Chikita66:
Stop quoting me up and down and go get a job . No woman will date you if you are jobless.

Are you among the class of women that should choose a man?

Just check yourself and looks, then judge if you are qualified to choose a man

Even borehole ladies are claiming date


*Spit on nightmare look*

luminouz:


Lmaooooo...
I know what I need to have as a man who wants to get married...these mamas don't need to tell me..what's annoying is when they list requirements n yet THEY have NOTHING to offer as a prospective wife!
The one wey annoy me pass is when they say he must be fit with 6 packs n u check their picture, expecting a fit babe,only for ur eyes to be assaulted n raped by a SOW-in-labour kinda pix.....I gym almost everyday bro n I would be UltraMad to settle down with a hippo.....

but gyming doesn't give six packs ,right?

donstan18:


Are you among the class of women that should choose a man?

Just check yourself and looks, then judge if you are qualified to choose a man

Even borehole ladies are claiming date


*Spit on nightmare look*

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Beautiful MissRaine Do you have any thing to contribute to the topic?

Beautiful MissRaine Do you have anything to contribute to the topic?

prechbills1:


hmm.. why is he abi she hiding under female moniker then

I sure he has his reasons.

As an ASIAN...

I think he must have a stable/ permanent job(s) & If he has passion fot biznezz, i admire that & i wont think twice to invest in his biznezz if i see it's a successful one...

But before he propose to me...I just wanna ask him, we shud have a PRENUP...if he agree, im good.

prechbills1:



but gyming doesn't give six packs ,right?

It does,if u do it right!!

prechbills1:



but gyming doesn't give six packs ,right?

hello

Safiaa:
hello

hi

QueenSuccubus:



As an ASIAN...

I think he must have a stable/ permanent job(s) & If he has passion fot biznezz, i admire that & i wont think twice to invest in his biznezz if i see it's a successful one...

But before he propose to me...I just wanna ask him, we shud have a PRENUP...if he agree, im good.

court doesn't give a fvck about prenuptal agreements

The premise is just plain silly

QueenSuccubus:



As an ASIAN...

I think he must have a stable/ permanent job(s) & If he has passion fot biznezz, i admire that & i wont think twice to invest in his biznezz if i see it's a successful one...

But before he propose to me...I just wanna ask him, we shud have a PRENUP...if he agree, im good.

what is Martin0 waiting for before he proposes to you

prechbills1:


same way you must have a stable income to pamper and care for him.

I didn't go to his house to ask for his hand in marriage...for him to leave his parents and come and live with me.

He did!!! So he should have the means to take care of me and the children that come.

Being a man is not about gender. It is about not shying away from responsibilities like a lot of men do today. Their eyes are always on the woman's money.

My money will be there to support, back up, and do as we decide. But it shouldn't be the primary income.

luminouz:

It does,if u do it right!!

hmm.. my muscles didn't even addup

ImaIma1:


I didn't go to his house to ask for his hand in marriage...for him to leave his parents and come and live with me.

He did!!! So he should have the means to take care of me and the children that come.

Being a man is not about gender. It is about not shying away from responsibilities like a lot of men do today. Their eyes are always on the woman's money.

My money will be there to support, back up, and do as we decide. But it shouldn't be the primary income.

history for the gods..


This is an era of gender equality.

nothing like "his responsibility "..


what is your own responsibility?? nonsense

when it comes to equal gender responsibility, Nigerian ladies are never going to accept feminism.

only them will start saying ridiculous stuffs like "there's nothing like gender equality ","men and women are not equal"

lazy set of people.. mtcheew

prechbills1:


court doesn't give a fvck about prenuptal agreements

And who lied to you? Abeeeg, which court who doesn't give a fvck on a prenup? Maybe down there in Naija sha or u only have a prenup written in the water...

prechbills1:



history for the gods..


This is an era of gender equality.

nothing like "his responsibility "..


what is your own responsibility?? nonsense

Ok


When you marry, you can ask your wife to submit her earnings to you every month.

ImaIma1:


Ok


When you marry, you can ask your wife to submit her earnings to you every month.

younglady.

the kids you both own, are the responsibilities of both spouses.

feeding, clothing and whatever are the responsibilities of both spouses.


so stop saying "as a man " as a this... as a man he should carry every load?

nonsense..

thank God my wife to be doesn't behave this way

QueenSuccubus:






And who lied to you? Abeeeg, which court who doesn't give a fvck on a prenup? Maybe down there in Naija sha or u only have a prenup written in the water...

you need head

prechbills1:


hmm.. my muscles didn't even addup

Lmao..
Do it everyday for 6 months n thank me later!!
Eat well in between too....

luminouz:

Lmao..
Do it everyday for 6 months n thank me later!!
Eat well in between too....

everyday? I'm I mad?

prechbills1:


everyday? I'm I mad?

Lol...
Well.. daz what I do...excluding Saturdays n Sundays sha

prechbills1:


you need head

What kind of head are we talking here?...if a guy don't have this kind of lips, then ayam not interested ooo

prechbills1:

younglady.

the kids you both own, are the responsibilities of both spouses.

feeding, clothing and whatever are the responsibilities of both spouses.


so stop saying "as a man " as a this... as a man he should carry every load?

nonsense..

thank God my wife to be doesn't behave this way

Young man when you get married it will ne clearer to you. A man being the head of the family is not just by title. If you go for counselling,you will understand it better.

You think it is your wife that will be responsible for the finances in the home.

You need to man up and stop acting like someone that will be waiting for his wife to settle bills.

I am sure you read in my previous comment that the woman also helps out but her income is not primary source.

Lalasticlala, Rocktation, farano , pls EP!
derailers don full hia o!
abeg, FP make beta nairaland peeps enta d mata.
TGIF tins jare!

donstan18:


Are you among the class of women that should choose a man?

Just check yourself and looks, then judge if you are qualified to choose a man

Even borehole ladies are claiming date


*Spit on nightmare look*

E pain am , don't worry next time you come Owerri, I will help your life and manage to see you, I know wetin dey pain you but try find work sha, its not good to be jobless.

I don come again ooo,OK

must be caring,respectful,Hod fearing,not a womanizer(baba God u know am a very faithful person ,pls I need someone as faithful as I am),tall or average,has a good paying job DAT can sustain de family,romantic ,has a medium size ......,I don't like big ......,funny,gat self control,drama king,educated,I know u go fine Nh ,fashionable

donstan18:


I will use this comments against you one day, maybe when someone trolls you with your reality shii and you try to complain.

I promise

why are you always tackling chikita?

a financially stable guy,car and a very comfortable apartment. You must have a steady source of income.

The issue of what he has from a material perspective is irrelevant to me what matters is
Confidence
Career
Ambition and Potential
I am not one to insist on academia as a criteria but being able to read or right is a small ask.
Above all he has to possess emotional intelligence and maturity as without that there is no relationship.