₦airaland Forum

angelbulksms:
Surely, there are daughters of Lucifer out there. May God never make us encounter any, especially for marriage. Despite that, I dare say, there are wonderful wives too, and I know of many.

Going for a side chick or baby mama instead of a wife is an outright declaration of her as everybody's lady, and you shouldn't be upset if you catch her in the act.

Moreover, a side chick or baby mama can't build a household (marital legacy) for you, only a wife can. Please aspire to get a wife. Start by changing your clique and you would discover that there are lots of well-trained (decent) ladies out there.

Tochyodiks:
piece of shyt.. Abi you want insult did I tell you I do yahoo? It's not every rich person that you open your mouth to call yahoo boy.. I make my money legitimately so take your uneducated ass somewhere else or maybe take that same ass back to your boyfriend so he can fvck the shit out of it for the 900th time , troll like you, no go find handwork learn dey niarland d bash people wey don make am

goodnewscliff:
who wan toast diz one sefff

engrelvis:
my brother if u mistakenly marry a wrong foreigner u will regret d day u were born.forget what u watch on TV.A white lady is brutally honest n when dey c dat in u dey r very loyal.sorry if reverse is d case.most whites marriages dat r successful r based on honesty.dey dnt hide things from each other.how many Nigerian men deos dat?

ImaIma1:
How many did you actually date before this your conclusion?

Is it from the little number you saw friends or family experiences that you have come to this conclusion?

Are there Nigerian women that have remained married and are faithful?

Do you have any family or friends who have been married to good Nigerian women?

Lastly, are your sisters,female cousins,mum part of this your conclusion?

lefulefu:
so those ones dat can do only noodles and fried eggs ..if they become mothers in the future so na only noodles and fried eggs dem go dey give dhier pickin?

lefulefu:
very true sha. This is why its important for a man to really study the lady he's with. The lady who cheats on u while just a girlfriend will also cheat on u when she becomes ur wife. No two ways about this.

engrelvis:
there is no good woman whether here or abroad.just b mature ,smart, loving n honest in handling dem.women can b nasty n bad ass when offended.is nt their fault.is how dey wired.

Mcy56:
Is that not what we are saying here?
Many eligible men are running away from marriage, choosing fwb and olosho's instead.

lefulefu:
very true sha. This is why its important for a man to really study the lady he's with. The lady who cheats on u while just a girlfriend will also cheat on u when she becomes ur wife. No two ways about this.

SmellingAnus:
true talk bro... As for me , you just gave me a good reason why I should seriously consider marrying a foreigner... I love honesty and openness just as I am willing to be honest and open .... At the end, like you rightly said, I pray to meet the right one...

lefulefu:
yea true but some ladies can also be nasty and bad to the guys who treat them with respect and love.its just one of those things u can't change bro.

engrelvis:
bro am talking about ur real wife n nt girlfriend or side chick.believe me those r different ball game entirely

lefulefu:
hmm na wao., even my aunt's husband told me a story when he was in UNIBEN as a student he was doing this bike business to sponsor himself in school. So one night he picked a female passenger on his bike. They were going for some distance and after a while a while he noticed the girl just disappeared from his bike. I ask am weda d girl fall from the bike or na breeze carry her. Im say im no know dat all he know was dat she jus disappear from the bike .im reverse im bike then search for d babe but there was no single sign. He say d incident scared him dat the next day he had to see his pastor.the story scare me too.i have heard stories about girls coming from marine world and other regions but i don't know how true is dis sha cos me never see mummy water face to face. greiboy and mikejj una need to comment on this.

lefulefu:
but na ur girlfriend dey graduate to ur wife na.b4 u meet that special woman u want to wife,she must first be ur girlfriend. Except u belong to the school of thought that believes b4 u marry u must tell ur parents to search for a girl for u in the remote village.

mikejj:
. lefu omoh mami water....lefu i know how to catch mami water oo.any Bae wey i wan date,,,i must give her salt lick to confirm say she is not a mamimarian...ask thegeneralqueen she go share her experience..

chenzen:
why are u pained? the guy is wise...

lefulefu:
hmm na wao., even my aunt's husband told me a story when he was in UNIBEN as a student he was doing this bike business to sponsor himself in school. So one night he picked a female passenger on his bike. They were going for some distance and after a while a while he noticed the girl just disappeared from his bike. I ask am weda d girl fall from the bike or na breeze carry her. Im say im no know dat all he know was dat she jus disappear from the bike .im reverse im bike then search for d babe but there was no single sign. He say d incident scared him dat the next day he had to see his pastor.the story scare me too.i have heard stories about girls coming from marine world and other regions but i don't know how true is dis sha cos me never see mummy water face to face. greiboy and mikejj una need to comment on this.

koffsman:
Very simple am scared of getting married and not stayn married G boys will always tempt Dem no matter what you do for them so long social media dey

Montez90:
the main reason is money, can you marry a poor man out of pity?

yanabasee:
In a context, we often refer to the white ladies....which we can tell that they have a different mentality from an average naija girl....


Nearly a good percentage of the white women will go for true love, good sex and time from a man....

But a good number of our Nigerian women will go for money over any silly love....

I will bet you that, many men commenting here have had their experience over this...

ImaIma1:
As in!!! It makes them sound very unintelligent and unenlightened. Using their shallow choice of girlfriends or the girls in their "yard" or area to judge us all. Very small minded thinking

Grayjoy:
"wise" is a relative term. Use it how u want.

angelbulksms:
He might be referring to some sales/marketing executives.

Richydos:
Just sssshhhhh up ur mouth abeg Racism ko, crazecism ni Just lemme 2 hear word pls

Asowari:
and Nigerian women don't do this as well?

chenzen:
Grayjoy will u marry me¿

Grayjoy:
Am not gay bros. Tell them u did not see me.

Thegeneralqueen:
You're not yet married and your head is shining my friend go and marry

KOPT33:
Where will I find these Scandinavian women that you speak of?

Shugavee:
just hving fun!! Hving fun like men do!! B4 a lady is 23 the pressure has began!!! While The parent of a male child is setting up his future!!! B4 u get to 300l self as a woman, u r ripe for marriage!!!( U won't get it, u r not a lady) U think ladies won't like hving random sex too n being players!! But we can't cause the society has conditioned us

lefulefu:
haha i have heard dat too..and i also heard dat any girl wey dey forbid to eat fish is probably from the marine world. I like fish oo and i love eating fish...so if i prepare fish with stew and d girl dey avoid d fish then somethin tells me she must be mammy water. Ehn wich experience u get with Thegeneralqueen? Are u tellin me she's mammy water?

IamaNigerianGuy:
When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
People living in pain and dying in silence...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP