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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Austeeenxx: 9:30pm On Apr 13, 2018
I'm trying my best not to call you ashawo, but I can't help it.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Nobody: 9:32pm On Apr 13, 2018
What kind of mistakenly is dat
lemme add something
are u a runs girl
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Nobody: 9:38pm On Apr 13, 2018
e don happen cheesy

Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Twoclans(f): 9:51pm On Apr 13, 2018
lefulefu:
e don happen cheesy


Kikikikikikikikikikikikiki
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by mikejj(m): 9:59pm On Apr 13, 2018
swidy go ahead and keep the baby it might end up to be the baby of your husband to be...don't think too much or stress yourself over the issue OK.but hope you have learnt a lot from this experience. control your sexual urge.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 13, 2018
The pregnancy belongs to the first of the three you slept with since you started ovulating for the period all things being equal.

If you know how to calculate your period, determine your ripe period and figure out the guy that slept with you first within that ripe period.

But honestly sister, you really messed up. You slept with three different guys that are not your husbands.
If you scale through this, change coz you may not have the grace next time. It is for your own good. STDs are real.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Nobody: 10:03pm On Apr 13, 2018
Twoclans:



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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by mikejj(m): 10:42pm On Apr 13, 2018
dearie keep the baby OK ur husband to b, might be the father of the child u don't know..most times it is not certain that if u had sex with two men and u got pregnant it doesn't mean its for d first man OK..just don't think about this issue to much to avoid depression. both hop u av learnt from this your mistake.control your sexual urge girl.

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 11:09pm On Apr 13, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:




PLEASE, PARENTS ALL OVER THE WORLD DON'T LET YOUR CHILDREN KNOW THIS GAME.

THIS WOMAN GOT ADDICTED TO IT AND.. HERE'S THIS THREAD!

Thank God I didn't do this kind of play when I was small. Lol.

As for the op, the deed has been done. She was wrong and she will live to regret it as her punishment.

That been said, I will advice her to tell her husband to be. because even if she decided to lie to him, for how long will she do that?

Lie has it's end but the truth has no end. The poor guy deserve the truth, even if not for anything but for at least loving her because it will be worse if he letter finds out after raising the child that isn't his.

I won't blame him if he decided to end the relationship. That will be her reward for her mistake.

Lastly, let her keep that child. The innocent child deserve to live. Calculate her ovulation and maybe do paternity test when the child is born.

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Nobody: 11:10pm On Apr 13, 2018
How do you mistakenly sleep with two people when you have a Boyfriend, even sleeping with an ex that should be a bygone. Anyway just calculate the first guy you slept with during your ovulation, he is the father.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by modextus(m): 12:04am On Apr 14, 2018
FortifiedCity:
aaaaassshhhhaaaaawwwwwooo




Someone help me with Lil Wayne's meme

There you go...

Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by damtan(m): 12:41am On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
You mistakenly slept with two men, asin you were jejely walking on your own and sperm mistakenly and accidentally crossed the fence and jammed your pussy and mistakenly took your pant off!..... What a mistakenly fvck!!

Well, you came to the best and right place.

Just bring the pictures of those three men you slept with, drop them on a table and start singing 'tumbom, tumbom. Bascalaba, tumbom, tumbom, bascalaba, alaba alaba kpoi kpoi,' . one of the pictures will shake and you'll surely know the person responsible.


Nonsense! undecided
father "lawd". i don't want to laugh
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by damtan(m): 12:43am On Apr 14, 2018
Mira200:
Dear nairalanders, plz help and advice me, am in a state of dilemma and very very confused, I don't want to hurt the feelings of my husband to be...my boyfriend proposed to me and we are getting married by June this year, we agreed that I will get pregnant for him, and am now pregnant ,but I don't know who is the father, a week after he proposed to me, I met my ex and mistakenly slept with him unprotected and a similar thing still took place between me and my old friend when we met around that time. Am confuse now, I don't knw btwn my boyfriend, ex and my old friend who is the father of my unborn child. Plz hlp, I love my boyfriend, I don't want to loose him because he might find out.


Please no insult, just advice me what to do,plz


lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique please help me.

I feel like meeting this op for a word of advice. who knows, we may just end up mistakenly f**king.

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Paradigm777: 12:46am On Apr 14, 2018
donstan18:
You mistakenly slept with two men, asin you were jejely walking on your own and sperm mistakenly and accidentally crossed the fence and jammed your pussy and mistakenly took your pant off!..... What a mistakenly fvck!!

Well, you came to the best and right place.

Just bring the pictures of those three men you slept with, drop them on a table and start singing 'tumbom, tumbom. Bascalaba, tumbom, tumbom, bascalaba, alaba alaba kpoi kpoi,' . one of the pictures will shake and you'll surely know the person responsible.


Nonsense! undecided
Donstan18!!! grin grin grin
I don die.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by nairaland20: 1:05am On Apr 14, 2018
Mira200:
Dear nairalanders, plz help and advice me, am in a state of dilemma and very very confused, I don't want to hurt the feelings of my husband to be...my boyfriend proposed to me and we are getting married by June this year, we agreed that I will get pregnant for him, and am now pregnant ,but I don't know who is the father, a week after he proposed to me, I met my ex and mistakenly slept with him unprotected and a similar thing still took place between me and my old friend when we met around that time. Am confuse now, I don't knw btwn my boyfriend, ex and my old friend who is the father of my unborn child. Plz hlp, I love my boyfriend, I don't want to loose him because he might find out.


Please no insult, just advice me what to do,plz


lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique please help me.


lalasticlala , mynd44 , seun ,dominique

Help this lady
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:19am On Apr 14, 2018
Mira200:
Dear nairalanders, plz help and advice me, am in a state of dilemma and very very confused, I don't want to hurt the feelings of my husband to be...my boyfriend proposed to me and we are getting married by June this year, we agreed that I will get pregnant for him, and am now pregnant ,but I don't know who is the father, a week after he proposed to me, I met my ex and mistakenly slept with him unprotected and a similar thing still took place between me and my old friend when we met around that time. Am confuse now, I don't knw btwn my boyfriend, ex and my old friend who is the father of my unborn child. Plz hlp, I love my boyfriend, I don't want to loose him because he might find out.


Please no insult, just advice me what to do,plz


lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique please help me.


Huhmmm..
I dunno if this is the right advice to render. Looking at this from another view, I think it'll be the best option for you.

In as much as I do not solicit for 'Abortion', I'll advice you take that foetus off with immediate effect. You can be worrying yourself over nothing when simply there are solutions you can dwell on. To be candid, you're a shame, but not withstanding, I ain't gonna be judgmental. You obviously were taken to 'Cloud nine' and in essence couldn't fathom the impending danger/consequence.


Abort the baby, you're unsure of its Father. Save yourself the worry and do the needful. You can always get pregnant. There'll be more babies. I just hope that that time your brain will be in action to stimuli. Don't cause your 'Husband to Be' that heartache of bringing in a Bastard. It could be his though, but this is a game of probability, you know not who wins.

Thread carefully my dear!
I wish you the best.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by MossLuv: 3:32am On Apr 14, 2018
NowisGod109:


Hmmm...this is serious o but I can help you only if you tell me your menstrual cycle (the number of days u have it every month). The dates you have the sex then I will tell you who the father is but pls don't let this repeat itself...it's very bad chei!




Do u know if she slept with them the same day?
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by CAPSLOCKED: 6:58am On Apr 14, 2018
Hapigirlxoxo:


Thank God I didn't do this kind of play when I was small. Lol.

As for the op, the deed has been done. She was wrong and she will live to regret it as her punishment.

That been said, I will advice her to tell her husband to be. because even if she decided to lie to him, for how long will she do that?

Lie has it's end but the truth has no end. The poor guy deserve the truth, even if not for anything but for at least loving her because it will be worse if he letter finds out after raising the child that isn't his.

I won't blame him if he decided to end the relationship. That will be her reward for her mistake.

Lastly, let her keep that child. The innocent child deserve to live. Calculate her ovulation and maybe do paternity test when the child is born.


NO JUDGEMENT BUT,
2 RANDOM PEOPLE (1 EX, 1 "OLD FRIEND" ), NO PROTECTION?

SHE MIGHT HAVE CONTACTED A DISEASE AND PASSED IT ON TO THE INNOCENT UNSUSPECTING GROOM TO BE.

THE GIRL IS SOMETHING ELSE. I WONDER WHY PEOPLE ARE WASTING THEIR TIME SENDING PIECES OF ADVICE... WHEN SHE'LL PROBABLY SLEEP WITH THEIR LANDLORD TODAY, AND HER NEIGHBOR TOMORROW.
undecided

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by donstan18: 6:58am On Apr 14, 2018
Lalas247:


Lol please someone should explain how the mistake take happen ...

So when her pant was coming off she no know Till it slid in What did she think was going on biology experiment or what
I can’t even stop laughing grin think it’s a joke honestly
Lalasticlala what type of thread is this grin

cheesy cheesy grin

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by CAPSLOCKED: 7:00am On Apr 14, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


Huhmmm..
I dunno if this is the right advice to render. Looking at this from another view, I think it'll be the best option for you.


In as much as I do not solicit for 'Abortion', I'll advice you take that foetus off with immediate effect.
You can be worrying yourself over nothing when simply there are solutions you can dwell on. To be candid, you're a shame, but not withstanding, I ain't gonna be judgmental. You obviously were taken to 'Cloud nine' and in essence couldn't fathom the impending danger/consequence.



Abort the baby,
you're unsure of its Father. Save yourself the worry and do the needful. You can always get pregnant. There'll be more babies. I just hope that that time your brain will be in action to stimuli. Don't cause your 'Husband to Be' that heartache of bringing in a Bastard. It could be his though, but this is a game of probability, you know not who wins.

Thread carefully my dear!
I wish you the best.


COM'ON, MAKE UP YOUR MIND.
YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO BE MORE CONFUSED THAN THE THREAD STARTER.

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by donstan18: 7:02am On Apr 14, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:

I MISTAKENLY LOGGED INTO MY ACCOUNT, AND MADE THIS POST.
BYE.
cheesy grin

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by funkyjms: 7:09am On Apr 14, 2018
Girl, go for paternity test in this order; your old friend, your ex, then your boyfriend. You have to be fast about it as there's no time.
In any case, please cancel that marriage plan with your boyfriend, you don't deserve him.
I don't know the best adjective to qualify you but yet, who am I to judge.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:10am On Apr 14, 2018
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COM'ON, MAKE UP YOUR MIND.
YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO BE MORE CONFUSED THAN THE THREAD STARTER.

Lol. I'd already stated that she should get it over with.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 7:28am On Apr 14, 2018
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NO JUDGEMENT BUT,
2 RANDOM PEOPLE (1 EX, 1 "OLD FRIEND" ), NO PROTECTION?

SHE MIGHT HAVE CONTACTED A DISEASE AND PASSED IT ON TO THE INNOCENT UNSUSPECTING GROOM TO BE.

THE GIRL IS SOMETHING ELSE. I WONDER WHY PEOPLE ARE WASTING THEIR TIME SENDING PIECES OF ADVICE... WHEN SHE'LL PROBABLY SLEEP WITH THEIR LANDLORD TODAY, AND HER NEIGHBOR TOMORROW.
undecided

You don't what us to advice her?

The deed has been don't and there is nothing she can do about it but seek advice and try to do the right thing.

This might be a big lesson for her that will change her. People can change you know

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Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Hapigirlxoxo(f): 7:38am On Apr 14, 2018
funkyjms:
Girl, go for paternity test in this order; your old friend, your ex, then your boyfriend. You have to be fast about it as there's no time.
In any case, please cancel that marriage plan with your boyfriend, you don't deserve him.
I don't know the best adjective to qualify you but yet, who am I to judge.

Yea I think so too. She is probably not ready for marriage if she still sleeps with guys while she is engage.

To be sexually vulnerable like this and getting married can be very bad.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 14, 2018
my advice might seem wicked and ungodly, but I feel you should terminate the pregnancy if you can and. its not too late.
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by DaniDani(m): 9:02am On Apr 14, 2018
Stevyne:
Mehn. you see your life outside. you dnt knw who is responsible, Are you responsible?

Are you asking her if she is e
responsible for her own pregnancy again?
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Kobicove(m): 9:42am On Apr 14, 2018
Mira200:
Dear nairalanders, plz help and advice me, am in a state of dilemma and very very confused, I don't want to hurt the feelings of my husband to be...my boyfriend proposed to me and we are getting married by June this year, we agreed that I will get pregnant for him, and am now pregnant ,but I don't know who is the father, a week after he proposed to me, I met my ex and mistakenly slept with him unprotected and a similar thing still took place between me and my old friend when we met around that time. Am confuse now, I don't knw btwn my boyfriend, ex and my old friend who is the father of my unborn child. Plz hlp, I love my boyfriend, I don't want to loose him because he might find out.


Please no insult, just advice me what to do,plz


lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique please help me.


Why are you calling Lalasticlala?

Is he a doctor? grin
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by habsydiamond(m): 9:47am On Apr 14, 2018
Na everybody dey make mistake ooo... Even Nigerians made mistake when we voted for change....the change affected us so Tay even the weather sef change....back to u....na what u like to chop put u in this mess....
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by Eagba(m): 10:18am On Apr 14, 2018
Look for a way to get their dna sample from hair or toothbrush and go do a paternity test. The one that matches should be notify and if he.s not ready to pledge responsibility, you give it to your boyfriend if it isn't his. And as a form restitution, you have' ve to be loyal, be the best wife after this. If its for any of your ex, you've to make them know that they are never to surface again in your life
Re: Please Help, I'm Pregnant And Confused On Who The Father Is. by jobonnairaland: 10:32am On Apr 14, 2018
Mira200:
Dear nairalanders, plz help and advice me, am in a state of dilemma and very very confused, I don't want to hurt the feelings of my husband to be...my boyfriend proposed to me and we are getting married by June this year, we agreed that I will get pregnant for him, and am now pregnant ,but I don't know who is the father, a week after he proposed to me, I met my ex and mistakenly slept with him unprotected and a similar thing still took place between me and my old friend when we met around that time. Am confuse now, I don't knw btwn my boyfriend, ex and my old friend who is the father of my unborn child. Plz hlp, I love my boyfriend, I don't want to loose him because he might find out.


Please no insult, just advice me what to do,plz


lalasticlala
mynd44
Dominique please help me.

Continue to open your legs. You are totally unfaithful.

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