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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Chicagoesontop: 5:29am On Jul 23, 2018
post=69621086:

This is seriously serious!
But this gal you talked about MUST be an olosho on the street that the other guy just brought to the hotel (pay as you go kinda gal).
But.....what do we know!


My Dear, i am not talking about Olosho, am talking about a girl who dressed and came from her mother's house ...

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by emelda86(f): 5:30am On Jul 23, 2018
McGg:
What really do women want?



You give them love and caRe they will ask for
Wealth.



Now you give them love and wealth they will still be a hoe


And what really do your evil friends want... I'm not siding the woman ooo...
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:30am On Jul 23, 2018
Chicagoesontop:



My Dear, i am not talking about Olosho, am talking about a girl who dressed and came from her mother's house ...
That is serious.
Lord help us!
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by emelda86(f): 5:31am On Jul 23, 2018
Chicagoesontop:



My Dear, i am not talking about Olosho, am talking about a girl who dressed and came from her mother's house ...

How u take know u know know say them get olosho from mother's house ni.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by DarkMagic(m): 5:40am On Jul 23, 2018
Women undecided undecided undecided
They can't simply get enough..
Love does nuh exist in this country..infact this continent gan ...only business transactions undecided undecided

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Nobody: 5:41am On Jul 23, 2018
TheMafiaChurch:
Before you get serious with that relationship, marriage etc. Read this book "The Manipulated Man" and others like it.
If you feel confident in your decision afterwards, your can continue...

Third time i'm hearing about this book... Just downloaded it tho, a 64 page book by Esther Vilar. I go start am later smiley

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by emperorblog(m): 5:42am On Jul 23, 2018
you pay 45000 labola and u expect her to leave u
mhen when shes not insane
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Nobody: 5:42am On Jul 23, 2018
emelda86:


How u take know u know know say them get olosho from mother's house ni.
Lolzz na them plenty pass normal olosho sef grin
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by BruncleZuma: 5:45am On Jul 23, 2018
flyca:

Depends on your level of confidence. I'd love to hear though. Lol
Well you'd have to know the limit of the other person's strengths..."my girl cannot do that" is just a statement until you realise where she placed her moral, physical and emotional boundary conditions.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by sexdoll: 5:47am On Jul 23, 2018
i don't understand why some niggaz here are trying to make it seem as if women in general are terrible.

i don't believe that _shit.

people are bad but that is on the individualistic level.

it doesn't go any further than that.

if you are dealing with a bad person, you will know.

if you are dealing with a nice person, you will also know.

so please, enough of all these stereotypical thinking that being terrible is gender based because it's not!

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by SheikhMuniru(m): 6:05am On Jul 23, 2018
DON'T BE MUMU MAN, LOOK FOR THOUSANDS OF GIRLS AND ENJOY YOURSELF

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by emerged01(m): 6:09am On Jul 23, 2018
post=69621086:

This is seriously serious!
But this gal you talked about MUST be an olosho on the street that the other guy just brought to the hotel (pay as you go kinda gal).
But.....what do we know!

Bro,what you know you know. My heart skip each time I hear the word "woman".

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:12am On Jul 23, 2018
emerged01:


Bro,what you know you know. My heart skip each time I hear a word "woman".
Well, you are very right bro.
After God, fear 'some' women.
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by amethystnnty1: 6:12am On Jul 23, 2018
Briffault's law comes into mind here. It goes thus;

the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Briffault continues with these three corollaries to his law:

1.

Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?)

2.

If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. (“I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.“)

3.

A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by emerged01(m): 6:21am On Jul 23, 2018
post=69621953:

Well, you are very right bro.
After God, fear 'some' women.

One needs to be very sensitive when in a relationship. In relationship while you concentrate on others things of life,don't let them kill your sensitivity.
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:22am On Jul 23, 2018
emerged01:


One needs to be very sensitive when in a relationship. In relationship while you concentrate on others things of life,don't let them kill your sensitivity.
Truer words have never been spoken
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Realhommie(m): 6:22am On Jul 23, 2018
Saw this story yesterday and i was so touched.. The people we love the must are those who'll hurt us more. I feel for the dude, #Sad.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Melonny(m): 6:26am On Jul 23, 2018
I am not surprised. You can still read this now https://www.nairaland.com/3913603/dont-kill-yourself-woman-cant or you will learn the hard way.
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Viking007(m): 6:48am On Jul 23, 2018
eberetos:
Trust and investigate #obasanjo

You need to pity yourself, you claiming to be Mr bad guy or Mr good bad guy. if they tell you how you have been deceived by a woman in your bad guy mood, you will feel ashamed. I tell you, sometimes when you call your girlfriend on phone, she is naked somewhere else, I mean naked without pants as another guy is sleeping with her & mocking you in his mind..Though not all girls!!

Another threat is when you want to do your wedding, just pray hard, because girls will like to sleep with their ex, friend or someone few days to their wedding day.

If you see a virgin to marry, don't waste time, marry her

Nowadays, people with bad past only cry like they have changed, but still go back to the bad past.

Nowadays, women like sex!! Before it was a man thing, but now some girls are nymphos pretending like they need love & care only.

We still have some good girls too.... If you see virgin girl, abeg marry her.
Your post was making sense till you started mentioning virginity as a yardstick for getting married.

Bros, marriage has gone beyond virginity & sex. You better purge yourself of that myopic mindset before you buy market.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by DavidEsq(m): 6:49am On Jul 23, 2018
flyca:
Is any man or woman on this thread who has being in a realtionship with his/her spouse for at least 10 years and still has that inner peace that your partner has being faithful to you and only you?

Please help me, tell me about it. Give me hope.
Modern-day relationship scares me cry
Yep. That's me. Took me a hell of a while to really appreciate it. Thanks to Jah I do with all my heart now an email never stop. We are married now.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Nobody: 6:50am On Jul 23, 2018
brainpower:
Nairaland has taught me not to always believe a one sided story sha.

But I think the guys narrative seems true enough and he's obviously dealing with it the right way.

I like the fact that he didn't say he has forgiven her, rather he said he's moved on just for his own piece of mind.

You don't forgive this kind of poo. You only let go and move on but if ever she or your friend ever come your way for a favour or forgiveness, you pay them back. That's how the world works.

Karma doesn't always work for everyone.
Very painful shit

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Nobody: 6:54am On Jul 23, 2018
Women are very irrational beings. That's why I scoff at these so called feminists.


Fear women

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Nobody: 6:57am On Jul 23, 2018
Women are very irrational. That's why I scoff at these so called feminists.
Bunch of confused lots

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by sisisioge: 6:59am On Jul 23, 2018
Thank God he didn't opt to kill or harm her. She will meet her waterloo soon enough... May God pacify him.
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by BestDude: 7:05am On Jul 23, 2018
sexdoll:
i don't understand why some niggaz here are trying to make it seem as if women in general are terrible.

i don't believe that _shit.

people are bad but that is on the individualistic level.

it doesn't go any further than that.

if you are dealing with a bad person, you will know.

if you are dealing with a nice person, you will also know.

so please, enough of all these stereotypical thinking that being terrible is gender based because it's not!

90 % of women are manipulative...dey Dia dey deceive yourself.

If a woman no love you, are just deceiving yourself.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by kazyhm(m): 7:05am On Jul 23, 2018
amethystnnty1:
Briffault's law comes into mind here. It goes thus;

the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Briffault continues with these three corollaries to his law:

1.

Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?)

2.

If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. (“I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.“)

3.

A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by tizzle(m): 7:06am On Jul 23, 2018
Only 2 secs? Na wa o.. maybe that's why she left
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by BestDude: 7:09am On Jul 23, 2018
Viking007:
Your post was making sense till you started mentioning virginity as a yardstick for getting married.

Bros, marriage has gone beyond virginity & sex. You better purge yourself of that myopic mindset before you buy market.
lol. No mind the guy. Someone will even say what women want is money...i laugh at their stupid and other morons think if you fork a girl hard, she will stay. All these morons don't know that being in control keeps these species on their toes.

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by flyca: 7:15am On Jul 23, 2018
DavidEsq:

Yep. That's me. Took me a hell of a while to really appreciate it. Thanks to Jah I do with all my heart now an email never stop. We are married now.
I'm happy for you. Quite encouraging

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Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by Cloud007: 7:17am On Jul 23, 2018
post=69621086:

This is seriously serious!
But this gal you talked about MUST be an olosho on the street that the other guy just brought to the hotel (pay as you go kinda gal).
But.....what do we know!
trust me... she is a normal girl with big god. angry
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by franchasng: 7:19am On Jul 23, 2018
amethystnnty1:
Briffault's law comes into mind here. It goes thus;

the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

Briffault continues with these three corollaries to his law:

1.

Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?)

2.

If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. (“I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today.“)

3.

A man’s promise of a future benefit has limited ability to secure a continuing relationship with a woman, and his promise carries weight with her only to the extent that the woman’s wait for the benefit is short and to the extent that she trusts him to keep his promise.
smiley
Re: South African Man Shares His Heartbreaking Story On Twitter (photos) by DavidEsq(m): 7:20am On Jul 23, 2018
flyca:
I'm happy for you. Quite encouraging
Tnx. Wish u da best. But u just hav to follow God's standards on who an ideal mate is, in order to be able to have a secure love life.

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