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I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Flickzvill(m): 2:36pm On Jul 29, 2018
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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by n0fav0rs: 2:37pm On Jul 29, 2018
Okay. I will fry stone

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by delugajackson: 2:40pm On Jul 29, 2018
Flickzvill:
The thing is, I love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feellings.
You did the right thing. But do you ned anyone to tell you she's an undercover olosho? Truth is, she never loved you. And I don't expect you to have mixed feelings about your decision. You just set the hoe free.

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Holymann(m): 2:42pm On Jul 29, 2018
You did the right thing bro.
A wise man once said "Life is too short for you to worry about an Olosho."
By breaking up with her, you just avoided 2 things:
1. the possibility of he hanging someone's pregnancy
2. the possibility of he sharing something she got from one of her "JUST FRIENDS" with you.
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But you sef, Why did you enter a relationship when she already told you she has too many assistant boyfriends Who knows, you might have been one yourself.

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by duduade: 2:43pm On Jul 29, 2018
Channel your energy and thoughts to making money abeg

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Flickzvill(m): 2:44pm On Jul 29, 2018
Holymann:
You did the right thing bro.
A wise man once said "Life is too short for you to keep worrying about an Olosho"
thank you very much
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Flickzvill(m): 2:44pm On Jul 29, 2018
duduade:
Channel your energy and thoughts to making money abeg
that's the decision I made today no time for nonsense thanks anyways

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Forzap: 2:48pm On Jul 29, 2018
forget it she's gone olosho way...go make money man

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Brownville007: 2:49pm On Jul 29, 2018
The babe wasn't dating you all this while. You were the one dating her. All along she's been looking forward to your breakup. Congrats bro

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jul 29, 2018
UNDERCOVER OLOSHO....

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Babyforever(f): 3:04pm On Jul 29, 2018
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine smiley

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Flickzvill(m): 3:09pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine smiley
thanks but I want u to understand me I am not the controlling type believe me no man will stand his woman going to sleep in another mans house bcz she thinks she not married yet i don't stop her from going to parties I do go myself so it's no big deal I dont stop her from hanging out with her friends but the disturbing part is going to sleep in another mans house all the name of fun and shes in a relationship I can't accept that bcz it will continue even after marriage.

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by ahiboilandgas: 3:10pm On Jul 29, 2018
Flickzvill:
Happy Sunday peeps well let me not bore you with the details, I broke up with my ex today because I am tired we started dating few years back while I was still in sch I was in 300lv nd she was in 100lv. At that time we started she stated shes got more of male friends than female I accepted bcz dia was nothing I could do. Months after she lost her hostel space nd wanted somewhere to stay for the night before going home the next day nd I myself traveled i wasn't in sch nd I can't allow her sleep in my apartment my 2 roommates are guys I told her to go to her friends in the hostel but she declined that she can't stay with her I now asked her where does she have in mind she mentioned a guys name I was a bit angry at first but I asked her why him she said bcz he is like a brother to her I just laughed nd allowed her so she doesn't say I am controlling. Anytime I asked about this guy she keeps saying his not like dat bla bla black sheep like I am a kid I confronted her that this her friendship with this guy can't continue believe me before they cut ties this said guy had to graduate before i rest you see why it's bad to date small girls? Fast forward this year she's now a big girl we are still dating but I noticed something she started hanging out with some girls they party together flex which is very normal but what pains me the most is going to sleep in a random guys house nd anytime I asked her if she's back she would say I nd my friends couldn't make it home so my friends bf offered to house us, believe me this is not the first time it always happens and anytime I confront her she uses this words "I am not married stop acting like we are and stop controlling me" this gets me worked up bcz I don't understand ladies like this why be in a relationship when you want to live a single ladies life? Few days back she called that she would be attending a wedding with this so called "friends" I just said ok but call me when you get back home she agreed hours later no calls i had to call her around 11.pm she didn't pick till this morning she flashed me nd den I called her she said she slept early that's why she didn't pick my calls i just said ok and asked her if she's home yet she said no I asked her where was she, she said shes in her friends close friends house I was like again? She started ranting what was wrong with that? Really? I am very much faithfull bcz I choose to I can as well carry any lady I see and bleep but that not my thing I can as well bring ladies over and party everyday but that not my thing I want to build something strong so my kids will emulate, my parents where very responsible even my dad confirmed it that my mom was very responsible before they got married that why I am very responsible today. I called her not too long ago and told her I am no longer interested in the relationship she bluntly said if that what I want fine and I ended the call the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings. Happy sunday
u did the right thing don't worry the love will clear out in some months and u will be with some body responsible ....in few years now she will be hustling up and down for a husband that will even call to find out where is she....u very lucky she didn't hide are run thing make sure u chop her well too then move on

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Babyforever(f): 3:13pm On Jul 29, 2018
Flickzvill:
thanks but I want u to understand me I am not the controlling type believe me no man will stand his woman going to sleep in another mans house bcz she thinks she not married yet i don't stop her from going to parties I do go myself so it's no big deal I dont stop her from hanging out with her friends but the disturbing part is going to sleep in another mans house all the name of fun and shes in a relationship I can't accept that bcz it will continue even after marriage.
Do you want to marry her ?
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by nanauju(f): 3:13pm On Jul 29, 2018
Op this babe is going to give you lots of headaches because all you'll be doing is checking out which male 'friend' she's with or not. Who needs that?? At least she's open about it, the question is Can you cope?
I understand your principles of raising kids in sound environment and it's a good thing you called it quit before you get emotionally manipulated.
Now if she really loves you, she gonna come back and then you have to tell her what you don't like, sit and talk with her. If you see improvement, then both of you are good.

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Flickzvill(m): 3:18pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
Do you want to marry her ?
wanted to before we broke up
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by BiggerbossAmani(m): 3:24pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine smiley
bae why are you saying this?

Am surprised ooh

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Babyforever(f): 3:26pm On Jul 29, 2018
Flickzvill:
wanted to before we broke up
I don't support a cheating girlfriend she's meant to be faithful to you I think it's her friends that are causing all this havoc.......Just find time invite her over make her see reasons why she need to make the relationship work between you guys speak some words into her head I bet you she'll comply
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Babyforever(f): 3:28pm On Jul 29, 2018
BiggerbossAmani:
bae why are you saying this?

Am surprised ooh
Amani I just gave him an advice on how to handle his relationship issues nothing more
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by BiggerbossAmani(m): 3:32pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
Amani I just gave him an advice on how to handle his relationship issues nothing more
what you gave the guy is not advice nne.

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Flickzvill(m): 3:33pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
I don't support a cheating girlfriend she's meant to be faithful to you I think it's her friends that are causing all this havoc.......Just find time invite her over make her see reasons why she need to make the relationship work between you guys speak some words into her head I bet you she'll comply
I wish we could meet in real like so I will explain in detail but sis I have tried to talk some sense into her but obviously the power of this "friends" is over shadowing mine and even after marriage she like there company so bad she claims they r the only female friends shes got, man it's hard but I will take you advice tnx

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Babyforever(f): 3:38pm On Jul 29, 2018
Flickzvill:
I wish we could meet in real like so I will explain in detail but sis I have tried to talk some sense into her but obviously the power of this "friends" is over shadowing mine and even after marriage she like there company so bad she claims they r the only female friends shes got, man it's hard but I will take you advice tnx
Are you working ?
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Babyforever(f): 3:40pm On Jul 29, 2018
BiggerbossAmani:
what you gave the guy is not advice nne.
Amani what's your problem ? Don't try to spoil things for him leave the innocent young man lemme advice him better
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by sirr(m): 3:42pm On Jul 29, 2018
A woman is suppose to be Reserved, prayerful, and more conscious... and not the sleeping oit everyday type.... One question.. what will happen when u both are married?... U become scared that Ur children arent yours, right?
my guy,,,,,, My guy,,,, STOP BEING A CONFUSED HUMAN BEING... STOP BEING A GOAT AND SCUMBAG.... FACE THE FACT,,,, SHE ISNT A WIFE-TYPE LADY.... U DONT TRUST HER, ELSE U DIE OF BP OR OVERTHINKING....

DM LETS TALK

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Bluezy13(m): 3:45pm On Jul 29, 2018
I was accumulating accolades to give to the guy as I read on but on getting to the part he said: "...the thing is i love this girl to my bone but that kinda attitude is uncalled for. Nairalanders did I do the right thing? Bcz right now I am having mixed feelings"


I burst into laughter cheesy


And threw the accolades away.

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jul 29, 2018
Flickzvill:
wanted to before we broke up
this your story looks real kind of... lol... hope you aren't the one who broke up with a girl that spent her night in my apartment with one of my guys?? cheesy

bro I no go lie you... she is into coded runs, just like the girl I'm talking about and she even called her bf mumu and was sure he will still come begging her on his knees later

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by Asbaba(m): 3:49pm On Jul 29, 2018
I've been in a situation like this once, but mine no dey sleep at anybody's place but her parents.
she just get many boyfriend's assistant. and am the jealous type, so I called her one night explained everything I have in mind including my worries. I told we have options, 1. is to make things work. 2. we go our separate ways.
she asked me to give her time so she can process it, I gave three days and the reply I got is we go our separate ways. it was never easy cuz I love that girl to my bone marrow, days became longer, nights became lonely. but now I'm a free flying bird.

just man up bro, you'll get over it soon. may God help you. Ameen

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by horlahsunbo225(m): 3:50pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
Are you working ?
Am sorry sis all you advices are biased, if it was a man case you won't talk like this

Let me ask u this
Can u allow ur brother to marry that kind of girl?

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by BiggerbossAmani(m): 3:51pm On Jul 29, 2018
Babyforever:
Amani what's your problem ? Don't try to spoil things for him leave the innocent young man lemme advice him better
OK bae
Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by sirr(m): 3:51pm On Jul 29, 2018
horlahsunbo225:

Am sorry sis all you advices are biased, of it was a amn case you won't talk like this

Let me ask u this
Can u allow ur brother to marry that kind of girl?

U can imagine my brother.... when life already has so many issues,,, then she comes to add her own,,,,,

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by sirr(m): 3:56pm On Jul 29, 2018
OP, or PO.... listen attentively... DONT LET ANYONE DECEIVE YOU... DONT ALLOW URSEF BE TOLD WHAT TO DO BY SOMEONE WHO WOULDNT SUFFER WITH YOU....

If U are not happy,,,,, LEAVE,,,, END IT... ONLY A MATTER OF TIME, YOU WILL GET OVER IT, FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND APPRECIATE GOD FOR TODAY.



Do you want to have heartattack because U dont trust a woman

Do you know that there are many relationships outside where both parties are SO HAPPY and joyful together...

LIFE IS TOO LONG TO END UP WITH THE WRONG ONE....

FIND A GOOD LIFE PARTNER, AND STOP BEING CHILDISH....

Calling her back will only make her understand U cant do without her, and then... BOOOMMMMM.... SHE DOEA AS SHE LIKES THE MORE....


PRAY,,,, PRAY ... PRAY... THERE ARE BETTER GIRLS OUTSIDE WAITING FOR GOOD MEN LIKE YOU...

Dont end up with someone who might be following Yahooboys around...


dm me my guy lemme tell u sometin

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Re: I Just Broke Up With Her Here's Why by uyisteven(m): 3:59pm On Jul 29, 2018
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Good...
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It was for the Best...
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Those were signs she's falling out of Love for you...
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*****
In other News, I Need A Female Bestie...Nothing is going to happen ...I Just Want To Make Your Bf a lil Angry... grin

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