amar3664:
] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household work..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she will hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that

DaniDani:


Is this your true story or a copied story from another site as it is reflecting on this background?

For a woman to open her mouth to say such a thing calls for worry. If she's not cheating, she'll certainly cheat someday.

amar3664:


This is very much my own story brother ,or else why would i ve worried and ask for advice?i never expected such a mess will be created from keeping servant,and she also never asked for female househelp,she also agreed to it

oweniwe:


About how old is the servant?

amar3664:


He is 22 years old

oweniwe:




For her to say that means she has been thinking\fantasizing of being drilled by the boy.

If she isn't already bunking with him, you're safe. Find a female help.

Her fantasy or desire to sleep with the boy will only get stronger every time you're not around and it could ultimately happen.

Don't blame the boy sha. As far as he has been doing his job diligently, See him as a Biblical Joseph... And see your wife as Potiphar's wife....

Generals06:


Hi Oweniwe I think we need to form a sort of support team for kenddrace. Maybe donate and give her gifts or just show support by visiting (Those living in Lagos around LUTH)
She is one of us and needs to be shown love and support.
I think there is aTEHN? group here that caters to things like this?

I don't really know how things run here. So counting on old members like you to pull this off. Please feel free to mention other members that can support.

Thanks.
It is well.


cc Obinoscopy

oweniwe:


I'm in Delta at the moment. If i were in Lagos, would have tried to see her. Was thinking of telling my mom about her so she could visit her and advise on the course of alternative medicine to use.... But I dunno how it'll work out cos my mom is a market woman and i don't know how her presentation will seem to Kendra's ppl and doctors.

I'm very skeptical about the chance of her pulling through with formal hospital treatment. Lost a friend last year who died cos a nurse game him too much drip and disappeared till my friends arm got swollen before she came back to remove it and the damage had been done. So i don't really trust Nigerian hospitals.

I have drawn her attention to one NAFDAC approved Herbal medicine doctor in Abuja.... But i know it requires money to go and subscribe to that route. I'll search online and see if i can find any Nafdac approved Herbal doctor in Lagos and notify her.

TEHN is a great option. My heart is with her and will continue to pray.

Thanks for buzzing me

Ovems:
It might be nothing, please don't project infidelity in your marriage. And thinking about it too much might give you high bp. Your health is important. If you are worried, get a female househelp instead and let the male servant go or get a member of her family or yours that she loves and respect to come stay with her to keep her company while you are away.