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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 7:44pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Coldfeets:little boys will nvr understand this line of thought.. theyd be giving stupid advise they know nuffn about. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 7:46pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Elder001:most of them r freakn babymamas tlkn shit. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 7:51pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
perfectedmee:oga if na fiancee she still be dont fvckn gock ursef. Except u know wht ure doing dont fall for that trap. Youll end up wadting ur tym. The poor child doesnt deserve whats coming for him. Marriage is a different ball game. Trust me. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Moji12(f): 8:00pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Ioannes:I no tell u? D looser is quoting despite not quoting him directly das cos truth hurts n I smell frustration at d same time. Anyways I will ignore him like plague like I once advised u. he doesn't know frustration kills faster dan aids n cancer join together. He's even contradicting himself. Childish. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Coldfeets: 8:03pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Donjazzy12: revolt: Don't blame such guys. They all have been so pussified. In fact, so pussified to the extent that if a woman tells them to slap their own mothers, they might consider doing it... just to show her he loves her. Very weak and stupid and worthless men everywhere!!! Running after pussy as if pussy is more precious than diamond. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 8:10pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Moji12:If i pounce on u this night nl will judge our matter. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by eyinjuege: 8:15pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
adontcare: That father is not irresponsible please, and the grandma is not selfish. It's time for her mother to step up. A mother that abandoned her child for 6 years, not knowing how the child is faring, yet remarried and going about her life as though if the child is alive or not, its none of her business. Is that one a mother? Her husband says she is hardworking, meaning she is earning money. She should also take care of her own daughter. If it means packing out and renting a place for her child to stay with her, then let her do it. Which responsible single mother marries a man not ready to accept her child? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by TheCongo2: 8:35pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
whitedove: How old is your son in the UK? |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by TheCongo2: 8:39pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
perfectedmee: Have you ever met him? |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by busayo2uk: 8:43pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
This is really a complicated issue as some people said you should adopt the child. How can you adopt a child that is not thrown away? Did the father said he does not want the child again? so what will be the basis for adoption? You have only two options: (1) Accept the child and be ready to be fair and you should know that it will involve school fees. And be ready to tolerate the fact that the father will always request to see the child once in a while. (2) If you know that you may not be fair or you wont be able to take the burden of school fees when the need arises, please reject. It is better than keep a child that will grow up to hate u. NairalandFAYOSE: 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by adontcare(f): 9:07pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
eyinjuege:where was it stated dat she abandoned d child for 6 yrs?. It is both d father and d mother responsibility to take care of d child. If d man hands off, and d only person dat could assist her( her grand ma) back off, what do u want d woman to do? She pleaded with op and he is confused because of his family stance. Lord know I won't abandon my child for anything whether am married to Jesus 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by ImaIma1(f): 9:14pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: Your family should not have a say in your marriage. How you see your wife is the way they will also see her. If you respect her and hold her in high esteem, they will do the same. But if you are shaky and not sure, they will capitalize on that. Please protect her and accept her and her baggage. It comes with marriage. 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Jamean(f): 9:21pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
I really wonder why he can't accept the child, I can't just wrap my head around it MizMyColi: |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by adontcare(f): 9:24pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
cyndylove64:tell his wife to report to welfare or Fida. And he will be served with a letter to take care of his child financially. No sane mother will abandon her adolescent child because of marriage |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by adontcare(f): 9:28pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
kushme:I dey tell u o. Marriage is just overrated. If not for pressure, am not d marriage type. Na baby mama thing as far I can take care of kids 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Christie171(f): 9:28pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Done. Thanks ojdollars: |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 9:30pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Jamean:why dont u go and adopt the child na....or arent u a good person...a christain. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Christie171(f): 9:30pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
My dear...it has not been easy but God's infinite grace has been sufficient all round. Thank you memories1: |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 9:34pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Moji12: Lol. Best to ignore. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by adontcare(f): 9:35pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
helpee:ogbeni, no one is blackmailing d op. It is not d child fault dat everyone rejected her. 7yr old child for dat matter. If d op cannot take her in, it is his concern, but he should know dat no normal woman will bear her child being homeless |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Moji12(f): 9:48pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
revolt:wat a good laff |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
[quote author=revolt post=70042876] tht being said, marriage isnt run by empathy. Its strictly tactics and wisdom. Oh really? Is that from your many years as a married man? Lol. Marriage is not run by empathy indeed. Figures. And we wonder why there's so much divorce these days? If you can't empathize with your wife you have no business getting married. Marriage is more of a covenant than a contract. Run it like a business contract and watch it fold up. Thats why babaymamas shouldnt go looking for husbands since they have a kid they do not want to let go of. And baby papas can go around feeling funky and getting married to whomever they fancy? What nonsense. The child will be the one to suffer for their selfishness. Selfishness in trying to find happy, love and a home for herself? I shake my head for you. The man and his wife probably had a discuss with his wife b4 marriage. There were terms and conditions. Were you the chief arbiter that helped them draw up these terms and conditions? If so, let's hear about those terms and conditions sir. Unfortunately on desperation she probably assured him the child would be with the father. You cannot suddenly chamge and expecr him to jes accept it. She should wait and probably pray he accepys to allow the child come not form good mother and bring the chld in by force. So many suppositions and conjectures and guesses all of which are probably not true. She should wait and probably prays he accepts blah blah blah... Well if your sister or daughter also happens to make the same mistake of having a child out of wedlock, I hope you'll be ready with this advise for them? You prolly don't know anything about getting married and staying married, do you? The wife will respect the husband who can't step up and protect her and cover her shame when she needs him the most. Is that your supposition? I'm done with this tread abeg. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Moji12(f): 9:59pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
eyinjuege:chikena I jus can't wrap my head around it, God bless u jare. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by beinstein(m): 11:02pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Jamean:Very simple, the same reason the wife to the child's father rejected her. You lots see everything wrong in Op's decision not to accept the child, but ignore the fact that her father's wife rejected her. Is there any better hypocrisy than this? |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MizMyColi(f): 11:08pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Jamean: It is well o. My simple question for him is... Oga, if na you, nko? 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by sunshineyellow: 11:09pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Humblesam:I don't like commenting o. I got angry when I saw the after one comment. But your comment calmed me down. Chai. Africans o, you marry you no quick get belle, they call u barren and names, you carry belle born out of wedluck b4 marriage even born for your husband, they still call you after one. Useless mentality aswear. 99.9% of ladies av gotten preg in one or two occasion but na who born her own we know. How can a person hate a woman cox she has a child outside b4 marriage.? Honestly it baffles me. And Op is falling for such shit. Chai. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 11:20pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
kapelvej:true as this may seem nothing justifies a dad sending out his own child hed trained for 7 yrs. The stoty doesnt evn add. The wife is hardwrkn n the guy was wth the child? 7yrs?.guy has no justificatiom. He shd b glad the babymama left his dota wth him. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Jamean(f): 11:26pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
beinstein: Did you read proof what you typed before submitting it? Because it's not comprehensive and doesn't make sense. It's a human being you're using the word reject for upandan like this. Please don't quote me again. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 11:26pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
[quote author=Ioannes post=70046946][/quote]maam no vex this is the real world. Blood is thicker than water. The child will still go back in search of her dad. No man toils and sweats to cater for anoda mans child when the resources are scarce. He can barely tke care of his and to think the father dumped the child voluntarily because of marriage( he had custody) mkes it evn more painful.. pls wen u mke such sacrifice come here n talk but clearly u dnt know ish bout wht ur proferring. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 11:29pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
beinstein:were not even sure she rejected her. Mayb the guy isnt so buoyant n is envious the mum was doing fine. Dead beat |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Jamean(f): 11:29pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
revolt: Is that how you were adopted? 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by revolt(m): 11:34pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Jamean:no u can help the op naaw. Good samaritan. |
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