or me rather!! Dont bother wasting ur mb by write ur life history!!! Answer the question or let it go!!! Am seriously not worth ur plenty talk!! I care less abt u

daewoorazer:


Your lexical command of English makes me think u think with ur neck


Who go marry u sef talk less of asking us our contributions...we don't need another mama peace in our lives

donstan18:


Lol, what a bias parable

How about saying The head comprises of much organs and helpful parts of the body, but the neck is nothing without the head attached to it


What do you think?

That head won't be standing! It would probably be rolling on the floor lifeless... That's the logic.

The irony of it though is both the head and neck would die. Has both contain the important organs of life( heart and brain) . You couldn't figure that out Lol

greiboy:
The chick that created the thread wasn't really prepared for a debate

She should have known that nairaland guys like any rational people will counter her assertions

Perhaps she must have thought that she will just drop her comments and everyone will applaud her

Well to bad, better luck next time

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FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN THIS, FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMEN THAT.

THAT'S WHAT EVERY GIRL IS USING FOR THEIR DEFENSE ON THIS TOPIC.

BUT HOW MANY NAIRALAND WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT?
HOW MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT?

I RESPECT AND ADMIRE YOU A LOT ON THIS FORUM, AND SO MANY OTHER LADIES WHO MANAGE TO ONCE IN A WHILE SHOW A Difference.

BUT IT'S CLEAR THIS OP IS OUT OF HER MIND, FROM THE FIRST WORD TO THE WORDS SHE'LL SAY NEXT, ALL WE WILL SEE AND UNDERSTAND IS HATE FOR MEN, BITTERNESS, AND ILLITERACY.
IF YOU GO THROUGH HER THREADS AND TOTAL NL POSTS YOU'LL KNOW BETTER.

"WHAT DO MEN OFFER" IS A VERY LOGICAL QUESTION THAT DESERVES ANSWERS, DEBATE, AND ANALYSIS.
OUR PROBLEM IS NOT THE QUESTION BUT THE RIDICULE AND MEANINGLESSNESS OUR NURSERY ONE OP HAS ATTACHED.

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NOBODY EVEN DESERVES TO ASK THIS QUESTION.
NOBODY.

YOU CAN'T LOOK AROUND THE WORLD, IN YOUR STREETS, YOUR HOUSE AND YOUR FAMILY, AND ASK THE CONTRIBUTION OF MEN.

SHE SHOULD ASK HER MOTHER IF IT WAS ONLY SEX HER FATHER CONTRIBUTED.

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I SAW WHAT YOU TRIED TO DO.. BUT SHE FELT YOU WANTED TO GIVE HER ORDERS LIKE A TYPICAL MAN.

AND SHE'S A STRONG, INDEPENDENT WOMAN, THAT DOESN'T NEED YOUR WORD.

DonPiiko:
Highqueen the fine girl, come and have my baby, my sperm is ready

makydebbie:
But that's what this thread is all about? The op is asking what can a man offer when the woman is working and makes her own money. I'm not arguing out of context. The op clearly stated that women are working now, so men cannot use the money excuse and that's what I'm on about.


The feeling is mutual and that's why I chose to reply you and ignore others trolling in this thread. The dude I quoted, said something about women not paying all the bills and taking responsibilities and I'm like if a woman is financially stable and capable, what stops her from paying the bills? That is why I used Tiwa and Omotola. I really admire people who argue sensibly.



I just feel she is naive about some certain issues. And she's too angry to admit.

Exactly, I quoted a dude. He said the thread was rubbish. I quoted him to tell him what you're saying here. So why did you ignore all my points and come for this one. Don't forget, I didn't just come to comment, I was here to counter a point and everything I wrote there was based on that point. Surprisingly, you see nothing wrong with what he said, when it is full of flaws.