Lots of ladies are on that table....but they end up fukingg the contingency guys while still in the relationship with the main guy(s). The contingency guy becomes the side guy. The side guy is happy. But will never want to be the main guy. Cos he too has many contingencies. Side guy knows you are a cheat.... and will definitely do same to him if he is the man guy.

Joro goofed

Ungodly counsel from ungodly Counselor!

Biglittlelois:
Backup/Contingency boyfriend- this is something i'll continue to regret not having, sometimes being 100% faithfull is just is'nt worth it at all.

Can I be one?

MrsNwaAmaikpe:


just look at them promoting oloshoism everywhere.

Any girl forking more than one cuccumber at a time is an olosho. One of the unwritten law of nature says that only the joystick is permitted to drill more than one kpekus at a given point in time. A kpekus that has an option while been drilled by a joystick is an olosho and will rot in the pit of hell

I put it to u, u are a guy!

Encouraging them to be putting us in friend zone,,,u no well

Okay. Rubbish talk.

Biggaboi:

I only want to know if the person holding the phone in the picture is a woman or a man cos I can't imagine what the material on the is covering!

Wetin carry your eyes go there

Interesting!


If you are looking to get a fairly used laptop, click on my username or follow the link in my signature.

Hope nobody listens to this guy cos this advice is absurd, relationship isn't a game, it can turn sour yea but doesn't mean you can't get it right, just work on things that keep it strong

Oga na lie joor....

izzou:


Did it occur to Joro Olodo Olumofin that the CONTIGENCY BOYFRIEND whom she just loves on a platonic level, and refuses sex will have like 3 other girlfriends on the sidelines giving him much more than what she's offering?

The truth is there's no perfect way to find the perfect one. Just pray you end up with someone faithful. Learn from your past experiences. Learn to endure some shiits and forgive, because you'll need a lot of that in marriage

You said it all, life is complicated and bleeped. If you get lucky, do not turn into a relationship expert.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lolzzzz.... Fidelity has gone to the dogs.

See Your Mouth

FaceThem:

See Your Mouth

See your eyes

Well

I don't even know how people who think this foolish, manage to become famous. I've never had a back up gf and I don't ever intend to have one cos it's a whole lotta stress. Anybody who can't be exclusive with me should not bother dating me. God help you that I find out you're keeping a side nigga, that would be the end. If you like, be fine like mammy water, it's not my business.

Maurz:
Oga na lie joor....

oga Na true joor.how many of our men really v one girlfriend? Let us b honest here.

Did any one notice that the lady in the first pix has a flat chest, as in she has no bwest or is it just my eyes that is confusing me.............. just asking tho.

It goes both ways.. its wat we already knw.. girls also break d hearts of guys.. so its beta to just av other options so as 2 avoid stories that touch..
However, having other options means u won't b 100% down with d real person n dat is d "start of d end" of any relationship..
Conclusion is dating/relationship doesn't make sense anymore... just av a friend dat u both help urselves out wen in heat.. nothing more..

Cloud007:
Lots of ladies are on that table....but they end up fukingg the contingency guys while still in the relationship with the main guy(s). The contingency guy becomes the side guy. The side guy is happy. But will never want to be the main guy. Cos he too has many contingencies. Side guy knows you are a cheat.... and will definitely do same to him if he is the man guy.

Joro goofed

My point too, the side guy still won't take her serious for fear of the same treatment being meted out to him.

well said @Joro
very important

Biglittlelois:
Backup/Contingency boyfriend- this is something i'll continue to regret not having, sometimes being 100% faithfull is'nt worth it at all.

Very true

Lmao me that can’t even talk to more than one man without feeling guilty

Contingency boyfriend self gets like 3 contingency girlfriend.. 3 other reasons why relationships fail is lack of focus, greed and selfishness. 2 is supposed to be better than one. Why can't you work as a team and work things out. Try as much to be matured emotionally and understand each other. Many do things solo in relationships. such relationships are bound to fail. There is no perfect boyfriend or girlfriend. You can work towards perfection.

Biggaboi:

I only want to know if the person holding the phone in the picture is a woman or a man cos I can't imagine what the material on the is covering!

bro ,i was about to type this oo.na she male she go be.

OP no make me swear for you o!

Upon all the pictures of women in bra all over the internet you can lay your hands on, e come be this flat one you go bring put here?

Wetin the lady in that picture dey even use bra do, if I may ask?

Guy abeg change that thing fast.

stano2:
Some guys are contingency boyfriend until you leave ur boyfriend and give them the chance to strike.. Contingency kee u there.

These are the ones in school those days, they won't have a girlfriend but they will be looking for ways to spoil fun for you and your gf with their Amebo sef.

Yeye relationship doctor, tell me how a relationship will lead to marriage when then a girl is already keeping a guy aside expecting her present boyfriend to Bleep up.

Infact this one have no experience when it comes to relationship matters, they will just wake up one day ND be claiming relationship doctors.

Kill joy relationship f. Ool

what you expect and think is what you get!

Biglittlelois:
Backup/Contingency boyfriend- this is something i'll continue to regret not having, sometimes being 100% faithfull is'nt worth it at all.

Listen to me. Never be discouraged because you decided to be honest, upright and responsible. We live in a world where people have no dignity and it doesn't matter to them how they are perceived. Just keep your head up and continue being upright.

Biglittlelois:
Backup/Contingency boyfriend- this is something i'll continue to regret not having, sometimes being 100% faithfull is'nt worth it at all.

If my gf has it no problem but don't show to my face.. D day I find out, it over.... Me, I will have like three backup Sef.

MrsNwaAmaikpe:


just look at them promoting oloshoism everywhere.

Any girl forking more than one cuccumber at a time is an olosho. One of the unwritten law of nature says that only the joystick is permitted to drill more than one kpekus at a given point in time. A kpekus that has an option while been drilled by a joystick is an olosho and will rot in the pit of hell

Where hath thou been?
And what of your husband

izzou:


Did it occur to Joro Olodo Olumofin that the CONTIGENCY BOYFRIEND whom she just loves on a platonic level, and refuses sex will have like 3 other girlfriends on the sidelines giving him much more than what she's offering?

The truth is there's no perfect way to find the perfect one. Just pray you end up with someone faithful. Learn from your past experiences. Learn to endure some shiits and forgive, because you'll need a lot of that in marriage

Joro Olumofin is so stupid to think along that line

Biglittlelois:
Backup/Contingency boyfriend- this is something i'll continue to regret not having, sometimes being 100% faithfull is'nt worth it at all.

I always dump any girl that uses me as backup as soon as she breaks up with him, I dump her!

I have done like 20 over the last 15 years.

Guess what?

They married the next guy they met shortly afterwards.

What I figured is that, when a lady has a backup guy, she is never fully committed to her man.

When she realizes that no one wants a two timing beach; she will be faithful to one at a time... THEN marriage follows.


NO MAN WILL MARRY A WOMAN WHO HE SUSPECTS IS GIVING Him less than 101% of her all