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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 11, 2018
I WAN TRAVEL GO ABUJA WHO GO HELP ME
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nukualofa: 1:54pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

I can imagine the cradle u are dating because I can't see any improvement in your life with the way you insult ladies here.





To the Ladies here, I will always Love and respect you but you mustn't support APC

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by daviesblaze(m): 1:54pm On Jun 11, 2018
i go for an older lady anyday grin grin i no fit for all this small girls and their immaturity

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by maisauki: 1:55pm On Jun 11, 2018
ds man should be given an international award

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jun 11, 2018
daviesblaze:
i go for an older lady anyday grin grin i no fit for all this small girls and their immaturity
As in ehn! Very disgusting immaturity.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jun 11, 2018
Smh. It's always broke, ignorant Nigerian men with no ambition in life who have this kinda absurd mentality. Didn't Prince Harry just marry 36-year old divorcee, Meghan Markle? Props to the real, outstanding men like him out there.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by babeosisi: 2:00pm On Jun 11, 2018
ImaIma1:
This one that is still living with his parents. What does he know?

I have realized that the guys that make such comments are guys that are just developing...probably just passed puberty stage cheesy.

But seriously, no mature man talks or reasons like this. Well, there is still time for him to grow up and get wiser.

You got that right
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:01pm On Jun 11, 2018
Nukualofa:
Marrying a lady in her 30s is not a rescue mission. I prefer them to these "girls" that spend their entire productive life on social media.


Love is beautiful and a 30 year old can make me happier than a 20 year old.

now let us all be honest here, as much as many 30something babes are great women, if a man (of any age) had a choice between marrying a 30something and and 20something babe (both equal in character), then there is no question about what choices he should make here....the YOUNGER one na! as the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

lets be real here!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Stevenson1(m): 2:03pm On Jun 11, 2018
kimbraa:
You're not rescuing any lady by marring her. This mentality is the reason Nigerian girls sees marriage as the golden ultimate than adding value to themselves, and fools like this one will be first to condemn such ladies.


True though, but a gal left my guy because he dated her for 6 months without evidence of proposing to her. Till now... you ladies can't or don't know what you want. Always fighting in all angles.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by IJOBA404: 2:03pm On Jun 11, 2018
Divatochi:
This table u are shaking eeh!!
HE'S RIGHT

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by babeosisi: 2:03pm On Jun 11, 2018
Girls are staying longer to marry for many reasons.
The main reason in Nigeria is that many of you men are unemployed ,unemployable,living with your parents at an age your mates around the world are settling down.
Many of you are unmarriable before 35.
You can't even pay simple bride price without borrowing from relatives

I bet you majority of you on here live with your parents,eating their food and begging for recharge cards ,some are looking for someone to scam.
How una go marry wife
Na who go marry the nwa baby?

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 2:04pm On Jun 11, 2018
ImaIma1:
This one that is still living with his parents. What does he know?

I have realized that the guys that make such comments are guys that are just developing...probably just passed puberty stage cheesy.

But seriously, no mature man talks or reasons like this. Well, there is still time for him to grow up and get wiser.

Everyone has got their preference in life, it's got nothing to do with maturity....he might have made his point in a derogatory way throwing shades at ladies within that age range but the end of the day. That's his choice .

I know ladies that can't marry men 39 years and above, they consider them too old....

But I'm sure when these ladies clock above 30 they won't mind, thats when u start hearing age is just a number from them..it wasn't a number when they were in their 20s ooo

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by emelda86(f): 2:05pm On Jun 11, 2018
Hahahaha.... Boys everywhere

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by RillJ(m): 2:07pm On Jun 11, 2018
He is desperate for attention.
pocohantas:
LOL. His face is so funny...



Continue editing your comment.
You'll get there. This isn't harsh enough...YET!
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Preshy561(f): 2:08pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

mumu,who are you to speak for real men.
you and this your warped mentality.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nukualofa: 2:11pm On Jun 11, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


now let us all be honest here, as much as many 30something babes are great women, if a man (of any age) had a choice between marrying a 30something and and 20something babe (both equal in character), then there is no question about what choices he should make here....the YOUNGER one na! as the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

lets be real here!
I've always have something special for those in their 30s because I can sit with them and relieve
Old memories and it won't sound like I just landed from utopian.



Imagine I'm trying to talk about Raskimono life and times with these newbies

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by plessis: 2:11pm On Jun 11, 2018
Chibok girls rescue mission grin
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by SpaceAngel: 2:13pm On Jun 11, 2018
Rescue from what?
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 2:14pm On Jun 11, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


now let us all be honest here, as much as many 30something babes are great women, if a man (of any age) had a choice between marrying a 30something and and 20something babe (both equal in character), then there is no question about what choices he should make here....the YOUNGER one na! as the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

lets be real here!

Everybody wants young...is that not why pple falsify age, company say they want 23yrs for a job..doesn't mean above 30 cant do the job.....

Leave them..they won't be real...all of them ladies will be calling the guy immature...
And the fact is when these ladies are in their 20s, they will be saying guys above 40 are too old because they feel they still have choice and time...
once they hit 30s their song will change to[b] " I want a matured man, age is just a number"[/b]

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by victorian(f): 2:15pm On Jun 11, 2018
A lady in her 30s has turned him down , that's why he's spiteful.

Whether its a rescue mission or certified mission ?

The koko is ? You are marrying a lady in her 30s ! End of story

And she's also rescuing your miserable sef , as no younger girl wants anything to do with his broke aasz grin
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by TrumpDonald2: 2:16pm On Jun 11, 2018
Lonestar124:
Oga if I see good potentials in her I will marry her.... The current president of France is 39years and his amiable wife is 65years.

Bro, don't even go there.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by victorian(f): 2:19pm On Jun 11, 2018
wildimagination:


Everybody wants young...is that not why pple falsify age, company say they want 23yrs for a job..doesn't mean above 30 cant do the job.....

Leave them..they won't be real...all of them ladies will be calling the guy immature...
And the fact is when these ladies are in their 20s, they will be saying guys above 40 are too old because they feel they still have choice and time...
once they hit 30s their song will change to[b] " I want a matured man, age is just a number"[/b]







We want matured men cos they have less stress, they are financially stable and not squatting . Then they treat women better in terms of material things and emotions. there is nothing like we are splitting house rent into two. Infact its a win win win situation tongue

And he's got his rent covered already in a three bedroom flat or duplex .

That's what I call a man!
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lonestar124: 2:21pm On Jun 11, 2018
crafteck:


Not everyone is cursed naaaa.. 26 years diff
What do mean by "not everyone is cursed"?

As long as they're living happily and bearing fruits my friend they're good to go abeg.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by tiwiex(m): 2:27pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamAirforce1:
Knockout punch cheesy
Immature statement. He could have done some good ige he got his tenses right though. How in the world is a ladies marriage age his problem? Does it affect him in any way. I think sometimes Nigerians are so insane and bored. They just find anything to trend. The guy did not knockout out any body. Stop supporting cyber bullying of a whole group of people.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Oreofepeters: 2:27pm On Jun 11, 2018
but the guy is right

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by magiki(m): 2:28pm On Jun 11, 2018
kimbraa:
Sorry! I think you should speak for yourself than speaking for real men. Who's a real man by the way? Great men marry for the values they see in a lady than age. They don't care whether she's 20 or 30; provided she fits into what they desire, they're good to go.

Tell him very well
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:29pm On Jun 11, 2018
Nukualofa:
I've always have something special for those in their 30s because I can sit with them and relieve
Old memories and it won't sound like I just landed from utopian.

Imagine I'm trying to talk about Raskimono life and times with these newbies

if you wanna be with an older babe simply so that you can relive the past (and supposedly not because of her freshly features) then you should indeed marry your agemate... sadly, a very important point here is that, the look of women you found attractive as a young adult, rarely change as you grow older, you just expect their mind to now be correct (as extra).

wildimagination:
Everybody wants young...is that not why pple falsify age, company say they want 23yrs for a job..doesn't mean above 30 cant do the job.....

Leave them..they won't be real...all of them ladies will be calling the guy immature...
And the fact is when these ladies are in their 20s, they will be saying guys above 40 are too old because they feel they still have choice and time...
once they hit 30s their song will change to[b] " I want a matured man, age is just a number"[/b]

correct....but just as its wiser to go for a younger babe, same applies for babes that would rather have a fresh young fit 20something bull than some older potbellied unfit dude.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 11, 2018
Dat guy with face like withered frog wen trailer don match, in his mind he feels he has said something see his bad naive face. Unam ikot mkpor.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by PierreAbutu(m): 2:35pm On Jun 11, 2018
babeosisi:
Girls are staying longer to marry for many reasons.
The main reason in Nigeria is that many of you men are unemployed ,unemployable,living with your parents at an age your mates around the world are settling down.
Many of you are unmarriable before 35.
You can't even pay simple bride price without borrowing from relatives

I bet you majority of you on here live with your parents,eating their food and begging for recharge cards ,some are looking for someone to scam.
How una go marry wife
Na who go marry the nwa baby?

You may be right, but as far as Nigerian women are concerned, among the reasons why many of them are unmarried are:
1. Spiritual reasons/spirit husband/communal or family bondage
2. Pretense.......women pretend a lot, and tend to show their real selves after marriage - this will cause men to generalise and avoid marriage
3. Low self-esteem
4. Inferiority complex
5. Dependence mentality
6. Failure to pray and seek God's guidance
7. Setting unrealistic standards for their future husbands
8. Bad character.....stubbornness, pride, etc.
9. Finding it difficult to 'recover from a former heartbreak/failed relationship
10. Comparing yourself with other (married) women

stay blessed

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Smarte724(m): 2:37pm On Jun 11, 2018
I wanted to comment but seeing the guy picturw alone, I lost my words ,

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by 2eggs1goal: 2:37pm On Jun 11, 2018
grin grin grin
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by JhyMedex: 2:40pm On Jun 11, 2018
kimbraa:
Sorry! I think you should speak for yourself than speaking for real men. Who's a real man by the way? Great men marry for the values they see in a lady than age. They don't care whether she's 20 or 30; provided she fits into what they desire, they're good to go.

I find mysef siding wit u on this one..

Howeva for most ladies dt r 30 n not married..the reason was not dt dey took deir tym adding value to their lives..
most of dem at dt age still want to depend on a man 4 most tins.
They often lack d maturity n wisdom dt comes wit age....

If a friend of mine tries to marry a gal of dt age..
i'll advice he checks out her history quite thoroughly...

u 30 meaning uve bn dating for atleast 8yrs..n in dt period no man has found u tolerable enof to marry?..
I bet dere's sth sour abt such a situation..

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