Prick never hungry you be dat,by the time prick hungry you well well,na you go look for the guy to toast him and beg him to fok you

Funny enough, the so-called course rep might be on this forum reading your crush on

I'm gradually getting disappointed with nairaland

You're in denial. He's killed you softly. He only needs to have you as dinner.Well,youre restricting one of the pangs of falling in love, self-surrender.

Sister face ur studies...

Jamariwolff:
children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.

You are still a kid

D way gals dey pretend no b small thing,some see u like u,but u will think they never saw u b4 in their life,dey scan u from a far,then turn their face sideways as if they never saw u,some don't greed u so that u will not know dey noticed yur existence,some are hostile to make u make u think dey don't like u die,mean while dey are dying 4 yur love,dey go home & suffer in silence,some fantasized about u as prince charming for yrs.

By the time you see your CGPA, you'll know whether to start the relationship or not.

shey u see ur lyfcommon boy,u canor toast...Anyway m also a 100 level course rep...And omolade toasted me herself...U better reduce ur ego and talk him up or else one thin gal with big yansh will do sumtin about it

Hanseel1:


At 20 she should start thinking about husband and marriage? Are you normal?
What's up this for God sake?

People like you are one of the reasons why Nigerian ladies see marriage as a trophy, fulfilment and a priority in life. Telling a university student to start thinking of a potential husband is at the height of the primitiveness in the African continent.
Imagine what you just typed. Such a disgrace to civilization.

As civilized as you claim to be, you could not pay attention to details. In your so-called civilized society girls are getting married at the age of 18.
I urge you to see things beyond prejudice and your level of awareness otherwise you may end up exposing your own ignorance.

Onyiridike:
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man.
In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually.
1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions.
2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you cka get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character.
This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning?
All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class.
You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually.
Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now.

U ar damn right these steps works on me, bfor I realized shes got what she want ...

Who invented the word CRUSH self, just keep laggin behing and watch some slay mama snatch your crush or watever u called him

GODPUNISHUNA:
Jamariwolff so you are in 100 level?

Chai, see children I have been playing with on Nairaland

it's not really about age or "class",so many people want a university degree. I fall in this category. I'm working on getting a second degree and whenever I go to class,my course mates are always happy to see me cause I inspire them(well they told me) and I try to be free with them.

it's actually all fun now cause I was worried about how to cope with school but now I'm doing better. And I look 18 because of my face, some already know I'm "off the market".

banre:


lol badoo NL FBI

LoL,

You still are a child. The way children of this generation turns-on easily baffles me.

Food cause or hormonal mutation caused by GMO foods or what? 100 levels!!!

You weren't born in 1996 when I had my Msc Arch, ABU, Zaria.

Kids on nairn land mehn

why don’t anyone ever have a crush on me ?

AprilSmallWoman:

it's not really about age or "class",so many people want a university degree. I fall in this category. I'm working on getting a second degree and whenever I go to class,my course mates are always happy to see me cause I inspire them(well they told me) and I try to be free with them.

it's actually all fun now cause I was worried about how to cope with school but now I'm doing better. And I look 18 because of my face, some already know I'm "off the market".

This statement just brightened my morning. I like your positive outlook on life

The question is
Are you Crushable too?

phr0nesis:
After bats, girls are the most confused creatures on earth

i swear

Jamariwolff:
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

Then what do you want us to advise you about since you don't want to have anything to do with him?

You sound like a teenager. Don't worry, you will outgrow this childishness.

virus05:
i swear

The matter just weak me.

Jamariwolff:
I'm sorry but he's just so hot. I can't forget him ever

You will. That's why it's a crush.

Jamariwolff:
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

Very Simple......Hide your ego approach him and tell him of a topic or course that you don't understand
...Follow the flow from there...

But let Infatuation be the last thing on your mind...E very other thing would fall in place.

Note: Don't start what you can't finish though... Crushes that was never activated eventually cools off. You still have a long way ahead of you..

Jamariwolff:
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

I have been through your profile and I discovered you talk more about your sex drive. I can only arrive at these conclusions
1. If you are not trying to trend in the skin of an undercover identity, you indeed need help
2. You need to see a therapist/counselor whilst you pray (Both are very very important)
3. See your success above your drive for sex.
4. Do not be deceived, sex is not a sign you are loved. If sex is equal to love, a prostitute is the most loved in the world and everyone should be having sex with their parents, friends and relatives because we all love them.
5. Do not be burnt twice. You know what I mean? (.....the goat stuff)
6. Have more objective and religious female friends than male friends. Beware of these slay queens who will help you self destruct easily. 100level is the most dangerous stage of a girl's educational career. You are sooooo vulnerable to hawks.
7. Have a mentor that can correct you sternly and in love without destructively condemning you.

#mysevennairacounsel

Ishilove:

Then what do you want us to advise you about since you don't want to have anything to do with him?

You sound like a teenager. Don't worry, you will outgrow this childishness.

Grumpy old hen

Jamariwolff:
children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.

Infact your are a pikin!

Diary of a frustrating Masturbator. 100 level? You u are a LovePeddler before 300 level. Watch and see.

Vmaqween:
My love can you do me a favour, Do me the biggest favour, Do yourself the biggest favour...
concentrate on your books....
at 100Level...
please don't loose focus and as to why you are there

Why do Nigerians reason like this? Can't she create a balance between her books and relationships? Remember, she's not a kid.

These comments of focusing on books is laughable when most of you dissing out the advise graduated with 2.2.

am sorry guys...... is it possible for a lady to have crush on guy? is true love exists? although am demisexual person

Jamariwolff:
you know how guys can behave. If I try forming friends, my crush can surface easily

his name is John righht?

YhungPablo:
his name is John righht?

yes
Why u asked?

Jamariwolff:
I'm sorry but he's just so hot. I can't forget him ever

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