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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:24pm On Apr 22, 2018
Not everyone lady wants a guy to impress them with money, some guys are soo foolish they will brag about it, leaving the girl no choice but to ride along, then later the guy start to rant till thy kingdom come saying she has nothing to offer, forgetting he instigated it first, lol

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Apr 22, 2018
walepackage:
i hope this aint only "ideal",but attainable in "reality".This days its difficult to have a clear cut demacation between 'thoughts' and 'reality'.Just an observation thou.

Please explain.
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Apr 22, 2018
Use the same money to buy her gifts and take her to special places. Women never say no to those two.
I used to date a girl that would tell you not to send her card without her requesting. That trait turned me on though

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by chukzyfcbb: 2:27pm On Apr 22, 2018
attention!!!

Give her attention. pay attention to the tiniest of details.

If she changes ear rings, tell her something specific bout earnings. If she changes hairdo, tell her something specific about her new hairstyle.

don't just say something generic. Oh I like your hair its nice.


Girls Love attention, and sadly not too many guys give them these.
If she said something in the past about an idea or project, talk about it. Be a good listener

However these doesn't imply that you should be a zombie and follow her like a mumu. Get a life but give her the needed attention

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by izzou(m): 2:28pm On Apr 22, 2018
pocohantas:
If there are men who don't fit into the stereotyped view of being impressed by sex. It will take a special kind of ignorance to think there ain't females not impressed my money. They abound.

He raised a very sensible point. Lots of men have their ego and respect tied to money, without it..they are basically useless and clueless. That's why they fear lack more than anything. Some others have built their personalities, such that the money is a plus.

Non-materialistic ladies are free spirits. They want the simple things of life. Attention, loyalty, respect, love, your drive (career), time, commitment...even good sex. As simple as the aforementioned looks, it doesn't come easily to every man smiley

Where have you been? angry

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by martineverest(m): 2:29pm On Apr 22, 2018
what a useless question?.....
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by hardon1(m): 2:30pm On Apr 22, 2018
point me a woman who is not impressed by money. unless you dont have the kind of money she wants

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Apr 22, 2018
I haven't met any yet, but I reckon you give them extra love and affection

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 22, 2018
There is no woman that doesn't have a price. Just get that right amount and she will roll. tongue

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 22, 2018
walepackage:
i hope this aint only "ideal",but attainable in "reality".This days its difficult to have a clear cut demacation between 'thoughts' and 'reality'.Just an observation thou.

I cant speak for all women or most even. I have my own set of values or ethics that I follow to be good with myself amd maintain my dignity. A man can shower you with money but underneath all that is a class a jerk. I just prefer to deal with a character of a person and treat them the same way I would want to be treated.

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by shamecurls(m): 2:33pm On Apr 22, 2018
Better say you dont know how to make impression.
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by AidlifeOnline(m): 2:35pm On Apr 22, 2018
[b][/b]buy yourself a Gwagon
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Divay22(f): 2:36pm On Apr 22, 2018
That's what it is.

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by zicoraads: 2:37pm On Apr 22, 2018
pocohantas:
If there are men who don't fit into the stereotyped view of being impressed by sex. It will take a special kind of ignorance to think there ain't females not impressed my money. They abound.

He raised a very sensible point. Lots of men have their ego and respect tied to money, without it..they are basically useless and clueless. That's why they fear lack more than anything. Some others have built their personalities, such that the money is a plus.

Non-materialistic ladies are free spirits. They want the simple things of life. Attention, loyalty, respect, love, your drive (career), time, commitment...even good sex. As simple as the aforementioned looks, it doesn't come easily to every man smiley
Hanty Poco! Too much sense wee not kee you grin

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by bejeria101(m): 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2018
She isn't human!
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Alejoc(m): 2:40pm On Apr 22, 2018
Show her you really want her......




They are rare to find..... She needs you to be consistent!
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 2:42pm On Apr 22, 2018
Then give her whatever impresses her. There's has to be that one thing.
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by krak101(m): 2:44pm On Apr 22, 2018
There are other things. You just keep joggling inbetween till you find her selling point. Everyone wants something

Note: i personally think it's lame trying to woo a lady with money. Just shows your level of moral decadence

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by steveDpro: 2:49pm On Apr 22, 2018
Find another thing
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by WORLDPEACE(m): 2:50pm On Apr 22, 2018
pocohantas:
If there are men who don't fit into the stereotyped view of being impressed by sex. It will take a special kind of ignorance to think there ain't females not impressed my money. They abound.

He raised a very sensible point. Lots of men have their ego and respect tied to money, without it..they are basically useless and clueless. That's why they fear lack more than anything. Some others have built their personalities, such that the money is a plus.

Non-materialistic ladies are free spirits. They want the simple things of life. Attention, loyalty, respect, love, your drive (career), time, commitment...even good sex. As simple as the aforementioned looks, it doesn't come easily to every man smiley

You get sense.

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by africanusvu(m): 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2018
First.try to know that deeper thing more than money she needs.then see if u can handie it.else.Runnnnnnnnnnn
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by oglalasioux(m): 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2018
That woman hasn't been born.
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Laxy009(m): 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2018
hiawathia81:
I work hard and make my own money, so your money doesnt buy me. Im interested in your character. Are you thoughtful, honest, capable of being faithful, respectful, funny, and kind. Money is temporal meaning when it's gone what is left?

I will make you a deal, if you have hope that there are good women out there, I will believe that good men exist still also.


I'm surprised to read this in a country which an average Nigerian girls is always thinking about Money and money. Well, I believe there are a lots of things money can't buy and.

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by badboyharmony: 2:54pm On Apr 22, 2018
i wonder why ya niqqas take questions like this serious ffs get the C's and fvck any bim that catches ya fancy
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Safiaa(f): 2:54pm On Apr 22, 2018
IamD18:
This is one of the relationship toughest and mind cracking statement i'v seen, and if truth must be told, i'll say most men won't know what to do with a woman who can't be impressed with money, that's why some rich made women rarely last in a marriage.

But I don't think men are to be blamed because most ladies tends to prioritize a man's financial abilities, hence the "Relationship-turn-to-transaction" we are experiencing these days, they hop into a relationship with the mindset of elevating themselves from poverty and obligating themselves to a man, and with this mindset, gives a man the reason to focus and upgrade only on his financial ability to keep the relationship going because that's the only thing ladies want.

I may not use myself a an example,but i think men can handle or show a women love if they decide to erase their money mindset and stop being a liability to a man.

Kindness, compassion, support, understanding, empathy, companionship, friendship, love, inspiration, motivation, vulnerability and intimacy are what men can offer a woman, but the sad and ugly fact is that women prefer money to these things and that's why men overlook what should rightly and affectionately be offered to a woman.

When both partners are poor, then will those aforementioned be seen.


Simple question they asked, you are babbling on about nothing. Smh

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Apr 22, 2018
cheesy cheesy mumu
Safiaa:
Simple question they asked, you are babbling on about nothing. Smh

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by jaychubi: 2:56pm On Apr 22, 2018
There is no such woman na initial gra gra

Or why waste your time on one, just move on
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by IamD18: 3:02pm On Apr 22, 2018
Safiaa:
Simple question they asked, you are babbling on about nothing. Smh

In as much as I know that nature did some ladies harm with fish brain, hence their low ability to comprehend a simple shii.

I still won't mind stooping so low to clarify you.


IamD18:

Kindness, compassion, support, understanding, empathy, companionship, friendship, love, inspiration, motivation, vulnerability and intimacy are what men can offer a woman, but the sad and ugly fact is that women prefer money to these things and that's why men overlook what should rightly and affectionately be offered to a woman.

Read and understand.

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Apr 22, 2018
mikejj:
cheesy i haven't seen any girly that doesn't get impressed by moni..i doubt if they exist! even the ladies inside their mind and within themselves know its not possible ,,,I can bet my Gucci slippers on this ..the next person to comment knows am not far from the truth. grin
Them dey but rare my Babe can't be impressed by money but girls like that are hard to get finally infact no offend dem cus they are who they are if not i offended my babe mek she tell me wetin i do she refused if to say na other girls i go just carry her go dinner and she go tell me everything even the one wey i never do she go tell me

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by shaybebaby(f): 3:04pm On Apr 22, 2018
As someone who isn't impressed by money, I'd say what I look for are;
Humour

Kindness

Attention ( non negotiable)

Fun loving attitude (being with you must be interesting)

Passion (you have to have something you live for)

Sex (I want you for breakfast, lunch and dinner and snacks in between) cheesy

Romance (my partner nicks flowers from people's gardens to bring home to me, once brought a rose all the way back from his travel)

Emotional Support - He has wiped many snotty noses when I'm upset, brewed soups when I am ill and listened when I needed to vent.

Honesty.

A sense of self worth which isn't tied to money.

In short, an all round decent human being. Everyone who meets him says he is a lovely person and it helps that he is gorgeous as well. Who money epp?

We can and will build our empire together. cool

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Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by focus7: 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2018
Am yet to meet one of such women.
Re: As A Guy, How Do You Handle A Woman Who Is Not Impressed By Money? by Originalsly: 3:08pm On Apr 22, 2018
Hmmm...... a woman impressed by money is a woman not impressed nor interested in the man that has the money....just the money......you can take this to the bank. Besides money/material things...... it's hard for a guy to impress a babe if he doesn't know what ehmmm....rocks her boat....different strokes for different folks. Maybe you can impress a babe by flexing muscles...some women trip for that....but just showing off muscles can be a turn off for some women.Maybe you can start rattling off academic achievements...been bagging Masters from age 19....some women trip for that...but some women don't like book men. Just be true to yourself.... you never know what is it about you that will impress a woman or make her ehmmm.........pick race!

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