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GODPUNISHUNA:
Jamariwolff so you are in 100 level?

Chai, see children I have been playing with on Nairaland

Lol hunna wot?
She's just posting romance stories ala str8 from d heart on raypower back in d day

100 level? If I knock your head! Common go and read your books. Let me catch you with GPA lower than 4.0 this semester you will show me this your boyfriend!

Try as much as possible to be Nice to him in every possible way. Men like women dat shows care on dem. Do tins dat will make him notice u, with time e will develop some kind of good gesture and d feeling will arouse him to meet u. But if probably e do not see u attractive in anyway e will never approach u never no matter d kind gesture u showcase.. If u are not his type

[quote author=Jamariwolff post=69053817]children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.[/quhote]so what should we do

Jamariwolff:
children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.

. So what should we do

Onyiridike:
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man.
In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually.
1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions.
2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you can get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character.
This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning?
All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class.
You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually.
Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now.

At 20 she should start thinking about husband and marriage? Are you normal?
What's up this for God sake?

People like you are one of the reasons why Nigerian ladies see marriage as a trophy, fulfilment and a priority in life. Telling a university student to start thinking of a potential husband is at the height of the primitiveness in the African continent.
Imagine what you just typed. Such a disgrace to civilization.

If all the above mentioned qualities are the reasons you are considering dating this guy I doubt if you can achieve your goals in that school.

See kill the desperate feelings in you, you are still very young in the university community and you will see alot of guys that are better than this guy in years to come.

From experience, a guy like this will have many admirers in which you may even be number 100.for you to be his number one,let your CGPA do the toasting for.

I swear, if you make first class CPGA in first semester,he will be your boy boy from there you will get close to him and assess him if he is datable or not

Rayhandrinni:
my soul

Onyiridike:
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man.
In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually.
1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions.
2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you can get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character.
This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning?
All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class.
You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually.
Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now.

What if the course rep isn't 'smart'?.

hmm

harrwix:
do you still have intention of finishing with a first class....if yes...then kill those feelings. speaking from experience

pls why do you say so? I read my books and attend all lectures, can a simple crush still stop this goal?

akeentech:
Tell us the truth, you don't want to be paying class dues

� lol

akeentech:
Tell us the truth, you don't want to be paying class dues

� lol

Jamariwolff:
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

Go sit on his lap and dare him to prove he is a man.

Onyiridike:
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man.
In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually.
1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions.
2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you can get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character.
This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning?
All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class.
You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually.
Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now.

can I like this more

Kill that crush/lust of yours and face what you are at the university to do. It's just too early to start crushing and that is not why your parent is paying your school fee. This may sound stupid to you but I rather you face your purpose and kill the lust/crush before you get broken again, you already know it doesn't ends well. So, why trying to get yourself hurt?.

Jamariwolff:
children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.

when we De skul dat year na so Fine fine boys De follow fine fine girls. but upon graduation Nason everybody split. fine girls go marry igbo man for alaba way get containers. fine boys go hustle job 50 to 100k. My there focus on ur book reality will surface later

majorgr:
PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options. and the moment you mistakenly do any one of these things, you will end up dead. our mouth, we have been cursing our selves with our mouth without knowing this ! you don't have to say this part.

WTF!

And u didn't have to curse her again!

.

Jamariwolff:
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

I think you have a problem.

My daughter please face your GP for now, You are in same class and guess u will almost be age mate, I can tell u if you push yourself into this relationship it will end up in that school gate. And u will not be happy at end of the day. For now don't sit near or behind him , avoid anything that will bring u face to face or in contact with with him. Pray for God's direction and for his spirit to help u so that u can be more focus on the reason why u are in that campus.

Jamariwolff:
I'm sorry but he's just so hot. I can't forget him ever

As you see him as hot , same with many other girls, even at the secondary school he attended, his street your class and the whole school. Those kind of guys do not really respect women because they have so many girls throwing themselves at them . My advice: exept all you want is Bleep-and-go, don't ever let him know you crush on him, NEVER! If he is yours, no matter what , you won't miss him. Eventually, he will come for you ,no mattaer the number of girls that might have come his way.

I have a daughter of your age , hence this advice. Just be careful please to avoid stories that tourches the heart.

Jamariwolff:
children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.

which school

Jamariwolff:
pls why do you say so? I read my books and attend all lectures, can a simple crush still stop this goal?

You are just starting, by the time the simple crush transmogrified to a compound crush, reading of books would become once in a while, and if the simple stuff eventually turns complex, aha! That is the end.

you don't know what you want. you don't want to give him green light neither do u want to show him any sign? why that confusion



what I expect u to be having crush on is your GPA in first semester and fall in love with your CGPA after the 100 level session. there is competition out there my dear

vickydevoka:
when we De skul dat year na so Fine fine boys De follow fine fine girls. but upon graduation Nason everybody split. fine girls go marry igbo man for alaba way get containers. fine boys go hustle job 50 to 100k. My there focus on ur book reality will surface later

U wise, u smart!

Jamariwolff:
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

your dad must hear dis.

I thought jamariwol.f once said she is a working class, girls and their lies.

My love can you do me a favour, Do me the biggest favour, Do yourself the biggest favour...
concentrate on your books....
at 100Level...
please don't loose focus and as to why you are there

Onyiridike:
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man.
In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually.
1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions.
2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you can get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character.
This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning?
All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class.
You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually.
Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now.

I just she take this advice, nice one

akeentech:
Tell us the truth, you don't want to be paying class dues

guy I can relate... was a class rep in my uni days, that is how a gal came close me too come go close naa,mehn,i entered one chance...that gal refuse to pay those cash o...guy me yank her off in the next semester

u want to make her friend to avoid paying the class due and get sorting easily,hmmmmm diz girl eeeeeeeeehhhhh,if he suspect is a cupboard love,he will not take u serious be wise.