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pocohantas:
Maybe he didn't know. I have gone to occasions and watched well-dressed men and women lose their home-training at the sight of free jollof rice and moin-moin.

The first date should be the responsibility of whoever initiates it.

What is wrong is the girl ordering N11,800 worth of food.
When you're on a date, watch your host.
But if at all he/she insists you order first, keep it simple.
It's a date, not the Last Supper.

The guy only beat her to her game.
Cunny man die, cunny man bury am.

Nice one.

Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...

Yes, they exist when childish girls cannot keep their childishness at home wen on a date wt a guy.

sexdoll:
If the girl you are with has any common sense at all, then there will no need for you to reprimand her in the first place.

Don't make it look like it's okay if she has no common sense and it is my duty to force some common sense into her.

Believe it or not, this attitude is one of the reasons why women tend to misbehave a lot.

They do all sorts of nonsense and blame their irresponsibility on the guys for that and guys like you are saying it is okay.

No way!

You can now see why the guy had to use a very harsh but very effective method to teach her some common sense?

Even if I am the one that called her out, it still doesn't give her the rights to empty my pockets.

Again, if the girl is wise enough, she doesn't even need to ask for how much will be enough because that will be like putting the guy on the spot.

What anybody with common sense will do at that point is to order for something that is equivalent or even less in price than what the guy himself is ordering.

That way, the guy may even have the privilege to ask her to order for some more!

But like I said earlier, so many people lack common sense.

look,blaiming only the woman is nonesense.....the idiiotic guy didnt tell the part were he was glutting that he is rich....

that amount is not much in a fancy restaurant sef....men try to impress women with money too much....just facts....

their are many women that are already happy when you take them to a walk....i did that alot without spending a kobo....

better you say the truth direct out....

what a woman want to do with a guy that already lies about his financials by dating....??....that is bad market for the woman....

Give me something light, am not really hungry!

Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...

I bet you any time & any day,your father whom i respect will never use 11k for a one meal at a seating on your family.

tiredoflife:
really what is wrong if a girl orders N11400 food
everything is wrong
if its not a posh restaurant where all bills are from the above price
eat maturely
them no swear for am to disgrace her brokeness

its very bad why do they use guys to test run food they av not eaten before in their life

proffemi:
I no know who alpha epp. All I know is, your woman will give you the level of respect you EARN. Deserting a woman because she pig's out is immature behavior. That's what some of the boys today do, but that's not what gentlemen do. A gentleman may decide not to take her out next time, but he'll pay the bills for a date he initiates. If he doesn't have enough cash, he will be frank about it.

I'm telling you how gentlemen act. It's your choice whether to be a gentleman or not. It's not a question of who e epp. If whatever you're doing works for you, continue. Leave me alone.

Don't be an idiot naw.
Read up and see the meaning of alpha.
Even alpha males in a pack don't allow excesses of any other member.
Firstly the lady specified the restaurant SHE wanted ordered what SHE wanted then with no regard for the mans pocket EXPECTED him to pay, when he didn't bulge she went on to attack his ego hoping to MANIPULATE him into paying by telling him real men don't do this and that.
Well shocker, the man didn't have low self esteem, when SHE saw that that didn't work SHE appealed to his good side, trying to sweettalk him into pay.
Now here's a question how do you think she paying eventually in that restaurant, ...
Obviously a REAL man like you sent her the money.

Cheers to all the REAL men out there, hopefully more jobs fall on your to continue your slavery niceness.

ALEXIS0240:
I bet you any time & any day,your father whom i respect will never use 11k for a one meal at a seating on your family.

the guy is childish....he didnt tell us the ol story....

what do we know what he told her everything before they went to that restaurant..??

and who suggested that they both go to that particular restaurant....??....he or she...??

men go crazy when they have the chance to nak toto....

Berlyn1:
Poor girl next time you dont get toO greedy wonder how some girls act really funny me i cannot goan disgrace myself coz of food sha

Coman chest my dear

Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

Despite your protest, she still didn't get it that you would prefer your bills to be low.

Silentscreamer:
So childish guys like dis still exist...

afi childish na...so you are part of the gluttons..?

all that money for an alum-tightened,loose,stinking pusssy ..the only thing they get to offer last last... I dey craze

Nairalanders! i admire their sense of humour!


All comments above succeeded in cracking my ribs...

To OP; Too much sense you've got...

that amount is not much realy in a fancy restaurant...in japan you can order lobsters that cost 600dollars a plate....

yes,you heard right....

playing big guy is not worth it when you dont realy have.....

sexdoll:
If the girl you are with has any common sense at all, then there will no need for you to reprimand her in the first place.

Don't make it look like it's okay if she has no common sense and it is my duty to force some common sense into her.

Believe it or not, this attitude is one of the reasons why women tend to misbehave a lot.

They do all sorts of nonsense and blame their irresponsibility on the guys for that and guys like you are saying it is okay.

No way!

You can now see why the guy had to use a very harsh but very effective method to teach her some common sense?

Even if I am the one that called her out, it still doesn't give her the rights to empty my pockets.

Again, if the girl is wise enough, she doesn't even need to ask for how much will be enough because that will be like putting the guy on the spot.

What anybody with common sense will do at that point is to order for something that is equivalent or even less in price than what the guy himself is ordering.

That way, the guy may even have the privilege to ask her to order for some more!

But like I said earlier, so many people lack common sense.

Wow, Am getting myself a sexdoll, do they come in versions like yours or are you just unique.?

Hanseel1:
guy 3450....lady 11800k
are you normal?

she ain't normal one bit.....

Serves the girl right.

How would a lady expect a guy to take their relationship serious if she started out as a glutton.

Marry me please.

pocohantas:
Maybe he didn't know. I have gone to occasions and watched well-dressed men and women lose their home-training at the sight of free jollof rice and moin-moin.

The first date should be the responsibility of whoever initiates it.

What is wrong is the girl ordering N11,800 worth of food.
When you're on a date, watch your host.
But if at all he/she insists you order first, keep it simple.
It's a date, not the Last Supper.

The guy only beat her to her game.
Cunny man die, cunny man bury am.

Hanseel1:
.........
what was he thinking when he took out an hungry broke girl for a date?

He didn’t fvck up.
There’s nowhere it’s written that a man should pay on the first date.
I’ve gone on first dates with ladies who insisted on splitting the bill.
My sisters always make sure they have enough to cover their outing and transport when they go out. It’s simple ethics.

Furthermore, he was pissed at her attitude when he told her to pay. The way she reacted was rude.
I’m very sure he would have stayed if she didn’t lash out like that.

Quite obvious she's chop & quench lady.

She has nothing to offer aside pussy, arrogance, ill manners and sense of entitlement.

Mofe72:
He didn’t fvck up.
There’s nowhere it’s written that a man should pay on the first date.
I’ve gone on first dates with ladies who insisted on splitting the bill.
My sisters always make sure they have enough to cover their outing and transport when they go out. It’s simple ethics.

Furthermore, he was pissed at her attitude when he told her to pay. The way she reacted was rude.
I’m very sure he would have stayed if she didn’t lash out like that.

thats why you should go embarass her their....??

thats not fair....

was he in a coma while she was ordering....??

why didnt he say anything while she was ordering....??

i would have said something....

justtoodark:
the guy is childish....he didnt tell us the ol story....

what do we know what he told her everything before they went to that restaurant..??

and who suggested that they both go to that particular restaurant....??....he or she...??

men go crazy when they have the chance to nak toto....

I know this guy.
And “toto” is not his problem at all. The money too isn’t the problem.

Olalan:
For me I strongly think its bad manners when you order for so much when the bills is on someone else

Yes,it is

Mofe72:
I know this guy.
And “toto” is not his problem at all. The money too isn’t the problem.

soo,whats realy the problem....??

Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

Real MVP

Saintmary:
That's a glutton. But guys, tell them before the date not to over-order. Some of you tell the lady to order anything she wants, leading her into a trap and then complain about it later or hang her out to dry. If you know it's not in your budget, be plain about it .

So that gives Her the right to order anyhow abi. She chop half bag of rice alone.


It's their first date, so you expect Him to tell Her to be reasonable with the order .
When is He suppose to tell Her He has a budget for the date, before the date or when She's about to order?
If and when He does that, there is a 90% probability She will go on social media and start shouting and ranting that Men are scum and broke.

justtoodark:
thats why you should go embarass her their....??

thats not fair....

was he in a coma while she was ordering....??

why didnt he say anything while she was ordering....??

i would have said something....

It’s a lesson to her.
If she knew she didn’t have money she wouldn’t have spoken to him like that.
If she had manners she would have observed that he spent less than 4K.
Was she sleeping?

I’ll take a girl on a date one day

Dottore:
I had invited a girl on a date. I thought we could start something serious. Her father is a Secondary School Teacher while her mum is a trader. While we were considering where to go she said she'd like to go to Sahara Restaurant that she had never been there and she heard it's a nice place. . I had gone there a couple of times. This restaurant is a classy restaurant run by Arabs in Enugu. she came with 2 other girls, all were provocatively dressed and chewing gums without the slightest care in the world.
. A conversation ensued between btw us through text:
Me: babe I thought this meeting is for the both of us.
You didn't tell me you are coming with your friends.

Babe: what's wrong with my friends coming with me.
I also accompany them to meet their bfs. Besides
they are bored in the hostel and we are hungry.

(they were busy going through a big leather bound colorful menu book and placing orders)

Me: I didn't plan for this. I have a budget for our outing.

Babe: duuurrr! (carelessly chewing gum with clicking sounds)

I kept my cool as they chattered about school and gossiped about their school mates. In less than 30mins the food started coming, the only thing I could recognize was pizza which they say they'd prefer as 'take away' and a bowl of shredded Chicken Sauce. Among their orders were two glass cups of a drink I couldn't recognize and a slice of lemon hanging on the tip of each of the glass.
The waiter brought a printed bill with a shiny steel cone that they use to cover bills. I opened the cone and looked I saw N17,300
I had ordered and paid for bottled water while I was waiting for her to come.

I gently stood up, left and drove straight to another eatery.. I didn't bother switching off my phone because of 3 lousy girls. I managed to silence it though because the calls were incessant followed with countless messages that first started with insults then calmer tones of "apologies"..

Nonsense

U b kolo come and collect ur heavyweight championship belt

justtoodark:
soo,whats realy the problem....??

It’s the way she reacted.
Almost threatening him.

Ligang:
Had similar experience few years ago.

Met a girl,we chatted for days and decided to meet up,went to pick her at her parent's place but on getting there she told me her little sister wanna get her provision at shoprite that i should chaffuer them and bring her sister back before we go out for our date. mumu me,I agreed.

Got to shoprite,i gentlemanly followed my would be baby & future sister in-law inside the mall. And lo, they were both picking the largest sizes of any thing they laid thier hands on....in my mind I was like wow these babes parent are rich and at least am a lucky dude finally.

Approaching the counter, the little sister said hope am ready to pay for everything they have bought...In my jocular voice i laughed and said she must be kidding until these misfits took it serious.

Trust me a Yoruba boy wey no dey shame,I tear for them right there... raising my voice at them.Jezz we just meeting after some days of chatting online and at a glance of that baskets are bills of more than 20k...Like am ur uncle

Took the intervention of one shoprite staff to calm my nerves down,I was so furious. Left them there,walked outta the mall(Enugu Shoprite) and go wait in d car.

After few minutes,they joined me empty handed!!!

So the sister wasn't actually buying anything! I lambasted the hell outta them while driving them back home, dropped thier lazy asses in thier home and off i go.

She called apologizing but I never set my eye on her after that day.iove men that call the bluff of these hungry, shameless gold diggers, publicly!

u r d man bro

11800 for one belle at a time.na somebody monthly salary be that oo...that money go feed me for one month plus.