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Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by PUSSYHOE(m): 2:00pm On Jul 26, 2018
Is it a sign of good virtue by a lady in relationship to go out with other guys on dates, e.g birthday parties, clubs, shopping, sleep over, hangout etc? if wrong tell us your reasons.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by ItzBIM(m): 2:03pm On Jul 26, 2018
To do what ? When u have your man. Nothing in this world is free, I spend on you I must reap the benefit.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Lalas247(f): 2:06pm On Jul 26, 2018
sleep over ke....lol what a joke grin
birthdays not bad thing ... but the area rest issa no no ....

besides if her man ain't doing all what u listed then why are they in a relationship... might as well break up n date freely ...

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by XhosaNostra(f): 2:16pm On Jul 26, 2018
If the nature of the relationship is platonic, I see nothing wrong with someone going out with people of the opposite gender. Now if she knows the guy is interested in more than just a friendship, then it's problematic imo. Because it's encouraging in a way to go out with someone who has feelings for you, unless you spell it out to them, in no uncertain terms, that you're IN a relationship. Personally I think something like that should only be said once. If a guy persists regardless, then you probably shouldn't be friends with him, because he's disrespecting your boundaries/ relationship. So yeah, going out with friends is not an issue. The issue is only when you're aware they like you, but you still sleepover etc.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jul 26, 2018
Relationship isn't marriage, I'll marry you isn't marriage. Do things the way that will please God.

Shalom.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by ItzBIM(m): 2:22pm On Jul 26, 2018
kennygee:
Relationship isn't marriage, I'll marry you isn't marriage. Do things the way that will please God.

Shalom.

I bet you’re single as fuckkk

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Olalan(m): 2:34pm On Jul 26, 2018
Really why would you go out on dates with someone else aside from your partner? You might have a clean mind towards it but the fellow you're out with might have other plans

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by PUSSYHOE(m): 3:02pm On Jul 26, 2018
kennygee:
Relationship isn't marriage, I'll marry you isn't marriage. Do things the way that will please God.

Shalom.
So a lady should be open for offers till marriage?

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by UyiIredia(m): 3:10pm On Jul 26, 2018
PUSSYHOE:
Is it a sign of good virtue by a lady in relationship to go out with other guys on dates, e.g birthday parties, clubs, shopping, sleep over, hangout etc? if wrong tell us your reasons.

lalasticlala

I am liberal in that regard. As far as I am concerned it is not wrong because she is not engaged or married to her boyfriend yet. So at that stage she needs to meet with other guys to have options for marriage.

What will make it wrong is if she lies about it or if she is really close with her boyfriend and still does it because in such situations there is deep emotional involvement and other relationships can hurt. The best thing is to sort out this issue on a first date whether the girl can go out with other guys. If you as a woman want to go out with other guys while at the boyfriend stage make it clear to him and don't hide it, that's also bad.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by PUSSYHOE(m): 3:14pm On Jul 26, 2018
UyiIredia:


I am liberal in that regard. As far as I am concerned it is not wrong because she is not engaged or married to her boyfriend yet. So at that stage she needs to meet with other guys to have options for marriage.

What will make it wrong is if she lies about it or if she is really close with her boyfriend and still does it because in such situations there is deep emotional involvement and other relationships can hurt. The best thing is to sort out this issue on a first date whether the girl can go out with other guys. If you as a woman want to go out with other guys while at the boyfriend stage make it clear to him and don't hide it, that's also bad.
So you will permit your gf to see other guys if she informs you?

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by donbachi(m): 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2018
Dont put all your eggs in one basket

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by BruncleZuma: 3:18pm On Jul 26, 2018

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 26, 2018
BruncleZuma:
grin grin grin grin


It's a no for me, although some philanderers will disagree with me.

It depends on the designation of the relationship: open or exclusive; me I can't do open cos I'm not wired like that.

For open relationships she's free to go on dates, club, party, fvck everyone she pleases etc; provided she gives her boyfriend his share of time and sexxxx when he needs it.

For the exclusive variety it shouldn't be permitted to look outside for fun (partying, dates, or guest, etc) otherwise it will lead to resentment and endless fights; very dangerous shit


That's my take on it

n/b: Pussyhoe is that you in your profile cheesy wink

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Authoreety: 3:19pm On Jul 26, 2018
Its a No No for my gal...


Bt if a lady feels like hanging out wt me, I hav no problem wt that...


No body shld mention me o..

My dogs aint in dia leash

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by jaxxy(m): 3:19pm On Jul 26, 2018
Yes very ethical aslong aslong as u ain't married to her or reached a mutual agreement to be exclusive based on longterm and valid commitment to each other.

If a guy hasn't given a gal ASSURANCE to marry her pls let her be free 2 check her options well bt I don't mean sleep arrnd bt u may hv to kiss a few frogs b4 u meet Prince Charming. Lol

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by holysina(m): 3:19pm On Jul 26, 2018
Sometimes ;. cheesy
Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by UyiIredia(m): 3:19pm On Jul 26, 2018
PUSSYHOE:
So you will permit your gf to see other guys if she inform you?

Yes I will. If I engage with or marry her then I won't. Simple equality me sef will like to date other girls.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Monaco2(m): 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
Nope
What for.... I don't like that idea at all
Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by olami0441: 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
well, provided she tells me before going... it not bad actually... and also not do what i wouldn't do..if u knw u knw

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by judecares1(m): 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by sprints2: 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
it's good if it doesn't backfire..its called insurance... but the reason why it is popular now is a lot of Nigerian ladies don't trust their men so they seek for potential replacement if fk happen

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by DanielsParker(m): 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
no

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
Like if she can go out with guys and share if you are against

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by joganut(m): 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
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PUSSYHOE:
Is it a sign of good virtue by a lady in relationship to go out with other guys on dates, e.g birthday parties, clubs, shopping, sleep over, hangout etc? if wrong tell us your reasons.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Alonzoh(m): 3:20pm On Jul 26, 2018
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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by xreal: 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2018
PUSSYHOE:
Is it a sign of good virtue by a lady in relationship to go out with other guys on dates, e.g birthday parties, clubs, shopping, sleep over, hangout etc? if wrong tell us your reasons.


Are u a male?
Is it a sign of good virtue by your wife to go out with other guys on dates, e.g birthday parties, clubs, shopping, sleep over, hangout etc?
If wrong, tell me your reason.
Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by HypocriticalMod: 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2018
Avoid girls in a relationship like plague.

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Alonzoh(m): 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2018
A real definition of a “Congo shineR”
Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Reelmii: 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2018
THOU SHALL NOT TEMPT THE DEVIL, outings should be limited

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by Jokerman(m): 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2018
PUSSYHOE:
So you will permit your gf to see other guys if she inform you?

Are you minding the woman wrapper....

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by 69MissedCalls(m): 3:21pm On Jul 26, 2018
Lawless generation. Always looking for cheat code to everything. What are you doing with "other guys"?

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Re: Is It Ethical For A Lady To Go On Dates While In Relationship? by nkwuocha: 3:22pm On Jul 26, 2018
yes.What we call ''relationship'' between the opposite sex this days is an avenue to commit several immoral atrocities.
The best way a lady can easily get married from my observation is when she plays the no strings attached kind of relationship with guys as long as she is not having sex with any of them.From experience,those who really do love you will be so frustrated and then you end up having two or more guys popping the question at same time.

lets say my name is chioma.

i have the following dudes on my call list

chinedu- spare part dealer
seun-banker
emeka- engr and youth leader
ikechukwu- business man
martins- yahoo boy tongue
dele-aspiring polithian
ogadimma- doctor

As chioma,i will invite chinedu for a fresh fish point and kill on sunday evening,after which i will invite him to church on Wednesday evening.calling him once in a while to ask after his business and his mother.ladies always ask after our mothers,Believe me we love it!

on wednesday,Emeka is in church.after talking and passing witty talks and charming smile,he watches as i bid him farewell and join my invitee chinedu.I will send a message minutes later to Emeka on a long call that i just arrived home and bid him good night.Thats an indication that i didnt take chinedu home to Bleep him.Him mind go dey reason many things..... cheesy

dont forget i have a dinner date with Seun on saturday.Dont forget we chat once in a while and i bought a nice bottle of cologne for his birthday last month!He is a very busy man so saturdays and sundays are is very free days.Infact i recently joined him for a bachelors eve of his colleagues and so we maintain a very healthy communication.

martains na G boy.All the paroles is always at night when he picks you up at 11pm an drops you off at 1 am.Dear martains if na seex you dey find ,no come my house again.By the way martains,id like to visit you soon,at least let me help with your dirty laundries and clean up the house.He likes the idea even if he uses laundry services and spends more time with prostitutes in 5 stars hotel rooms.When you go,go with a more beautiful friend.It will leave him either confused or outsmarted. Dont ask him for money.No need sef. He will spend without you asking.


dele na politician. Dont forget to send him inspirational quotes every morning.Engage him in politics.Call more often than normal and make him know his dreams and aspirations are important to you.

As for ogadimma,Be nice,classy and straightforward.Doctors are good listeners and intuitive.Be on your goody two shoes with this one. Ogadimma please go and pay my bride price if you want me so badly in your bed/After which you drop the cooler of freshly prepared veggies on his office table,carry your hand bag,swing your buttocks and walk out of his beautifully furnished office.



in a year if any of them no marry you,then your spirit husband is wicked!

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