Sarang:


You are so wrong.. used? Dumped? I use people and dump them Mr. I can do that to you but you are obviously not my type.. pained my foot!

Sad woman, get off my mention
I'm not the cause of your misery

You are not good for marriage that's why.it's a story of used and dump.take that and move on.

Sarang:


You deserve it 100 percent.. cos am sure you will definitely not make a husband material.. a man that is not compassionate is that one a man..

You sound just like another heartbroken queen. Take solace in the Lord my lovely sister.

Sarang:

And how would you know that, do you know her? Radio without battery..

Ha!

Sorry!

Didnt mean to sound like your Ex dear

Its well, You'd get another guy, kpele!

Sarang:

And how would you know that, do you know her? Radio without battery..

Ha!

Sorry!

Didnt mean to sound like your Ex dear

Its well, You'd get another guy, kpele!

Too bad..... Wipe ur tears look to d mirror and tell ur self that u deserve better......

oshe11:
Ha!


Sorry!


Didnt mean to sound like your Ex dear


Its well, You'd get another guy, kpele!

Lol I was vexing then
Sorry jaree

myners007:
You sound just like another heartbroken queen. Take solace in the Lord my lovely sister.

It's you that will be taking solace my lovely brother

IamAirforce1:


Sad woman, get off my mention
I'm not the cause of your misery

Unfortunately you can only slap me on the internet..
If I were you I'd focus on my music more.. and at least make something out of my life.. but childish, god! you are childish!

Sarang:

Lol I was vexing then Sorry jaree

Happy You are fine now
Take care!!!

CoolFreeday:
He simply wasn't meant for you, yours will come

True, and I believe the tell signs but she must have ignored.

Angy55:
Madam, I've been there before.

Calm down, you will survive it. Though it's going to be difficult the first few months, you will definitely get over it.

Modified

If she has moved on, why come online to share the story?

you sound like u have not really completely moved on, u sound dejected and bittered with ur consolations... get well soon

I warn u to change ur character u nor hear now see where ur bad character done land u ..u fine but ur character dirty

Sarang:


Unfortunately you can only slap me on the internet..
If I were you I'd focus on my music more.. and at least make something out of my life.. but childish, god! you are childish!

Childish childish and childish is all you've been saying .. ok is it your childishness ?

I'm on nairaland to have fun and not to please you or sugar coat my comment to make you like me or see me as a no childish guy .

And what makes you think I can't lend you a Bitch slap if I see you face to face

Sarang:


You mean the one he's no longer contented with?
Dude wants to eat his cake and have it back.. arrant nonsense!

You told you he isn't contended with her. Lol. I bet he loves his wife so much. You girls haven't been able to decipher men and their lies. He loves the wife, he just wants your pu$$1. His wife's pussy is for the short and long term, yours is for play

pocohantas:


You advice was on point, your friend's action was wicked.
If someone is too classy, leave her na. This is exactly why women marry up. You don't date someone for years and start talking story, breakup with the person...leaving us to deal with a heartbroken ill-mannered individual. That's too much problem for the society

And not every man loves plain chicks, I know right.

The guy in question is also up, so its not as if the lady was doing him a favor by dating him...he too was doing well on his own, but u know, if a lady has 1million naira for instance, u will think she is richer than a guy that has 1 billion naira...and u know why Guys are real....ladies are most times fake....they fake even how they sleep .....and most guys don't like fake ladies except all these our music artistes, footballers and some guys trying to form celebrity wannabes and this is one reason their marriage don't last; everybody is faking it and forming classy to the detriment of the relationship or marriage, not cool u know

Generally, men love to date classy forming ladies who form too posh...men love them for dates and relationship...but when its time for marriage, men get real while ladies keep forming forgetting that marriage is not a temporary thing; its a lifetime stuff that u guys will see each other's foolishness, dirty part, disgusting part, unhealthy part, dark spots, repulsive part, etc...so why the formings Come down from the horse and face reality....it is marriage and not dating for Csake

Some of your posh forming brothers from Malaysia may like them and help us take them off the streets, so worry not about our slayqs

Noblepreneur:
Wow. You should be a relationship Consultant. If only girls will take note of all this points and put it to work, no dude would ditch them.


Your points are over valid, I deliberately avoid some girls who I see as toxin to me. Some are just too selfish.

Some are proud and not ready to learn.

How can you be raising your voice at your Boo? That's a big turnoff.


To the guys, don't raise any girl hope with the promise of marriage if you don't see any future.

Avoid any discussion that has to do with marriage.

It is better you subtly give her the signs that she is free to marry any dude who ask for her hand in marriage.

God bless you for this candid advice to guys, thank you for this, you did well bro

Babyforever:
Don't give him a chance Men are scum

Your Father Nko?
He must be so proud..

pocohantas:

And not every man loves plain chicks, I know right.

....but you know too much, as in your processing speed and accuracy in most topics sometimes get me so wondering how u came to know virtually everything like NwamaIkpe, abi u be ogbanje

u don sharply go dig up her profile

na wa oo, I go put eye for you o

cos as I wan become Governor soon, na your type go go dig up my porn videos

rock003:
Before you condemn that man, kindly read the lady's profile below

CanadianEnginee:


You told you he isn't contended with her. Lol. I bet he loves his wife so much. You girls haven't been able to decipher men and their lies. He loves the wife, he just wants your pu$$1. His wife's pussy is for the short and long term, yours is for play

Unfortunately you cannot love someone and want to hurt them.. you got it all wrong..

IamAirforce1:

Childish childish and childish is all you've been saying .. ok is it your childishness ?

I'm on nairaland to have fun and not to please you or sugar coat my comment to make you like me or see me as a no childish guy .

And what makes you think I can't lend you a Bitch slap if I see you face to face

It's not about sugar coating anything.. maturity is known by speech.. many people know you are childish

And back to your question.. Because you simply can't

Sarang:


You are so wrong.. used? Dumped? I use people and dump them Mr. I can do that to you too but you are obviously not my type.. pained my foot!

Hmm Ive just been reading your comments. Most of the statement you have made aren't made on any concrete evidence.
There are two sides to every story.
Such things happen but how do you know the Lady is telling the truth. Even AirForce1 said MAYBE a beauty without brains.
It might be harsh but it might also be true...
Lastly the part in Bold....not covering yourself in glory there.
Rise above immaturity....its the only way.

Sarang:


It's not about sugar coating anything.. maturity is known by speech.. many people know you are childish

And back to your question.. Because you simply can't

The many wise people in this nairaland community won't judge someone by his/her online comment, only the foolish will.
You don't judge a book by it's cover so they say ..
But you have the right to believe what you want to believe , your headache .

Emi o raye fun oshi

franchasng:
The guy in question is also up, so its not as if the lady was doing him a favor by dating him...he too was doing well on his own, but u know, if a lady has 1million naira for instance, u will think she is richer than a guy that has 1 billion naira...and u know why Guys are real....ladies are most times fake....they fake even how they sleep .....and most guys don't like fake ladies except all these our music artistes, footballers and some guys trying to form celebrity wannabes and this is one reason their marriage don't last; everybody is faking it and forming classy to the detriment of the relationship or marriage, not cool u know

Generally, men love to date classy forming ladies who form too posh...men love them for dates and relationship...but when its time for marriage, men get real while ladies keep forming forgetting that marriage is not a temporary thing; its a lifetime stuff that u guys will see each other's foolishness, dirty part, disgusting part, unhealthy part, dark spots, repulsive part, etc...so why the formings Come down from the horse and face reality....it is marriage and not dating for Csake

Some of your posh forming brothers from Malaysia may like them and help us take them off the streets, so worry not about our slayqs

Stop dating them, it is that simple.

franchasng:
I have a friend who was dating a very cute, sexy lady from a wealthy family. He loved the girl truly. We his male friends know that he truly loved the girl and wanted to marry her but he left her to marry another lady that is not that classy or from a rich home, and guess what the problem was

This girl too form posh! She forms classy to a fault! Its good to be classy but pls sisters don't overdo it, it scare guys away. Unless u want to marry showbiz guys who are into music, football and entertainment, if not, tone down that your excessive classy forming.

The girl should be whoever she wants to be, if you don't like the girl walk away and find a girl you like. Don't wickedly start dating the girl and start giving useless excuses for your wickedness.
I hope no lady follows this advice.

Be real as a lady. Guys love real women

Only you, "don't be too classy, reduce it". Still the same you, "be real, guys love real women"
What if the realness in such lady is what you term to be "too classy"? What will she do then? Or you saying a it's impossible for a woman to be classy and for that classiness to be her real self?
Tomorrow people will say it's women who are confused.

You visit him u see 10001 faults! You complain of the kitchen not being tidy, the bedroom not being organised, the sitting room not being like this and that.

As If the guy wouldn't do the same if he walks into his girls home and the girls home is like that. However, instead of her to nag, she should just walk away and find a neat guy to date.

Remember he is a guy, a single guy for that. Guys must be guys no matter how rich or upscale they are in the society.

Is " guys must be guys " code for men sorry "guys" are dirty disorganized human beings?

You are their woman not only for sex but to help organise his disorganised life without judging him with it or making him look stupid about it.

I hope the same goes for men? To help a woman organise her disorganized life without judging her with it and making her look stupid about it?

Guys count all these moves.

Ladies count all these moves also

You are selfish; everything is about u, u, u and nothing about him.

Is this a joke? Or you meant the men are selfish and everything must be about them and nothing about the lady right?

Guys want rest. Any lady that makes a guy feel at home and at peace will definitely be his wife. Make your man feel at peace with u. Make him forget his sorrows whenever he is with u and he will want to stay with u forever.

Ladies want the same too.

Stop seeing errors and faults here and there. Learn to manage and persevere with him without complain or without doing it grudgingly.

But the guy is allowed to see errors and faults everywhere., the girl is too classy, the girl is not real, this and that, blah blah, and the girl is expected to adjust instantly, but the girl cannot see error and faults abi?
Such Misogyny, and you're very comfortable with it.
If this how men are, let them carry their marriage and come and be going.

If he is living in a one room apartment, accept it and pray for him to get enough capital to upgrade or u think he is happy living in that one room apartment You think its only ladies that love to live in duplex and drive Range Rover

I can agree with you here.

Guys love good life more than ladies just that guys are patient about it as they work and pray to have the good life while ladies fantasize and target how to jump into the already built good life.

As if all girls don't work and pray, and girls aren't patient and all men are patient and work and pray, are yahoo guys no longer men, btw I wonder how you can feel so comfortable speaking for all men and women.

Many guys are in a relationship but looking for a way out because they are tired of their girlfriend.

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Looking for a way out as if it's prison, such lazy baby boys pretending to be men, what happened to their mouths and breaking up the relationship with the girl if they are tired of it?

She doesn't give them joy. They see no future with her but u know guys are very considerate wicked, so they pity wickedly use their girlfriends.

Corrected that for you.

Out of pity of how she would feel, most guy find it hard to tell their girlfriend that they want to quit, so they most times foolishly think they can stylishly end it by marrying another Lady who would help them douse the pressure and fight their girlfriend if she dares to pick a fight.

Out of wickedness and selfishness, not pity, they want to eat their cake and have it. So a lady who wasn't there when they started dating the girl is who will help them break up with a girl? And at the end will the cowards still call themselves men? Will such cowards still think they are the head of house?

Look good, be happy, find a way to be earning some money on your own, dress well and give your boyfriend joy and make him feel at home with u and he will definitely wife u once he makes up his mind to settle down.

So make your man feel at peace with u and he won't leave u to marry another.

Lastly, try and look good...take care of your physical look....99% of men hate big tummy on a lady, pls try and work on reducing your tummy fat. Flat tummy is the starting point of beauty for a lady.

Many more rules and regulations that women have to follow, but let the woman just tell the man to do basic things such as clean up his house and there is a problem.

Misogyny really makes you men feel you can give women stupid ass rules that you know if the same was given to you, you wouldn't do, and the women will gladly accept and fall to your feet right?

mrjamesorji:
Too bad..... Wipe ur tears look to d mirror and tell ur self that u deserve better......

Perfect advice

Guy man def knows she's a runs girl and sidetracked to take his bae home. And like a truly correct guy, he still wants some more of her samankwe. I can relate. I'm even going to see one like that on friday, after telling her how I made a mistake in not marrying her. I even cry join on top phone . No blame me, her pussay sweet no be here. I no known wetin she put inside

What if she works there?]