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Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.

I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages. 

I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.

It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.

I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

Safiaa:
I knew this was going to be one of the counter arguments. When a mother delivers a child out of the vagina, an instant love for the child is born. This child has no persona/personality this is the type of love that has no attachments to it. This is the only type of love that exists in my world. You love that child for the creation of their dna, no forms of condition to it.

As we get older we begin to develop certain characteristics. These characteristics may change as we we continue to grow. You can’t say certain characteristics are inseparable to humans, as the only thing constant in life is change. But whatever characteristics we develop, may attract someone to love us. Now those characteristics tend to change as we age, that’s when we hear phrases like “ I fell out of love” when it wasn’t love in the first place, because you can’t fall out of love with your child. The conditions you loved the person for are no longer available. That’s why I say conditional love is not real and the only true love is between mother and child. Get it?

Safiaa:
We’ve all been here. Youll get over it with time. You don’t love her, you love the idea of being with her. Live your life

iLegendd:
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Have a nice day.

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

Lomprico2:
Sorry! Forgive yourself and move on.

grossintel:
How long have you been dating her? If you just started dating her recently please give her some space and stop checking her phone. Don't do it! She's not even sure she wants to be with you yet. How old is she? Maturity plays a big role here if she's still very young it's common with girls her age who don't know what they want from a guy yet.

Adeevah:
Check her phone today and your life will never remain the same

Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do

I love her so much.
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begwong:
ALL THIS UNA SUPER STORY THAT ENDS WITH I LOVE HER SO MUCH! WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT US TO SAY. U BETTER KUKU MARRY HER LIKE THAT SINCE YOU LOVE HER SO MUCH AS YOUR MUMU NO DO YOU NAH!!

onatisi:
Checking a lady's phone or man's phone is one of the fastest ways to getting hypertension.
Even if you check some married couples phone messages ,you will be shocked so how much more a single lady/man.

irumanle:
Easier said than done. You don't just trust people blindly because you are in love with them, happenings like this make people commit suicide because they didn't got the wave of what was about to hit them. I check my girl phone once in a blue moon for check and balance. One man daughter no fit com n kill me wit hrt attack

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

NOC1:
Why do you guys go through peoples phone?
There is no way you will check someone's phone without Seeing one thing.
I have never for one day checked my girlfriend phone, I know she is beautiful and young chykers and admirers will be all over her in one way or the other, If you truly want to own her then please make haste and pay her bride price.
For the fact you guys are not legaly married, you don't have a right over her life style.

EgunMogaji:
Even if my phone is aflame my wife will not touch it - guaranteed.

Her phone is like non existent to me even though she charges it on my desk. When it rings I don’t pick it or even look at it.

She knows who she’s married to.

Men have to set a good foundation and live by principles.

Oloshos are fun to hang with but do not try to make one a wife.

donstan18:
Did you just ask what you should do?

Well, you won't hear it from my mouth that you are foolish and stupid for asking such question.

Love kill you dia.

Princedapace:
A person who want to cheat will cheat! Forget that thing. I have many married young ladies who are cheating as we speak. If only their hubby can go through their phone, he would have known that he is living with enemy.

Find out on time the type of partner u are settling down with...

A committed relationship should be one with loyalty from both partners.. do u know why? Both are spending their time, energy and money. These three things are expensive.

Always find out who u are dating if such person is who u want to marry. Except na Bleep boy and Bleep girl relationship. But if u guys have made up ur minds to be committed, then faithfulness is expect from both of u.

If u like think sey na only when u marry ur gf u fit discover who she is! She go just kill u follow another man.. As we speak, a young married lady with two kids who used to be my friend is showing me green light for the past one year. If not that I have deleted the messages she sent to me, I would have asked u to send me message and I get to show u a part where she said "I am ready to do anything to be with u if u want'

A cheating woman can kill u just to be with her lust! No dey form 'modern guy' and say na until u marry ur babe before she can be loyal.... if she cant be loyal in committed relationship, she can never be loyal when she is married. Same goes to guys.

It is not by force, anyone who doesnt want to be loyal should not be in a relationship or marriage.. U can still be single and enjoy what married and those dating are enjoying.. So i dont see the need of going into a relationship only to be forming privacy up and down.

Just remain single so that u dont answer any question. For many years, I refused to date any lady becus I didnt want to have anyone to answer to. I was just jumping up and down and I had the fun of freedom... But when i knew I was ready to answer questions like where are u? What are u doing? Why didnt u call me? Who are u chatting with? Can i have ur phone? etc. When i was ready for these questions, I went into a relationship and remained loyal..

We shouldnt accept a stupid lifestyle in this our generation. We shouldnt justify unfaithfulness at all. It may finish our next generation.