Your post is rubbish but we know nl men are going to agree with it.

I'm equally shocked too, can't believe ppl seek advice from him, the guy is just giving out silly advises based on his own freaky fantasies.

Only the gullible and stupid ones will listen to any sort of relationship advice given by a jobless bearded guy,that only sit behind his phone every day doing nothing..

See his hard face. Single man without any marriage experience. He looks deceitful..

Shampoo77:
Is that the face of Joro? He looks fraudulent and demonic.

U got it, he simply looks fraudulent, evil & demonic. No proper packaging at all. Is this how a relationship counselor should look? Is this the type of person whose advice people should follow? It's a pity for Nigeria

Any way, it favours men.

These ladies who go about having 2 or more boyfriends are just helping niggas who dont have a girlfriend get one through her 2 or more boyfriends lifestyle.

Comments don dey enta oh.....Seal!





Like I posited on the previous thread





Nobody is sincere.....male or female!

sanpipita:
I'm equally shocked too, can't believe ppl seek advice from him, the guy is just giving out silly advises based on his own freaky fantasies.

Let's not stop at calling him out here alone, let's all mobilize & send a petition to Twitter & any other social media platform he is to ban him from spreading damaging & perverted relationship advice to people. We the people have the power to do this. Joro Olumofin must be stopped so that real and genuine relationship counselors can be given chance to advice people in a decent way.

Pretenders Truth is always bitter

back up or no back up....Que sera sera

I remember the hailing he got here, when he was reaffirming against a gender, abeg make I laugh!

Factually, Joro is a showman and cannot hold his own where confirmed psychotherapists are.

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Advice ke?

Online? From Nigerians?



Linda Ikeji, Tonto Dike, Toke Makinwa give some advice
to ladies everyday online. Remarkably, they always end up doing the opposite of everything they advised these young girls.

Nigerians and hypocrisy are inseparable. They should come with warning labels. Adhere at your own peril.

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Yuugen:
Your post is rubbish but we know nl men are going to agree with it.

You support the idea of having 2boyfriends?

African ladies never seize to amuse me..

Seal33:
People simply like the bandwagon effect, even if it's the wrong thing being preached or said

It seems you suffer cognitive dissonance. Read the said article again, but this time, slowly. He explicitly stated that the girls who keep these 'backup boyfriends' shouldn't be involved with them sexually, that yhe relationship should be platonic but these guys should be men they can eventually marry in case their current relationships go south.
Not that I support his opinion but I won't just watch you mislead people to believing he said what he clearly didn't just because you couldn't comprehend what he said.
Bye

Joro advised for contigency plan to help deal with depression. It's not same as having more than one partner. Truth is, every lady has that guy who isn't her lover but is close enough to be a threat to her partner - even if the partner plays cool about it. Joro's fault is to think he advised when he was only stating the obvious. @OP, I'm impressed to find a lady standing up for men. Kudos! But the message was misunderstood.

RexTramadol1:
Comments don dey enta oh.....Seal!





Like I posited on the previous thread





Nobody is sincere.....male or female!

Isn't about being sincere or not, but advising people to see relationship as a game and brazenly keep many partners is wrong, if he is talking about open relationship I will understand but his advice is wrong and unhealthy.

Seal33:
I was really shocked to read an advice on Nairaland front page by one Joro Olumofin who calls himself a relationship counsellor where he advised women to have back up boyfriends in case of disappointment by their boyfriends. But in the first place who even gave this guy the appellation of a relationship doctor?

Is this the type of person Nigerians who want genuine & lasting relationships should listen to? This guy called Joro is simply evil and a scam & anybody who listens to him will have themselves to blame. He is fond of giving wrong & evil relationship advice, yet people go to his social media handle to copy the trash advice he gives, even when there are better and godly relationship counsellors in Nigeria whose advice should be taken instead of this scam artist called Joro Olumofin.

And I wonder why Nairaland Moderators will keep pushing topics of this type of negative relationship advice by fake relationship counselors like Joro to the front page. It's surprising.

Women u will have yourself to blame if u follow this guy & his plan with men for u to have 2 or 3 boyfriends & turn to olosho/prostitute ur body for men just because ure looking for marriage. Will Joro advise his sisters to do so?

Don't think by having 2 or 3 boyfriends, it will make it easier for u to get a partner. That's a lie from d pit of hell. The same men u think u are just friends with & keeping them as just friends will one day plot & find a way to ur heart because we women are fragile in heart & can easily be manipulated by men, & sooner or later u might end up with sleeping with them. & u now become public property sharing urself to different men. By the time u want to settle down for marriage all those men will tell each other they have slept with u & will spoil ur name even those ure just friends with will still claim they slept wit u because men have ego & like to feel they've conquered a woman even when it's not so.

If u follow Joro's advice u will only end up with heart break & heart attack with time & later in life. Mark my word. We should call this evil guy Joro Olumofin out before he spoils ur daughters & our daughters & before he damages relationships & causes heartbreaks.

This guy is never a relationship counselor, he is simply fake & evil. Pls don't listen to him.

And for bloggers that constantly go to this guy's page to copy & distribute these trash relationship advice, u're not doing people any good u're only helping to ruin more relationships & mind u as u continue to share these evil advice all over the country it will come back to haunt u in future in one way or the other.

Pls share your views, let's hear from u.

Moderators pls kindly move to the front page asap!

While I share a bit of your thoughts, I want u to know that there are no clear cut rules to life and as a matter of fact life has never been fair to anyone. A good girl with just a boyfriend might keep getting jilted and may not be married till 36 years while an olosho with numerous boyfriends may marry one of his boyfriends at 25. My point is keeping just a boyfriend or having two or more does not guarantee anything but gods grace.

Seal33:
17 views, no comments,

I know this will hardly get comments since it's saying d truth, but if it's d other way round, may be by now it would have been on the front page.

Well I've done my part

desperate much?

Nice post...That guy de give jonzing advice..

That's how these cheats spread STD all in the name of not putting all eggs in one basket...

Relationship these days is so fucking dangerous... Damn!

QuietHammer:

It seems you suffer cognitive dissonance. Read the said article again, but this time, slowly. He explicitly stated that the girls who keep these 'backup boyfriends' shouldn't be involved with them sexually, that yhe relationship should be platonic but these guys should be men they can eventually marry in case their current relationships go south.
Not that I support his opinion but I won't just watch you mislead people to believing he said what he clearly didn't just because you couldn't comprehend what he said.
Bye

Why keep a contingency plan in a relationship? is this some game to you all? you will be telling your partner how you love him/her then have a back up plan? maybe we will also keep back up plan when we marry

It takes only a foolish person to seek, take and follow a foolish advice from a foolish being. I won't dwell much on that.

My ex had a backup boyfriend that I never knew. We had a minor issue then, next thing she jumped over to the guy after he brainwashed her.Now she has a baby boy for the guy, no marriage, no career and now everything is falling apart for her.She told me the other day how sorry & regretful she was & wish she never made that mistake. I feel for her though but then I remembered karma is Biatch

Those who gives out the most seemingly best advises are usually the most broken.

Seal33:


Let's not stop at calling him out here alone, let's all mobilize & send a petition to Twitter & any other social media platform he is to ban him from spreading damaging & perverted relationship advice to people. We the people have the power to do this. Joro Olumofin must be stopped so that real and genuine relationship counselors can be given chance to advice people in a decent way.

u dont have to follow his advice na. He is a businessman who understands nigeria so he is making money off it. Sells beard cream by the side controversy sells ask bob risky

Seal33:


It's really amazing that many Nigerians hate the truth & love lies. That's why the country is backward. That's why it appears Nigeria is cursed. It's the attitude of the people. And these same people get into public office & misbehave. The leaders are not from the moon. They're from among the people.

I like this OP.

Only Few people like you have sense and are not blind to all that is going on.

It's only female as wise as that I can marry.

Kudos!

sanpipita:


Why keep a contingency plan in a relationship? is this some game to you all? you will be telling your partner how you love him/her then have a back up plan? maybe we will also keep back up plan when we marry

Sir, I'm only trying relay what the self acclaimed relationship expert said. Do I need to support his view to do that? I think not.

Ladies should beware of that Joro of a guy, he look fraudulent n will be using his deceitful advice to kpansh gullible gals free of charge. To say the least he too need counseling

Seal33:


Abi ooh, should this type of senseless advice be given by a supposed relationship counselor? He is simply fake to say the least & i pity those following this guy's advice

Though I'm always at a tangent with his monocultured and largely-lacking-substance views, what he said wasn't an advise, he made a statement of fact in a weird way.


Think about it: ladies love to get things easy. They hate banks queues, so they have a bank bf.

They want cheap meat; they get market/meat bf.

They want easy movement, so they get an uber bf...

Assignment bf, bf for breakfast/lunch/dinner.
Tailor bf, saloon bf, gym bf, errand bf....

The list is endless


See? He was just stating the obvious

I hate that Ediot call joro, scam

Seal33:
I was really shocked to read an advice on Nairaland front page by one Joro Olumofin who calls himself a relationship counsellor where he advised women to have back up boyfriends in case of disappointment by their boyfriends. But in the first place who even gave this guy the appellation of a relationship doctor?

Is this the type of person Nigerians who want genuine & lasting relationships should listen to? This guy called Joro is simply evil and a scam & anybody who listens to him will have themselves to blame. He is fond of giving wrong & evil relationship advice, yet people go to his social media handle to copy the trash advice he gives, even when there are better and godly relationship counsellors in Nigeria whose advice should be taken instead of this scam artist called Joro Olumofin.

And I wonder why Nairaland Moderators will keep pushing topics of this type of negative relationship advice by fake relationship counselors like Joro to the front page. It's surprising.

Women u will have yourself to blame if u follow this guy & his plan with men for u to have 2 or 3 boyfriends & turn to olosho/prostitute ur body for men just because ure looking for marriage. Will Joro advise his sisters to do so?

Don't think by having 2 or 3 boyfriends, it will make it easier for u to get a partner. That's a lie from d pit of hell. The same men u think u are just friends with & keeping them as just friends will one day plot & find a way to ur heart because we women are fragile in heart & can easily be manipulated by men, & sooner or later u might end up with sleeping with them. & u now become public property sharing urself to different men. By the time u want to settle down for marriage all those men will tell each other they have slept with u & will spoil ur name even those ure just friends with will still claim they slept wit u because men have ego & like to feel they've conquered a woman even when it's not so.

If u follow Joro's advice u will only end up with heart break & heart attack with time & later in life. Mark my word. We should call this evil guy Joro Olumofin out before he spoils ur daughters & our daughters & before he damages relationships & causes heartbreaks.

This guy is never a relationship counselor, he is simply fake & evil. Pls don't listen to him.

And for bloggers that constantly go to this guy's page to copy & distribute these trash relationship advice, u're not doing people any good u're only helping to ruin more relationships & mind u as u continue to share these evil advice all over the country it will come back to haunt u in future in one way or the other.

Pls share your views, let's hear from u.

Moderators pls kindly move to the front page asap!

Controversy sells. When it’s about sex and relationship, the higher the selling value.

Funny enough, no one knows if the so-called “relationship counsellor” is in a relationship as he isn’t married— at his age.

Follow his advice and you will have yourself to blame. It’s that simple.

This thread too funny