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I want to talk to some souls here who are facing or just faced one of the bitter realities of love.
Rejection can be very painful to some people who are emotionally fragile ,
everybody wants to be loved, it's psychological.
You love somebody, you have a deep crush on the person,
You think about him or her all the time,
You flip through their social media timeline to monitor them,
You dream of a relationship with the person,
The person is your fantasy,
Your crush
You later summoned courage to make a move and you received an attitude laden rejection,
"you are not his or her type "
The person will tell you that through attitude and boom you start feeling bad about your self.
Listen to me,
.
Never try to fit in where you can at highest be tolerated, look for a place where you are valued.
Stop wallowing in low self esteem and inferiority complex,
he or she does not like you but there are many out there who are secretly dreaming to date you.
You got to move on and smile
Stop acting so desperate for a person who don't like you to have a change of heart, you belittle yourself doing that,
Your destiny is not tied to that person, move on.
Get those fantasy about him or her off your mind and pre occupy it with productive things.
People are out there in the street hustling for money and you want to waste time killing yourself over a rejection?
Let them go.
There are many "fishes" in the river, you will catch one that will love you for who you are,
Someone that will love your imperfections,
Some who will love you but don't know why they love you so deeply
They will love that saggy breasts,
Those flat behind
Those dark skin
That crooked voice
That your k-leg
That your height
Those pot belly
Etc
They will love everything about you,
Never keep your head low over a rejection, look into the mirror and say hi to that beautiful being inside the mirror
Remember your crush may be crushing on the person crushing on you.
.
Oriaku loves you all
Happy weekend

Smh

thank God that I can only crush on myself.

highqueen:
thank God that I can only crush on myself.

lol

IamAirforce1:
Smh

she never born?

Now playing: Justin Bieber - Love Yourself

Amarabae:
she never born?

It's about your thread and your trouble making right now

Don't deviate .

IamAirforce1:
It's about your thread and your trouble making right now

Don't deviate .

whats wrong with this thread

This is the best thread op have created since I joined NAIRALAND kudos

Iamgrey5:
This is the best thread op have created since I joined NAIRALAND kudos

grey

highqueen:
grey

Yes!
I am the one
How are you doing?

Iamgrey5:
This is the best thread op have created since I joined NAIRALAND kudos

hmmm

Iamgrey5:
Yes!
I am the one
How are you doing?

lool,I'm good,you?

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

highqueen:
lool,I'm good,you?

I am doing just fine, thanks for asking

Iamgrey5:
I am doing just fine, thanks for asking

take care.

I go like taste this married woman of an OP. She looks very delicious. Op, can i get your number? I want to tell you something.

Amarabae:
hmmm

Mrs oriaku if your aren't familiar with my moniker check my signature.

This is your best thread yet as it captures both male and female struggles. It wasn't meant to start a childish E-war or support a hypocritical feminist position

Although, we are still not friends in the politics section

Iamgrey5:
Mrs oriaku if your aren't familiar with my moniker check my signature.

This is your best thread yet as it captures both male and female struggles. It wasn't meant to start a childish E-war or support a hypocritical feminist position

Although, we are still not friends in the politics section

this world would be a better place if people learn to reason this way

ritylove:
this world would be a better place if people learn to reason this way

Okay. Time to rehearse what the OP posted.

Give me your number, I think I like you.


Will you?

I remember being rejected in my teen years by this lady I was crushing on. I even lied that I was older than my real age yet she kept saying I was too young for her.

I fell sick because of that rejection and later out of stupidity told mum who instantly stopped wasting her money on my fever medication and called me an onuku.

joey150:
Okay. Time to rehearse what the OP posted.

Give me your number, I think I like you.


Will you?

u got to be sheeting me

NICE WRITE UP,YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE EXPECTING LOVE FROM SOMEONE.YOU SHOULD MAKE YOURSELF FIRST PRIORITY.KUDOS TO THE OP

ritylove:
u got to be sheeting me

Not at all...Truer words were never said by me.

Nice try.

This is nice

Amarabae:
whats wrong with this thread

my sister we dey feel u no worry yourself day break everywhere burst

Lovely...

This is what mostly happen