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wristbangle:
Lol as if you know the story behind it and if that is something to hold on, atleast that can't be compare to your wilful escapades.

C'mon shut up. Is it now you that know the story behind my escapades. I done fck you before?

oshe11:
Even bible said the Only reason a Man is allowed to Divorce his Wife is when she Cheats.....


So You can forgive her but NEVER TAKE HER BACK.......


Let her Leave with her UNFAITHFUL PUSSEE

I hope you know that passage is two ways

A man who cheats too should be dumped according to you


Well what I believe is that the decision is left to the person in question


If you can forgive, do so, if you can't, you take a walk, and this is applicable whether you are a man or a woman.

Chigold101:
even the Church too.

Yes,I wedded in Catholic Church don't know of other churches but in court they tell your wife no matter how the love overwhelmed her, she should not give it to the man.

2016v2017:
how is he sure that the baby is even his?
you should have adviced him to go for DNA before divorce

but he said she started cheating on him wen he lost his job so wat makes u tink d baby is nt his

ifycoly:
Brother it once happened to me, I did forgive, stayed with her n try changing her today is a better person. Is not just to forgive but the patient to grom her out of such thought and behaviour.

Congratulations to your feat.



I'll advice you keep some money for DNA when the time comes.




Cheating is a choice and not some thoughts or behaviours.

pocohantas:
Common shut up. Is it now you that know the story behind my escapades. I done fck you before?

Oh! So that itch right! Lamentation of a pained girl.

wristbangle:
Oh! So that itch right! Lamentation of a pained girl.

Itch ginni? Get this into your head, outside here 'pocohantas' stops existing. You all stop existing. Well, except NLDERS that matter.

If e concern you, carry my matter for head like gala...
It won't stop me from living life and continuing with my supposed olosho business o. Maga must pay. Lemme go and hustle

cococandy:
He poisoned one to death in his wild wet dreams .

Does that mofo sound like someone a girl would get close enough to the point of getting poisoned by him? Unless he dropped it in a random strangers food or drink.

That’s a loser right there. He’s the type that takes a gun to shoot up his class because no girl wants to give him pucci.

I'll really be happy to believe you. That fellow is active in crime and romance sections.

So sadden all we have now are public toilets and not women again.

ireneidiva:
Judge, if he was the one that cheated, will you give her this same advice?

Barrister waka pass abeg if it may interest you kindly read my mentions & see that I don't spare even the male folks

pocohantas:
Itch ginni? Get this into your head, outside here 'pocohantas' stops existing. You all stop existing. Well, except NLDERS that matter.

If e concern you, carry my matter for head like gala...
It won't stop me from living life and continuing with my supposed olosho business o. Maga must pay. Lemme go and hustle

Before nko! Whoever takes online stunts serious naim life. Enough said. Hustle well and let's spend the money together

wristbangle:
Before nko! Whoever takes online stunts serious naim life. Enough said. Hustle well and let's spend the money together

So you can be this cooperative? If you continue like this, we won't be having problems . I know my occupation, try not to remind me.
You hear?

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

. permit me to laugh first..hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaHahha....i can no longer in good conscience avoid commenting on this thread even though av really tried not to...u said it all started last year November? by my calculations from last yr Nov till now it's been about 7mnths.
. i dnt believe your story. but for bleeps sake i would just analyse ur write up.
1. u already refered to her as ur ex-wife (meaning ur case with her isa done deal) so why waste our time wit all this write up seeking for ways to go about a devorce..simple ur a fucking attention seeker!
2. u said u worked ina reputable company translation u were well remunerated! and u went bankrupt in just months of loosing the said job? gosh!!! all this Omo wobe when will inbibe the culture of saving?

3. things got so bad that ur supposed wife stopped sleeping at home? she would go out for days and come back wit some tips for u and u were cool with dat. Gosh ur pathetic! am guessing the tips would be for taking care of ur baby!

4. u finally paid ur rentage. bravo! but u still. absconded in the guise of looking for job and escaping querrels wit ur wife! then u blame her for screwing her boss who sticked around! one more thing..u said u eventually found the password to her phone..one might be obliged in good conscience to ask how u did that? buh hey..its all part of the script right!

5. when u found out she was cheating u ..u smoked alot of weed and drink alot as well...i was right the actor is Omo wobe confirmed!..
Now these the part that would confuse the hell outta smart pipo..the script says it's been months since the problems occured.. and the supposed mom of the supposed wife keeps calling and begging him to take back his supposed wife...one would wonder how many months we would have from nov.last year to June this year that all the above happened considering that the events separately occurred.

6. u said the script is solely for getting advice on how to get a divorce without a marriage cert plus ur uncle joked about the cost of getting one. bro u and ur uncle can't come here and Bleep wit smart pipo u would make geniun

pocohantas:
So you can be this cooperative? If you continue like this, we won't be having problems . I know my occupation, try not to remind me.
You hear?

I can be cooperative when my discussion with someone is heading on a jovial and positive path.

Well, it doesn't stop the fact I won't tackle you because I know how funny your comments can be atimes likewise vice-versa from you .

So small girl, always behave okay?

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

. permit me to laugh first..hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaHahha....i can no longer in good conscience avoid commenting on this thread even though av really tried not to...u said it all started last year November? by my calculations from last yr Nov till now it's been about 7mnths.
. i dnt believe your story. but for bleeps sake i would just analyse ur write up.
1. u already refered to her as ur ex-wife (meaning ur case with her isa done deal) so why waste our time wit all this write up seeking for ways to go about a devorce..simple ur a fucking attention seeker!
2. u said u worked ina reputable company translation u were well remunerated! and u went bankrupt in just months of loosing the said job? gosh!!! all this Omo wobe when will you inbibe the culture of saving?

3. things got so bad that ur supposed wife stopped sleeping at home? she would go out for days and come back wit some tips for u and u were cool with dat. Gosh ur pathetic! am guessing the tips would be for taking care of ur baby!

4. u finally paid ur rentage. bravo! but u still. absconded in the guise of looking for job and escaping querrels wit ur wife! then u blame her for screwing her boss who sticked around! one more thing..u said u eventually found the password to her phone..one might be obliged in good conscience to ask how u did that? buh hey..its all part of the script right!

5. when u found out she was cheating u ..u smoked alot of weed and drank alot as well...i was right the actor is Omo wobe confirmed!..
Now these the part that would confuse the hell outta smart pipo..the script says it's been months since the problems occured.. and the supposed mom of the supposed wife keeps calling and begging him to take back his supposed wife...one would wonder how many months we would have from nov.last year to June this year that all the above happened considering that the events separately occurred.

6. u said the script is solely for getting advice on how to get a divorce without a marriage cert plus ur uncle joked about the cost of getting one. bro u and ur uncle can't come here and Bleep wit smart pipo u would make geniun posters look like fraud.plus u said u have audio evidence of ur supposed wife's conversion with her supposed lover..how did u get that please? do u mind sharing?


Finally, for the records? i didn't learn shit from ur script!.

cococandy:
Who hurt you?

Before a man can go extreme cursing women know that he has been hurt badly. And the worse thing to happen to a woman is a man curse. You ladies better change your ways. You guys take men love for u lots for granted and pay him by betraying his love. Men curse on women has a big effect according to Mother Nature, tell your lots to change their ways I repeat instead of been defendant here.

stillseth:
To marry dey fear me

I SWEAR

cococandy:
Sorry

In the quest to live a sophisticated life don make naija girls turn prostitute finish.

naijacentric:
are u a faithful man in the first place

Honestly, men are licence to cheat,is their nature,any women should control their body

daviesblaze:
True Talk Bro. by the way, i've only counted two females quoting this post so far. does it mean 99.9% of women do cheat

Does that mean everybody who replied this post are not cheats?

entparrot:
Honestly, men are licence to cheat,is their nature,any women should control their body

wats wrong is wrong dont encourage such

austyn0:
This life sha...

Bros abeg I need this ur photo on whatsapp... 08099673300

Forgive your wife, give your life to Christ and convince her to do same, have a fresh start in your marriage. May God forgive us all.

.

Triaction2790:
the picture message no suppose end there oo... you can do better. Good work

Laughs... It wasn't my doing broh,, doownloaded it.

DateMynd44:
wow uwese.
Thanks bro.
That's life for u.
Have also had Same experience though. Lost the motivation to get married.

Seriously??

Sorry abou that man,, you still unmarried?

pocohantas:
The warroom doesn't allow men enter ba?

When you watch the movie u will understand.

oshe11:
Even bible said the Only reason a Man is allowed to Divorce his Wife is when she Cheats.....


So You can forgive her but NEVER TAKE HER BACK.......


Let her Leave with her UNFAITHFUL PUSSEE

But Men cheat every day and get caught very often ....Is the poster trying to tell me since he got married he
has not had something with another woman.80% of married me cheat at least twice a week.
Let us stop acting holier .It is still possible to work the relationship out ,let not say its 100% impossible.

desiregold:
He will move on and still be with another woman who was also dumped for cheating.

I am not justifying what his wife did. its totally wrong.

But, we are all sinners. And to forgive is Divine.

Our Lords prayer said "Forgive us our sin as we forgive those who sin against us".

To me, when it comes to marriage, i believe there is no sin one cant forgive if you want an everlasting home.

His wife has realized her mistakes, she is begging for forgiveness. Dont you think she deserves a second chance?

Would you continue to live with a physically abusive husband?

freecocoa:
I find it hard to believe that you asked your wife for the password to her phone, she no and that no, actually stood.

I stopped reading at that point.

Lol. What should he have done, beat it out of her? If you refuse to relinquish your phone password to your husband, what tools are at his disposal to retrieve it from you? Asking for a friend, of course.

kidman96:
Bros abeg I need this ur photo on whatsapp... 08099673300

Sent...

Timbuktuo:
Lol. What should he have done, beat it out of her? If you refuse to relinquish your phone password to your husband, what tools are at his disposal to retrieve it from you? Asking for a friend, of course.

Well, except OP is a sissy, will such nonsense stand, it wouldn't even stand for me as a woman, let alone you men that like to show muscle.

Abeg don't ask me yeye questions just to start nonsense argument, if your wife can say no to giving you her password and you can't do anything about it, besides beat it out of her, then a wimp is better than you.