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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Nobody: 8:55am On Apr 07, 2018

Just ignore her.

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by donbachi(m): 8:55am On Apr 07, 2018

Don't pull out yet.for her to had called you with different lines is an indication she is truely in love with you.get her a gift,but don't send it to her by yourself.which i believe will increase her hunger to see you.and when she calls your, try and form out of town for a week,send her recharge card.pls,do not call her.then, watch out for series of love sms.you can thank me later.

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by VitoCorleone: 8:56am On Apr 07, 2018

I doubt if she is in any serious relationship.
In reality, you could be the only one.She probably told you she had someone because she wasn't sure she wanted to enter into a relationship with you.
And sleeping with her like suggested by others here will only complicate things.
Be man.Act confident,like there's no other. Her reactions afterwards will let you know.
And if she has someone else, please respect the union unless there's a high possibility that you could marry her.

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Nobody: 8:57am On Apr 07, 2018

AntiBrutus:

Withdraw my brother...
I don't know why this sounded sensual. Someone is spoiling me...

Hm!!! @the bolded.

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by CSTR1002: 8:57am On Apr 07, 2018

dammytosh:

She could be a maid.

She could be some ones sister.

Ask her not us.

I definitely will.

The way she was dressed like madam of the house made me afraid o grin

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by BOOMnaija(m): 8:58am On Apr 07, 2018

Who has time for all these small small girls that play hard to get wen there are better, sexier and more responsive older ladies out there.

#TeamOlderLadies wink

Hit like if u prefer older ladies to small girls with no sense

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Topmaike007(m): 9:00am On Apr 07, 2018

Ladyhippolyta88:
All these na story.If the girl nor like you she nor like you. withdraw if you like.

simple as that..

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by adetes: 9:06am On Apr 07, 2018

Wasting of time

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by dicksonadams(m): 9:13am On Apr 07, 2018

Guy I will advise you to find your level quick quick... Cause that kind of lady is a psycho

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Emvico34: 9:14am On Apr 07, 2018

op give me her number lemme talk to her.... She will come and beg u

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by tytunji29(m): 9:16am On Apr 07, 2018

habsydiamond:
She's still contemplating on using u as her plan B....which is not always good....cos at the end of the day they always abandon PlanB for A... So let her be...
When shes ready to do soft to get she will contact u....hard to get in this century....some ladies funny ooo..

Bt bro even if e ends as plan B bt e has access to benefit wat d guy in plan A is benefiting den I don't tink d plan B is a bad idea

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by proeast(m): 9:17am On Apr 07, 2018

pcguru1:

You prob have too much free time to be Indulging with someone that wants to play games.

Exactly my thought! Such mind games she is playing can only be possible when you indulge her. The op should occupy his time with meaningful things like hustling hard to make it rather than having time for such girls except he is still young and in school. I can't imagine the life of me where a woman would take me on such indecisive ride. The moment you show me the green light, and I approach only for you to flash a red one, then I'm done with you. The universal language 95% of ladies understand in contemporary times is money, money and more money! Make it bro, and you will see them grovelling at your feet, especially in Nigeria where poverty is rife. That is another reason why ladies will initiate break up with you and still want you to remain friends with her. More often than not, they do that because they are afraid you might hit it big and there won't be any chance for them to make a come back into your life. Op, don't spend a minute of your time on a girl that is only keeping you as a second choice!

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Tozara(m): 9:18am On Apr 07, 2018

What the fück is "hard to get"? I don't believe in that bullshiit. If you like me, you will give a positive response when I ask you out. If you don't, your reply will be negative. If you give a negative reply in the name of "playing hard to get', na your problem be that. I don't believe anyone with self-respect and any sense of self-worth keeps chasing a girl who has consistently turned him down.

If the girl doesn't like you and you're the one assuming she does - which might actually be the case - then it's your cup of tea that you choose to subject yourself to unnecessary humiliation. She already told you "no". Accept it like that. If there's something she treasures about you, yet she keeps turning you down in the name of some outdated game that no right-thinking guy entertains in this day and age, then she doesn't have sense, and it's her loss, not yours.

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by McBrooklyn(m): 9:23am On Apr 07, 2018

lenghtinny:

It's not always about fùck Bro....

Dude never fùck, he's still struggling to use his head. If he gets the coochie, his sense will fly out of the window at the speed of light.

It's obvious the girl just wants to keep him as a backup file in her heart's google drive
He should just free the babe, else he will end up with tears, sorrows and blood.

Lol... You can still straff without letting that get into your head na... Anyways, I guess we're all different sha...

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Tozara(m): 9:25am On Apr 07, 2018

donbachi:
Don't pull out yet.for her to had called you with different lines is an indication she is truely in love with you.get her a gift,but don't send it to her by yourself.which i believe will increase her hunger to see you.and when she calls your, try and form out of town for a week,send her recharge card.pls,do not call her.then, watch out for series of love sms.you can thank me later.

If she's actually playing such a game, then you're giving the wrong advice. No one should be encouraged to go into a relationship with unserious and immature girls that do not know what they want.

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by habsydiamond(m): 9:26am On Apr 07, 2018

tytunji29:

Bt bro even if e ends as plan B bt e has access to benefit wat d guy in plan A is benefiting den I don't tink d plan B is a bad idea

sometimes that engine room u won enter fit make u fall in love oooo

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Nobody: 9:29am On Apr 07, 2018

proeast:
Exactly my thought! Such mind games she is playing can only be possible when you indulge her. The op should occupy his time with meaningful things like hustling hard to make it rather than having time for such girls except he is still young and in school. I can't imagine the life of me where a woman would take me on such indecisive ride. The moment you show me the green light, and I approach only for you to flash a red one, then I'm done with you. The universal language 95% of ladies understand in contemporary times is money, money and more money! Make it bro, and you will see them grovelling at your feet, especially in Nigeria where poverty is rife. That is another reason why ladies will initiate break up with you and still want you to remain friends with her. More often than not, they do that because they are afraid you might hit it big and there won't be any chance for them to make a come back into your life. Op, don't spend a minute of your time on a girl that is only keeping you as a second choice!

Thank you my bro it annoys me when men behave like this, my time is precious I know how much more money and additional revenues I could be chasing

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Nobody: 9:29am On Apr 07, 2018

LieDetector:
lol. I'll try this boss

Mumu. Next week, I can guarantee I'll see your big head pix for news as a rapist caught.

Use your brain if you hv one and stop following the advise of faceless dumb people who re only supposed "bad guys" behind their monikers.

Now I see why the girl doesn't dig you. Follow follow.

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Tozara(m): 9:30am On Apr 07, 2018

CSTR1002:
There was this lady I almost slept with when she came to my house.
Something just told me not to.

While strolling with my car this morning, I just saw her in someone's house carrying a baby.

We exchanged glances and I zoomed off.

What the hell is going on?

A lady could be in anyone's house carrying a baby, 'cause she probably has sisters, brothers, uncles, aunts, and friends.

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by hush15: 9:30am On Apr 07, 2018

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

But your moniker is LIEDETECTOR

How hard can this be.....

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by UDUJ(m): 9:31am On Apr 07, 2018

BOOMnaija:
Who has time for all these small small girls that play hard to get wen there are better, sexier and more responsive older ladies out there.

#TeamOlderLadies

Hit like if u prefer older ladies to small girls with no sense

Evening newspaper lover sighted cheesy

So at least there is still hope for those old Nairaland mofos afterall

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Zhahovic(m): 9:38am On Apr 07, 2018

funny enough ....she might not even have a serious bf even though she claims to have...
,,
as for me..i don't have time for hard-to-get ladies. .
..
my time is best used elsewhere...

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Doctormarrvin: 9:39am On Apr 07, 2018

Girls! You never truly know who loves you until you give them distance.

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Pearllait(f): 9:40am On Apr 07, 2018

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

I will try not to write an Epistle but I hope you understand my point. Let me start by saying, this happens to both male and female. it's so unfortunate it is happening to you but if i were you, i would close all forms of communication lines to help myself because it is really not worth it. POINT NUMBER1; She told you she has a boyfriend... (gud) Some persons would say, this generation has to do with games, we start a game and who ever wins wins (which i obviously don't believe in and by God's grace i will not need to struggle before winning the heart of any man). So.... it's really not about the PLAYING HARD TO GET. My dear, cut off from her. If she keeps calling you, it's a choice whether to pick or not to pick. if she sends you WhatsApp msg, read but don't always reply.

POINT NUMBER 2; She told you she has a boyfriend yet she still uses every means possible to speak to you. my dear, it's either 1. She's playing with your emotions and just want you around because her "SUPPOSED" Boo is out of town. 2. It's either she was disappointed when via your actions of not contacting her anymore made it look like a slap on her face and 3. or.... there's more to it that we still don't understand.

Now let me ask you. Would you rather have someone who genuinely wants to be with you or have someone who someday might wake up and say this to you "IT'S NOT AS IF I DIDN'T MAKE IT CLEAR FROM THE ON SET THAT I AM OR I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP"
Which would you prefer??

On the other hand, she might have no one but still contemplating if she wants to try again probably due to certain circumstances and reasons best known to her. But i will still say CUT OFF FROM HER FOR NOW OR CUT OFF COMPLETELY AND MOVE ON

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Pearllait(f): 9:47am On Apr 07, 2018

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

We are only here to give advice (good or bad) but the decision is left for you to make. Have a nice day

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by TheUpsetGirl(m): 9:51am On Apr 07, 2018

because a girl has a bf shouldn't stop you from going for her as long as you have the resources. wink

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by godofuck231: 9:56am On Apr 07, 2018

LieDetector:
I asked this girl out sometime and she told me she has a boyfriend and that the boyfriend doesn't stay in town. I honorably withdrew my advances and she got annoyed because I stopped calling her. The few times I tried she refused picking out of anger.

She would call me with a different number just to hear my voice and then hang up upon me saying "hello".

To cut the long story short, we agreed to meet which we did and I noticed she's still playing hard to get. I don't know what to do at this point honestly.

Should I withdraw outrightly or should I still talk about us starting a relationship especially considering that I didn't bring up the ish in our recent meeting.

Help guys!

Guy go meet your grand mother, she go tell you say even olosho get pride and she has a price, u think say your father buy your mama? All women have pride, it is left for you to convince her that you care and you are capable of caring for her emotionally and finally, most importantly you should be able to play a game of wit, it a ritual amongst animals as the male has to show his skills in flying,swimming, hunting even dancing and matting dances sometimes comes in, show her you have the mental ability to manoeuvre narrow or twisted catch her for tight corner, make her exhausts her excuses and tactics, when this is done she would melt into your palm like chocolate, never take a woman's work for what she is look at her body language, read the heart, it's like her words saying "not in the mood" her body says "spank me baby"

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by abiolamitodun(m): 10:00am On Apr 07, 2018

TheUpsetGirl:
because a girl has a bf shouldn't stop you from going for her as long as you have the resources.

so u can play him to the fullest

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Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Ab025(m): 10:01am On Apr 07, 2018

AntiBrutus:

Withdraw my brother...
I don't know why this sounded sensual. Someone is spoiling me...

You wey don spoil finish already...

Re: When She Likes You But Still Playing Hard To Get by Onisokuso1(m): 10:05am On Apr 07, 2018

McBrooklyn:

Call her make she con pay you visit for your domot one of these days and do the needful and stop being a pussy... You just have to make a pussy wet!!

hahahaha this pics is fucking funny . Ladies don suffer . How many ladies don orgasm , just very few

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