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10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Limitednow: 5:51am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I have often heard some people advising ladies to have backup boyfriends. This means that aside her primary or main boyfriend, a lady should have another boyfriend she may not necessarily be close to or intimate with as she could just be platonic friends with the so called backup boyfriend without strings attached. They argue that in case her current boyfriend disappoints her or fails to marry her, she will switch over to the backup boyfriend. Source: https://www.headlineng.com/10-reasons-backup-boyfriend-dangerous-women/ By Tayo Demola Human Rights Activist & Relationship Coach 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Munzy14(m): 6:09am On Aug 07, 2018 |
lol, i know u guys will soon counter that yhen yhen relationship counselor. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by milemimi93(m): 6:15am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Should men have backup gf? 10 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Limitednow: 6:22am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Lalasticlala you're needed here 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by HajimeSaito(m): 6:26am On Aug 07, 2018 |
What is good for the goose is good for the gander. Guys should also avoid having backup girlfriends or sidechicks.Commitment and loyalty must be a two way traffic before any relationship can work. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by BRMN: 6:46am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Op, mind u this article was written by Nigerian activist & relationship counsellor Tayo Demola, but how come u didn't give him the credit here on Nairaland?? Hope this is not some copyright infringement sha? For your confirmation, this is the original link to the article on the author's blog: http://tayodemola..com/2018/08/ten-proven-reasons-why-having-backup.html And that's the author's pic below. As for those who think it's ok to have backup boyfriends, well ur body belongs to u & only u can decide what u do with it! My one centttt 7 Likes
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by donbachi(m): 11:05am On Aug 07, 2018 |
It will also destroy and scatter her mining site. 15 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by fwesharumi(m): 11:40am On Aug 07, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by upower123(m): 11:43am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Tell them. Men also avoid backup gf 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by SweetBwoy: 11:44am On Aug 07, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Fatherofdragons: 11:44am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I am not a relationship advisor, and I don't always comment on issues like this but why are men pained by this? ever since this backup boyfriend of a thing came about, men have been going crazy why? As if una no get side chicks. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by LegendsCoded(m): 11:45am On Aug 07, 2018 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by ibiso1986: 11:45am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Girls, No need for a flash drive, just stick with 1 guy that will always be in your memory 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by akokaite(m): 11:47am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Lol...funny truth as been said |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:48am On Aug 07, 2018 |
milemimi93:nope 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by sarahade(f): 11:48am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Mtcheew 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Jenomtwist(m): 11:49am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Stop tryna be GOD.Datz not who u are |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Pavore9: 11:49am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Why some guys are just taking this too personal! But if Joro reaffirms why guys should have backups, na hailing go full thread! See epistle on effects on the lady and he thinks it does not affect the male folk? Even guys who scream they would rather have baby mamas, shey the lady no go contribute to the child's DNA? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by NairaMaster1(m): 11:50am On Aug 07, 2018 |
sarahade: Can I back you up? |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by chronique(m): 11:50am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Well said. Keeping a relationship is a full time job. Having to keep more than one at the same time,is stressful. Ladies who can do this without stress, are just a few steps from being prostitutes. Same goes for the guys. How does having your dick in different vaginas everytime feel? Don't you guys ever get scared of stds? 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Pope22(m): 11:50am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Please what is happening in the Senate house, we don't need this nonsense post now. If you cannot stay or cope in a relationship, stay out! 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Dafreeguy(m): 11:50am On Aug 07, 2018 |
They wont still listen.. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by nanauju(f): 11:52am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I think issue of backup comes when there's no longer trust and money |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by queenbetsy(f): 11:52am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I'll pretend I didn't hear this... |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by franchasng: 11:53am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Op, stop saying nonsense, every woman, married or dating should have a backup boyfriend[img]https://media1./images/e82c2cd09db0bf410917cda2ef22ffd4/tenor.gif?itemid=4986298[/img] 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by keezy125(m): 11:53am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I have also have this perspective that when a lady cheats.. she bring bad luck to me, #fact 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by kunlesmiles(m): 11:55am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Double dating is just too stressful and time consuming 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by nanauju(f): 11:55am On Aug 07, 2018 |
Pope22: If you want to know what's happening in the senate, go to politics section OK. Besides op wasn't talking about staying or coping in a relationship, he was talking about the dangers of having multiple partners. Maybe you should learn how to read before commenting 1 Like |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Manhood85(m): 11:56am On Aug 07, 2018 |
That is how one girl was using me as backup and still hoping to get married to her true love. Eventually, i got to know dat i was PLAN B. The moment i found out that her PLAN A left her to marry another girl na so me sef liv her marry another girl. Some girls actually think life revolves around them alone. 14 Likes |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Having A Backup Boyfriend Is Dangerous For Women - By Tayo Demola by Amberon11: 11:56am On Aug 07, 2018 |
I like how this topic is paining men but if it was the other way round they would support the op saying men are polygamous in nature. Bloody hypocrites.. Cry me a river 9 Likes 1 Share |
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