I know money is important and all that ish bt I personally don't want to be with smbody who only likes me when or because i got money and doesn't like me when im broke because wats the meaning of the love then Only fair weather frnds/love? Is That really LOVE? I wud rather be single than all dat rubbish and lets just play the game, baby mama etc..

I don't know wat people look for in a person bt i won't compromise with d credibility and values. Money shudnt make u loose ur mind and if money makes u misbehave u are Dumb and worthless!

freecocoa:
Well, except OP is a sissy, will such nonsense stand, it wouldn't even stand for me as a woman, let alone you men that like to show muscle.

Abeg don't ask me yeye questions just to start nonsense argument, if your wife can say no to giving you her password and you can't do anything about it, besides beat it out of her, then a wimp is better than you.

Madam, leave long English. The question is, "how can a man get a password his wife doesn't want to release"?

HARDDON:
SENSE PILL

1. In relationship, one source of income might just be enough. However, never buy that idea in marriage.... Invest long term.
* it is better to starve when rich through investment than to eat and be merry with an unplanned wealth.
* a man with only one source of income is a very poor man. Second only to a rich man who only cares about his immediate fam

2. man know thy girlfriend before you walk her down the aisle . Spring crazy, unanimous tests if you have to. tow the lane: only the rich can afford to be poor if necessary. Never marry a stranger with huge b00bs and slay b00ties

3. Take at least 6 months to one year to court. Courtship is no time for s3x, fun and more s3x. It is a sober reflection time. A due diligence time.

4. A lady's true colour is in her unspoken/body language and it is your duty to read those words she emits in silence.

5. Boss and Hubby to a beau are two opposite sides of the coin. the tides are quickly flipped. Protect your investment always.

6. Only a fool bond blindly.

7. Dead is the man who does not lay down core rules before embarking on the marriage ship. You cant learn core things on the job

RESPECT!

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

Please get a good lawyer, take it to court, then u can either subpoena her, ur lawyer would know the appropriate one or ur lawyer file an application for notice to produce document, which gives u right to inspect and make copies of it..u guys are ripe for dissolution of marriage because u have been married for 2yeArs and u will plead adultery..

U ve a good case, and please dont drag the custody of the baby too much, because she dint ask for it

Also apply to marriage registry for certified true copy of ur marriage certificate which is admissible in court, since the original is with ur wife...

Just get a good lawyer, I am sure he will advice u the sAme way I did

ekanempatrick28:
so u will also cheat if ur husband has financial issues

yes. I can't play my role and his role at the same time.

tensazangetsu20:
. Women are wicked and will go to any length to ruin and destroy a man's life all in the name of relationship and marriage.

easy to blame women, when a man has money he will start chasing women,wasting money and misbehaving, when things turn around you will expect the woman to be pampering you Ba

You are wrong to bring issue like that in this platform, nobody here we give good advice. Because how can a someone who is not marry handle family. Go to Spirit fill Pastor to advice you thank.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You know that's untrue. My mom stood by my dad through thick and thin until his very last breathe. So don't you generalize. Humans have been known for infidelity since inception so nothing is new. Just pray you Marry right.

Can you stay with a broke Guy?

Pls go for DNA test, you might not be her biological husband

tartarus:


You're the only mature guy on this thread. Boys talking nonsense! One of em was even born 1993. They just see this thread as an avenue to bash women cos one girl in school rejected their advances

@angelboy01, if you want a divorce go ahead with it but you dare not take a child from the mother! Your kid is just 2 for crying out loud. You want to give your child to your mom when the biological mother is still alive?! It can't happen and the court won't grant such yeye request!. Being a cheat doesn't make her a bad mother. As long as she has never harmed the child in any way, you can't take the child from her! The court won't side you! Stop it!

This is Nigeria, this kinda situation are mostly won by men, you will see divorced men taking their 1 year old baby from the biological mother and give it to thier own mother or sister to take care of, most married women in Nigeria are not informed about the law/right they are mostly bullied by the husband's family.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You know that's untrue. My mom stood by my dad through thick and thin until his very last breathe. So don't you generalize. Humans have been known for infidelity since inception so nothing is new. Just pray you Marry right.

shatap already. stop talking about your parents, talk about yourself.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You know that's untrue. My mom stood by my dad through thick and thin until his very last breathe. So don't you generalize. Humans have been known for infidelity since inception so nothing is new. Just pray you Marry right.

. That was then, no longer now, I am married I know what I am saying, when my late father become broke, my mum carried up the family burden through her hair plating and Akara business, at the same time she was still respectful to my late dad, with the income she makes, before she prepare a meal she will first of all ask my dad what will he prefer to eat. No woman of this generation can do that, even when they manage to sponsor a meal, they will remind you that hope you know I cooked this meal with my money?.

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Laughable comment. Rubbish. Your husband will be cheating and getting std's and you should draw him close and contract it. You are the only person living in that your man's world.

DEBJOCH1:
. That was then, no longer now, I am married I know what I am saying, when my late father become broke, my mum carried up the family burden through her hair plating and Akara business, at the same time she was still respectful to my late dad, with the income she makes, before she prepare a meal she will first of all ask my dad what will he prefer to eat. No woman of this generation can do that, even when they manage to sponsor a meal, they will remind you that hope you know I cooked this meal with my money?.

So you saying the parents didn't instill same values in their daughters of now?

mhizenugu:
you must be extremely stupid.. in fact your stupidity has no end! Wtf.

E pain am. Imo woman spotted. ill mannered bunch of women.

AkupeMBANO:

shatap already. stop talking about your parents, talk about yourself.

I don't have such experience yet. Please mind how u quote people.

Demtoks:


Can you stay with a broke Guy?

Ive done that, where did it get me? The heartbreaking thing is a guy that keeps whining about his brokenness. One can be broke and still be happy and positive.

nellyelitz:
THE LIKES OF UR DEAR MOM ARE RARE TO FIND IN THIS OUR NEW AGE, IF HAD SAID MY SISTER OR FRIEND I WUD'VE TAKEN AN EXCEPTION.JUST THIS LAST SUNDAY I HAD A SORE ENCOUNTER FROM A VERY HUMANE AND INNOCENT BABE I THOUGHT WILL MAKE A PERFECT WIFE FOR ANY MAN. MY DEAR SISTER AFTER THE ENCOUNTER TO MARRY SEF DEY FEAR ME. SO RARE TO FIND THAT COULD FULLY SUPPORT A MAN IN THE EVENT OF A RAINY DAY, I'M NOT SAYING THERE'RE NO GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE 7SHA...

Good you know there are still good women out there.

2016v2017:

sorry to tell you that ,that very generation has past and there's none in this generation. All of you now are the same.
Any man who doesn't fear ladies or even trust ladies has already cut of 20yrs of his life

Blame it on foreign influence OK. We've been dealing with men and their infidelity since inception, you don't see us yapping about it.

angelboy01 forgive and forget. You will be surprise to find that the new woman may not also be perfect. Think of your daughter who will end up having a part time or absentee father. It is good that you made a stand, she will always think twice in future, if you guys get together. Be patient.

Lightening:


Give us any of your dad's surviving close relative 's contact so we confirm. You don't really know what a husband passes through in the hands of a disloyal wife by observation unless he confides in someone. Not to say that you are wrong, but to let you know that you will never know the full story as their daughter. Women are not designed to provide for their husbands.

Theres no perfect marriage. Marriage is no bed of roses, you people should know that please.

4FACEADELEKE:

Oga or madam our mothers are not like this slay queens of this generation.True love lived and died in the days of our mothers.I still commend our parents they are the real epitome of love.For every young man today,if you want your peace of mind,never marry.

Your opinion.

SpyAC:
my sis, it was only our mums, and aunties of yesteryears that stood wt their husbands, nt the loosed Indomie generations of our women today. Sometimes, I begins to ask myself, where is that woman of virtues like our mothers that stood wt their husbands presently?

Continue searching, you'll find.

Water don't pass garrison. Wetin I go advise u again? Follow the ones wey dem don dey advise since abeg.

What a wife!

oshe11:
NEVER!!! I repeat, NEVER FORGIVE A WIFE THAT CHEATED......


HER FATE WILL BE LIKE THAT OF THE OTHER SUV/3RD MAINLAND BRIDGE LADY IF SHE NO WISE

na ur type dey cheat pass

mimimile93:




Your mom stood by your dad. Who have you stood by?

Ashawo. God punish una

Buhahhahahhahaahhahahahahahahaaaa. Omo yi orie ti foka.

Seems someone gave you HIV this one you this pained.
Make that painment strangle you there.

Daboomb:


That the story you wrote is not made-up.

Just like the person you responded to, that the story he wrote is not made up.

How can any anonymous person make a weighty statement and not even back it up...and expect that it shoudl resonate with intelligent people and they should swallow it?

An unintelligent request. Very dumb one.

Oga...kindly forgive ur wife...men do worse..dey cheat daily and women easily forgive dem...so forgive her...

Twoclans:


My guy ,tell us what the Bible says about an unfaithful husband .

Cheating is horrible regardless of the gender involved .So many women forgive and accept cheating husbands back even though I cannot say how safe such husbands are when they return home.That is why so many men die prematurely.

Ur dp pic is BAE!

Timbuktuo:


Madam, leave long English. The question is, "how can a man get a password his wife doesn't want to release"?

Its not my place to tell you how to go about it, don't just come here calling yourself a man, if you can't get your wife's password without beating her, its that simple.

kimbraa:
I don't even remember saying that but now that you've, do you know that a need could make someone do and undo?

i get what you are trying to say but i think its a relationship test and if your man get lay off in this economic recession, are you saying you will turn back on him and do the undo (cheat)?

I thought its for better for worst when there is no money/