But some people no get shame sha! Oga man up and tell her that you're no longer comfortable with her presence in your house.If you keep mute,it could lead to complications.Maybe she's ashamed of her YOUNGER sister marrying before her so she fled from her place of abode

ElsonMorali:


Lol.

But the issue is if he comes late I don't see how that's going to get the woman to leave that house.


The best thing I suppose is for the wife's mom to call her daughter to order. That's the only person that may be able to talk sense to her.

Depends on the type of person the wife's mum is.What if she supports her daughter

ElsonMorali:


Lol.

But the issue is if he comes late I don't see how that's going to get the woman to leave that house.


The best thing I suppose is for the wife's mom to call her daughter to order. That's the only person that may be able to talk sense to her.

Very good point

ImaIma1:


2hrs late is enough to raise an eyebrow if talking to his wife is yielding no result.

A wise man will not directly call his inlaw and ask her to leave except she has offended greatly or done something abominable to jeopardize their marriage.

He is meant to impress upon his wife to make her leave or involve their other family members

...Most times what you ladies term as wiseness is foolishness.Do you think he has not bn discussing this issue with his wife and she has done nothing,hence him bringing it to this forum? He is not being wise but scared of the consequence or what people or his in-laws will say or how they will feel.Period . He should be man enough my dear.

FuckFuckBoy:
But some people no get shame sha! Oga man up and tell her that you're no longer comfortable with her presence in your house.If you keep mute,it could lead to complications.Maybe she's ashamed of her YOUNGER sister marrying before her so she fled from her place of abode

...I wonder o

Your wife is the rightful person to show her exit from your home
Talk to her.
Cc: Lalasticlala

it is probably that she is single with no boyfriend and no job at hand. so no one is missing her neither is she missing anyone. just bear with her she will soon leave.

alimaa:
I know i am supposed to post this in the family section but i always get better response from the Romance section. I don't know whether any of you has been in a situation where an in-law comes for a short visit and finally settles in your home without any sign of leaving anytime soon. My wife's elder sister who is single came to visit us in January but up till now she has not made any move to go and it's not as if we live in a big apartment so there is no much privacy. We got married in 2015 so our union is still young. This kind of situation puts one in a dilemma because you just don't know what to say and you will be termed "a bad person". She lies on our matrimonial bed even in my presence.
Before now i never knew someone would feel comfortable staying with a younger sister in her matrimonial home. If it is as a result of accommodation problem or maybe you went to a distant location to do one or two things and you now spend sometime in your younger sister's home, that is understandable.

Please what advice do you have for me?

After I give you my own advice you won't believe I'm not yet married...

My brother when she enter una room and lay on the bed even when your wife dey there ...just go and take your bath and come in with only towel then remove the towel and start searching for your boxers in their presence ....

Out of the 2 one persons brain must reset.

JONNYSPUTE:
...Most times what you ladies term as wiseness is foolishness.Do you think he has not bn discussing this issue with his wife and she has done nothing,hence him bringing it to this forum? He is not being wise but scared of the consequence or what people or his in-laws will say or how they will feel.Period . He should be man enough my dear.

i have not discussed it with my wife yet because i don't know how she would feel.

alimaa:
i have not discussed it with my wife yet because i don't know how she would feel.

....Pls do discuss it with her as soon as possible.If she is in support of her sisters act,then you will find out and if not,she will be the one to talk to her sister first. If after talking to her sister and she still doesn't leave,my brother,don't be scared,think about yourself and ur wife's happiness first and ask her to leave. As long as ur wife is with you on this,she will go

The only solution to your problem is to sleep with her too

FuckFuckBoy:
Depends on the type of person the wife's mum is.What if she supports her daughter

Now that's another issue. It means there's a plan between them to break up that family.

In that case the man must make a stance and put his foot down and ask the lady to leave.

alimaa:
I know i am supposed to post this in the family section but i always get better response from the Romance section. I don't know whether any of you has been in a situation where an in-law comes for a short visit and finally settles in your home without any sign of leaving anytime soon. My wife's elder sister who is single came to visit us in January but up till now she has not made any move to go and it's not as if we live in a big apartment so there is no much privacy. We got married in 2015 so our union is still young. This kind of situation puts one in a dilemma because you just don't know what to say and you will be termed "a bad person". She lies on our matrimonial bed even in my presence.
Before now i never knew someone would feel comfortable staying with a younger sister in her matrimonial home. If it is as a result of accommodation problem or maybe you went to a distant location to do one or two things and you now spend sometime in your younger sister's home, that is understandable.

Please what advice do you have for me?

Lie Keeh you there

Paulpaulpaul:
@Kennyprince, you are wicked, how could you occupy my place?



Leave her with your wife and sleep in a hotel once in a while, when your wife asks, tell her your want her to enjoy gist with her sister.



She will swiftly respond if she's wise

Perfect answer

alimaa:
I know i am supposed to post this in the family section but i always get better response from the Romance section. I don't know whether any of you has been in a situation where an in-law comes for a short visit and finally settles in your home without any sign of leaving anytime soon.

My wife's elder sister who is single came to visit us in January but up till now she has not made any move to go and it's not as if we live in a big apartment so there is no much privacy. We got married in 2015 so our union is still young.

This kind of situation puts one in a dilemma because you just don't know what to say and you will be termed "a bad person". She lies on our matrimonial bed even in my presence.

Before now i never knew someone would feel comfortable staying with a younger sister in her matrimonial home. If it is as a result of accommodation problem or maybe you went to a distant location to do one or two things and you now spend sometime in your younger sister's home, that is understandable.

Please what advice do you have for me?

Impregnate her.

You have legally married 2 wife’s

Congratulations all the... Enjoy it while it lasted

Hello

Excuize me ?

Sorry

One of the disadvantages of marrying from a family that hasn't found it's feet financially .

u have a very stupid wife that lack proper training if not she would have find a way to make her elder sister give u ppl some privacy

kimbraa:
If you ask her to leave, you become an enemy, and if your wife who happens to be her younger sister should ask her to leave, she'd assume your wife is being disrespectful to her because she's married and she's not. Tell your wife to explain the situation to her mother or someone older to call her back and give you guys space.

Best advice. You smart abeg

Brush her mouth with ur d*ckson joor
I trust Mrcock

alimaa:
I know i am supposed to post this in the family section but i always get better response from the Romance section. I don't know whether any of you has been in a situation where an in-law comes for a short visit and finally settles in your home without any sign of leaving anytime soon.

My wife's elder sister who is single came to visit us in January but up till now she has not made any move to go and it's not as if we live in a big apartment so there is no much privacy. We got married in 2015 so our union is still young.

This kind of situation puts one in a dilemma because you just don't know what to say and you will be termed "a bad person". She lies on our matrimonial bed even in my presence.

Before now i never knew someone would feel comfortable staying with a younger sister in her matrimonial home. If it is as a result of accommodation problem or maybe you went to a distant location to do one or two things and you now spend sometime in your younger sister's home, that is understandable.

Please what advice do you have for me?

Get uncomfortably close to the elder sister, you wife will send her packing on her own.

Just leave the house for them...and watch what happens next.

I am that your half brother that have been missing for over 15 years. I just contacted you and i'm in dire need of a roof over my head. Just give me your house address and see her leave willingly within 72 hours tops.

alimaa:
I know i am supposed to post this in the family section but i always get better response from the Romance section. I don't know whether any of you has been in a situation where an in-law comes for a short visit and finally settles in your home without any sign of leaving anytime soon.

My wife's elder sister who is single came to visit us in January but up till now she has not made any move to go and it's not as if we live in a big apartment so there is no much privacy. We got married in 2015 so our union is still young.

This kind of situation puts one in a dilemma because you just don't know what to say and you will be termed "a bad person". She lies on our matrimonial bed even in my presence.

Before now i never knew someone would feel comfortable staying with a younger sister in her matrimonial home. If it is as a result of accommodation problem or maybe you went to a distant location to do one or two things and you now spend sometime in your younger sister's home, that is understandable.

Please what advice do you have for me?

First, discuss it with your wife. If she can't ask her to live, then you do us unless you are enjoying her presence. I hope she will not become the second wife or even take over?

The best thing you should do is to give her a 2-month ultimate to look for a place of her own. She can’t be inconveniencing you and your wife

JONNYSPUTE:
The problem most married men make in their early marriage is being too soft and scared of consequence. Oga discuss the situation with ur wife and let her know how you feel about it. Let your wife know you didn't marry both and besides you two needs privacy for now. Let her talk to her elder sister about it,give them sometime to act,and if she doesn't leave,then be a man and ask her to and damn the consequence. Is high time people should start saying their mind and stop pretending that all is well while they keep dying slowly in silence.

thank u,not all d mumu post have been reading

kimbraa:
If you ask her to leave, you become an enemy, and if your wife who happens to be her younger sister should ask her to leave, she'd assume your wife is being disrespectful to her because she's married and she's not. Tell your wife to explain the situation to her mother or someone older to call her back and give you guys space.

nice one

Zonacom:
Sleeps on your matrimonial bed? Hmmm three.some orgy loading...
But on a serious note, talk sense into your wife. She's in a better position to ask her to leave

talk sense into your wife....which sense do you want to talk to her about!!!!

I just went through a tread that was asking the most foolish question ever: who owns the man, the wife or the mother. now you say the man should talk sense to the woman..

any right sensed man should know the only person he answers to is God, not mother or wife. if I were the guy, I would let her continue to sleep with her sister and by the time she would realize her stupidity, I would be long gone. let her go and explain to those that bother on how stupid she was....

Ok