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Adebowale89:
see this unscrupulous object? please check well before quoting next time, I don't have time for this stupidity you're ploughing

why is it so insensitive of kid like you to know that you can't override someone opinion, this is my own opinion even your yeye cries at my mention won't reverse that.

I won't marry a non virgins, am I the one that disvirgin all your sisters, why the cry?

laudate:
All this long epistle from your end, simply because I asked you if you were a virgin yourself? Hehehe....!

Adebowale89:
shut up and use your drugs. go and ask your brother that jamb QST, if he's a virgin.

don't provoke me further this afternoon

afroniger:
I understood your post perfectly before making my last comment. You said:



You were blanketly judging non-virgins who aren't rape victims, as if you holy pass. Who made you judge over other people's conduct and choices? You no holy pass. Losing one's virginty isn't the worse crime or 'sin' a woman can commit in life so go and sit down with your sanctimonious self.

victorvezx:
Most of the men that eventually marry virgins have probably slept with one girl or the other while they were still little teenagers. Because they are men, they don't see having sex as losing their own virginity. Talk about hypocrisy. It is only in this superstitious continent called Africa that virginity is overrated, meanwhile we still remain backward smh

chineloSA:
I think virginity talk should be personal and reserved for certain people in ones life.

Why is it that male virginity is not taken into consideration in this virginity talk?
WHY IS IT ONLY WOMEN'S VIRGINITY THAT IS BEING FOCUSED ON?

Personally, I would say it's a choice which one should accept to live with its consequences for whichever they choose.

Keeping your virginity and not keeping it both have positive and negative consequences.

I have seen people keeping it and end up in messy marriages and messy messy marital sex life. Where the man may be diabetic, Hypertensive etc and unable to do anything in bed. Whereas if they tried before marriage, they could have found ways or not marry at all.

I have seen people who decided not to keep it and still end up in messy situations too.

It's a personal choice that doesn't need National discussion as it's also not a National Vagina

lefulefu:
imagine a virgin on her wedding night she hold her husband's pingolo but d tin no gree work.upon d hand job she do d tin is still dead. Dats any virgin's worse nightmare... Getting married to an impotent man.

damosky12:
What's in the "forbidden fruit" that'll make him/her go gaga?

The OP is quite spot on. Any lady without enough discipline to hold herself for the right time is of lesser marriage value to one who has kept herself whether or not she goes gaga later or not.

That's the truth we can't avoid.

Mandrake007:
Virginity is not just about hymen, but rather about absence of sexual experience. if you wanna remain a Virgin,that should be your personal decision,there's absolutely no need to broadcast it.

And since when has virginity become an accessory to be flaunted?? Can you call a girl with unbroken hymen who had MouthAction a virgin? Or the one who had anal sex? Virginity is about moral purity and integrity. It is the quality of soul, rather than of the body,all you 21st century African Virgins make me cringe.


PS we will still meet ourselves in hell :p

Rozaytee:
abegii...make I hear word..na so dem dey talk na wen d fvck start ...it will be in imaginable

predmine20:
Who says virgins no go make heaven,that one na mumu talk.

Virginity is never overrated and can never be,all you non-virgins should come to terms with reality and stop pulling wool over your eyes.

We virgins(the holy ones) didn't force you guys to lose your virginity on the altar of pleasure so why are you guys atagonizing we virgins.

Abi e dey pain una because we no be like una.

Enough of this childish tantrums and nitwitism from you guys a.k.a second hand.

We won't tolerate and allow this nonsense talks about been a virgin na waste of time to fester any longer.

All non-virgins that are fond of insulting virgins can go to hell and burn to ashes for all we care because we can never ever condescend to your levels of living that immoral and shameless lives you are all living in the guise of been a secondary virgin

You non-virgins should deal with it.
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NoToPile:
The virgins have vexed.

I am happy someone opened this thread, the way nairalanders diss virgins is quite alarming

Can't they just leave the virgins alone.

deebrownneymar:
Who got under your skin so bad? I see no reason to judge virgins and non virgins

Finestbae1:
Thank God I kept my virginity. It wasn't easy though, it even made my last relationship not to workout.

Well, I'm over the guy now. Anybody not willing to wait till that wedding night should forget it.

Virgin to Altar!!!

ITbomb:
This is the same attitude that scares me from marrying a virgin.

They think all they all they have to offer in marriage is that bloody trap door

chivic:
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Go to the continent that virginity is not "overrated" and see Countless of abortion, same sex nonsense, a lot of contract marriages, marriage that hadly last more than a month is more.But as long as we continue to place virginity high,chastity will be enthroned in the society.

Jman06:
To all those posters typing that virginity does not guarantee happy marriage, we know that already! But does being a non virgin guarantee a happy marriage either No!
All we are saying is that the chances of having a good marriage are higher with a virgin than with a non virgin.
All things being equal, a virgin does not have too many exes who may show up along the way and ruin your marriage because your wife is still emotionally attached the ex. Virgins have not tasted different sizes of penis and have less wear and tears down there, so it will be easier to satisfy a virgin sexually than non virgin who might have had her pussy torn by different sizes of penis.
Virgins also stand higher chances of not having any STDs than non virgins. In most cases, being a virgin means having high moral values which she can as well impart to her children.
Virginity is one of the best gifts a lady can give to her man.

If you are not a virgin, just hide your face!!!

Adebowale89:
if I mistakenly marry u non virgin, you won't enjoy the marriage with me, infact I won't even feel safe being in a relationship with someone with loose hymen



no stupidity is more than a lady that open her legs for a boyfriend and expect her husband to treat her as Queen

TheUpsetGirl1:
just shut up and stop spilling trash.. idiot

TheUpsetGirl1:
you're supposed to be in jail not in a sane society.

are you a virgin yourself?
kids though

Bustincole ;Dpost=66813640:
Virgin is a pride of woman



Dont allow boys to deceived u


Kip ur virginity

predmine20:
Who says virgins no go make heaven,that one na mumu talk.

Virginity is never overrated and can never be,all you non-virgins should come to terms with reality and stop pulling wool over your eyes.

We virgins(the holy ones) didn't force you guys to lose your virginity on the altar of pleasure so why are you guys atagonizing we virgins.

Abi e dey pain una because we no be like una.

Enough of this childish tantrums and nitwitism from you guys a.k.a second hand.

We won't tolerate and allow this nonsense talks about been a virgin na waste of time to fester any longer.

All non-virgins that are fond of insulting virgins can go to hell and burn to ashes for all we care because we can never ever condescend to your levels of living that immoral and shameless lives you are all living in the guise of been a secondary virgin

You non-virgins should deal with it.
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reminiscing:
Let me address this issue.
First of all being I want to hammer on the fact that being a virgin is overrated.Yes,it is.
Being a virgin doesn't guarantee anything,it doesn't mean you will get married to a rich and cool-headed man,it doesn't guarantee a good marriage neither heaven.
Gone were the days when men only looked forward to getting married to virgins just to boost their self esteem or for ego-glory.
So many people think being a virgin is everything. How about attitude and character? ability to manage situation or better still being the better-half to whoever will marry them.
Alot of non-virgins never chose to be that way,circumstances led to it.if I was a man,i will focus more on the main characteristics I could tolerate and then make the "virginity" a bonus

reminiscing:
Let me address this issue.
First of all being I want to hammer on the fact that being a virgin is overrated.Yes,it is.
Being a virgin doesn't guarantee anything,it doesn't mean you will get married to a rich and cool-headed man,it doesn't guarantee a good marriage neither heaven.
Gone were the days when men only looked forward to getting married to virgins just to boost their self esteem or for ego-glory.
So many people think being a virgin is everything.How about attitude and character? ability to manage situation or better still being the better-half to whoever will marry them.
Alot of non-virgins never chose to be that way,circumstances led to it.if I was a man,i will focus more on the main characteristics I could tolerate and then make the "virginity" a bonus

Mandrake007:
Virginity is not just about hymen, but rather about absence of sexual experience. if you wanna remain a Virgin,that should be your personal decision,there's absolutely no need to broadcast it.

And since when has virginity become an accessory to be flaunted?? Can you call a girl with unbroken hymen who had MouthAction a virgin? Or the one who had anal sex? Virginity is about moral purity and integrity. It is the quality of soul, rather than of the body,all you 21st century African Virgins make me cringe.


PS we will still meet ourselves in hell :p