Sacrosanct!

Promismike:


Sense go kill u

Completely true. You really dated many of them.

Immediately you say hi to them. The next you get is send me card. My phone is bad. My rent is due, etc Nigeria leeches. Not ladies.

Even an average one will depend on as low as sub on her phone,

That is their way of of seeing a caring man.

This mentality is turning into a bad culture that will hunt future female off springs

I am a lady and my reply is on the first page.

mokt:
How ladies, Over to you. No comments? I juatbchecked the first page of commwnts on this post not even a single reply from our ladies.

Ejiod:

Dont tell me you support these lines

The AVERAGE Nigerian woman is a self entitled narcissist, who feels money and gifts are her rights even when she does absolutely nothing for you, not even hold a good conversation either in person or via text, typing like someone with epileptic seizures with the annoying abbreviations.

Yes, I support it. I wouldn't know his definition of average, but I suppose he means 'SOME'. If that's the case, he is right. That's me being non-sentimental about the topic. It is a mindset installed from childhood, almost follow-come sef.

What do we expect when AVERAGE women here are not trained/encouraged to aspire for greatness. "Make money, don't make too much. Pursue a career, but drop it at the foot mat of your husband's house..."

We can't eat our cake and have it. Nigerian men, are blessed with the kinda woman they deserve . The one that calms you guys egos. The only time I see you all complain is when you wanna lash out at NIGERIAN women. Outside here, guys love to spend. It is a subtle way of exerting dominance to lots of them.

Make una dey there dey complain nonsense. You're what you attract. How do people even woo ladies online? Sh!t is too weird for me. If I never see you before in real-life and don't have the faintest idea of your character, leave am abeg. Afterall I never finish with people wey I dey see with my two eyes.

All these sick mentality you say Nigerian ladies portray....you guys are majorly the cause. All my life, my ladies do more of the calling, the texting etc. The ones wey genuinely broke dey receive my call, but na once in a while. Other than that the ladies do most of the work when we are in a relationship. My own duty is to reciprocate accordingly.

Of course they beg once in a while, but I hardly give them wetin dem dey find. And it still doesn't prevent them from offering the coochie when I need it. The truth is that if you're really good in other aspects, e.g Swag, sex, focused, handsome, witty, intelligent...you won't need much money to impress ladies. And you'd easily escape with certain excesses. No be woman again? Even prostitutes get guys wey dem dey give free t0t0 steadily.

Guys, be wise. No dey pay bride price of girl wey you no go marry. And if money is the only thing you think that you can use to attract a lady, then you're a poor person. Only money can save you from total wretchedness

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

Nigerian men don't beat their woman. Let's call a spade a spade.

The ones that beat their woman is not up to 2%. If you doubt that, look at your family, count 30 people who are married, how many of them beat their wife's? I can guarantee you probably will count only 1. But because bad news travels fast, we get to hear the beating more than the happy ones.

Nigerian guys have gotten so used to the sense of entitlement of Nigerian Girls that when they go abroad and just do half of what they would normally do for a Nigerian girl, they are so adored and cherished..

Thats why you see an average Ghanian lady will do anything to go out with a Nigerian man

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

By average, I believe he meant some really. He didn't the the average attitude of Nigerian girls. That would be generalisation. By average here, he also recognize the exceptional ones like you. And those that might even be worse than those he described.

So, I think you are the one who did some hasty generalisation here. Also, these days, women seem to show more anger than men. The beating sef don reverse. Your response kinda sounds like your are angry. You are probably not though. Only average Nigerian girls get angry.

delugajackson:


Studies have shown that dating a foreign lady reduces the stress level to about 70 percent, which is a far cry from what is obtained from the nagging, egocentric attitude of Nigerian ladies. Insist on geniune products, insist on foreign ladies, think of the future.

pansophist:
he is right,

One needs to live outside Nigeria to know what the op is talking about. Dating a Nigerian girl is basically training an adult child. Saddening

You folks have made absolutely valid points. I thought I was the only one that felt this way. Once a foreign lady has the slightest interest in you, lol, you don't even need to be super flirty.

I still think there are sensible Nigerian ladies out there, but it seems the proportion is waning by the day.

Amberon11:
Just make sure you don't date your granny in your quest for a dating a foreigner.

I said dating not investment

Promismike:


Sense go kill u

Completely true. You really dated many of them.

Immediately you say hi to them. The next you get is send me card. My phone is bad. My rent is due, etc Nigeria leeches. Not ladies.

I need to make my hair

lekanwl:
No Woman, No Cry.

Bob Marley

When I dated a Ghanaian girl I understand all this.....

Even Nigerian girls in Ghana don't behave like the ones at home


They take you out buy you lots of drinks.....

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

Even if what you are saying is true, then your type is just a few,a few as 2 out of 20 or more ...cos I for one actually dated one like your type,one thing led to another, we broke up.


since then finding another one like her is like looking for a black goat at night

Lol, my post finally made front page but it had to be through Instagram.

Mods check yourselves, most of the things I post there, I post here first but since I'm not one of your favourites it gets passed for very dumb posts. And those make the front page.

lilmax:
one thing is sure ....most Nigerian women lack common sense

they are the most predictable and simple something on earth

entitled,yes, but spending? Nigerian guys should take the blame on this one

please explain the the last sentence. Thanks

dude is spot-on!

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

Oga sharap if you don't know what to say

Bamz:




You folks have made absolutely valid points. I thought I was the only one that felt this way. Once a foreign lady has the slightest interest in you, lol, you don't even need to be super flirty.

I still think there are sensible Nigerian ladies out there, but it seems the proportion is waning by the day.

Exactly.

To the average Nigerian girls, a partner is nothing more than a walking wallet. It seems like a miracle if each meet up and conversations don’t end up in the man spending money, and a taboo for them to spend theirs. The man has to do all the work to sustain a relationship with those robots. Sick

pansophist:
he is right,

One needs to live outside Nigeria to know what the op is talking about. Dating a Nigerian girl is basically training an adult child. Saddening

More saddening is the fact that most of us are stuck with them.

Aystarz:



More saddening is the fact that most of us are stuck with them.

Go foreign. It’s as simple as that.

Dating really sucks in this country. Toast a girl, immediately she feels she has landed a job. Guys need to wise up ooo

Promismike:


Sense go kill u

Completely true. You really dated many of them.

Immediately you say hi to them. The next you get is send me card. My phone is bad. My rent is due, etc Nigeria leeches. Not ladies.

On second thoughts maybe there is more to it. The economy has never been this bad and unemployment is not smiling. How do we heck a living in this mess? My other question is what do unemployed guys do?

Hahahahaha

Mklancee:

I said dating not investment

Mekanus:
Dating really sucks in this country. Toast a girl, immediately she feels she has landed a job. Guys need to wise up ooo

She has actually. Even if you give her business ideas that will help her and you ready to fund it or invest in it. Nope. I am your girlfriend. You should take care of me.

pansophist:


Exactly.

To the average Nigerian girls, a partner is nothing more than a walking wallet. It seems like a miracle if each meet up and conversations don’t end up in the man spending money, and a taboo for them to spend theirs. The man has to do all the work to sustain a relationship with those robots. Sick

Any girl that isn't ready to give as much vibe and effort as I'm putting in the relationship can date herself. I'd rather be single than be in an unhappy relationship.

The average Nigerian girl actually is. Just a few are exceptional

Amberon11:
I see people who jump into hasty generalisations as daft,dumb and stupid. If your mother, sister, girlfriends are like that doesn't mean the average Nigerian girl is like that.

I personally have never expected much from any guy and have never dated for monetary gains and so many of my friends are in that category and nor have I ever been on dates for food as I treat myself to nice meals in restaurants whenever I feel the need.

We could say the same for you men who act too authoritarian towards your Nigerian gfs beating them and thinking its your right to cheat. Other men do not Lord over their gfs that way but I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that. There are good ones.

So my point is this, identify the good one and stick with him/her because all these rants are senseless . Thank you!

tiwiex:

She has actually. Even if you give her business ideas that will help her and you ready to fund it or invest in it. Nope. I am your girlfriend. You should take care of me.

It's too bad

pocohantas:


Yes, I support it. I wouldn't know his definition of average, but I suppose he means 'SOME'. If that's the case, he is right. That's me being non-sentimental about the topic. It is a mindset installed from childhood, almost follow-come sef.

What do we expect when AVERAGE women here are not trained/encouraged to aspire for greatness. "Make money, don't make too much. Pursue a career, but drop it at the foot mat of your husband's house..."

We can't eat our cake and have it. Nigerian men, are blessed with the kinda woman they deserve . The one that calms you guys egos. The only time I see you all complain is when you wanna lash out at NIGERIAN women. Outside here, guys love to spend. It is a subtle way of exerting dominance to lots of them.

I can't but think deep

Mekanus:
Dating really sucks in this country. Toast a girl, immediately she feels she has landed a job. Guys need to wise up ooo

Guy haba... >:

Bamz:


Any girl that isn't ready to give as much vibe and effort I'm putting in the relationship can date herself. I'd rather be single than be in an unhappy relationship.

Lol, you want make konji kill you ni,?

I contend that marriageable girls are declining in a speed of light, but the advantages it poses is that men are living in the best time to fully express our sexuality unrestricted.

My advice will be for Nigerian men to improve their sócio economical status and see them as nothing more than your sexual gratification. Go lift weight and build muscles, fake richness ( if you ain’t truly), and show your status via instagram etc. girls are usually fickle and will fall for such, and enjoy unlimited fucking

Adapt or die lol

Lol..this is really serious sha..Girlsl learn to be independent...hardwork doesn't kill I promise you. all this nonsense has to stop.
I don't blame guys that think this way though,. Even guys can be a.s.sholes too

TroubleMaker47:
Mtcheeeeeew
Nigerian women this Nigerian women that! Ogbeni goan marry whitey and leave our Nigerian women for us!

Alayee... They never do u shagee... I pray u should be secure till u finally made up if u haven't.. They are bunch of leeches brother..