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Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by highpriestess: 10:39pm On Apr 21, 2018
Mrs independent, you think being independent will make him love you more? this moloshos aren't loyal,what have you gained in being independent now?


mehn,these guys are really fùcked up. sorry,take heart.embarassed better move on,cos he has chosen your friend over you.cry
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Apr 21, 2018
highpriestess:
Mrs independent, you think being independent will make him love you more?
this moloshos aren't loyal,what have you gained in being independent now?



mehn,these guys are really fùcked up.
sorry,take heart.embarassed
better move on,cos he has chosen your friend over you.cry
I've been watching you. You have really nasty words for men, what did we men do to you. On behalf of all guys who did what they did to you, forgive them all and be less brash. Your words cut deep and sting, damn
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by highpriestess: 10:44pm On Apr 21, 2018
rikemsmedia:
I've been watching you. You have really nasty words for men, what did we men do to you. On behalf of all guys who did what they did to you, forgive them all and be less brash. Your words cut deep and sting, damn
mmm,you have been watching me?

like you are really a cctv.undecided
seems you don't have a job tonight.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Kaybee7000(m):
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 21, 2018
highpriestess:
mmm,you have been watching me?

like you are really a cctv.undecided
seems you don't have a job tonight.
Night work? Aint a Molosho cheesy
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by highpriestess: 10:59pm On Apr 21, 2018
rikemsmedia:
Night work? Aint a Molosho cheesy
lol
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 21, 2018
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 21, 2018
Safiaa:
Men like women they can impress. When you start showing that you’re too independent they begin to feel useless. They’ll move on to the next woman they can impress, so that could’ve been the problem. Or maybe he just wasn’t that into you in the first place. Well it’s only been two months, so I want to assume you’re not too emotionally invested. So disconnect yourself slowly as God is showing you signs.
its a very big lie. Who said guys love girls who are broke so they can impress.. It a serious lie biko. Every guy loves an independent lady.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 21, 2018
Imapearl:
hello everyone
I just need your advice

I was so scared of dating because of my past experience but this one has given me another reason to stay off till further notice

Okay, the first time we met was inside a keke and I didn't care to know who he was because I was late for work and the second time was in my friend's birthday/Engagement party, So he approached me, we danced together...of cause we exchanged digits

To cut it short we have been dating for two months now, never have I asked him for money for upkeep or anything. Sometimes he will just ask me why don't I demand things from him and the rest....seriously I can't demand when I know I can get what I want myself and for that he was fun of sending me money because he knows I won't ask for it....so last week Monday was his birthday and I invited my friends and the birthday was fun but I noticed he was particularly interested in one of my friends but I didn't try to think otherwise or jump in conclusion because i trusted him, but just on Thursday I went to his place to carry the file I forgot at his place to my surprise I saw my friend and him together!!
couldn't say or do anything, I was confused and couldn't believe my eyes an since that Day still date he has been calling but I can't pick his calls
please guys did I do anything wrong
see you don't have any right to be angry. If u don't want him anymore then quit. Besides he never engaged you, or neither have you guys seen your parents. So I don't see any reason to be mad at him. If he cheats and so, is he engaged to you already? Or had an introduction.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Apr 21, 2018
CHESTER48:
see you don't have any right to be angry. If u don't want him anymore then quit. Besides he never engaged you, or neither have you guys seen your parents. So I don't see any reason to be mad at him. If he cheats and so, is he engaged to you already? Or had an introduction.
Must you advise, which kind talk be this one
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by samdavjustin(m): 1:07am On Apr 22, 2018
Girl you did the right thing. Two months old relationships he’s already cheating he doesn’t deserve you if you were faithful to him.

Never compromise with a fuckboy



having sex![/quote]
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 7:16am On Apr 22, 2018
rikemsmedia:
Must you advise, which kind talk be this one
just told her the simple truth
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Shugavee(f): 7:26am On Apr 22, 2018
CHESTER48:
see you don't have any right to be angry. If u don't want him anymore then quit. Besides he never engaged you, or neither have you guys seen your parents. So I don't see any reason to be mad at him. If he cheats and so, is he engaged to you already? Or had an introduction.
this says alot about you!!! A man like u is everywoman's nightmare!! N am very sure u are very single n i hope u remain that way
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 8:15am On Apr 22, 2018
Shugavee:
this says alot about you!!! A man like u is everywoman's nightmare!! N am very sure u are very single n i hope u remain that way
lol. As long as I am not engaged yes, I'm single.but I have 5 different girls I'm fucking right now. Till I settle. Simple
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by richythePH(f): 11:54am On Apr 22, 2018
mikejj:
. true!! but remember at the birthday She said ..she was suspecting her guy picking interest on that particular friend of hers..and she saw the same friend at the guys house ah...even if they were not doing anything fishy i think the guy should have inform her b4 seeing this her friend.
yea.................you right, plus she just confirmed she saw them having sex


the be7t thing to do now is ignore the guy and move on
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by richythePH(f): 11:58am On Apr 22, 2018
greiboy:
That is true bro
I have witnessed something like that before
Some women are overly jealous lovers
Although, I feel the op subtly described what she saw.
I am good and you? cheesy
I heard Liverpool will soon walk alone against the gods of Rome cheesy
yea.........i just noticed she did

and ermmm you mean the slaves of rome bah

the slaves who would bow before the red kings on tuesday cool

happy sunday....,........how's ruth doing lipsrsealed
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by richythePH(f): 12:01pm On Apr 22, 2018
Imapearl:
having sex!
oh!.......okay


if thats the case, i suggest you ignore and forget about him.............,.it's a win win situation smiley
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by mikejj(m): 12:02pm On Apr 22, 2018
richythePH:
yea.................you right, plus she just confirmed she saw them having sex


the be7t thing to do now is ignore the guy and move on
hmmnn some friends atimes ehn... like me i don't buy the idea of ladies going with their friends to see their fiancee, it doesn't end well atimes.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Apr 22, 2018
richythePH:
yea.........i just noticed she did


and ermmm you mean the slaves of rome bah


the slaves who would bow before the red kings on tuesday cool


happy sunday....,........how's ruth doing lipsrsealed
Yeah, you wish tongue

slave of Rome indeed

Slave of Rome that made the almighty Messi look like an average player cheesy

Emmm, I am sure ruth is fine lipsrsealed, we are just friends on nairaland though

Happy Sunday too bro
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Apr 22, 2018
Imapearl:
hello everyone
I just need your advice

I was so scared of dating because of my past experience but this one has given me another reason to stay off till further notice

Okay, the first time we met was inside a keke and I didn't care to know who he was because I was late for work and the second time was in my friend's birthday/Engagement party, So he approached me, we danced together...of cause we exchanged digits

To cut it short we have been dating for two months now, never have I asked him for money for upkeep or anything. Sometimes he will just ask me why don't I demand things from him and the rest....seriously I can't demand when I know I can get what I want myself and for that he was fun of sending me money because he knows I won't ask for it....so last week Monday was his birthday and I invited my friends and the birthday was fun but I noticed he was particularly interested in one of my friends but I didn't try to think otherwise or jump in conclusion because i trusted him, but just on Thursday I went to his place to carry the file I forgot at his place to my surprise I saw my friend and him together!!
couldn't say or do anything, I was confused and couldn't believe my eyes an since that Day still date he has been calling but I can't pick his calls
please guys did I do anything wrong
nah you cool
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:16pm On Apr 22, 2018
Op you did nothing wrong. Be strong and move on with your life. Shits happens. Some guys are scum.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by richythePH(f): 12:21pm On Apr 22, 2018
greiboy:
Yeah, you wish tongue

slave of Rome indeed

Slave of Rome that made the almighty Messi look like an average player cheesy

Emmm, I am sure ruth is fine lipsrsealed, we are just friends on nairaland though

Happy Sunday too bro
that's the thing people fail to see bruv,; LIVERPOOL ISN'T BARCELONA & MESSI IS NOT SALAH!!!!


tuesday would come as a shock to you all when you see scoreline liv 6 - 1 roma



and no.............i dont mean nl ruth (ur online "friend"...........according to you o)

i'm talking 'bout bae ruth wink
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Apr 22, 2018
Imapearl:
hello everyone
I just need your advice

I was so scared of dating because of my past experience but this one has given me another reason to stay off till further notice

Okay, the first time we met was inside a keke and I didn't care to know who he was because I was late for work and the second time was in my friend's birthday/Engagement party, So he approached me, we danced together...of cause we exchanged digits

To cut it short we have been dating for two months now, never have I asked him for money for upkeep or anything. Sometimes he will just ask me why don't I demand things from him and the rest....seriously I can't demand when I know I can get what I want myself and for that he was fun of sending me money because he knows I won't ask for it....so last week Monday was his birthday and I invited my friends and the birthday was fun but I noticed he was particularly interested in one of my friends but I didn't try to think otherwise or jump in conclusion because i trusted him, but just on Thursday I went to his place to carry the file I forgot at his place to my surprise I saw my friend and him together!!
couldn't say or do anything, I was confused and couldn't believe my eyes an since that Day still date he has been calling but I can't pick his calls
please guys did I do anything wrong
he's playing you out, you look fineeeee tongue

You definitely deserve more, you deserve me wink
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 22, 2018
richythePH:
that's the thing people fail to see bruv,; LIVERPOOL ISN'T BARCELONA & MESSI IS NOT SALAH!!!!


tuesday would come as a shock to you all when you see scoreline liv 6 - 1 roma



and no.............i dont mean nl ruth (ur online "friend"...........according to you o)

i'm talking 'bout bae ruth wink
Of course, it will be a criminal offense to compare Barcelona to Liverpool or Messi to salah based on achievements in recent years, which is why loserpool fans should be very afraid of what is coming at them. cheesy

I don't know the ruth you are talking about then bro cheesy

I am single as the number 1 grin
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by ashjay001(m): 12:32pm On Apr 22, 2018
Imapearl:
having sex!
Just keep an open mind, abt having relationships. Most ladies who insist on locking up their hearts, tend to fall for playas! Na mostly playas, go ready sacrifice d kind of time n invest d kind of emotions, necessary to woo, babes like that.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Apr 22, 2018
ashjay001:
Just keep an open mind, abt having relationships. Most ladies who insist on locking up their hearts, tend to fall for playas! Na mostly playas, go ready sacrifice d kind of time n invest d kind of emotions, necessary to woo, babes like that.
Twale Must ladies who insist on locking up their hearts, tend to fall for playas! Na mostly playas, go ready sacrifice d kind of time n invest d kind of emotions, necessary to woo, babes like that.
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 22, 2018
richythePH:
you saw ur friend and boyfriend together........


doing what precisely? undecided


one thing i've come to know over the years is ladies can easily misunderstand / misinterpret some things especially when these things involve emotions............. .


so tell me miss..........,...what were they doing exactly when you saw them? huh
smiley smiley
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Lalas247(f): 12:43pm On Apr 22, 2018
This scenario has nothing to do with being independent ... like you stated he sends you money regardless and u use it!
so just remove that as the reason.

He just wasn't ready to settle down.. a player would always be one .. and money or lack of won't stop a cheat ... do u know how many independent ladies are out there millions ! and if he wants to cheat nothing can stop him..

now you caught him having sex what other proof do you need? you already ignored red flag one so this should have sealed the deal.. its just two months dear .. two months you can't even say its love cause its not.. so pick yourself up and move on .you don't need to hear him out it adds nothing to your life .. there are guys out there that would appreciate you for who you are independent and all . wink
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Lalas247(f): 12:44pm On Apr 22, 2018
greiboy:
Of course, it will be a criminal offense to compare Barcelona to Liverpool or Messi to salah based on achievements in recent years, which is why loserpool fans should be very afraid of what is coming at them. cheesy

I don't know the ruth you are talking about then bro cheesy

I am single as the number 1 grin
see ur life sad e go shock u
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 22, 2018
Lalas247:
see ur life sad e go shock u
Liverpool fan spotted grin

Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Lalas247(f): 12:46pm On Apr 22, 2018
rikemsmedia:
Liverpool fan spotted grin
whose that sexy guy with a beard .. is DAT my salah cheesy
Re: Did I Do Something Wrong Or Was I Over Independent? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Apr 22, 2018
Lalas247:
see ur life sad e go shock u
Yes. when Roma tear looserpool apart without redemption. Definitely!

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