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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by ALAYORMII: 11:16pm On Jul 11, 2018
BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?



My girlfriend stored my name with Loveth
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by IamAirforce1: 11:17pm On Jul 11, 2018
She's a prostitute money can buy

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by gnice545(m): 11:18pm On Jul 11, 2018
You r wuked!
Dami12345:


You are right, he should wait till he marries her and finds out like this guy, but of course you will say he still didn't catch her naw, maybe its a miracle.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by KingsleyBuubba(m): 11:19pm On Jul 11, 2018
What should you do? Go and look for money. Be more emotional in making money instead of relationship... Ur gf is a cheat. Go make some real money and buy her loyalty

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by NothingDoMe: 11:19pm On Jul 11, 2018
IamAirforce1:
She's a prostitute money can buy
How much you pay?
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by justianoo(m): 11:19pm On Jul 11, 2018
madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.
You get zero chill
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by gaby(m): 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2018
hmm
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by IamAirforce1: 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2018
NothingDoMe:
How much you pay?

Lol
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by NothingDoMe: 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2018
ALAYORMII:




My girlfriend stored my name with Loveth
Lol. I'm sure it's a typo or she's not so good with English. Or maybe she's just so into King James Version so She loveth thee.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by iLegendd(m): 11:20pm On Jul 11, 2018
madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.
Son, what are you doing in Romance Section? There is a thread created against Buhari and you're here giving a relationship advice. Run and go defend Master before your BMC salary reduces from 30k to 3k.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by resurgent2019: 11:21pm On Jul 11, 2018
madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.

And this comment emanated from a supposed practicing muslim—who worships prophet Mohammedu Buhari?

I am now convinced that your support for the regime is due to anti Christian animus. I leave you with your conscience.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by vchykp(m): 11:21pm On Jul 11, 2018
BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?
.

The real truth is that she is a cheat, i can bet my balls, but if you are strong enough to forgive, go ahead, but if not, please move on..

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by blackaxe78: 11:22pm On Jul 11, 2018
BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?


Your heart is with a corporate Olosho! #Simple

The best you can do is to use her for money rituals

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 11, 2018
I have had similar experience in the past. One advice: Leave, she will not change. If there are more than 2 signs of infidelity, don't wait to catch her untop or beneath a man for you to confirm.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by joepentwo(m): 11:26pm On Jul 11, 2018
ma bro if u dnt want to die of emotionally trauma, leave ha nd startup a new life wid a fresh lady..
Dnt forget to tank me later...i wx in ur shoe smtm ago grin

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by bethyz(m): 11:26pm On Jul 11, 2018
I wonder why some guys are quick to say sleep with her and dump her. Sleeping with her and dumping her is now a Trophy you have won or what i dont understand .
Does that look an award to you? It satisfies your conscience or does it make you feel better ? What kind of lame idea is that.
To others saying it ,you think they havnt done it before? And even if they havnt because he caught her mean the girl will now what is sleep with you because of that or you will rape her for pay back?. I think its a very childish advise. It doesnt help anyone. The girl will go start a new life and so is the guy even after the bleeping. Anyone that say mark register and leave her you mean that with reduce the girls height beauty or intelligence. Please you guys should grow up.
Anyway for the writer. If you cant deal with her discuss such issue with her that you dont like all that chatting and if it happens again you may quit the relationship. For a girl who loves you will stop . If you cant continue quit . It is as simple as that.
Whats all this bleeping her and dumping her talk . Very myopic

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 11, 2018
ALAYORMII:




My girlfriend stored my name with Loveth
LMAOOOOOO cheesy grin

You were a side nigga!

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by addikt(m): 11:28pm On Jul 11, 2018
LOL, today I found out again my gf used my pic on whatsapp status and na only me dey see am, I check my other whatsapp on my other phone and saw nothing like my pic she uploaded with sweetheart and all, I once caught her uploading a guy's pic which I won't see on my other phone too, it's the third time ...I won't talk again because I'm tired of the shit....she's definitely with another guy now but hat since she likes game , she can always be my sex pet now!!!.......I moved on in my mind , it's not the first time nor second time .she doesn't know my other phone works. Brother keep pounding her and get another girl, don't dull yourself you'll get hurt at Last I swear...abi you sabi cry ?? If yes keep loving her ...BE WISE !!!

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by greggng: 11:28pm On Jul 11, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
undecided

This thing I don't get it..Why a person who is supposed "exclusively dating" has balls to flirt around angry ?

Flirting is the first step of cheating sha..it all started from there.. But a lot of humans regardless of their gender will always fall for this shii...#SMH

So, OP u betta think twice sha. Are u ready to continue with a girl who keeps flirting behind ur back?




I needed advice but I am glad you can be of help since you are a female. Yesterday a girl friend of mine visited and spent the night with me. At exactly 7am the next day she told me she will be going back to abeokuta where she lives. I don't 've cash so both of us visited bank to enable me get her some cash . From my house to iyanu ipaja is not all that far but we encounter hold up on the way and I don't 've fuel in my car....so pleaded with her that she has to come down and board a keke n apep...which is just 50naira from where we 've gotten to. She came down and I had to make a U turn.....after 30mins I called to find out how far she has gone so far but she didn't pick the call. So far I have called her more than 7times without response. I have decided she is taking me for a fool...and I am not gonna call again. I need advice cos her behaviour I cannot understand. I am beginning to feel she only care about herself.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 11, 2018
She will never change bro ! Run fast.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 11, 2018
Break up with her,before she breaks you mate.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Curry30: 11:30pm On Jul 11, 2018
You're one very lucky man. God truly got your back. If this girl is doing what she's doing with multiple guys then your relationship is FALSE.
It's painful investing your emotions in someone and find out they're cheating on you. So my advice is very simple...WALK AWAY. Don't be mad, don't be angry, just walk away from all the problems you would have had in the future. Larsh her one more time though LOL

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by eldav(m): 11:32pm On Jul 11, 2018
Op, listen.

Any woman who is in a committed relationship and yet behave like she's single is not worth keeping. How can you call a girl your girlfriend when she actively talks sex with other guys? what manner of rubbish is that?

If you stay with her, you might have cardiac arrest one day due to over thinking.

A good woman will never do anything to make her man distrust her or to even begin suspecting her. If with all these attitudes you go snooping, they will say you don't trust them. How can you trust a woman that cannot respect you enough to tell other guys off.

Leave her now while you still can. There are plenty better women out there for you.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by lexy2014: 11:33pm On Jul 11, 2018
BlackAfrican:
Anyone with useful tips on how to move on please share.... I'm so drained emotionally and can't stop the tears streaming down my face even as I type this....
c this one. U c someone in high definition (HD)that is endangering ur life instead of running 4 ur life while u can, u are crying & looking 4 tips. De there de look 4 tips. If u like don't move on. Anything do u, d world would move on without u

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by IsaAbubakar: 11:33pm On Jul 11, 2018
madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.
i love that part "kiss the truth"
but Islam teaches against fornication
you're not a real Muslim
kiss the truth angry
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by STARKACE(m): 11:33pm On Jul 11, 2018
madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own register and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.
dude your comments in any section have never disappoint me
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by ruggedtimi(m): 11:34pm On Jul 11, 2018
Lol..85% girls do that. Flirt online.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by STARKACE(m): 11:35pm On Jul 11, 2018
lenghtinny:
Well Issa natural something for girls to keep To-do list of boyfriends these days....

You should have zero your mind before checking your so called girl online activities because there's a 99.99999999% probability that you will find what you seek.

Nowadays, the average Nigerian girl is a public property. She's only yours when she is with you angry
plain truth, especially the last statement.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by OfficialSam(m): 11:36pm On Jul 11, 2018
A cheat this, a cheat that!
I mean who's not a cheat?
All of them are cheats.
I mean ALL!
Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by SheikhMuniru(m): 11:37pm On Jul 11, 2018
DON'T BE DECEIVED, IT'S BETTER TO HAVE A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE, YOUR ASSUMED FUTURE PARTNER NA PROSTITUTE, BETTER ABANDON HER AND MOVE ON

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by lexy2014: 11:38pm On Jul 11, 2018
greggng:


I needed advice but I am glad you can be of help since you are a female. Yesterday a girl friend of mine visited and spent the night with me. At exactly 7am the next day she told me she will be going back to abeokuta where she lives. I don't 've cash so both of us visited bank to enable me get her some cash . From my house to iyanu ipaja is not all that far but we encounter hold up on the way and I don't 've fuel in my car....so pleaded with her that she has to come down and board a keke n apep...which is just 50naira from where we 've gotten to. She came down and I had to make a U turn.....after 30mins I called to find out how far she has gone so far but she didn't pick the call. So far I have called her more than 7times without response. I have decided she is taking me for a fool...and I am not gonna call again. I need advice cos her behaviour I cannot understand. I am beginning to feel she only care about herself.
there's a popular saying that goes thus:

Dem no de put woman matter 4 head. Na 4 shoulder dem de put am so that if e tire u, u go fit quick drop am

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Again by Rollitout: 11:40pm On Jul 11, 2018
BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

She might probably be doing it for fun

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