HauteReel:


Sounds cool, but when you say "many many chances" are you confrontational or maybe a little diplomatic or do you just keep things to yourself and cut them off all of a sudden; like do you actually warn them before things reach the threshold?

I don’t carry a grudge for days or months or let bullshyte slide. I am diplomatic but frank. So you will be told when you have fvuked up but when I have said my piece that’s me done. I don’t spend the whole day puffed up. I say what needs to be said, give you a moment to reflect and we move on.

If the error is mine I will own up to it. Now if the same thing keeps occurring that person is on a downward trajectory with me. I hate repeating myself
So rather than increase my stress levels unnecessarily that person is best cut off. Women are the worst for it!

HauteReel:


Hmm...Rational Raine (RR). We should start a superhero franchise.

How's your day going btw?

Superhero?
Not for me
I will just take revenge on all those people who made fun of me while I was at school

MissRaine69:

I don’t carry a grudge for days or months or let bullshyte slide. I am diplomatic but frank. So you will be told when you have fvuked up but when I have said my piece that’s me done. I don’t spend the whole day puffed up. I say what needs to be said, give you a moment to reflect and we move on.

If the error is mine I will own up to it. Now if the same thing keeps occurring that person is on a downward trajectory with me. I hate repeating myself
So rather than increase my stress levels unnecessarily that person is best cut off. Women are the worst for it!

...And still you don't fancy Donald Trump. You have some things in common - asides maybe the owning up part. He's frank too you know. Not saying I'm fan a though; not saying I'm not either.

MissRaine69:

Superhero?
Not for me
I will just take revenge on all those people who made fun of me while I was at school

Lol...why did they make fun of you? Kids can be really mean.

Was made fun of too...even though I was probably the finest - just giving a vivid illustration.

But there's no need for revenge. They were just being juvenile. Forgive and forget.

bukkyemotions:
Let's assume a lady sleeps with an ex by mistake, God can forgive the person. And if the person promises not to cheat again.

A cheat will find it easier to always cheat unless ......... Besides its not new, not cheating would have been surprising, peoples morales are so low these days that's its not shocking anymore

HauteReel:


Lol...why did they make fun of you? Kids can be really mean.

Was made fun of too...even though I was probably the finest - just giving a vivid illustration.

But there's no need for revenge. They were just being juvenile. Forgive and forget.

Not these heifers
I will smite them with my superhero staff.....

HauteReel:


...And still you don't fancy Donald Trump. You have some things in common - asides maybe the owning up part. He's frank too you know. Not saying I'm fan a though; not saying I'm not either.

I am frank but I don’t do it at the cost of a country’s intergrity like he does.

MissRaine69:

Not these heifers
I will smite them with my superhero staff.....

Lmao...you know I never said anything about the superhero's costume or weapons...but you're already fantasizing about her carrying a staff. The staff comment shows the superhero in your head is African.
Who knows...we could have another Black Panther-esque blockbuster on our hands.

Do you write?

MissRaine69:

I am frank but I don’t do it at the cost of a country’s intergrity like he does.

Patriotic Raine. Teaching Mr. Trump how to behave.

HauteReel:


Patriotic Raine. Teaching Mr. Trump how to behave.

Do you think anyone can teach Trump anything? Anyone with narcissistic traits thinks they are beyond reproach.

HauteReel:


Lmao...you know I never said anything about the superhero's costume or weapons...but you're already fantasizing about her carrying a staff. The staff comment shows the superhero in your head is African.
Who knows...we could have another Black Panther-esque blockbuster on our hands.

Do you write?

I used to write a lot
Life got in the way so I do it now when I am on a break or on holiday about Black Panther
I must be the only person I know who was disappointed with Black Panther.

MissRaine69:

Do you think anyone can teach Trump anything? Anyone with narcissistic traits thinks they are beyond reproach.

True that. Oddly enough, they also turn out quite successful. Probably because our world is full of impressionable people just waiting to be bossed around and fed fallacies; and maybe because they tend to be persistent.

HauteReel:


True that. Oddly enough, they also turn out quite successful. Probably because our world is full of impressionable people just waiting to be bossed around and fed fallacies; and maybe because they tend to be persistent.

Not all people who are successful are narcissistic most are just hardworking and driven and expect the same form those who are around them.
Being surrounded by yes people would do my head in. I would like to be challenged and challenge people
Not lead a flock of sheep

MissRaine69:

I used to write a lot
Life got in the way so I do it now when I am on a break or on holiday about Black Panther
I must be the only person I know who was disappointed with Black Panther.

Urgh! Life at it again!!
Lol...I know a good few people who were also disappointed with Black Panther. Didn't live up to the hype for me either - was sort of an anti-climax when I finally got around to seeing it.

What did you write about. Fiction, poetry?

MissRaine69:

I used to write a lot
Life got in the way so I do it now when I am on a break or on holiday about Black Panther
I must be the only person I know who was disappointed with Black Panther.

How about Infinity Wars, my movie of the year so far.

MissRaine69:

Not all people who are successful are narcissistic most are just hardworking and driven and expect the same form those who are around them.
Being surrounded by yes people would do my head in. I would like to be challenged and challenge people
Not lead a flock of sheep

Yeah...I know. Spirited, inspired leadership can be easily misconstrued as narcissism IMO.

Naturally, I keep away from yes people or praise singers. Cos that's how mediocrity sets in...lol

HauteReel:


Urgh! Life at it again!!
Lol...I know a good few people who were also disappointed with Black Panther. Didn't live up to the hype for me either - was sort of an anti-climax when I finally got around to seeing it.

What did you write about. Fiction, poetry?

Historical Fiction I guess .
I wrote a book .Then I stopped writing to a while started writing again. I did a lot of research on that book, looked at the roles of women during war/peace in recolonisation sub Sahara Africa, the roles of the Old Gods were women were concerned . The book is about a women who were given as tributaries. Most of the book follows the life of one woman in particular. Her views and how she saw the world she lived in.
Regarding poetry it is something I find cathartic. It’s also mood dependent.

pryme:


How about Infinity Wars, my movie of the year so far.

Shape of water for me

MissRaine69:

Historical Fiction I guess .
I wrote a book .Then I stopped writing to a while started writing again. I did a lot of research on that book, looked at the roles of women during war/peace in recolonisation sub Sahara Africa, the roles of the Old Gods were women were concerned . The book is about a women who were given as tributaries. Most of the book follows the life of one woman in particular. Her views and how she saw the world she lived in.
Regarding poetry it is something I find cathartic. It’s also mood dependent.

Please tell me you published said book. You're quite deep. I like that.

So what do you think about the modern African woman...is she maximising are potentials?

HauteReel:


Please tell me you published said book. You're quite deep. I like that.

So what do you think about the modern African woman...is she maximising are potentials?

No it’s not published. You need a publisher and I have no idea who to go about getting one.
The modern African woman( most of them) are confused. Their mothers are the worst even as role models. If it’s drummed into your head to find a rich man at any cost. Then why be ambitious? That’s what most do and being your own person is actually discouraged.

I recall an Aunty asking me how long I intended to keep going go school for and I was draining her nephew’s bank balance! I was 19 at that time.

They set the bar so low what with Kardashian’s, Naija Big Brother as role models and wanting to be a video vixen this is what most strive to be.
Most forget that the Kardashians, Reality TV is all scripted. And the musicians tend to fvuk but stay away from video vixens. So using vagina works ....for awhile.
That’s the sad part ....the chronic lack of wanting to achieve something via hardwork.

MissRaine69:

Shape of water for me

Really,
For some reason I feel so lazy to download that movie.
That creature Reminds of Abraham in Hellboy.

MissRaine69:


No it’s not published. You need a publisher and I have no idea who to go about getting one.
The modern African woman( most of them) are confused. Their mothers are the worst even as role models. If it’s drummed into your head to find a rich man at any cost. Then why be ambitious? That’s what most do and being your own person is actually discouraged.

I recall an Aunty asking me how long I intended to keep going go school for and I was draining her nephew’s bank balance! I was 19 at that time.

They set the bar so low what with Kardashian’s, Naija Big Brother as role models and wanting to be a video vixen this is what most strive to be.
Most forget that the Kardashians, Reality TV is all scripted. And the musicians tend to fvuk but stay away from video vixens. So using vagina works ....for awhile.
That’s the sad part ....the chronic lack of wanting to achieve something via hardwork.

Not published? Such a shame. I bet you haven't really tried to speak with a publisher. I know some brilliant writers though. Maybe they'll have a clue. But you don't sound like you're ready to push for it anyways.

OMG! So true...I always encourage my female friends to work on their skill set as there's no limit to what they can achieve on their own if they put their mind/skills to task.

Parents...especially mothers are at fault here. This is what happens when they bring up their daughters to have little or no self-worth. What good does it do any woman to find a rich man, be subjected to sub-human treatment and have no lasting legacy?

Widespread poverty in Nigeria is also a catalyst here...people are so desperate that they encourage their daughters to latch on to the highest bidder and hold on for dear life...lol...really sad IMO. Also remember that when you educate a man, you educate an individual; but when you educate a woman you educate the society. So just imagine the impact of such negative upbringing.

Just trying to imagine the look on your face when your Aunt said that..lol..really ridiculous.

The culture of celebrating social media slayqueens and internet fraudsters. Even corporate bodies are on that bandwagon now. Universities are not researching either...looks like we're on a downward spiral. What worries me most is that no nation can develop without quality research; but here our corporate bodies are busy investing in big brother and other trivial programmes. *sighs*

What do you think can be done to salvage this dire situation?

pryme:


Really,
For some reason I feel so lazy to download that movie.
That creature Reminds of Abraham in Hellboy.

If you have never watched any of guillermo del toro‘s work ( indie films) then Shape of water won’t make sense.

MissRaine69:

If you have never watched any of guillermo del toro‘s work ( indie films) then Shape of water won’t make sense.

Is that a spoiler alert?
Ofcos it will make sense, it (may not) make sense at first, but it will eventually as long as it's not a Nollywood movie.
Have you seen any movie with those 3d goggles?

HauteReel:


Not published? Such a shame. I bet you haven't really tried to speak with a publisher. I know some brilliant writers though. Maybe they'll have a clue. But you don't sound like you're ready to push for it anyways.

OMG! So true...I always encourage my female friends to work on their skill set as there's no limit to what they can achieve on their own if they put their mind/skills to task.

Parents...especially mothers are at fault here. This is what happens when they bring up their daughters to have little or no self-worth. What good does it do any woman to find a rich man, be subjected to sub-human treatment and have no lasting legacy?

Widespread poverty in Nigeria is also a catalyst here...people are so desperate that they encourage their daughters to latch on to the highest bidder and hold on for dear life...lol...really sad IMO. Also remember that when you educate a man, you educate an individual; but when you educate a woman you educate the society. So just imagine the impact of such negative upbringing.

Just trying to imagine the look on your face when your Aunt said that..lol..really ridiculous.

The culture of celebrating social media slayqueens and internet fraudsters. Even corporate bodies are on that bandwagon now. Universities are not researching either...looks like we're on a downward spiral. What worries me most is that no nation can develop without quality research; but here our corporate bodies are busy investing in big brother and other trivial programmes. *sighs*

What do you think can be done to salvage this dire situation?

Nigeria is not the only country with grinding poverty, Russia, The Phillipines and China are equally at par if not worse because the winters there are nothing to play with bar the Philippines of course but that said

There is this very fixed view that life is better outside Nigeria, well it is for some but most leave Nigeria to find themselves in worse of circumstances. They go from poor to dire poverty.

What can be done?
Well Nigeria’s education system is an embrassment the health system is diabolical the president travels abroad for his chemotherapy what does that say about Nigeria?

Despite Zimbabwe’s troubles that country has a National Health database, same with registraring births and deaths and above all a national immunisation programme yes it’s smaller but it functions.
The Malaria and Sexual health programmes in Nigeria are being funded by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation outsiders how many billionaires does Nigeria have?

What needs to change is how Nigerians view their own country.

About publishing of course I am serious but my first career has taken precedent over the years.

pryme:


Is that a spoiler alert?
Ofcos it will make sense, it (may not) make sense at first, but it will eventually as long as it's not a Nollywood movie.
Have you seen any movie with those 3d goggles?

It’s not a spoiler alert just responding to something that you mentioned. No I have not used them I have spent the last few weeks being a gypsy.

MissRaine69:

Nigeria is not the only country with grinding poverty, Russia, The Phillipines and China are equally at par if not worse because the winters there are nothing to play with bar the Philippines of course but that said

There is this very fixed view that life is better outside Nigeria, well it is for some but most leave Nigeria to find themselves in worse of circumstances. They go from poor to dire poverty.

What can be done?
Well Nigeria’s education system is an embrassment the health system is diabolical the president travels abroad for his chemotherapy what does that say about Nigeria?

Despite Zimbabwe’s troubles that country has a National Health database, same with registraring births and deaths and above all a national immunisation programme yes it’s smaller but it functions.
The Malaria and Sexual health programmes in Nigeria are being funded by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation outsiders how many billionaires does Nigeria have?

What needs to change is how Nigerians view their own country.

About publishing of course I am serious but my first career has taken precedent over the years.

Didn't know Zimbabwe had a National Health Database...so the problem teeters towards orientation rather than poverty. Hmm..

About living abroad...it could be all rosy. It just depends on what you do and where you emigrate to. I've seen people become millionaires (in GBP) in just a few years after moving abroad.

About the book...your first career took precedence as it should, but you should put some effort into getting published. You'll be glad you did.

So have you done anything on your own part to alleviate some of these problems? If you have, would love to hear about it. Pray tell.

HauteReel:


Didn't know Zimbabwe had a National Health Database...so the problem teeters towards orientation rather than poverty. Hmm..

About living abroad...it could be all rosy. It just depends on what you do and where you emigrate to. I've seen people become millionaires (in GBP) in just a few years after moving abroad.

About the book...your first career took precedence as it should, but you should put some effort into getting published. You'll be glad you did.

So have you done anything on your own part to alleviate some of these problems? If you have, would love to hear about it. Pray tell.

Most Nigerians look down upon other African countries with very little realisation that they are a lot more progressive than we are. Evidenced by the fact that we are the ones that go to their respective countries not the other way round.


When I am in the country I have clinics that provide antenatal advice and care for women with complex pregnancies.( free)
I used to have a complex female fertility consultation situation with a few of the clinics but I do that solo now as I got tired of being lied to.

The same question to you....so what do you do where are you based?

MissRaine69:

It’s not a spoiler alert just responding to something that you mentioned. No I have not used them I have spent the last few weeks being a gypsy.

Gypsy? traveling around pretending to be broke?

You should also try being a monk, watch me chart away all your belongings while you are in the Zen state

pryme:


Gypsy? traveling around pretending to be broke?

You should also try being a monk, watch me chart away all your belongings while you are in the Zen state

Gypsy here was used as a figure of speech to indicate being quite transient but you always do this. Take something and run away with it.
In the wrong direction
And this is why usually don’t respond.

MissRaine69:

Most Nigerians look down upon other African countries with very little realisation that they are a lot more progressive than we are. Evidenced by the fact that we are the ones that go to their respective countries not the other way round.


When I am in the country I have clinics that provide antenatal advice and care for women with complex pregnancies.( free)
I used to have a complex female fertility consultation situation with a few of the clinics but I do that solo now as I got tired of being lied to.

The same question to you....so what do you do where are you based?

We really need a reality check..lol

Free clinics? That's uber-cool. Such a shame to see the Nigerian factor creep in again. I've heard so many people who mean well for Nigeria complain about dishonesty. *sigh*
Don't be discouraged though, you're doing great.

So you finally got around to asking a question, eh? Hmm...so what do I do? Lol...I do everything.

She should better just keep it to herself cos I nor dey use sentiment decide.....else wedding cancelled or better still she go marry her ex chikina.