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Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by ronaldbecky(m): 7:19am On Jun 02, 2018 |
GuntersChain:..why r u wicked? |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by bellotaofeek: 7:19am On Jun 02, 2018 |
alimaa: Congratulations.... You just got a bonus from your in laws. That's shows you are a good guy. Enjoy! Seat your wife down, explain to her. The reasons why you feel the visitors can't stay too long with you, So that she can face the exit door. You can't do it all alone. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by ronaldbecky(m): 7:20am On Jun 02, 2018 |
GuntersChain:..why r u wicked |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 7:20am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Lalas247:Your advice is good but that "If your Mrs" line is not good. Whether or not the wife pays half the bills, she should still be consulted. However, it is the wife's duty to ask her sister to leave. Actually, if I were to be the one, I will not allow my sister to stay too long in my matrimonial home as I don't want third parties intervening in my marriage. I will let her know right from the beginning and once she overstays the period agreed upon, she's out. Anybody that has any derogatory thing to say about it can go to hell, it's my marriage, not theirs. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by DavidEsq(m): 7:21am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Paulpaulpaul:
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Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by tope3x(m): 7:22am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Exactly what I was going to type Paulpaulpaul: |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by DanielsParker(m): 7:23am On Jun 02, 2018 |
babeosisi: my thoughts also, unless if the story was made up.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by vicstar16: 7:24am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Smart guy. Baba u talk true seyigiggle: |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:24am On Jun 02, 2018 |
truthstands12:.....Exactly. Somebody is dying in silent and he can't even act all because he wants to be seen as a good man.At times in life,when you want to preserve something,you end up losing it . This is one of the reasons some men die untimely. Eye service is very bad. Men should learn. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by johnnychuks(m): 7:25am On Jun 02, 2018 |
ImaIma1:thats means you wont konge to kill the man and the wife! You hard him, he said they stay in a small apartment. Bros dont just do anything silly so they dont see you as a rong inlaw remember that we are working for our familie and inlaws pls dont break the chain you are not the only person that this have been hapening to pls try to be a good nigeria thats how we live here thanks for taking my candict advice, i have two of my wife elder sisters that are leaving with me! You expect me to chase them to the street, no now thats been heartless and greedy, this is where your maturity need to come in. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by DavidEsq(m): 7:26am On Jun 02, 2018 |
awwfar:Awon werey ni o! 1 Like
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Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:27am On Jun 02, 2018 |
gazilion:...He is worst than a coward. A very big fool he is. Everybody with a dick will answer a man.Rubbish. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by murmee: 7:30am On Jun 02, 2018 |
gazilion:You have really hit the nail on the head. Our man here is not just a coward but very timid. The truth is, the wife controls him! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by dulphines: 7:35am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Make more money, get a bigger apartment and accommodate everyone. Who knows tomorrow? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:41am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Lloydfolarin:.....Bros ,you ve said it all.The funny thing is that these group of men will be dying in silence but because of their eye service towards their in-laws,they can't act. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Shirer(m): 7:41am On Jun 02, 2018 |
The Creator gave women two instincts - wifely and motherly instincts. No reasoning wife would allow the situation described here. The last time I came across this Sisters Act, it turned out to be a gang up against the husband. Sister in-law was supervising her sister to deliver another man's baby to an innocent dude. OP should put his foot down. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by nittroboy(m): 7:42am On Jun 02, 2018 |
I pity you, say it and see chemical reaction, mind you , your life is not secure anymore,she would believed that you would soon cheat on her, Your Death In Advance. hope4nigeria: |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by gnykelly(m): 7:43am On Jun 02, 2018 |
alimaa: what happened to her parents house |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by neptunes88(m): 7:56am On Jun 02, 2018 |
[quote author=Paulpaulpaul Best advice.... works wonders Leave her with your wife and sleep in a hotel once in a while, when your wife asks, tell her your want her to enjoy gist with her sister. She will swiftly respond if she's wise[/quote] |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Malawian(m): 8:03am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Allow your wife's sister find her own. She won't be that lucky hiding away in the village. Leaching is permitable if it is from family. It is when outsiders come to leach that irks. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 8:24am On Jun 02, 2018 |
alimaa: Bros, your situation is very simple to handle, make sure you begin sleep with her and make sure your wife knows about it, it is your wife that would eventually drive her out of the house and when that happen...stop all contact with the lady... Put it in motion then seat back,relax and watch as events quickly unfold itself...!! No put am for quarrel oh!! Peace..!!! |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by kingsleyugo41(m): 8:26am On Jun 02, 2018 |
On no account you should open your mouth to tell your sister in-law to leave your house except she commited a serious offense. Pls hold yourself for now and manage nothing is pamanent maybe she is looking for a job. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by gwuchi(m): 8:28am On Jun 02, 2018 |
kimbraa:best advice so far 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Unlimited22: 8:29am On Jun 02, 2018 |
kimbraa:Oil dey your head. Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by yourstar: 8:45am On Jun 02, 2018 |
If you share a strong bond and agree with ur wife this should not be a problem at all... First why did she come in the first place, have u had this discussion with ur wife and what was her response? A sensible wife should know when her husband is uncomfortable with something and she also knows the best way to go about it.. But anyways call ur wife attention again and let her relate to the mother or any older relative that's if she can't handle her sister. If that fails man up and have a discussion with the Lady last last she and her sister go frown face like nwamkpi for some days and she will go period! |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by thunderbabs: 8:52am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Immorttal: truly, there is nothing new under the sun. These women can be so devilish |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Etianwanokon: 8:56am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Send her out of your house. She smells trouble. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 8:59am On Jun 02, 2018 |
It's as simple as this skip coming home on weekends... Chill out with your friends.. Your wife will complain tell her you need privacy. It's as simple as that. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by alimaa: 9:00am On Jun 02, 2018 |
babeosisi:I provide everything, my wife just finished her OND programme. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by alimaa: 9:07am On Jun 02, 2018 |
Afec1000givers:i reject this your comment. As long as i have blood in my veins i will always have money. Every money i need is inside of me. |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by BlueScholar(m): 9:08am On Jun 02, 2018 |
seyigiggle: Wallahi you sabi I gbadu your style |
Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by ACE1010: 9:08am On Jun 02, 2018 |
seyigiggle: 1 Like |
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