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Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Nobody: 9:41pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33:Only dumbos take that fool seriously. Those who listen to him without using their God given thinking faculties do so at their own peril. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by osuofia2(m): 9:42pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33:See the mumu face like thief. Stupid joro 1 Like |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Nobody: 9:42pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
vuc1:na so you go dey laugh now. I am very sure.. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Nobody: 9:44pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33: Relax madame, It's beginning to seem like you have a personal agenda against the Joro Guy. It is also good to note that there is no perfect relationship counselors, they would just tell you their perception of things. 2 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Nobody: 9:44pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
That Ojoro's counsel is actually meant for ladies whose biological clock is ticking. Not for those ones who have the time to do trial and errors. It's about keeping your options open since you can't really tell what goes on in the minds of men these days. You have a choice to either take his counsel, or reject it- he didn't point a gun to your head. Most of the guys supporting you on this thread can't even boasts of keeping one partner, so what are we talking about? And why do I think op is a guy hiding behind a female moniker to diss Ojoro? 4 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Ngokafor(f): 9:47pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
This thread is so scanty ..looks like lots of people do not agree with op's 'outcry' 2 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Seal33: 9:54pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
cruchenutii: No sir, I don't hav any personal agenda against Joro. I don't know him & hav never met him b4, i just happen to have come across a lot of his strange, wrong & perverted relationship advice online over a long period of time & when i stumbled on this one today on Nairaland front page, i felt I should voice out & draw people's attention to his wrong advice which can lead people astray |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Elliot2(m): 9:55pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
look,joro is right! a gud percent of guys in relationships know that they will not marry their partners,never! so,why don't such guys say it from the onset that they want an open relationship? truth is, they r scums! 2 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Seal33: 9:57pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
dumo1: Correct 1 Like |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by chronique(m): 9:59pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
QuietHammer: how very easy is it to keep platonic relationships with these men and guarantee yourself that nothing will happen? along the line,feelings would start to evolve,a little flirting here and there,couple of outings,one lone moment alone at home and boom,sex is happening. it's not as easy as you make it sound. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Seal33: 10:02pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
sanpipita: That's it, his advice is really unhealthy & might even end up causing more heart breaks & depression for us women. For those who follow his funny advice |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Elliot2(m): 10:04pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
U can insult joro as much as u want,but some of u r products of contigency. just a five minute confession time with your parents will avail u d truth. it is not a new thing! 3 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by missimelda01(f): 10:04pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Dear ladies, you don't need any man to feel fulfilled and it's also not a crime to be inlove. There's obviously nothing like a perfect relationship but it's very possible to find a partner who is ready to learn from their previous mistakes and make things right in the future. I know it's not easy but sharing your body up and down all in the name of plan B isn't a better option. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by vuc1(m): 10:05pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
dumo1:I dey tell you brother. 1 Like |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by malificent(f): 10:06pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Males are so bitter about this why? Some are even of the mindset that joro talks too much, Just because of this article. See una life, if it's the other way round you guys will Hail and even dash him money. Joro or no joro anybody that has sense should know and do what's right. Leave the poor guy alone Abeg. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Odunharry(m): 10:08pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
InvertedHammer:Lmao. Nigerians, we are funny honestly. There are some things that doesn't even need to be spelt out. This is the computer age that claims to be highly sophisticated yet majority dont think. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by chronique(m): 10:08pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33: someone like me that my body knows how to give signal when a lady is about misbehaving,wouldn't hesitate to exit a relationship once i see someone has a plan b somewhere. and if i want to punish the person,i could just decide to keep her as a sex tool till i'm ready to move on. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by victorian(f): 10:12pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
coleon: Don't mind her, in reality. Ladies who have different boyfriends, end up marrying one of them early sef. Way back in school, all my mates that were fucking different guys even lesbians tendecies got married and had kids earlier than we wey be one woman one man kind of girls. The ones who are doing faithful and loyal upandan ends up been jilted after many years of staying loyal. Some even few days to wedding the guy may even call it off! Some few days after a loud engagement. Abeggi. It's all by God's grace and wisdom jare. There is no clear cut rule to getting married. It simply happens. I bet she should be in her early 20s, like 21 or 22. When she clocks 36 with two wonderful heartwreching heartbreaks in her life history Her brain go reset well! She will start calling men scums of the earth I no fit laugh Biko.. Lol 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33: When I saw this topic, I laughed that a guy interestingly thinks Joro is evil because he said ladies should keep their options open. Imagine my surprise when I realised you are female (Your moniker says so). Now, I am not a fan of Joro, however, he has made several posts in the past that a lot of guys agree with and suddenly because he told women to keep their options open, he is suddenly evil. Personally, I do not subscribe to his school of thought and that is because I do not believe in 'Nigeria's' version of marriage or relationship. In this same post you brought here, same Joro advised ladies to keep their options open because guys do so too. And to be honest, Joro's only crime in this post is to voice out what millions of young Nigerians do. Have you ever wondered how a guy breaks up his engagement and two months later he is married ditto a girl? I know guys asking girls out months to their wedding. I know ladies who til they are married are seemingly juggling men so they don't lose. It is not new so let's free Joro, he is not saying anything strange. 4 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by gurutobiano: 10:18pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
I strongly believe that everybody is entitled to their opinion, he would definitely have the audience of who wants be promiscuous, SENSE IS A REAR COMMODITY Believe in what you think is best for you. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Nobody: 10:18pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33:How would his advice cause you heartbreak and depression? Let me guess; you felt threatened reading his post since that's how the average guy would feel and that you're a guy, not a lady, I perfectly understand your rants, but it's cowardice using a female moniker, and then quoting him out of context. A simple reversed psychology gives you up sef! You don't need the embolden if you were a lady, you want them to think you are one. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by bukatyne(f): 10:19pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
chronique: @Bold: Isn't ironic you think you have the moral right to punish someone you are fornicating with? 3 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by itsmeurLady(f): 10:21pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
OP I think you took it out of context. To an extent, he was wrong to use the term, back up boyfriends but I think he was referring to male friends. It happens to us sometimes, we get too carried away with our partners that we forget to make friends, both male and female, the good girls are guilty of this. When their partner misbehaves, it's as though their entire world should crash because they build their entire life around such person. So I think he was suggesting you make male friends but draw the line, let your male friends know you are in a serious relationship and build your friendship from there. Yes we have had cases where the guy will be forming shoulder to cry on but u as a lady, u should be smart enough to identify those signs and retreat. If you retreat, you won't tell me he will come to your house and force you to sleep with him, would he? Emotional blackmail happens to those that allows themselves to be blackmailed. I personally do not advise ladies to double date because truth is, no sane man will leave a faithful woman for anything. Guys know when u are 100percent down for them and they know when u are 50 percent as well. So the best thing is to give your best in a relationship, if the relationship fails, it should not be your fault. Men Respect Loyalty, they hardly compromise for it except the daft ones. I support his claims although he was wrong to have used the word back up boyfriend 1 Like |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by sanpipita(m): 10:23pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
kimbraa: Are you really supporting having contingency plans for a relationship thing? which ever context you see is wrong, I'm a guy I could be most uncommitted person yet but I know my limits, joro's advice is wrong, unless we are saying its okay to keep relationships without full commitments cos tomorrow you will hear married people can keep contingency plans too, having your heart at two places will even more destroy you. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Toks2008(m): 10:24pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33: When I give my own advise una go abuse me now una don see the one wey pass una
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Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by chronique(m): 10:27pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
bukatyne: can't remember this being about religious beliefs. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Seal33: 10:30pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
sanpipita: Pls tell her oo, I'm surprised a woman is saying such, would she encourage her own sisters to keep 2 or 3 boyfriends? And for saying I'm a man, that's simply weird of her, that's simply wrong of her to think so. She's trying to twist the truth upside down & trying to find faults where there are simply none, mtchew |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by babyfaceafrica: 10:31pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
itsmeurLady:lolz....male friends that you can cry on their shoulders.. he he he?.. so a lady cannot cry on a ladies shoulder?.... joro is a blogger who thrives on controversial topic.. reasonable people will not take relationship advice from a blogger who is single.. the guy is scum....if one is in a relationship.. be there fully.. if it works out fine..if not.. you move on.....having backups or power banks.. is a no for me..what is worth doing at all is worth doing well! 2 Likes |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by sanpipita(m): 10:38pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Seal33: Lol seems most are cool with multiple partners but let's not hide under contingency plan to do it, I can't even wrap my head around that, its even better for me to cheat than to be deceiving myself with so called contingency plan |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Nobody: 10:40pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Una never hear say plan B dey fail. Why enter a relationship with a failure expectation. You will definitely not put in your best. |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by Seal33: 10:41pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
kimbraa: Well u are wrong 4ur information, & ur guess is wrong too. Did u say d average guy? Are u in the mind of an average guy? This statement by claiming u know what an average guy thinks even gives u away as probably a guy. So u see ur self?? So first remove the log from ur own eyes b4 looking for the sand in an innocent person's face, lol! |
Re: Women Please Say No To Joro Olumofin And His Relationship Advice by sanpipita(m): 10:41pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica: Its scary some people are finding context into this, relationship is now a game you go in with back up plan, I'm tired |
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